To a parent who has read all this and says "yes, that's what I want -- a different child" then I would seriously question your ethics.
Wise words,guest. Parents should keep in mind what the U.S. Senate concluded about BM in a bi-partisan study of the Seed program. Sen. Sam Ervins compared the BM techniques as being identical to the "highly refined" brainwashing techniques used by the North Koreans in the fifties. Mao Tse Tung implimented behavior modification in his re-education camps. The Communist methods were identical to the techniques used in teen camps: peer pressure, breaking down of the individual, constant mental and physical stress, high carb, low protein diets. Parents' main responsibility should be ensuring the health and happiness of their child, and behavior modification programs are the antithesis of that. I beg any parent seeking treatment for a troubled child to look beyond an RTC's website propaganda and thoroughly search the internet for info. There are some wonderful, caring facilities out there, like Sheppard Pratt in Maryland. With all the benefits of community-based treatment coming to light, we need to promote the idea of keeping troubled kids in a familiar environment and saving them from the trauma of being removed from their homes by strangers, cut off from family and friends and very possibly suffering horrific abuse, or even death. As the parent of a child in an abusive facility, I can't stand the thought of another child experiencing what my girl is going through. We've been working constantly to get our girl out of a place that is doing so much harm. When we get her out of PV, I won't stop. I want PV shut down, then I'll offer help to anyone or any group taking on this vile industry. I was told by an advocate that I've been "bit", meaning I've been "radicalized". I've never been involved in any causes, but what is going on in these facilities is morally reprehensible and repulsive. I cannot in good conscience allow it to go on. If someone as apolitical as I am can align himself with a grassroots movement like this, it's because I've never seen injustice on such a level. These kids have absolutely no rights and no protection, and every time I read about a sweet child like Angellika Arndt dying, or go to ISAC and see that four kids have died in two months, I'm filled with a maelstrom of emotions. Sadness, anguish, anger, and fear, too, because my own sweet girl is in one of the most abusive programs I know of on U.S. soil
If you love your kids, work with them and work by their sides, don't ship them off to strangers for "tough love". As Aaron Bacon's mom said after her son died tragically in a program, "It wasn't tough love, it was only tough".