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Elan School / ..
« on: October 17, 2011, 11:05:21 PM »
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Elan School / Elan, Courts, Wayne K, Whoever......Lies!!!!
« on: October 10, 2011, 03:30:10 PM »
There will be no courts, lawyers or judges at this time. Why??? Because I enjoy not being made to look like a idiot. The Attorney General of Maine is not interested in Wayne Kernochan (or whoever it is) and his felonious accusations unless I am inclined to prosecute. To publicly slander some one with the allegations Wayne has done is beyond reckless. It is unbelievable.
All anyone has to do is follow Waynes comments concerning me the last few weeks and you will see the unstable and disorientated remarks. He first attacked my family, then my friends (saying he was going to tell all my facebook friends that I raped Yvette), then Wayne moved on to a full fledged assault of convincing everyone I raped Yvette. He said that I had alluded to this in a email because I said, "I have a Thing for Yvette. He then went on to say I molested Willie and another young man. He saved himself for last and told us that I had sodomized him.
I have had legal experts read this site and just about every other site Wayne is on (including your secret sites, not everyone is your friend). A prosecuting attorney has read all of this garbage. All I can say Wayne (or whoever it is) is take your next best move.
Perjury is a felony.

No one has lost any sleep over this bullshit.

I will have nothing more to say about courts and lawyers because I see no need at this time for either.
Remember this is the internet anyone can say anything.
I am not impressed.

Take care and thanks.

Danny

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Open Free for All / .....
« on: October 09, 2011, 01:03:13 PM »
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Open Free for All / K Lynn, Albert, Jerry aka Wayne K. cont. attacks.
« on: October 06, 2011, 07:27:35 PM »
http://www.facebook.com/groups/211244986423/
Facebook Group; "Elan Survivor Group"

Jerry Torres (is aka Wayne K, Jeffery Weintraub ect...)
Here once again Wayne K. is making another unsubstantiated accusation, which only lends to his credibility issues here.
The only reason Wayne aka Jerry is saying these things is because I rebutted his book.
This discussion was copied from the Facebook group above^.


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Jerry Torres The rumor was that Danny was fired for inappropriate sexual relations, not for giving Mary Jones a cowboy asskicking.
Fornits Home for Wayward Web Fora • View topic - The rape of Yvette Portella by Danny Bennison
Share · September 26 at 10:35am

Jerry Torres (is aka Wayne K, Jeffery Weintraub ect...)
Here once again Wayne K. is making another unsubstantiated accusation, which only lends to his credibility issues here.
The only reason Wayne aka Jerry, Coin, Jeffery is saying these things is because I rebutted his book

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       Joicelyn Baer Jerry, I don't know you (or maybe I do) but please stop this. Everyone is hell bent that "car dragging" happened and now you want to put it out there about a RAPE?? Rumor is a key word. I understand you don't like Danny. O.K. Fine. I understand. But stop putting rumors. Is this necessary?
        September 26 at 10:48am · 1 person

Now here Joicelyn who knows me from Elan and knows I never committed anything like what they are saying finally stands up. Thanks Jo.


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K Lynn Corning It becomes necessary when women are still being abused online today in private messages and posts. Abuse of power, "innappropriate sexual relations", verbal and written attacks (especially those initiated by the predator) is predatory behavior. When someone puts themselves out there online as helping others, working towards changes for others and is yet privately attacking women online in unsolicited private messages then they bring it on themselves, aka the consequences of thier own actions. There is more that hasn't yet been printed.

K Lynn nothing more has to be printed because I will tell you exactly what I think of you right here in front of everybody. I truly believe you are a spiteful, angry lonely 50 year old woman who is over weight and considered by any body other then her family to be a unruly bitch. That's right I called you a bitch. You are a vindictive immature brat who has been trolling me for ever. All because I told you in a email (privately) that you were full of shit when you said you knew me.
K Lynn you have never met me, ever. Nice try. Grow Up!!!
But hey, you and your buddy Wayne (who you know for a fact never went to Elan) can continue this charade all you want.
You really let Elanians down because you allow fake and fraudulent people to come onto our Elan sites and act as if they are Elan survivors. Wayne, Jerry ect....are not survivors and you allow the lies to manifest. You encourage the lies.
One other thing I noticed is you are a bully on the site along with your other friends. You just couldn't let Joicelyn have her say without pouncing all over her with your slanted perception.
 
I usually do private emails with folks when I am not happy with them. I your case I am slammed for keeping are heated conversation private.
K Lynn I have no problem showing your childish ass up in front of everyone.
I have always found it comical when douche bags like yourself call in the "Staff Card" when I fight back and don't take your shit. You are posting on a site you know I can't post on you chicken shit.
Act like you are grown woman, you like to brag about and come face to face with me on fornits. Don't be a coward and fight behind my back.  

Unsolicited attacks, you want to talk about unsolicited attacks, KLynn you are preaching to the choir. That is all you have done since I met you. If you have not noticed I am under a unsolicited attack right now.
So if I preempt a attack such as I did to Al B, Debi Levin ect....I say to bad. Al B has been sitting there with his thumb up his ass saying nothing.
Most of you sold your souls to Wayne for silence because you don't like what it is I am doing. I say you all make me sick to my stomach.


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September 26 at 1:58pm via mobile · 1 person
        Mary O'Brien Will someone tell me if Mary Jones was a tall African American girl of about fourteen with learning disabilities? I think I knew her. She came to Elan in the spring of 1976.
        September 26 at 5:40pm
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K Lynn Corning Yes Mary that is her and she was stocky and did have learning disabilities. I remember her because she was another one that I thought was too young to be there. She was continuously an object of ridicule by staff, disgusting.
        September 26 at 6:08pm via mobile

   
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   Mary O'Brien I thought it might be her. She went to Elan in may of 1976. I hung around with her until I was transferred to Elan -6. She was friendly.
        September 27 at 5:30pm

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       Jerry Torres Joicylyn, I apologize, but Wayne is my only real friend on facebook. I get defensive and want people to know what danny is going to be attacking you all over.
        Monday at 10:53am · 1 person

Riiiight, the guy who lies about his name. The guy I was told is Jeffery Weintraub a ex-Ass. Director. Wayne (or who ever you are ) your beyond stupid here.
This is K Lynn friend, this is what what she climbs into bed with.
You are Wayne dumbass....I mean when is it over??? When your 10" thick denial wears off.


 
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     Joicelyn Baer Jerry, I made a mistake.
        Monday at 3:22pm · 1 person

Joiecelyn, don't let them influence you. You know me and you know damn well none of this is true.


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Jerry Torres He thinks I'm Wayne too. He also thinks I'm Jeff Weintraub. He's got 10 fake profiles so he thinks everyone else has one too.

Interesting because there is no thought put into how I could have come up with Jerry Torres being Jerry Weintraub. I mean does everyone remember Wayne scolding me
not to long ago because he felt that I had put Jeffery's life in danger. Now this week it is a whole other story.
This is becoming to common with Wayne. Each week Wayne and his 3 buddies come out with a different version of the same story.

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Open Free for All / Waynes Signature Below His Every Post
« on: October 04, 2011, 08:52:00 PM »
I hope this helps you Wayne. I mean you want everyone to read what comes out of your filthy disgusting mind. So I thought instead of hiding it below your posts we would publish it right here. Up front, close and personal.
Now I would hope this would be the end of your constantly changing stories concerning Yvette but who knows. You have treated this woman with such a lack of respect it can't get any worse.
Wayne (or whoever you are) if you only knew what folks here and on others TTI sites are saying concerning your recent behavior. Trust me your afternoon visit on Saturday did not go as well as you think.
I love how when someone from Elan gives you a name such as Edwin Rodriquez (this came from Joicelyn B.) you then use the name as if you knew it all along. Edwin was in Elan 4 dumbass. I played football with him.
Dude get some help, I can't say it enough.

Keep giving, thanks.






You're a rapist Danny Bennison. You're an abuser of women. I'm not only an Elan survivor, I'm a Danny Bennison survivor. If you people think he's horrible online, imagine what he was like towards us in the woods of Maine. He enjoyed it. He'd do it again.

Wayne Kernochan said
Edwin was in 7 with me. He left when I was new.If the family can get you in touch with her, have her call me would you? Danny put her in front of a GM and asked the house if he let the house do what they wanted, who would rape her?

I raised me hand. We all did because we knew he would beat us for not raising our hands.

She looked scared out of her mind. I never forgot the look on her face. I want to say I'm sorry. Yvette was one of the few good things in that fucking place and I've never forgiven myself for that. If she doesn't want to talk to me, tell her I'm sorry.

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Open Free for All / Wayne's sexual fanatsies Of DannyB
« on: October 04, 2011, 03:48:39 PM »
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After reading below go to: viewtopic.php?f=2&t=37915
Proof that Danny Bennison raped residents while he was staff / The rape of Yvette Portella by Danny Bennison / The rape of Wayne Kernochan and others by Danny Bennison (3 titles)

As you go through the thread you will notice that Wayne (or whoever he /she is) keeps changing the title to grab your attention. Most liars do this because they lack faith in
themselves.
Wayne (or whoever it is) insecurities really are played out here folks.



Thank you Susan,

    When I was on your show last time, I spoke about my book, A Life Gone Awry: My Story of the Elan School, which is a true story of my time there from 1978-1980. At that time I was friends with my abuser, Daniel Lee Bennison, and he gave me permission to have my publisher release the book in e-reader and paperback on Amazon, Barnes&Noble, and on my publisher's site, Writersamuseme.com



No Wayne you were never my friend, I tried like probably no one else in your sorry life did, to like you and love you like a fellow survivor. But I found you to be so sick and twisted with your perceptions on life that it impaired me from being in relationship with you.
As far as permission on the book, first thing you did when we began as co-admin on our facebook group was manipulate me by trying to get me to OK the book. If you read the email you keep using as proof I gave you support you will see the conversation is not finished.

    When I became friends with Danny people questioned my sanity because he is an internet stalker and abuser, and his actions in the past have ranged from bad to criminal. If you Google search Danny Bennison and Elan you will understand what I mean. He hasn't changed one bit from the days he beat and abused us in Elan. My friends were worried about me and rightly so.



If you google my name you will see Wayne Kernochan, Matt Hoffman, Felice Eliscu, Mark Babbitz and Sharon McCarthy/Gaines and what they have printed and posted to various sites. Your friends these people I just mentioned can't stand the sight of you because you lie, manipulate and hustle everyone you meet. They don't like you Wayne, they believe as many you are a fucking PIMP and a Scumbag that came around looking for easy money.
Folks if you go on the Absolute Write Derailed 1& 2 blog you will see where Wayne had the admins scramble all his posts that were damaging and incriminating to his ethical behavior towards Elan.
Wayne is a fraud.
Wayne yes I deleted the posts from here but they are in a file. I still have them, it goes toward intent.
Wayne I talked with Susan and on your best day of the year you could not have convinced her that any of this was true. You really don't get it, no one is with you on this. You are a whack job, plain and simple. You screwed yourself.

    What they didn't know is that I had become friends with Danny to gather information. I hadn't told the whole story in my book. There was much more.



Yes, Wayne we know. One of the oldest tricks in the books. When busted say I wanted you to bust me because I was using you. STFU!!!

    Together Danny and me started an Elan survivor group on Face Book, and to the world we looked like the epitome of forgiveness. People told me how much it meant to them that he and I were able to forget the past and fight abusive programs like Elan together. Danny seemed like a changed man, and my ego took over. I began to believe that I had helped to cure him of the sickness that was inside him, but that came crashing down one day.



Really!!!! Wayne your right all of this you just wrote ^ above and all of the sick twisted accusations of raping girls, sodomizing young boys, beating girls, dragging girls behind vans, calling girls sluts and bitches and boys faggots ect......
What do you see here, it is a pattern Wayne. A pattern that is more and more becoming clear of what is going on inside your own world. None of this has anything to do with me. I am "your object" to ridicule.
There is nothing for me to be forgiven of, nothing. Elan and my guilt ended well over a year ago. I sought my forgiveness and you are not the omnipotent source I genuflected in front of.
Wayne you can't even help yourself, from what I hear you are still self destructive and it shows by your behavior here.
Dude get some serious help, I mean it.
All these violent sex allegations are issues you have to deal with.
Wayne whether you choose to admit it or not we have never met, ever. You really know this somewhere inside you. I am very sorry if any of these horrible acts happened to you or if you committed these acts onto someone else. I am beginning to believe this may be the case. If we have met then use the name you used at Elan.
You sound a lot like Mike C. and why he was sent to Elan. If you are Mike then come clean and let us know.

    Danny has repeatedly told me that he doesn't remember me, and my therapist told me that was very possible because to him I was an object. That changed when we spoke on the telephone. He hung up on me abruptly one day, and sent me a private message on Face Book saying that our friendship was finished.. He wanted to keep it private, but I posted it on a few of his favorite groups and blogs, and Danny began his campaign against my book. After having given me permission to print the book, he then said it was a lie, and that I had never been to Elan. This is important because he sensed that I may actually come forward and tell the stories of his sex crimes against children in his care. Before Danny hung up on me that day he hesitated, and stammered, when he finally realized who I am.



First off you have told many of us that you haven't seen a therapist on a seriously consistent bases ever. So please stop this lying now. You can't write all this crazy shit (about me all over the internet) and then come here and say my doctor told me Bla Bla Bla......Jesus because then I know for a fact I am dealing with a freaking loon.
Yeah that what it was, Wayne. Wayne go back to the dates. I found out through a friend you made a ass of me on Stinkin Thinkin and that was the last straw. The first two straws were about you getting freaked out by your excursions onto other sites harassing people and then when they outed you and your personal information you would come back to the group and disrupt the entire group. One time you deleted everyone and tried to destroy the group. Paranoia that was blamed on. Doesn't Schizophrenia run in your family, I am serious your brother and I believe you show signs. Just check out your writing variations from day to day and week ect....
Wayne there isn't a person here that believes this shit for one nano second. You have harassed me for 2 1/2 years with van dragging girls, beating girls ect.....now it is sexually violating girls and boys. If I had raped you pal, this would have been in the book pronto, ON THE FIRST PAGE. But that BIG FUCKING LIE would have stopped everything, no publisher would have gone with that.
Now your fake courage has manifested itself into something your ego can not even handle anymore.
Daniel only tells people he doesn't know, "THAT HE DOESN"T KNOW THEM" what a concept.

    On the website fornits, Danny admitted to raping one resident, and didn't deny raping another, and that was because he was too busy denying that he forced a young boy to give him oral sex. His admission to raping the girl wasn't really an admission. He said he was in a relationship with her. I pointed out that a 15 year old girl cannot give consent, so he claimed she was 19. When I brought a witness who knew her forward who said she was in fact 15, he started a thread saying that Doug is a liar, and titled it “Wayne K's witness to Rape and Sodomy, Doug Hannah”


    Wayne (or whoever you are)
    Where did I admit I raped some one. Yvette Portella came in to Elan 8/78 at 16 years old. If and when she comes by here this will be authenticated. Till then lets get to the email I sent Wayne that he has altered. I did say I had a thing for Yvette or we had a thing. I did not say I had sex with Yvette although that would have been nice. The consequences were not worth it.
    This pervert can say what he pleases but I stand by this email I sent him. If he feels like twisting it around then fine, so be it.
    I will tell you this when and if Yvette ever gets here this will not be one of her better moments in life.
    Wayne you are a fucking pig, plain and simple.
    What is really sick this guy was never even there at Elan, he doesn't even know her. Her name was given to him.



    This is important because I never accused him of sodomy. I accused him of rape, and I accused him of forcing a young boy to give him oral sex. Sodomy was never mentioned. The title of his discussion on fornits is Danny's second admission of guilt, and it means he remembers me because I was the one he sodomized.



:roflmao:
I don't know what else to say. I am fucking young girls, making boys blow me and fucking Wayne in the ass. Shit this is better then Sodom and Gomorrah. I had a real Roman orgy going on.
I just wonder who will play Danny in this adaptation of "The Orgy of Poland Springs".

    I was ashamed to say what he did to me but after he realized who I am he became particularly vicious. His attacks became anti gay, and very sexual. Search the fornits site and you will see subtle innuendos like, “I'm going to be up your ass,” and “What are you going to pull out of your ass next” and “I'm going to strip you naked,” and more. Anyone who is familiar with Danny's attacks will agree that this is his way of trying to embarrass me into not saying anything about what he did to me.



Where are all these posts and emails, please. After you have gotten together of this stuff please make the direct correlation with these posts and emails. We need to be able read what is going on up inside your head. Allow us to follow you through all this pain and anguish you say you endured. I mean this is so traumatic that none of us can believe you would leave this out of your book you wrote so honestly about Danny, why would you. Oh I know your therapist was holding this last piece of info until you fully paid up for past appointments. I guess the book printing time slot didn't coincide with your payment to your therapist.
Shit I hate when that happens.
So now we get to hear about your sexual fantasies with Danny.

    Today I could care less. Danny won't go to jail or be sued because the statute of limitations is up for his crimes in Elan. I'm not saying these things for money because there won't be any. I also don't say this to defame him. He can't be defamed. I confronted him about the sex crimes he committed on fornits and the people there weren't surprised at all. His reputation is such that I couldn't make him look worse.



Who are these people on Fornits, please. Can you list there names, these folks that said yes I believe Danny raped you, made another blow him and had sex with Yvette. Oh I know it is confidential.
Hey if anyone would like to come forward and say "Yes" that would be fine.

    Danny's language is foul. He's been reported on Face Book for calling me a faggot, a bitch, a cunt, and a punk, among other things. He has threatened to send people to my house, and when I said online that I was going to the celebration in NYC for the closing of Elan he was reported for posting that new York is dark, and bullets are cheap. Danny doesn't scare me but I have private messages from women who are. He has threatened many of them.




Wayne (or whoever you are) can you please show us all where I have called you these names, please. Many of us have searched fornits, facebook Elan sites ect....and can't seem to find any reference to these horrible attacks coming from Daniel.

    Abusive ex staff members troll the internet looking for their victims, so they can bully them and shut them up. One such example is the Face Book group, I survived the horrors of Aspen Ranch, a fake survivor group that ex staff member like Amber Speiss and Steve Burr use to bully survivors who come there in an effort to keep them from connecting and corroborating the statements of other survivors who have lawsuits against Aspen Group. They should both be investigated for tampering with possible witnesses. This is a serious crime.



Wayne (or whoever you are) I really think you need to go back and look for yourself what happened on that site. Even the reddits group deleted what you posted. You and your sock puppets Coin Allen, Jerry Torres (Jeffery Weintraub) ect....went on there a disrupted and harassed survivors who were fraternizing with staff. A young 22 year old woman asked you to stop harassing them because you misunderstood the conversation and you told her no. She asked you again and you called here a "CUNT". A 22 year old woman, this coming from a fat 50 year old slob who feels he can act with impunity.
The only serious crime that happen on that site was you verbally assaulting a young woman.
Wayne this is a fact, if anyone doubts this please ask the admin of the site. Wayne was kicked off along with his stupid CORE CAMPAIGN.

    Unlike Danny, they haven't been accused of sex crimes, but the 2000 violence against women’s act, made internet stalking a part of the federal stalker law. Yet it goes on with impunity. It needs to be enforced.

    Thank you


    You have no idea how much I have on you Dan. I've been watching you for years

    Enjoy the show you rapist piece of shit



Wayne would you please show us where I have stalked, raped and sodomized. I mean you are throwing these fallacious words about, can you come forth with anything more then your "big drama" presentations. I didn't think so.
BTW, please by all means keep writing and bumping.

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Open Free for All / Wayne K's witness to Rape and Sodomy, Doug Hannah
« on: September 27, 2011, 10:24:56 PM »
Here is the next addition of the Van dragging incident. Now we have rape and sodomy and a resident (Doug H.) willing to lie. Well Douggy you should not have lied because I have you on a video explaining what houses you were in and Elan 7 was not one of them. See if you are going to play with Wayne you have to understand one thing, Wayne could give a shit about you. You are just a tool for his use. He Pimped you Douggy.
Here are Douglas Hannahs video's see for yourself if he ever mentions being at Elan 7....Doug you lie as well as your fake friend.
Your years are even suspect???

1st video/Part 1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cAqUyUMiJ7Q
2nd video/Part 2:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlK6cyy7ndU
3rd video/Part 3: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NKPVQHb ... ture=share

This is not to disrespect Doug and his efforts to share with the community, he posted this on a facebook group. Just last week Doug and I were getting along beautifully. But Doug has always let himself be swayed Wayne, I can not tell you why. I will say this though Doug will be back as soon as he slows down and thinks for a change.

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Thought Reform / The Greatest Speech Ever Made
« on: September 26, 2011, 07:25:51 PM »
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/81840483/

Description: powerful, in my opinion.
Charlie Chaplin speech from the "Great Dictator".

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Feed Your Head / ...
« on: September 25, 2011, 06:32:56 PM »
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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / Froderik
« on: September 25, 2011, 03:46:19 PM »
This is a perfect example of Straight Inc survivors showing fornits and really the rest of us just how biased, hypercritical and abusive they can be towards someone they don't like. I have had to endure this abuse from many who belong to this forum. If you were to follow Froderik on his travels around the TTI circuit this guy is way out in front screaming the loudest about justice for survivors.
I am a survivor who has been defamed and maliciously slandered and you would think Forederik at the very least would way the evidence and let it sift to see where it is going but No!! he has to ridicule.
Guys I am sick and tired of the immaturity from seasoned members that say the are advocates for survivors. Well if you are then show it. You have no idea who Wayne is, if what he said is true, and if the
content of the book is accurate. Your only relationship with Wayne is on the internet. No one has come forward to state this book is factual, no one.
Now you can say the same for me no one has come forward to authenticate what I am saying. But here is one tidbit that Wayne doesn't have, many folks here besides Wayne know I went to Elan and they are not saying things like he is saying nor are they endorsing or agreeing with him. They know for a damn fact I never committed any of these atrocities Wayne has alleged.
This book has taken me a while to get right with and decide what it was I needed to do. Well I am committed to clearing my name and I am asking for fairness, Froderik just think if someone was doing this to you. I am asking Straight Survivors to just consider a truce and allow me to straighten this out.
I am not asking you to get behind me but why can't you just stand beside me and see where this goes. That is all I am asking. My facts will be put forth as I know them. I think you will find what I have to say is credible and with substance.
Thanks Danny

 Froderik this is what I am referring to.

Re: It is the gay Indian in my cupboard

New postby Froderik » Today, 11:17 am

    Dethgurl wrote:

        elanasshole wrote:Danny Bennison theme song - It is the gay Indian in my cupboard

        http://www.neilrogers.com/sounds/dat001/179.mp3



    :rofl:



:roflmao: :rofl: ::OMG::

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Open Free for All / ....
« on: September 20, 2011, 10:45:16 PM »
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Open Free for All / Matt Hoffman's responses to DannyB II
« on: September 04, 2011, 05:29:38 PM »
posting.php?mode=quote&f=36&t=37738&p=404244

Re: Hephzibah House reported on CNN tonight

Quote from: "Matt C. Hoffman"
I am with None-Ya , for it being re tor  hical ,seriously coming from him ya gotta wonder ....after all the internet violence that has espoused  from this old boy danny bennison's finger tips ...I walk on water.
 
And Danny Bennison don't flatter yurself ,you aren't worth trolling.

It is worth to make sure that the unarmed ,be forwarned about you. think of it Danny Bennison as a public service that good people do to protect other good people from really sick people like yourself .....I hope this is crystal clear danny , it aint trolling it is a public service ,that protects people  from being hurt by people like you ......And if you need any proof , or anyone needs proof for that matter.(I know you, Danny Bennison , have a hard time with reading what you have written , as to your strange interpetations of the words that you write  and ,what you  say you wrote and ,well  the REALITY of what you have  written and what those words mean ) one has to look no further than any and all of Danny Bennison's posts on this fornit web forum .

A threat versus...... an invitation to an unsolicted AA meeting.....laughing out freaking loud (Danny Bennison I don't  believe in your cult of AA, not that it hasn't helped some people , I just don't believe in it . I enjoy drinking on occassion, I know its something you wouldn't understand ,or couldn't understand.)

I still think its a threat Danny Bennison though how you get it to be an invitation to an aa meeting ,I mean I really can't follow that stretch of your version of yur  truth ...nor can anyone else who knows and understands the English language . Ah but Danny Bennison we all know you can't handle the TOOTH....lol...you are such a freaking joke ,and sorry it is just to easy . Yeah Danny Bennison this is the truth you are just  reaping what you have sown, punk.

Matt, I have not once initiated a conversation, given a comment or looked your way in almost a year but yet for someone who hates me, calls me despicable names and says over and over how much they don't want anything to do with me. You sure stalk and harass me a bit to much.......or at least try.  :D
Oh, Matt would you please show us all the violence you keep talking about. Because just about every site/group you have been on the members from this entity have read everything and just don't see it the way you and your friends do.
One other thing Matt, I have you banned on facebook but like a little puppy thirsty for water you join The Core so you can read my posts. What's up, am I still a fixation in your life Matty, should I send you a pic of me, come on dude let it go.

Matt, thanks again for coming on someone else thread and being a selfish. I always knew it was about YOU, now everyone is beginning to see them same character flaw you have.

Take care, big guy.

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Feed Your Head / Just Stimming…Dear “Autism Parents”,
« on: August 24, 2011, 08:54:13 PM »
http://juststimming.wordpress.com/2011/

Just Stimming…
 
Dear “Autism Parents”,

I want to clear a couple of things up.

1.

I don’t have autism. I am autistic. This is important to me. It also doesn’t mean that I “see myself as a disability first and a person second,” whatever that is supposed to mean. In my eyes, I’m Julia. Just Julia.

I cannot separate out which parts of me brain are wired because baby I was born this way and which parts of my brain should be marked off as AUTISM. Nor do I particularly care, to be honest. I am Julia, and a significant fraction of Julia is autism (and thus, via the transitive property, I am autism but that’s not the point). Am I a writer because I’m Julia, or because I’m autistic? My writing is good in its own right, I am told, and it’s also fundamentally shaped by my neurology–just like yours. I like Glee and Phineas and Ferb and also Sudoku. Am I allowed to have a personality and preferences, or just perseverations? Is my deeply and inconveniently round-about, pedantic, literal, and analytic way of thinking and using language a sign of a what a profoundly gifted child you were, Julia (and you know, no one ever tells the kids in the gifted programs that they see themselves as gifted first and human second, or that they should call themselves “persons who experience a label of giftedness”) or is it a symptom of some monster hiding in my neurons?

I would argue that it’s both, and that it doesn’t matter. Being autistic fundamentally shapes how I perceive and interact with the world, with a million cascading and subtle consequences. I would not be the same Julia I am now without whatever parts of my brain can be marked as AUTISTIC (and that’s bad science in the first place, the brain is a whole lot more complicated and subtle than that, we know that there isn’t one gene or one wiring variation that leads to autism). I also wouldn’t be the same Julia I am now if I hadn’t skipped eighth grade, or hadn’t spent a summer at Stanford, or hadn’t been in choir ororor…

I’m Julia, and I’m autistic, and I will apologize for, justify, qualify, neither.

2.

The dichotomy between being a person and having a disability is a false, and useless, one. It’s based in the notion that people with disabilities they can’t hide or that we can’t pretend to ignore aren’t people. In a certain, socio-linguistic, sense, that’s true. Disability is used to mean something inherently bad and wrong and scary and consuming and destructive and sick, and why would you ever want to include that in any way in your identity or personhood? I myself have said that in a perfect world, there would be no such thing as disability. But please, pay attention: it’s very, very important to look at how the same word can be used a few different ways here. In the above scenarios, where disability means bad, I’m quite literally talking about what disability means, what the word is used to signify, what attributes are assigned it, how our current modern Western society places it in context and value. But that’s not what disability inherently, objectively, physically and literally is.

When a car is disabled, it doesn’t work the way it was designed to work anymore. Human beings, though not designed and constructed in factories like cars, are similar. There is a certain range of activities and capabilities to which most of us are accustomed. When someone isn’t able to match up, they too become disabled. Difficulty walking, talking, hearing, seeing, eating? Disability. This is what disability is.

Notice, though, that when a car stops being drivable it doesn’t also stop being a car. Similarly, a human who can’t do some expected human things doesn’t stop being a human. In some contexts, a car that can’t drive is a bad car, worthless, lesser, low- or non-functioning. In others, though–art, architecture, scrap metal (remember, humans aren’t cars and these examples don’t have direct equivalents for us, please don’t try and find the scrap-metal humans), a car with an exploded wheel is valued positively. Similarly, in a world without stairs, using a wheelchair can be an advantage. In a world where everyone uses sign language, only speaking with your mouth is a disadvantage. Meaning and value and worth get assigned to people based on how useful their range of capabilities and potentials are for various activities. A person who can’t participate in the activity they are expected to is disabled. This is what disability means.

A disability is a stigmatized difference, one we haven’t found a slot for yet. I would love for that stigma, that disabling context, to go away. The raw physical difference itself though? It’s a part of me, and I’m not going to hide it, ignore it, or lie about it.

3.

Quite frankly, it doesn’t matter whether or not I see myself “as a person first, and a disability second.” It’s not going to keep me safe. I know exactly what the other people in the store think when they see me rock, flap, cover my ears.

On the internet, maybe, I have the luxury of expounding on the finer points of person-first versus identity-first language. In real life, in a world where our parents kill us, our classmates abuse us, and our employers are virtually non-existent? I really don’t have that luxury.

4.

As long as there are people demanding that I call myself a person with autism, as though I am just cohabiting with two different brains, one of which I should really want to discard at the soonest possible opportunity, I will call myself autistic out of sheer defiance. The autistic parts of myself are always what are going to be punished and cut away at, they are what are going to get me hurt and killed, and I will put them in the front where everyone else already sees them and fly them as a goddamn flag.

5.

I am not flattered when you say that I don’t really see you as autistic or it’s just a label.

Because what you mean is that “I don’t really see you as Bad right now,” and while I am incredibly grateful for that safety, I am also furious that autistic means Bad at all in the first place and that I feel I have anything to be grateful for in that entire situation.

It is, indeed, just a label. One without nearly the neutrality of, say, Campbell’s Chicken Soup. All your wishing in the world won’t change that, and taking away the words I have for my experience just hurts me so you can feel a little more enlightened.

For the record, I don’t really see you as much of an asshole, usually.

6.

“But my child!” you say. “My child can’t feed themselves! My child needs diapers! My child cannot be left unsupervised! My child is medically affected!”

Well, yes. Your child is disabled. So am I. I thought we were past that?

(Is Steven Hawking low-functioning?

My child is no Stephen Hawking. Indeed. Neither am I. No offense, but neither are you.)

So often the dividing line between really disabled (my child) and high-functioningaka not really disabled(you, a self-advocate disagreeing with me) is writing a blog post or making change for a purchase or reading. I remember being told that if someone can add and read, they can live independently. Well I hate to break it to you, but I am very good at both of those things and I can’t live independently, not even close. I just don’t think that this inability makes me worth less or nothing.

I’m not disparaging the reality of complex developmental and physical disabilities. My own world must function in a parallel and yet fundamentally different and separate realm from even that of my typically developing sister. I have enough imagination, enough personal experience with my own disability, enough time spent living and working with other disabled people, and enough of an ability to hear what people who live with complex developmental and physical disabilities have to say, to know that in some sense it’s a question of scale and that the experience can be dehumanizing for everyone involved.

I’ll spare you the gory details of my life, in part because they are private and in part because I refuse to be a self-narrating zoo exhibit. Been there, done that, Temple Grandin and Donna Williams are better at it. I’ll just say this: it never ceases to amaze me how an entry posted every two or three weeks in the ether about deserving human rights somehow reveals–or, rather, erases–the every intricacy and ramification of a person’s disability in their life.

7.

If my child could write a blog post like this, I would consider him cured. Fascinating. Have you taught him how? Have you given him the time, tools, technology, and accommodations he would need to do so? Have you exposed him to the ideas this blog post runs on, or has he been sheltered and infantilized? Has he been given an accessible, for him as well as his audience, means of communication? Remember, behavior is communication, that’s Best Practice. Have multiple literacies been facilitated? Remember, everyone reads, everyone writes, everyone has something to say is the current forward-thinking in special education, especially for children with complex access needs. But you’re an advocate for your child, of course you must know that. Silly me, I apologize.

Have his attempts at self-determination and self-advocacy be respected and responded to, regardless of form, or has he been taught that passivity is better?

If he were to want to blog about his favorite cartoon, would that be okay? Or does it need to be serious, age-appropriate, legitimate-in-your-eyes business, every time, all the time–because there are no frivolous blogs anywhere on the internet, are there.

If he were to want to document and share his thoughts via, say, music or a painting or an arrangement of objects, would that be okay? Or must it be words?

Are there limits on chances for this? Is any human being ever stagnant?

Oh, and by the way, your child is still a child, right? How many children blog, do you know?

Sorry, I thought this was worth taking seriously.

8.

I am not going to make nice.

It’s a common directive. We all want the same things. How can we ever expect anyone to listen to us when we can’t disagree respectfully amongst ourselves?

I am not going to pretend that a power imbalance doesn’t exist. I am not going to pretend that when non-disabled people attempt to end a discussion with self-advocates they did not enjoy, it is with chastisements and pleas to just get along which hit about a million times harder when aimed at someone who’s been taught to have quiet hands and who’s first sentence was Iwantball PLEASE and who, when they were bullied, was sent to social skills training while their abusers were left roaming in powerful packs of friends.

(In no other minority community is this level of power-play tolerated. You are not our voices, we are not the same, we do not want the same things, and if you aren’t disabled? Then by definition you are not a member of the disability community.)

You have the power. If you do indeed, as you claim, want to be allies, then I suggest you start acting like it.

(And, because I must be nice and patient and helpful and I must educate the people telling me to shut up: for god’s sake, if being an ally, let alone a super-special parent ally, is so very hard, check out PFLAG.)

9.

This is not a “disagreement.” You know what people disagree about? Pizza toppings, ice cream flavors, what Shakespeare meant in the third stanza. Things with small consequences.

You know what happens when we “disagree” about disability?

People die. People get aborted, people get institutionalized, people get sterilized, drugged, and neglected, people go without necessary support and services, people are dehumanized, people are abused, people are silenced, ignored, and erased, people suffer emotional and mental trauma and distress with life-long consequences.

Just as “disability” has become an ugly word for a physical fact, so “disagreement” is being used, here, as a polite word for an ugly thing.

I call bullshit.

10.

I started blogging, years ago, as a therapy tool, as a way to modify journalling so it would be accessible to me. It turned, slowly, oddly, and very autistically, into a method of communication. Now it’s one of the ways I advocate for myself and my people. Mostly I think of it as a survival strategy.

On days like today?

It’s just a lifeline.

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Open Free for All / Reditt sub group on Facebook
« on: August 21, 2011, 08:54:26 PM »
One of our admins here Kelly Matthews is a member, She is also the owner/admin of the TTI Site http://www.troubledteenindustry.com/ that asked me to adopt a different user name Quagmire, then turned around and leaked the information.
That group really has two of the biggest distractions there, Pixal and Kelly. Neither are survivors and both have enough influence to sway other survivors to choose over one another. How in fucking gods name Pixal got Reddit to give her a group in their name is beyond me. Then turn around and use it to discriminate against survivors. This message will be a point I will be raising in the near future because a group such as this is not helping children or their parents at all.
Matt Hoffman is just as silly and desperately lonely as he ever was. Constantly seeking attention from anyone who will listen about how Danny attacked him. Matt at some point you really need to get some new material.
Felice, well we all know here. She created a whole new alias for me again, Matty is all to happy to endorse it.
Kim M. is just as much a (I run my mouth before I think idiot) as ever.
Hey, I am so happy all you Straight folks found another group to carry on your tradition of bashing me, you even got Aaron and a few Elanians to sit by and watch me get my ass kicked and say nothing.
What I find interesting is I am on a Elan Group with others as a admin, I have a web site that covers something entirely different then the TTI and I was on a group for No More Bulling for the last 14 months as a co-admin with someone from Straight Inc.
Matt Hoffman was outed by me concerning a horrific incident that happened while we were at Elan. Did I actually witness this no but shortly afterwards the other person involved was at the facility I was at. Matt became extremely angry and embarrassed when I revealed this situation. What Matt has failed to tell everyone as usual is his part in the whole fight. I have found that many here and on the Reddit group don't care either why I did what I did or that I have been harassed. I have witnessed that because I was staff that I am held to a different abusive standard. You can do whatever you want to me but OMG if I retaliate.
I wanted people to see once again Matt, Felice and Kim M. in there full glory disrespecting another group. As you can see they don't fucking care about the kids or their parents, Matt has given more lip service to this industry then a whore on a busy Vegas Saturday nite. Ya know what Matt, Felice and Kim M, if you 3 took all the energy you put into talking about me and stalking me from site to site and put it into helping children, jeesh, I think more programs would be closed.
What is truly sad is you 3 have been around longer then anybody and all 3 of you act like selfish self centered jerks, grow up.
Kelly and Pixal fair warning people are watching. Pixal don't tarnish the Reddit name, act like you belong there for christ sakes.

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Elan School / Options to unite people on sites- Good conversation
« on: August 21, 2011, 08:04:42 PM »
One of our admins here Kelly Matthews is a member of The Reddit Trouble Teen Group, she is also the owner/admin of the TTI Site http://www.troubledteenindustry.com/ that asked me to adopt a different user name Quagmire, then turned around and leaked the information.
That group really has two of the biggest distractions there, Pixal and Kelly. Neither are survivors and both have enough influence to sway other survivors to choose over one another. How in fucking gods name did Pixal get Reddit to give her a group in their name is beyond me. Then turn around and use it to discriminate against survivors. This message will be a point I will be raising in the near future because a group such as this is not helping children or their parents at all.

Pixal decided it was her job to get involved in a fight between Elan survivors, I'm sure based upon Matt's stories and Wayne's book.

Matt Hoffman is just as silly and desperately lonely as he ever was. Constantly seeking attention from anyone who will listen about how Danny attacked him. Matt at some point you really need to get some new material.
Felice, well we all know her. She created a whole new alias for me again, Matty is all to happy to endorse it.
Kim M. is just as much a (I run my mouth before I think idiot) as ever.

Hey, I am so happy all you Straight folks found another group to carry on your tradition of bashing me, you even got Aaron and a few Elanians to sit by and watch me get my ass kicked and say nothing.
 
Matt Hoffman was outed by me concerning a horrific incident that happened while we were at Elan. Did I actually witness this no but shortly afterwards the other person involved was at the facility I was at. Matt became extremely angry and embarrassed when I revealed this situation. What Matt has failed to tell everyone as usual is his part in the whole fight. I have found that many here and on the Reddit group don't care either why I did what I did or that I have been harassed. I have witnessed that because I was staff that I am held to a different abusive standard. You can do whatever you want to me but OMG if I retaliate.
I wanted people to see once again Matt, Felice and Kim M. in there full glory disrespecting another group. As you can see they don't fucking care about the kids or their parents, Matt has given more lip service to this industry then a whore on a busy Vegas Saturday nite. Ya know what Matt, Felice and Kim M, if you 3 took all the energy you put into talking about me and stalking me from site to site and put it into helping children, jeesh, I think more programs would be closed.
What is truly sad is you 3 have been around longer then anybody and all 3 of you act like selfish self centered jerks, grow up.

Kelly and Pixal fair warning people are watching. Pixal don't tarnish the Reddit name, act like you belong there for christ sakes.

I am pulling two comments out of this dribble to high-lite, first is Kim stating I threatened her with physical violence and I knew where she lived. Here is her comment:


http://www.facebook.com/groups/185627381482928/

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   Kim Morello states: ?Felice Debra Eliscu, I'm really sorry. As Matt Hoffman said, he was a complete asshole to me on Fornits, to the point where I DID get scared and he made actual threats to me...said he knew where I lived and was in the next town over and would "beat my ass". Document everything!! PM me if you need any help. Best of luck!!!

  Ok my response, first I have never threaten anyone let alone a woman. I am all over this internet as others stating I am going to kick your ass (meaning in this debate or argument) she knew exactly what I meant because she continued for months on to engage me. Now as far as knowing where she lived. Well Kim supplied that information along with a pic of her ass in a thong on a boat (her boat) with her registration number in full view. Well anyone could check out the registration number and then find her address. No I did not and could care less about where this douche Kim lives.
Now in order to know who I am talking about she will have to provide you with her alias here. I can't do that.

This is to specifically to Kim Morelli -
Would you please document with posts here (I mean plenty of you have copied my posts and you told Kelly Matthews you had emails from me) where I said that I was going to come over to your town/house in Tampa Fla. and beat your ass. See Kim it is one thing to run your mouth on a group where I can't defend myself on and another to have to come back to the site you are saying it happened on and prove it. What a freaking douche.


Second Matt is doing the same thing


http://www.facebook.com/groups/185627381482928/
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   Matt states: now I consider words at the top of this post under meet Diablo to be a threat ....what am I saying it was a threat .and it was uttered by bennison to me and really I should have taken it to the police cause when I read now it still sounds like he was going to come to my house with a large group of men and the were going to have a beat down on me ....as for the phonecall it never happened , Mark posted that cause asked him to because bennison had convinced me that all he was at elan wasvthe delivery driver for joe and he knew the inner working of that place , and it was a lot earlier when I first believed bennison and .Mark posted that because he respected my wishes and he knew bennison was up to something and lo and behold benniso nposted his first manifesto (the Assistant director of elan ) manifesto where he went off on what he did as an employee druing his 22 months that he worked at elan . bennison posted this manifesto on the staff section of the I went to the elan school back in March of 2010.
    August 15 at 8:20pm



Matt Hoffman is a consummate liar and will go to any length to get his point across. Especially when he feels he has a audience.
OK now about the comment I wrote to Matt concerning AA people coming to Richmond Va. During the time this comment was made AA was being discussed on fornits and Matt was in his usual abusive attitude stalking me around fornits and commenting on everything I was saying. Naturally in a very derogatory manner. I used to be in AA and still feel it helps folks up until a point. Well to be funny, sarcastic or weird how ever you want to look at it, I made a comment that I was coming to Virginia Richmond March with 250/450 I don't remember exactly, to a Mens Recovery Weekend. I mentioned while there we would come over and corral him and bring him to the meeting.
I or nobody else mentioned beat down or any violence. He was being negative towards AA in a "pain in the ass" kind of way (only Matt knows how to be a pain in my ass) so I chided him back. Well since Matt is such a fucking pussy if you haven't noticed already, he took this and just started to use it in a manipulative way to hurt me. This whole business about taking it to the police and what not is theatrics because Reddits gives him a platform to do this shit.
Ok getting back to the pussy comment I made. I have had at least a dozen men and women email me and ask if Matt has always been this way. They have questioned his manhood, more woman then men, I'm serious too. I don't care what he is, it makes no difference to me. I just wish the guy would grow up. I mean you have got to be the silliest male I have ever known.

As far as Felice and her pics of Stinkin Thinkin and me being there with various aliases and so on. Hey be my guest, you want to walk with her down that road go on. I think many here can remember when there was so many DannyB Ii listed here you could not count them all, well she has successfully moved on to create the same thing elsewhere.
My only time ever conversing with Stinkin Thinkin was on a LA Times blog. Period.
All this other shit is inside Felice's head.

First page:

Felice Debra Eliscu

Meet Diablo, aka, Danny Bennison – Stinkin' Thinkin'
stinkin-thinkin.com
“Matty be careful I visit your hometowne [sic] with about 250 other AA men for a conference every May look it up. I should be seeing you in May. We just may corral you and before you know it you be brainwashed. Oh and If I forgot to tell you that I come to your [...]

August 15 at 9:58am
Matt Hoffman
when I first saw this back an hour after it went up on the stinkin-thinkin site back in April of this year (I believe it was April ) by a chance googling of bennison 's name and this is what came up to the top of the search . I really doub...See More

August 15 at 1:06pm
Felice Debra Eliscu Too bad he attacks people and then deletes his attacks. Luckily I know how to take a screen shot. It's hard to believe this guy spends years trolling several sites and attacking people who are already having a hard time.

August 15 at 4:23pm
Matt Hoffman
now I consider words at the top of this post under meet Diablo to be a threat ....what am I saying it was a threat .and it was uttered by bennison to me and really I should have taken it to the olice cause when I read now it still sounds l...See More

August 15 at 8:20pm
Matt Hoffman
Hear my fingers read my words bennison in my four phonecalls not once did he tell me the truth as to what he did at elan as an empolyee of elan , I did not find out later until I read bennisons first manifesto pertaining to what he did as an employee at elan .

I read what he posted in astonished silence and then Mark asked me if I felt stupid , I told Mark it was worse than feeling stupid ,I felt violated ...you see I had asked a few people to back off of bennison and I had no idea why they were raging on him . I realize now that bennsion had siply run the old ..."underlay for the overplay" on me , and once he had gotten over then he had to attack full one trying to destory me in the process.

you see shortly after I had met him on fornits it went down ,and I had been gone from fornits for about alnost two years , I had no idea who or what bennison was and In took him at face value as to what he told me. I honestly felt that he was only a delicvery driver that knew what went on in elan and would be an asset to help us who fort years had been working towards exposing and shutting down elan for over ten years.

What I got was more than a kick in the teeth and a knife in the back , I got attacked and threatend as the start of this topic on the thinkin site will attest ,yes those are danny bennisons words and actually those are some of the nicer demeaning things that he has said to me.

In my opinion danny bennison is a sadistic ,sociopath , who is also a maglignant narcissist , who trolls the internet looking for people weak and vernable people to hurt it makes him feel like a real man and good . I n my opinion he is a real sick ,sick paranoid deluded nutcase ,who is a cyber bully and a` stalker.

I hope the police are aware of him by now, before some thing really really bad happens to an
unsuspecting soul.
 

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August 15 at 8:40pm
Felice Debra Eliscu

Be Careful – Stinkin' Thinkin'
stinkin-thinkin.com
Just a quick heads up. One of our trolls, Danny Bennison, has been commenting here again under the name of “Quagmire.” His other aliases include the names: Cuggle, Diablo, Heretikreb and Danny B II. We’ve banned him, but like all cyber stalkers, he doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries. In addit...

August 15 at 9:58am
Kim Morello Ugh....god. I dealt with this asshole on Fornits. Stay away!! He's a big fan of that guy who was just found guilty of manslaughter (4 counts, I believe) in that "sweat lodge" fiasco. STILL defends the guy. DannyBoi is a total Kool-Aid drinker and fake guru follower!!

August 15 at 10:00am · 1 person
Felice Debra Eliscu and....now he is over at http://troubledteenindustry.com/ as Quagmire.

August 15 at 10:05am
Matt Hoffman
Stinkin and thinkin folks have him pegged ,no pun intended , he is posting lunacy on fornits and the Stinkin folks seem to think he also uses the name Heritik, also posting on fornits .
yes people really need to be aware of him ,I found he is a cyber stalker and a cyber bully ,he is going to eventually getysome one to hurt themselves ,in my opinion and from my experience with him and what I have witnessed ,a true sadist and pathological liar. Please be very aware of this person ,he is dangerous to all survivors of any program.
If you need any more info on this sick cyber bully/stalker feel free to pm .
 
August 15 at 10:44am · 1 person
Kim Morello ?Felice Debra Eliscu, I'm really sorry. As Matt Hoffman said, he was a complete asshole to me on Fornits, to the point where I DID get scared and he made actual threats to me...said he knew where I lived and was in the next town over and would "beat my ass". Document everything!! PM me if you need any help. Best of luck!!!

August 15 at 11:03am · 1 person
Matt Hoffman
Thank you Kim Morello ,he was very abusive to many ,many people and in a fashion that was most cruel and hurtful. I am a witness for you Kim as well as for Felice Debra Eliscu and others .
He is a cyber stalker and a cyber bully ,he is goin...See More

August 15 at 12:53pm · 1 person
Matt Hoffman Quagmire huh, really unbelivable what is this now 5 or 6 aliases , There is a reason why some people cany be them selves , cyber stalking/bullying ....I hope the polise or FBI are paying attention.

August 15 at 8:46pm · 1 person
Felice Debra Eliscu The FBI never cared about Elan why would they care about Danny? They are too busy busting Marijuana Smokers.....

August 15 at 8:48pm · 2 people
Matt Hoffman I hear you Felice , I guess it good that he is well documented in case something God for forbid ,terrible happens as a result of him. It would suck , though he is well witnessed and well documented , thank you Felice .

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