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You people aren't funny with your Cruella and your puppy jokes. And further more if she does decide to leave her child there you, the ones of you who treated her like shit just for coming on the forum for advice can thank yourselves for pushing her away. Thayer is very nice to parents and you people treat those same parents like shit. Figure it out. Who would you listen to and have faith in. The one who is being nice to you or the one who is treating you like shit? I'm a parent so I know how convincing Thayer can be. Yeah It's a big manipulation but if you don't know them and what they're doing you don't have a clue that they are lying. And there's you people talking mean to this woman. You just pushed her right into the arms of the devil so to speak. Congradulations! I think whoever you are that asked about Cruella has a lot of nerve. You're probably one of the ones who pushed her away. Well BRAVO everybody. Another child probably not saved. Some of you might try softening up your approach with people or saying nothing at all. Thayer tells people that everybody on this forum is either a disgruntled ex fired employee or a pissed off parent who took their kid out early and the program didn't work for their kid because they didn't complete the program. This is what I was told by many different people at Thayer when I asked about fornits and why all these people would be saying these things. I have to admit that I was confused by the conflicting stories. Well it's a lucky thing that I never posted on here before I took Julia out of Thayer because I'm pretty sure if you people would have treated me the way you treated Cruella I would have gotten my feelings really hurt, not believed you maybe even believed Thayer and never came on the forum again. Who knows. Julia might even still be there had I got comments from some of you before I went there. Go ahead and get mad at me all you want because I could care less about what you think of my bluntness. You need to hear it again. Everybodies goal is to save the kids from hell but just remember honey gets you a lot more than vinegar. Pia

Yeah! I'm with tlcrescue. You sound like you must be an employee or a mole for the Bundys. This stuff that happens at Thayer is totally unacceptable and you're defending them. Be careful or you  may end up in jail if you happen to be one of the ones who is abusing the kids there. And unlike tlcrescue I can be provoked to violence and if I ever found out you layed a hand on my daughter I'd kick your f-in ass all over Missouri. You sound like a sick S.O.B. if you can stand what goes on in that crap hole and it's all ok with you. I've decided that you couldn't possibly be a student. You've got to be an adult affiliated with Thayer. If you do happen to be a child I'm sorry for you and for the way I have spoken to you. You're more to be pittied than blamed. This whole Thayer thing is making me sick. tlcrescues kid was brutalized,not abused but brutalized and this is ok with anybody? A child was killed and this is ok? Kids get locked in closets and this is ok? Kids are not fed properly, are forced to hold their unine and feces for hours beyond the time duty called, are tied and dragged around like animals, kids are forced to abuse each other or dropped to bootcamp to be abused. You're pissing me off lady. You come on here defending these PIGS and then you pass out a fake e-mail address. You're a COWARD. You're a BUNDY COWARD. I'm the most understanding person in the world but there's nothing about you that I understand. You make me want to puke or punch a whole in a wall. Both I guess. That boy who died, his mother lives right down the street from me, about a mile to be exact. Tell her that kids don't get abused at Thayer. She is in seclusion. She cries her days and her nights away. She has nothing else to live for because her son was murdered by these scums that you claim don't abuse kids. Well you enjoy the rest of your pathetic life while Mrs. Reyes spends the rest of hers feeling guilty for trying to get her son some help and feeling heart broken over the help he got. A death sentence. I'm not usually so hard on people but you piss me off with your flip little comments about how wonderful Thayer is. It's a SHIT HOLE and don't forget it. You need to put yourself in bootcamp for 3 months and see what language you speak when you come out. Once again I'm truely sorry if you happen to be a child but I doubt that because I've talked to many kids that have come out of there and not one defends the place unless they've got Willa Bundys gun held to their head. She needs to stick that gun up her ass and pull the trigger. I'm Done. And Ms Lisa do E-mail me any time you feel like it. Speaking of Ms.Lisa. There's a Ms. Lisa that works at Thayer. She's the director of family reps. Would this happen to be you? Probably so. Well if it is you a special kiss my ass for lying to me about my kid, Cadet Ramirez. We won't go into all the lies . You know what they are. Hope to hear from you Pia [email protected]

I have plenty of specifics of what's going on there. My daughter was there for 4 months. Dates:9-27-04 to 1-17-05. I rescued her short of being brainwashed into thinking that she deserved the horrific things that were being done to her and others there. I rescued her short of her being brainwashed into believing that her permanent injuries she received at Thayer were her fault. She obviously did bad things to end up there but she's always been a kind hearted person. She's been this way sinse she was very small. We've always cared for and lived with developmentally disabled adults in our home. She has always had compassion for these people that we care for and respect as well. She has an uncle who was kicked in the head by a horse when he was 2 and he's crippled and brain damaged. He's her favorite uncle even when he yells at her. My daughter is a very good person. She volunteers at the food kitchen for the homeless just because she loves doing it. Ok she's not the poster child or she wouldn't have ended up at Thayer in the first place but my point is that she lost some of that compassion for others that made her such a special person. She told me that the first month she was at Thayer it was unbearable to watch other kids get abused and not be able to help them. She told me that after the first month she didn't care anymore about others being abused. It became all about protecting your own butt. Yeah I could tell you stories all day about Thayer. Just private message me and we'll talk or you can e-mail me at [email protected] or call me at 707-527-7628. I'm not really worried about the Bundys reading what I have to say because I don't lie so I have nothing to hide and I'm certainly not scared of those two foolish people who allow children to be abused and killed while under there care. I keep hearing that people are scared of these two and I just don't get it. Scared of what? Willa's gun? Get real! They are only a threat to children and only children that are in their care. Once you're out of there you're home free. These people are not a threat to anybody. With the lawsuits and negative press and attention they're getting they are totally disarmed. Willa you might as well just put the little gun away because you're nothing but a freakin joke and so's your husband and your asshole son Jake. Yeah, unfortunately the kids that are still at Thayer are definitely in danger of you and your staffs stupidity and we do all hope they live through it with some sanity and compassion for humankind still intact. You people make me sick and if you are the christians that you claim to be than you've heard of what goes around comes around. That's Gods way of trying to keep humans in line and make them do the right thing. God help you Bundys when the cycle comes back around to you. I pity your souls. Hells an ugly place from what I understand. I personally try to watch my actions to make sure we never meet up there one day because I myself do not intend to spend eternity with the likes of you people. I'm writing all of this assuming that you're reading it. I'm quite certain that you are. Why wouldn't you be. You must be getting a bit paranoid about your near future by now and for good reason. My only regret is that I never had the pleasure of meeting you in person. I'd loved to have told you to your face what I think of you. And no the little gun you pack around to intimidate the kids with would not have scared me in the least. I think you were intimidated by me or you would have been at the school if that's what you want to call it the day I picked up my daughter instead of having Ms. Kristy keep you updated by phone as to what was going on. To the person who wants to talk to me ,yes please do contact me but it needs to be the truth you're looking for because I don't white wash anything. It is what it is. My daughter was abused and I know about lots of others so I'll be waiting to hear from you. Pia

O.k I've figured it out. That was so easy I feel stupid. Well I am when it comes to computers but I'm learning O.K. Now we can have private chats I'll just have to figure out how to access them. I'm really not a dummy It's just this whole computer thing got me all confused. Well I'm learning more everyday. So if you want contact me. Pia

One more thing. $250,000, what's up with that? I'm thinking millions or they should own the place or something. $25,000 my ass they better get awhole lot more than that. In CA. that doesn't even cover the loss of a leg let alone the loss of a child.

No you're just a little smart ass who should go back to tlc for another round if you think it's so great there. For a minute I respected your opinion until I read a few smart ass remarks you had to say. I thought the program was suppose to program you to be respectful?