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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / And another thing
« on: January 14, 2005, 02:17:00 PM »
must have been about six years out of straight, i sat in a counselor's office and couldn't say anything. i just cried. anything i said could be twisted, but i couldn't even explain that.

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anyone have recent information?

(am I remembering the right name/person?
the woman w long blonde hair who led girls raps by having us lie on the floor and close our eyes while she led us in some inner imagery thing.)

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / where is Leslie Murden now?
« on: January 13, 2005, 11:06:00 AM »
the last time i saw her was early 90s, she said she was working for another drug treatment place -- i can't remember which one.

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / why i am anonymous
« on: January 09, 2005, 11:28:00 PM »
this is a touchy subject and I will likely delete it. it is difficult to talk about parents because there is an innate or enculturated feeling that one must be loyal to one's parents no matter what, that it is betrayal to speak unfavorably of them.

i have given thought to why i will not even reveal my first name, and beyond that, why i will not give certain revealing details about myself or my life.

one reason that i think is the biggest reason is that my parents, most especially my mother, invaded my privacy to a treacherous degree after she put me in Straight. she not only gave away my clothes and certain things that were dear to me, connections with friends and the person i was, she also invaded my journals.

one of my friends, way before I was put in straight, said "don't keep a diary! there will just be another R*** F*** incident!" (a girl who had her journal stolen, read, and used to humiliate her by some other people).

well how right he was. some of the deepest and most long-lasting pain from straight is that my parents saw the very private side of me. they invaded EVERYTHING. my room, my books, my clothes, my journals. they stole from me. they ripped me away from my friends, and that was a physical pain the first few days I was in there. home was terrible. i spent as much time as possible with friends. i snuck out in the middle of the night to go to Denny's with them, just to shoot the shit, just to be with them.

i have had the unexplainable feeling that i did not exist after straight.

i have had the feeling that if i even listened to my favorite music, to this day, in front of my mother, that it would be dangerous.

i miss you john xxxx.[ This Message was edited by: Pietra on 2005-01-09 20:29 ]

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / get fucked
« on: December 29, 2004, 12:55:00 PM »
.[ This Message was edited by: mental torture made me like this on 2005-11-28 19:01 ]

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / wishing Richard Bradbury well
« on: December 15, 2004, 08:17:00 PM »
http://http://thestraights.com/legal/bradbury-sued-5-01-03/Emergency-order.pdf

I hope you are feeling okay. I was really sad to read about what they are putting you through.

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / why animals is such a nutcase
« on: December 10, 2004, 10:50:00 PM »
(http://www.isaccorp.org/documentsam.html#misc  
click on:  The CIA on Brainwashing Techniques  and you get a pdf file)

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / A Recovery Program For You
« on: December 03, 2004, 12:14:00 AM »
come on, try it:

http://www.villagevoice.com/issues/0445/fiore.php

and wait for it to load up.

 :rofl:

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animals, you go first

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[ This Message was edited by: Pietra on 2004-12-12 11:31 ]

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okay, who wants to go first? groovy?[ This Message was edited by: Pietra on 2004-12-12 11:46 ]

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / .
« on: October 23, 2004, 11:57:00 PM »
Maga, Malefica, Brunhilda, Venefica.

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / suicides and why
« on: October 22, 2004, 12:13:00 AM »
did anyone know anyone from straight that killed themselves? do you know why that person killed themself? did they talk to you about stuff that would help understand why?

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / @
« on: October 21, 2004, 10:38:00 PM »
[ This Message was edited by: mental torture made me like this on 2005-06-19 09:23 ]

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[From the New York Times, Sunday, October 17, 2004, section A, page 25]

October 17, 2004

'Get Tough' Youth Programs Are Ineffective, Panel Says


By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
   
 ASHINGTON, Oct. 16 (AP) - Boot camps and other get-tough program for adolescents do not prevent criminal behavior, as intended, and may make the problem even worse, a new study has found.

 Further, laws transferring juveniles into the adult court system lead these teenagers to commit more violence, the study said. More promising, it said, are programs that offer intensive counseling for families and young people at risk.

 A 13-member panel convened by the National Institutes of Health reviewed the available scientific evidence to look for consensus on causes of youth violence and ways to prevent it. Its report was released on Friday.

 " 'Scare tactics' don't work," the panel concluded. "Programs that seek to prevent violence through fear and tough treatment do not work."

 Youth violence has declined from its peak a decade ago but violent crime rates are still high, the panel said.

 Violence can be traced to a variety of conditions. Among the possible causes are these: inconsistent or harsh parenting, poor peer relations, gang involvement, lack of connection to school and living in a violent neighborhood.

 The trouble with boot camps, group detention centers and other "get tough" programs is that they bring together young people who are inclined toward violence and teach one another how to commit more crime, the panel said. "The more sophisticated instruct the more naive in precisely the behaviors that the intervener wishes to prevent."

 It also rejected programs that "consist largely of adults lecturing," like DARE, the Drug Abuse Resistance Education program.

 One barrier to setting up effective programs, the report said, is resistance from people operating ineffective programs who depend on them for their jobs.

 "All the evaluations have shown they don't work," said the panel's chairman, Dr. Robert L. Johnson of the University of Medicine and Dentistry of New Jersey. "Many communities are wasting a great deal of money on those types of programs."

 The panel looked for programs that have been tested using rigorous research methods and concluded that "the good news is that there are a number of intervention programs that have been shown" effective.

 The report cited two: a therapy program where youth and their families attend 12 one-hour sessions over three months, and a community-based clinical treatment program that targeted violent and chronic offenders at risk of being removed from their families. This second program provided about 60 hours of counseling over about four months with therapists available at all hours.

 One key, Dr. Johnson said, was letting counselors observe families and children together and offer suggestions for better parenting.

 Both programs reduced arrest rates and out-of-home placements, with positive effects four years after treatment ended.

 
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