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Hot dam your memory is elephantary...

I forgot about  the Rma  "go the distance" mindfuck  events.. I fucking hated those bizarro  pity party nazi mindfuckery events. Fast forward 20 years....I've had some corporate jobs and they've tried the same shit there. "hey guys - I see a wining team here  that's waiting to be discovered..."how do you hold yourself back every day?...How would you describe yourselves - what sort of team have you got here??" ...."be honest with yourselves- are you a leader or a follower"...... " ....What's your moto?"....  "In fact, i'm here  to tell you 1 theme......., "why don't you treat every day as if you never had another day left to live".?....


......fucking degenerate zombies




It's amazing to reflect on that....everyone,  then and now,  deep down, knew it was a croc full of shiiiiihite - yet staff wanted a raise and we were like junkies willing to do anything to become the coveted ' older student' who was unindictable, enjoying luxiouious weekends in BF at the 'Theater' bring back crates of Keebler elf cookies and cowboy coffee.


.............horeshit.....

every time you had to stand up in front of the group (horseshoe style) and speak/be spoken to. you had to stand erect (proper posture) with arms down by your side and palms facing out.


this posture open's you up to your emotions. (I believe this physical/psychological  correlation to be true in in it's original form) however it was fucking bastardized and hijacked by idiots like mel and many others. ..forced to stand there for a week like that....fucking a.....In fact any time I hear smelly hippies, or cedu like morons trying to sell a line of crap about the benefits of sitting indian style I want to hit them upside the dome with Jerry Garcias tamborine......

Hot damn I've worked myself into a lather.

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why are you guys bickering over semantics .........

My parents hired one, had him on retainer for 3 weeks and then 24 hours before opted to cancel escort, call cops and have them at the front door durng departure.

How did you arrive?
with parents (lying about destination) see above

What happened next?
upon being read the riot act of thy 3 holy agreements the following occured: I dropped my drawers to showcase my two 8 balls , within 1 split second decided I couldn't go a month without intercourseing with some boarding school broad or punching some chump in the chops for talking shit. after pondering and not believing the drug agreement wondered how retarded these people were. (little did I know I would endure to graduation....)

Where you allowed to speak?
not to resistant new students

How long did group go on?
4 hours every m,w,f

Where you "forced" to confess to being addicts etc?
during every group.

What was the overall strycture of Cedu?
etc
6 families(levels)  , 2 1/2 years, progressive priveleges, heavy manual labor,  islamic grade sexual frustration (as in female genital mutilation al sharif muhamed allah women wrapped in black bed sheets - what do I do with this 24/7 hour boner?), light academics, unliscensed misinformed staff possed with self annointed pope grade emotional healing powers, isolation from entertainment, perpetual bombardment with out of this world self-help artillery that numbed the brain and soul to post hiroshima levels....crying..rinse lather repeat.......fake crying....snot....rinse lather repeat...yelling.....put up your beat sheets.....rinse lather repeat....louder yelling.. rinse lather repeat....screaming.....  clean everything you possibly can. sit in the suana and wonder why Randy Eide is such a fucking degenerate..... tell on everyone....smoosh on the living room floor and feel like a bi-sexual fairy wasting his life away.... and come graduation day.....fucking hope and pray that this witches brew of mindfuck has your head on straight for the 'real word' - cuz guess what motherfucker -  cedu crazy kool aid is all you got in your bag of tricks..

that felt fucking great........now you guys try some.

-dishdutyfugitive

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Well said.

The funny thing is my family to this day would'nt believe any of it. They would say RMA saved my life and made me a good successful person.

They can't even imagine.....

This is the reason I like this forum. It's given me the opportunity to recognize and deconstruct the mirage that was cedu.

Serbia, I like the idea of a student fighting back at that time. But they had the entire situation wired. From marketing to prospective parents to graduation. It was watertight.

The core of their control was based on the following:

1. Most parents were extremely desperate to find the perfect school and fix their kid. Caroline and crew had their sales pitch wired and probably had a 75% close ratio with prospective parents. Just imagine your mom sitting there all teary eyed and Caroline saying how she once was 'their' child all fucked up beyond recognition and that cedu had saved her life and turned her into a saint that has dedicated her life to saving souls in bonners ferry. That embodies every aspect of a cult and is indicative of a fucked up society where parents can't raise their own kids because they don't have their own shit together. Sure they have prestigious job titles, own big homes, earn 300k a year and look like society's role models but as far as parenting skills they're no better than a broken frisbee at the park. On day 1 cedu had our parents locked in for the entire 2 & 1/2 year ride .

2. To up the ante many parents used the (highly cedu recommended) tactic of threatening juvenile hall/lock down if their child split/refused the program. This is the very reason I stayed and graduated. RMA or jail (with no rap sheet or court orders)?  RMA.

3. Drink the kool aid or die.

Summary:
1. We had no parental support (outside of cedu doctrine).
2. Jail is your next best option.
3. You're completely isolated from everything but cedu doctrine.
4. If you Resist/coast (consistently) you guarantee yourself the wrath.

And fuck mel wasserman. Remember how he would show up and roll around campus like he was some Ceasar with a 2 foot cock. I never saw him talk to kids. Never saw him act genuine to staff. In my book, that right there is disdain for the commoners. That is evidence enough, that that fat greasy bastard felt too anxiety riden to attempt  something so risky as to preach the sermon (nothing ventured nothing gained doesn't apply to the highest man on the totem pole). Even better, he thought himself 'above' something like that (why waste my time doing that when I can hire a dumb bastard like Steve Rookie to do it? Thus proving the joke was on not just the students but all of the staff). And the bottom line is for him to show up and not talk to the 'school' completely contradicts and undermines the 'cedu philosophy'.  That bastard cunningly figured out how to fuse a cult with a therapuetic 'teen' boarding school.

Cash was half of it and the other half was the ego boost, the high that fat bastard got from it. He probably punched the clown nightly to the thought of the systematic mind control project he created. All those stupid fuckers drinking the Kool aid he brewed up. From headmasters to staff to students to prospective parents. What a rush - all those dumb bastards lining up and willing to pay any amount of money to drink from his tap. Getting grown men to admit to bestality in front of 13 year olds in the name of therapy. Mel is a sick fuck. He sodomized Kahil Gibran's 'the prophet' and rode it all the way to the bank.

So the question remaining is had Cedu not sold to brown schools how would things have played out? How long would it have maintined it's pre-92 course? When would students have finally revolted? How about a rogue ex-staffer with the balls to come forward, find the right resources and call cedu's bluff?
And the internet's role - With the ability to access sites like fornits and civil liberties organizations, what year would the tides have turned and the cedu cult would have been exposed for what it was?

I think think Mel wasserman asked himself these very questions in 1990 and that's why he sold to Brown schools and in turn made a killing from the deal. (Go to any modern day cedu type school, click job opportunities and look at the salary for 'counselors'. It's ridiculous considering the tuition). The $ ain't going to staff. It's going to the man.

Excellent point.  What a fucked up situation.

1. If he did do those things and RMA didn't call the police in his home town.  That is illegal and a terrible example for kids.

2. He made those things up and staff didn't have the brains to see he was lying and allowed him to graduate with fake super disclosures. That is bonafide cult action right there my friends. Again, another terrible environment for kids.

That's getting me all hot and wet.

Dropping acid followed by a human bonfire to a good old fashioned rape finale.

I wish they had summer camp for that.

Is Russ a cedu grad turned staff?

Are you sure about that disclosure?