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Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform => Spouses of Survivors => Topic started by: Anonymous on September 19, 2009, 06:06:46 PM

Title: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program!!!!
Post by: Anonymous on September 19, 2009, 06:06:46 PM
Unless you want them to keep you up all night banging away on their keyboard talking to other losers on fornits.

But seriously.
These people have problems. BIG problems. Like serious psychologicaly issues. Just look at this forum. W>O>W!
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program!!!!
Post by: try another castle on September 20, 2009, 09:24:03 AM
My self-hating side would like to say that my wife agrees with you.

But she doesnt.

Im thankful for that. She is the light of my life, and partner to my soul.


Hopefully, you have someone as special in your life.


Shine on.
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program!!!!
Post by: Antigen on September 20, 2009, 03:00:01 PM
I gotta say, if my ex had understood more and given me the support I needed I wouldn't have spent all night lookin for it from fellow program vets on the net and he probably wouldn't be my ex.

:rose: (http://http://www.playlist.com/searchbeta/tracks#if+you+don%27t+get+it+at+home)
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program!!!!
Post by: seamus on September 23, 2009, 11:33:41 AM
My soon to be ex was never in a program ,and in a real big way, after 15 years STILL doesnt understand jack shit . :(
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program!!!!
Post by: try another castle on September 23, 2009, 11:48:56 AM
Same here, and I think "thank god"

I'd never want her to understand that.

She *does* understand what it's like to have a shitty life, though. (I personally think her teen years were worse than mine.) and neither of us have problems listening to each other bellyache about it.

We are united in our dysfunction.


But then again, we haven't been hitched/engaged/whatever for too long. Im sure there will be plenty of time for the love to die.
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program
Post by: 4eva1243 on June 09, 2010, 10:02:39 PM
Unless you want them to keep you up all night banging away on their keyboard talking to other losers on fornits.

But seriously.
These people have problems. BIG problems. Like serious psychologicaly issues. Just look at this forum. W>O>W!
<in response to guest>

You sure have a lot to say sitting behind a computer screen. and "program kids/parents" can bring a lot to the table
You'd be SO LUCKY to have one of us in your life it's too bad you DONT know what you're missing out on YOU IGNORANT ASS
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program
Post by: seamus on January 19, 2011, 10:35:16 PM
Quote from: "seamus"
My soon to be ex was never in a program ,and in a real big way, after 15 years STILL doesnt understand jack shit . :(

I TAKE IT BACK, she understood how to kick me when I was down. :nods:
Title: Re: Whatever you do! Don't marry anyone who was in a program
Post by: creashev on November 13, 2011, 12:50:45 AM
goodness ... I was four years in a program.... and my husband and I are going to be celebrating 30 wonderful years together.  this advise doesn't apply to everyone  ...