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I went to a program listed on this forum as abusive, it even has its own special subforum section which is unsurprisingly inactive. Perhaps the reason the forum sees no posts is because the reports of its widespread abusiveness has been overblown somewhat. I was never abused in a program, in fact, I can honestly admit that the program most likely saved my life. I was a troubled teen and my parents tried everything else even hospitalization but needed a longer term option, and chose to send me to a program. I didn't like it and protested being there, because I wanted to continue with the self destructive behaviors as I did at home. But they didn't let me, and ended up showing me a new path and most importantly keeping me away from my life back at home, if I had been allowed to remain a part of, it would of surely killed me.

I was never abused, and I can't honestly say I ever saw anybody else abused either. On fornits the word abused is so watered down, that our mere presence in the program represents abuse, but I don't subscribe to this altered version of what abuse really is. If I had a cell phone in the program, could I have called 911 and reported anything being illegal going on? No, I couldn't have. In fornits version of reality I could call 911 and report that I am n underage minor being held against my will. Maybe the cops might even show up, but then the program would simply show them the paperwork where my parents signed me in and that would be that.

I was sent to a program because I did a lot of self destructive things and refused to stop despite my parents telling me I'd be sent to long term treatment, so I have only myself to blame in the end. I've been a reader of fornits for a long time, and I don't agree with the extremism that is so popular amongst the small group of "survivors" who post here. I don't know how people call themselves survivors when everybody else survives too. Nobody in the program while I was there was killed, so calling myself a survivor is somewhat redundant I think. I saw a lot of good things happen in the program, and yes people even had a good time and improved themselves. This is an impossibility to fornits resident extremists, even though I saw this with my own eyes. It's sort of like experiencing something in real life and then watching the news about what you saw. Often times, the news story barely resembles what actually happened. Well fornits is the news version of program reality, and it's far from accurate in it's portrayal.

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Some people have negative experiences in programs, and sometimes they post here.

Some people's lives are saved by programs, and sometimes even they post here.

Some people never went to a program, and they copy/paste other people's posts, then comment on them.

Some people work at programs, then troll Whooter. It takes all kinds.

 :seg: I AGREE
I'LL BE SUCKING DICK FOR $1.00 TOMORROW!
 :heartbreak:  :poison:  ::evil::  ::deadhorse::

"that is fukin loooooooooooooooooow!"________________________________ :waaaa:
I AM FAT UGLY AND MUTILATE...I BET I CAN ET 5 BUCKS? MAYBE $2.50 A HEAD?
A THAT RATE HOW MANY BLOWJOBS DO I NEED TO EAT AT WENDY'S?
I AM A MATH IDIOT AND TOO LAZY TO PULL OUT MY CALCULATOR. :jawdrop:

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Quote from: "Dr. Acula"

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A PRESS CONFERENCE WILL BE HELD for the family of a fifteen year old African Canadian youth who was residing in a treatment facility for conduct disordered children in South Eastern Ontario.

The family retained Restoring Dignity to investigate the Nova Scotia Department of Community Services handling of their grandson'...s case. Thursday’s press conference will discuss the current developments on the case and the youth’s return to the province of Nova Scotia.

In attendance will be Mr. Roch Longueépée, Founder & CEO, Restoring Dignity, Dr. Charles Emmerys, with, Dawe, Bates, Parlee & Associates (NB), Mr. Richard Bureau with the firm Morris Bureau, and the Firm Walker Dunlop will also be working with Restoring Dignity in the family's fight to return him to the family home.

WE ENCOURAGE EVERYONE TO ATTEND

Conference location: Westin Nova Scotia, Luneburg Room, Halifax, Nova Scotia, CanadaDate: Thursday August 26, 2010 Time: 12:00 PM

:suicide: EVIL JUST EVIL.......THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS HOW EVIL THIS REALLY IS.
THIS IS THE WORK OF THE DEVIL....I KNOW IT.!!!!
ILLUMINATI HAVE DONE IT AGAIN IT JUST MAKES ME SICK! :on phone:  :on phone:  :on phone:  :on phone:
UUUUGHHHHH THIS IS EVIL JUST LIKE MARIJUANA AND FUN....JUST FUCKIN HARDCORE EVIL!!!
WHO THE HELL DO THOSE PUNKS THINK THEY ARE??? UGGGGH
THROW EM ALL IN THE MOSHPIT/TIMEMACHINE I SAY.
KILLEM ALL!
TESE PROGRAMS NEED A FUCKIN HOLY WAR.....
THIS IS WAY WORSE THAN DUBYA........
THOSE EVIL FUCKERS......OMG....SLAY THE GOVERNMENT....OY.....I'M FUCKIN MADDER THAN HELL FO SHO! :poison:  :clown:  :rasta:  ::unhappy::

:notworthy: Well what can I say that will top that?
These people mush be retarted faggots..... :roflmao:    ::evil::

oh looky i have spellcheck dependency disorder syndrome disease....hmmmmm I refuse to give up my WINDOWS VISTA OR MY INTERNET EXPLORER...I WILL HAVE BAD SPELLING UNTIL I DIE!! :karma:  ::OMG::

Well we all see how crazy Felice and the half baked clan around here run the Fornits show. This forum is not only a disgrace but a huge insult to every one from Elan. People such as Attention Whore Felice is making this all about her and screw everyone else that was tortured and humilated there at Elan. This forum is not only irresponsible but flat out tacky. I suggest anyone with half a brain do not even attempt to open up or expose their emotions about Elan here. You will be met with disrespect and flat out tormenting actions of others. I seriously believe forums like this do more damage and create unnecessary bullshit in the lives of peaceful people seeking answers and direction in their journey to put a stop to Elan. Elan people are not welcome here we have seen that daily in the type of garbage Fornits has allowed to take place. Since we got that message loud and clear, I am hoping anyone with an ounce of self respect and dignity refuse to participate in these discussions revolving around Elan. It is a slap in all our faces. I warn everyone they will not only attack you but they will hurt your familes as well. These people on here are down right nasty.

Ask Felice she likes dragging 8 year old helpless children into her fight. Elan is not a joke and we from Elan will not take it anymore. I am in hopes a new forum will be started in four weeks. I have spoken to three individuals that also are just as enraged as many others in how the Fornits has treated Elan with such lack of regard. I am here today to tell you all it is not going to wash anymore.

Danny please hire a private therapist and once and for all stop trying to be the man in control, we have witnessed over and over again that just is not going to work. Get a clue honey, no one gives a fuck about your program running ass.

Felice you do still need medication and need to stop lying to yourself in life. You are truly a sick woman. I urge you to seek the help you really do need. many feel so sorry for you and we all have pity in our hearts for you, what a lonely life you truly have. You need help honey.

I urge everyone from Elan to bocot Fornits period. There is no good here, we have seen it, we have witnessed the circus around here for years. Years and years they allow sick people to run their forums. It is all entertainment for them. Well most of us are not going to take it anymore. I am currently constructing a positive respectful forum and it will not ever allow personal attacks. Elan was real and Elan hurt many lives. Remember no one has a right to make us all into laughing stocks now. Fornits has pushed many of us away.

I personally find victimizing people now who reach out for understanding is dicgusting. Fornits baits us in claims to be so helpful, but what they fail to see it is not one huge joke. I urge all Elan ex residents not to participate in any Elan discussions, especially the ones ran by evil people. Their character scream out to us all. They are only here to exploit and hurt everyone. Half of you do not have a soul or are so damaged not to even care.WE ARE NOT ENTERTAINMENT. WE ARE SURVIVORS. and that alone demands respect.

I URGE EVERYONE FROM ELAN TO NOT BE INVOLVED HERE ANYMORE. Do not get involved with their games and set ups. We are not here to get our lives more in chaos. These same 10  to 12 people are the only ones controlling this forum.

I urge the Elan Reporter to gain more insight as to what really goes on here, and if he is serious on his journey he needs to hold us all in a higher regard and have the compassion it takes to uncover the truths. Do not be fooled with happy lairs and fake people. Do not let the Trolls lead you off in a bad direction.

I was attacked due to fact I will not take anyones bullshit. That is how I am period. I do not tolerate hurtful people in my life. I took it up the ass from Elan once and I sure the hell am not taking it from anyone else on here either. I urge all Elan ex Students to speak out and gather together but dont do it here, you will end up hurting more than you started out with. Other forums for your needs are being developed now, there will be a place for you all to come and be safe. Away from the Danny's, Art's, and Felices with her many personalities. No one is forgetting anyone and I urge you all to call someone and talk it threw the hard parts, do not expose yourself to Fornits and the lack of regard they got for us. God Bless you all and keep safe.