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Title: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Anonymous on October 09, 2009, 05:44:55 PM
2 die, 19 overcome at Arizona retreat sweat lodge

By FELICIA FONSECA (AP)

PHOENIX — Two people died and an estimated 19 others were taken to hospitals after being overcome while sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge during a Sedona spiritual retreat, authorities said Friday.

Sixty-four people were in a crudely constructed sweat dome at the 70-acre Angel Valley resort Thursday evening, Yavapai County sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said. The resort nestled in the forest about 20 minutes from Sedona, a resort town about 115 miles north of Phoenix that is well-known as a center for the New Age spiritual movement.

Many people began feeling ill after about two hours in the sweat box, emerging lightheaded and weak, said Verde Valley Fire District Chief Jerry Doerksen. Authorities haven't determined the cause of the deaths and illnesses; tests for carbon monoxide and other contaminants were negative. D'Evelyn said authorities were checking into whether any of the attendees had pre-existing medical conditions and the possibility that some of the people might have been fasting.

About 21 people were taken by ambulance or helicopter to area hospitals, where two were pronounced dead, D'Evelyn said. The dead were identified only as a man and woman, both middle-aged.

Three people taken to Flagstaff Medical Center were listed in critical condition Friday, and another was in fair condition. Three others who were admitted to a hospital in nearby Verde Valley recovered quickly; two of them were released overnight and one was reported in good condition Friday.

Sheriff's homicide investigators were working to determine what happened and whether any criminal actions might have been a factor in the incident, D'Evelyn said. Investigators were at the resort Friday interviewing the retreat director, staff and guests, including some who told detectives they paid up to $9,000 for the multi-day program.

A woman who answered the phone at the resort Friday said its founders, Michael and Amayra Hamilton, would have no comment. A call to the Hamilton's home went unanswered.

Authorities said self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray rented the facility and was hosting the group inside the dome, a low-lying structure covered with tarps and blankets. In a testimonial on the retreat's Web site, Ray said it "offers an ideal environment for my teachings and our participants."

Ray's company, James Ray International, is based in Carlsbad, Calif.

A spokesman for Ray, Howard Bragman, confirmed that Ray was holding an event at the retreat, as he has done in the past.

"We express our deepest condolences to those who lost friends and family, but we pray for a speedy recovery for those who took ill," said Bagman. "At this point there are more questions than answers, so it would not be appropriate to comment further."

On Ray's Web site, a guide for participants of the five-day "Spiritual Warrior Event" includes a lengthy release of liability that acknowledges participants may suffer "physical, emotional, financial or other injuries."

Doerksen, whose fire district responded to emergency calls, said he sent a hazardous materials team into the sweat lodge to test for carbon monoxide, carbon dioxide and other contaminants. The test "didn't show anything out of the ordinary," he said.

The Angel Valley Spiritual Retreat Center, built on former ranch property in the high-desert and red-rock country of northern Arizona, bills itself as a natural environment for self discovery and healing through a holistic approach aimed at balancing the mind, emotions, body and spirit.

The property includes American Indian structures such as teepees, guest houses and outdoor labyrinths made of stones.

Associated Press Writer Jacques Billeaud contributed to this report.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Anonymous on October 09, 2009, 06:29:43 PM
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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: try another castle on October 09, 2009, 07:49:19 PM
This isnt new. The reason kids are subjected to this shit is because it looked so fancy and sparkly to adults, they decided to implement it in the program.

If it weren't for EST and lifespring and motivational speakers/LGATs in general, we wouldnt have as much of  this shit.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Whooter on October 09, 2009, 08:04:48 PM
Oh, come off it!  How many people have never built (or been in) a sweat lodge before at least once in their lives?  95% of people living in the north have experienced this as a kid or at a college outing, its nothing new.  As an adult it would be a nice experience to go to a retreat where someone else builds the sweat lodge and maintains the fire so that you can enjoy it and then just head back to your room afterwards without having to clean everything up.
This is far from a program or cult idea.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Anonymous on October 09, 2009, 08:10:00 PM
try another.. yup! uh huh! est, the forum, esalen, etc,etc, etc, ad nauseum. Dangerous as hell. prolific as hell, too. Critical thinking is hard work, so most are unwilling., why bother when you've got Oprah and dr. phil to tell ya what to think and feel
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: try another castle on October 09, 2009, 08:18:48 PM
I think the op was speaking more towards the whole co-opting of something like a sweat lodge, and have it be used for a bunch of stupid assed new agers.

Cultural warfare is nothing new, and indians are always such a hot commodity when it comes to things like sports teams, sleepaway camp, legalized gambling, and getting in touch with your spirit animal. It is certainly nothing new when it comes to people of new age, hippie ilk.


Anyway, we had our very own redskin fetish-fest at CEDU. The Ishi expedition. Complete with sweat lodge. Invite only.

Nothing evil or wrong about a sweat lodge. But its definitely one of those "features" you may discover present at your favorite program. Along with a copy of the prophet, or some other shit that has nothing to do with the program. BUT.. there is still a reason why those particular things seem to get assimilated so much, and so inappropriately, in the name of mental health or therapy.

Sorry man, but if you aint an indian, you got no business using a sweat lodge to get in touch with your spiritual side. I mean, you can, but dont expect anything special, except for a lighter wallet. And hell, they are a great wet sauna, but the blue corn maiden is NOT going to speak to you, so just forget it.

Man, one of my favorite snarky films is The New Age with Judy Davis and Peter Weller. It's fucking out of print and I am sooo bummed. It's hilarious.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Whooter on October 09, 2009, 08:49:53 PM
Been reading here for years and never knew that programs used sweat lodges as part of their program.  I use to build them growing up on trips to Maine and as a teenager it was a great experience striping down and hanging out until we were intoxicated by too much weed and wine or not enough oxygen... laughing about how the Indians had the good life.
I am a little curious now of how programs used this.  Did they have the kids sit in sweat lodges for long periods?  Because if they are not built properly or controlled that could be very dangerous.  I wouldnt want my kid in there unless there were professionals around overseing the lodges.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: try another castle on October 09, 2009, 09:06:20 PM
Quote from: "Guest"
Been reading here for years and never knew that programs used sweat lodges as part of their program.  I use to build them growing up on trips to Maine and as a teenager it was a great experience striping down and hanging out until we were intoxicated by too much weed and wine or not enough oxygen... laughing about how the Indians had the good life.
I am a little curious now of how programs used this.  Did they have the kids sit in sweat lodges for long periods?  Because if they are not built properly or controlled that could be very dangerous.  I wouldnt want my kid in there unless there were professionals around overseing the lodges.


Nope, the lodge at CEDU was fine, as far as I knew. (Large tarp + fire + hole for fire + crap to hold up tarp) We weren't in there overly long, not any longer than when we hung out in the sauna at the pond. Seemed to be built ok. The guy in charge of the Ishi was a total indian-fetishist, so he studied that shit good.

He was also a lecherous slug and ended up sleeping with a student.

So... you can see why a sweat lodge can certainly pass safety and structure muster and still  be a creepy experience, right? It has about 100% to do with who's in the fucking lodge, sweating their ass off next to you, bathing suit or no. It was just gross. I didn't want to be crammed next to any of these people, especially sweaty. At least the sauna at the pond had space for people to spread out on the benches.

And it stands as yet another stupid attempt at appropriating shit that had no business being there.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: try another castle on October 09, 2009, 09:13:35 PM
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Oprah


Speaking of someone who needs to be in a sweat lodge.... for about a decade.

Problem is shell come back out talking about how great it was and then her advice will, once again, get a bunch of people killed.
Title: 2 Die, 19 Overcome at Arizona Retreat Sweat Lodge
Post by: Ursus on June 18, 2010, 10:30:30 AM
Re-post of the OP:

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2 Die, 19 Overcome at Arizona Retreat Sweat Lodge (http://http://abcnews.go.com/US/Health/wireStory?id=8791860)
2 die, 19 others taken to hospitals after being overcome at Arizona retreat's sweat lodge

By FELICIA FONSECA Associated Press Writer
PHOENIX October 9, 2009 (AP)


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This undated photo provided by the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office shows a "sweatbox" structure at Angel Valley  resort in Sedona, Ariz. Two people died and an estimated 19 others were taken to hospitals Thursday Oct. 8, 2009, after being overcome while sitting in the sauna-like sweat lodge, authorities said. (AP Photo/Yavapai County Sheriff's Office) (AP)

 A sauna-like sweat lodge at an Arizona  resort meant to provide spiritual cleansing became the scene of a police investigation Friday when more than a dozen people became ill during a two-hour session and two later died.

In all, 21 of the 64 people crowded inside the sweat lodge Thursday evening received medical care at hospitals and a fire station. Four remained hospitalized Friday evening — one in critical condition and the others in fair condition.

Authorities haven't determined the cause of the deaths and illnesses; tests for carbon monoxide and other contaminants were negative. Yavapai County sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said authorities were checking into whether any of the attendees had medical conditions or were fasting.

Among those sickened were a middle-aged man and a woman who were unconscious, according to a 911 call, and a third person who was found not breathing.

"It's not something you'd normally see at one of the resorts there, and it's unfortunate regardless of the cause," D'Evelyn said.

Investigators were working to determine whether criminal actions might have been a factor in the incident, D'Evelyn said.

The Angel Valley Retreat Center sits on 70 acres nestled in a scrub forest just outside Sedona, a resort town 115 miles north of Phoenix that draws many in the New Age spiritual movement.

Self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray rented the facility as part of his "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that began Oct. 3 and that promised to "absolutely change your life."

Ray spokesman Howard Bragman confirmed that his client was holding an event at the retreat, as he has done in the past. Authorities said Ray was inside the sweat lodge Thursday evening and was interviewed at the scene.

"We express our deepest condolences to those who lost friends and family, but we pray for a speedy recovery for those who took ill," Bragman said. "At this point there are more questions than answers, so it would not be appropriate to comment further."

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Two people are dead and several others were injured after collapsing at a Northern Arizona retreat center Thursday, officials said. Sedona Fire Department Spokesperson Gary Johnson  said officials responded to a call at Angel Valley  Retreat Center around 5 p.m. Thursday, when multiple people collapsed after exiting a sweat lodge on the property. (KNXV/ABC News)

Sweat lodges, like that held on the final day of the Angel Valley retreat, are commonly used by American Indian tribes to cleanse the body and prepare for hunts, ceremonies and other events. The structure used Thursday was crudely built and covered with tarps and blankets.

Stones are heated up outside a lodge, brought inside and placed in a pail-sized hole. The door is closed, and water is poured on the stones, producing heat aimed at releasing toxins in the body.

The ritual in sweat lodges is helpful in restoring balance and changing people's attitudes and self-image, said Joseph Bruchac, author of "The Native American Sweat Lodge: History and Legends."

People have died in sweat lodges in the past. They were either sick tribal elders who voluntarily stayed until they died or people who had heart conditions and were in poor health.

"The sweat lodge needs to be respected," Bruchac said. "When you imitate someone's tradition and you don't know what you are doing, there's a danger of doing something very wrong."

Ray's retreat schedule had few details about what participants could expect, other than thrice-daily meals and group gatherings that started at 7 a.m. and ended 16 hours later.

The details came in a lengthy release of liability that acknowledges participants may suffer "physical, emotional, financial or other injuries" while hiking or swimming, or during a multi-day personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness without food or water or the sweat lodge.

Some participants told detectives they paid up to $9,000 for the event. Ray's company, James Ray International, is based in Carlsbad, Calif.

Ray's posting on his Twitter account hours before the deaths said: "Still in Spiritual Warrior ... for anything new to live something first must die. What needs to die in you so that new life can emerge?"

The posting and two others were deleted Friday afternoon.

A woman who answered the phone at the Angel Valley resort Friday said its founders, Michael and Amayra Hamilton, would have no comment. A call to the Hamiltons' home went unanswered.

The Angel Valley Spiritual Retreat Center, built on former ranch property in the high-desert and red-rock country of northern Arizona, bills itself as a natural environment for self discovery and healing through a holistic approach aimed at balancing the mind, emotions, body and spirit.

The property includes American Indian structures such as teepees, guest houses and outdoor labyrinths made of stones.

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Associated Press Writer Jacques Billeaud also contributed to this report.


Copyright 2010 The Associated Press.
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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Whooter on June 20, 2010, 06:28:55 PM
What you describe sounds very similar.
We use to vacation up in a remote part of Maine on the Canadian border and would construct what we called a Sweat Lodge.  We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled with stones.  We were all teenagers mostly meeting others who were vacationing and also some locals and the rule was no clothes but the girls would wear towels or over-sized men shirts usually.  We use to smoke and then solve all the worlds problems.  When we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in.  We used to feel so good afterwards.  We slept like babies and would talk about it the whole next day.  Some of the kids from the city would freak out and go home.  I think it was just too much of a culture shock, being around trees was enough stimulation for them.  So I think how a person reacts depends on where they are coming from.

Looking back the magical effect was caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.

We came up with some of the best ideas during those summers.  I could see how people could try to develop that into a therapy of sorts.


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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 20, 2010, 07:30:00 PM
Sitting Bull, a Hunkpapa Lakota chief and holy man, (Tatanka Iyotake) his birth name.

Danny wrote:
Sitting Bull was said to be a Chief that carried the burdens of his people within his soul and released the pain his tribe endured through sweating. This I cannot document, I heard prior to entering a sweat in So.Dakota.
The sweat lodge was considered " mothers womb". Mother being earth, Mothers Earth.

Sitting Bull spoke:
I am a red man. If the Great Spirit had desired me to be a white man he would have made me so in the first place. He put in your heart certain wishes and plans, in my heart he put other and different desires. Each man is good in his sight. It is not necessary for Eagles to be Crows. We are poor... but we are free. No white man controls our footsteps. If we must die...we die defending our rights.


Danny wrote:
I am beginning to believe some may feel they were natives, at least treated that way.

 
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweat_lodge  
Etiquette;
The most important part of sweat lodge etiquette is respecting the traditions of the lodge leader. Some lodges take place in complete silence, while others involve singing, chanting, drumming, or other sound. It is important to know what is allowed and expected before entering a lodge. Traditional tribes hold a high value of respect to the lodge. In some cultures, objects, including clothing, without a ceremonial significance are discouraged from being brought into the lodge. Most traditional tribes place a high value on modesty as a respect to the lodge. In clothed lodges, women are usually expected to wear skirts or short-sleeved dresses of a longer length. In some traditions, nudity is forbidden, as are mixed sex sweats, whereas in others nudity is considered to have a greater connection with the spiritual aspect of your sweat. Some lodge leaders do not allow menstruating women. Perhaps the most important piece of etiquette is gratitude. It is important to be thankful to the purpose of the sweat, the people joining you in the lodge, and those helping to support the sweat lodge.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 20, 2010, 07:38:15 PM
Quote from: "Whooter"
What you describe sounds very similar.
We use to vacation up in a remote part of Maine on the Canadian border and would construct what we called a Sweat Lodge.  We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled with stones.  We were all teenagers mostly meeting others who were vacationing and also some locals and the rule was no clothes but the girls would wear towels or over-sized men shirts usually.  We use to smoke and then solve all the worlds problems.  When we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in.  We used to feel so good afterwards.  We slept like babies and would talk about it the whole next day.  Some of the kids from the city would freak out and go home.  I think it was just too much of a culture shock, being around trees was enough stimulation for them.  So I think how a person reacts depends on where they are coming from.

Looking back the magical effect was caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.

We came up with some of the best ideas during those summers.  I could see how people could try to develop that into a therapy of sorts.
You really think it's so similar? Here's one key difference:

"When we got too hot we would jump in the lake..."[/list]

I take it you didn't have some newage guru of "personal power" exhorting you to ignore your body's signals of distress and tough out the vomiting and passing out ... all in the name of being a good "spiritual warrior," eh?

Also, at least two of the comments above mentioned the plastic tarps covering the lodge structure. Doesn't sound like there was a whole lot of oxygen replenishment going on. Moreover, it looks like that lodge was barely high enough to stand up in, if that, and with ~60+ people inside...

Apparently, just hours before these deaths occurred, James Arthur Ray's Twitter account read:

"Still in Spiritual Warrior ... for anything new to live something first must die. What needs to die in you so that new life can emerge?"[/list]
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 20, 2010, 07:40:38 PM
http://www.barefootsworld.net/sweatlodge.html (http://www.barefootsworld.net/sweatlodge.html)

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The Native American Sweatlodge
A Spiritual Tradition

A Crow sweat lodge.--Museum of the American Indian

The Sweat Lodge Ceremony, now central to most Native American cultures and spiritual life, is an adaptation of the sweat bath common to many ethnic cultures found in North and South America, Asia, Eastern and Western Europe, and Africa. It was prompted by the influence of European culture with its corrupting effect on native culture. With the introduction of alcohol and the inhumane treatment of native people, the need to re-purify themselves and find their way back to traditional ways of living became evident, as they were becoming increasingly poisoned by European culture. The Sweat Lodge Ceremony was the answer.

With the help of Medicine Men and Women, they could repair the damage done to their spirits, their minds and their bodies. The Sweat Lodge is a place of spiritual refuge and mental and physical healing, a place to get answers and guidance by asking spiritual entities, totem helpers, the Creator and Mother Earth for the needed wisdom and power.

A traditional Sweat Lodge is a wickiup made up of slender withes of aspen or willow, or other supple saplings, lashed together with raw hide, or grass or root cordage, although in some areas the lodge was constructed of whatever materials were at hand, from a mud roofed pit house to a cedar bark and plank lodge. The ends of the withes are set into the ground in a circle, approximately 10 feet in diameter, although there is no set size for a Sweat Lodge. That is determined by the location, materials available and the builder. The withes are bent over and lashed to form a low domed framework approximately 4 - 5 feet high at the center. The pit in the center is about 2 feet in diameter and a foot deep. The floor of the lodge may be clean swept dirt, or natural grassy turf, or may be covered with a mat of sweetgrass, soft cedar boughs, or sage leaves for comfort and cleanliness, kept away from the central pit.

The lodge in former times was covered with the hides of buffalo, bear or moose. In this day, the animal skins have been replaced with blankets, plastic sheeting, old carpet, heavy gauge canvas sheets and tarps to retain the heat and the steam.

In many traditions the entrance to the sweat lodge faces to the East and the sacred fire pit. This has very significant spiritual value. Each new day for all begins in the East with the rising of Father Sun, the source of life and power, dawn of wisdom, while the fire heating the rocks is the undying light of the world, eternity, and it is a new spiritual beginning day that we seek in the sweat ceremony.


Between the entrance to the lodge and the sacred fire pit, where the stones are heated, is an altar barrier, beyond which none may pass except the lodge or fire keepers, to prevent participants from accidently falling into the fire as they emerge from sweat. Traditionally this barrier altar is a buffalo or other skull atop a post, placed about 3 paces from the entrance and 3 paces from the fire, to warn of the danger. At the base of the post is a small raised earthen altar upon which are placed items sacred to the group or clan, sage, sweetgrass, feathers, etc., bordered with the four colors, and a pipe rack for the chanunpa.

Common to all traditions, and the sweat, is the ideal of spiritual cleanliness. Many sweats start with the participants fasting for an entire day of contemplation in preparation for the sweat while avoiding caffeine, alcohol and other unhealthy substances. Prior to entering the sweat the participants usually smudge with sage, sweetgrass or cedar smoke as a means toward ritual cleanliness.

Bringing personal sacred items is allowed but some rules apply. Items such as Eagle feathers, whistles and medicine pouches are allowed and welcomed. You should not bring anything that is not natural into the Sweat Lodge, such as: watches, ear rings, gold, silver, eye glasses, false teeth, etc. In many cultures a female on her moon is not allowed into the sweat, but in some they are.

A Sweat Ceremony in many traditions usually starts with the loading and offering of the sacred chanunpa ~ "peace pipe" ~ in prayer, that the participants may know and speak the truth in their supplications of Grandfather, Earth Mother and the spirits. In other traditions, when you are called upon to go into the sweat lodge you will have some tobacco to offer to the sacred fire, saying a prayer or asking a question, the smoke from the tobacco carrying your request to the Great Spirit. As you prepare to enter the lodge the sweat leader smudges you with the smoke of burning sage, cedar, or sweetgrass, wafting the smoke over you with an eagle feather. You then crawl into the lodge in a sun-wise (clockwise) direction, bowing in humility to Great Spirit and in close contact with Earth Mother, and take your place in the circle, sitting crosslegged upright against the wall of the lodge.

When all are inside the sweat leader calls upon the doorkeeper to drop the flap covering the lodge opening. The lodge becomes dark, and at this point the lodge leader announces that all are free to leave the lodge at any time if they cannot endure. (If you must leave, speak out "Mitakuye Oyasin," "All my relatives." The other participants will move away from the wall so that you may pass behind them as you leave in a clockwise direction.) He then asks for a short, contemplative silence. After the brief silence the flap is raised, and the leader calls upon the fire tender to bring in the heated stones from the sacred fire.

The Stone People spirits are awakened in the stones by heating them in the sacred fire until red-hot. They are swept clean with a pine or cedar bough to remove smoking embers which would cause irritating discomfort in the lodge. One at a time they are placed in the shallow pit inside the sweat lodge, placing first the stone on the west, then north, east, south, and in the center to Grandfather. Additional stones are then placed to Grandmother and The People. After four to seven stones are in the pit, depending on tradition (and probably the size of the stones), the entrance is closed and sealed by the Sweat Lodge Keeper, who generally is also the fire tender.

Aglow with the luminance of the red hot stones, the ceremony begins in the lodge. The sweat leader sounds the Water Drum and calls forth the spirit guides in prayer from the Four Directions. The sweat leader then dips water and pours it onto the hot stones in the pit, producing large amounts of steam, usually one dipper for each of the four directions, or until he is told by the spirits to stop. Then he begins his prayers, songs and chants.

A typical prayer might be:
Grandfather, Mysterious One,
We search for you along this
Great Red Road you have set us on.

Sky Father, Tunkashila,
We thank you for this world.
We thank you for our own existence.
We ask only for your blessing and for your instruction.

Grandfather, Sacred One,
Put our feet on the holy path that leads to you,
and give us the strength and the will
to lead ourselves and our children
past the darkness we have entered.
Teach us to heal ourselves,
to heal each other and to heal the world.

Let us begin this very day,
this very hour,
the Great Healing to come.
Let us walk the Red Road in Peace.

During the purification of one's spirit inside a sweat lodge, all sense of race, color and religion is set aside. As in the Mother's womb and the Father's eyes, we are all the same, we are One. Each of us has the ability to sit with the Creator himself. Healing begins here for dis-ease, physical, emotional, directional and spiritual.

As the steam and temperature rises so do our senses. Messages and vision from the Spirit World are received through the group consciousness of the participants. One at a time, as a talking stick is passed, all the people inside get an opportunity to speak, to pray and to ask for guidance and forgiveness from the Creator and the people they have hurt. As they go around the circle, they tell who they are, where they are from, and what is their clan, so the Creator, the Spirit People, and all there can acknowledge them.

A sweat is typically four sessions, called rounds or endurances, each lasting about 30 to 45 minutes. The round ends when the leader announces the opening of the door.

The first round is for recognition of the spirit world which resides in the black West where the sun goes down, and the Creator may be asked for a "spirit guide" by some of the participants.

The second round is for recognition of courage, endurance, strength, cleanliness, and honesty, calling upon the power of the white North.

The recognition of knowledge and individual prayer symbolize the third round, praying to the direction of the daybreak star and the rising sun that we may gain wisdom, that we may follow the Red Road of the East in all our endeavors.

The yellow South stands for growth and healing. Thus, the last round centers on spiritual growth and healing. From our spirit guides from the west, from the courage, honesty and endurance of the north, from the knowledge and wisdom obtained from the east, we continue the circle to the south from which comes growth. It is from growth and maturing that healing comes.

At the completion of each round, the participants may emerge, if desired, to plunge into an adjacent pool or stream if one is available, or roll in the snow if the sweat is held in winter. In arid areas the participants roll in the sand to cool off and remove the sweat. Many participants maintain their places in the lodge until completion of the fourth round, while the cooled stones in the pit are removed and replaced with hot stones.

There are many different forms of sweat ceremonies in Indian country. Each people has their own tradition and this is especially clear when it comes to the sweat lodge ceremony. Many differences, depending on the people participating, occur during each ritual. For instance, many times rounds are held in complete silence and meditation as the participants feel the need. At other less intense times, a round may be devoted to story telling and recounting of the clan's creation stories. This is all part of spiritual and emotional healing and growth. Respect, sincerity, humility, the ability to listen and slow down are all key in the way you approach ceremony.

Who Sweats and Why?

The sweat lodge ceremony usually occurs before and after other major rituals like the "Vision Quest" for example. The aim of the ceremony is to purify one's mind, body, spirit and heart. It is also a "stand alone" ritual that it occurs whenever it is needed. Sweat lodge essentially translates into returning to the womb and the innocence of childhood. The lodge is dark, moist, hot and safe. The darkness relates to human ignorance before the spiritual world and so much of the physical world.

Traditionally it was only the men who would sweat. As time has passed and the lodge has evolved, other levels have been shown. The sweat lodge has given many gifts and shown itself as a way to not only cleanse, but to release anger, guilt and shame in a safe way, and to bring people together as ONE. These days women sweat also, provided they are not on their moon time or cleansing time already. Men can sweat separately and women can sweat separately, or there can be mixed sweats where men and women both participate. The Elder or Lodge Keeper running the ceremony according to their teachings will determine this.

Observing very strict protocols while in ceremony are key. Men and women must both practice modesty in their dress when they come to ceremony. Sweat lodge is not a fashion show, nor is it a place for vanity or to get a date. This is a sacred place to pray, meditate, learn and heal, and that must be the focus.

Unlike "New Age" sweats we do not go in naked when men and women are present. It has nothing to do with being uncomfortable with our bodies, as some would have us believe. Rather it is about not confusing spirituality with sexuality, and creating a safe place where all people feel comfortable. Men, women, boys and girls can all benefit from the lodges. Modesty is to be practiced in our dress, meaning that men wear shorts and bring a couple of towels to cover themselves and the women wear modest dress or long skirt with a loose T-shirt and a couple of towels.

We must always walk the Red Road in a way that honors others' views and teachings without sacrificing our own. All of these ways are good, none is better or worse than the other.

We need to unite all of the races and both of the sexes if we are going to be strong and the Sacred Hoop is to be mended. Every form of spirituality goes through change. This evolution reflects the changing needs of the community and of our environment. Anything that will not change risks isolating itself from the people. Water is life and changes everything, even the hardest stone. The change that is needed is turning towards each other instead of away from one another. If we ceremony together, we heal together, we laugh together, live and love together.

If you are invited to a sweat, the 24 hours previous to the sweat should be spent in cleansing, fasting, prayer and meditation on the intended purpose of the sweat, and you should be free from drugs and alcohol. For the greatest spiritual benefit, these conditions should be met.

If you would like to know more of what happens in a sweat lodge ceremony the answer is quite simple:
Attend one. It will be different than the last one you attended.

And so it is . . .
Hokh! Mitakuye o’yasin. Hecetu welo !! . . . All my relatives, it is indeed so..!!
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 20, 2010, 07:53:06 PM
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Perhaps the most important piece of etiquette is gratitude. It is important to be thankful to the purpose of the sweat, the people joining you in the lodge, and those helping to support the sweat lodge.
The going "gratitude" for James Arthur Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" retreat, which was supposed to "absolutely change your life," and of which this sweat experience was part of, was roughly $9000. I believe that sums up to a gross of well over half a million $$$.
Title: lol
Post by: Dr. Acula on June 20, 2010, 07:58:59 PM
Quote from: "try another castle"
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Oprah


Speaking of someone who needs to be in a sweat lodge.... for about a decade.

Problem is shell come back out talking about how great it was and then her advice will, once again, get a bunch of people killed.
:cheers:
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 20, 2010, 08:03:08 PM
Quote from: "Ursus"
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Perhaps the most important piece of etiquette is gratitude. It is important to be thankful to the purpose of the sweat, the people joining you in the lodge, and those helping to support the sweat lodge.
The going "gratitude" for James Arthur Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" retreat, which was supposed to "absolutely change your life," and of which this sweat experience was part of, was roughly $9000. I believe that sums up to a gross of well over half a million $$$.



Sitting Bull spoke:
I am a red man. If the Great Spirit had desired me to be a white man he would have made me so in the first place. He put in your heart certain wishes and plans, in my heart he put other and different desires. Each man is good in his sight. It is not necessary for Eagles to be Crows. We are poor... but we are free. No white man controls our footsteps. If we must die...we die defending our rights.


Danny spoke:
Maybe if the White Man/Woman stopped trying to capitalized on "Native Traditions" then we could truly find gratitude.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Dr. Acula on June 20, 2010, 08:06:56 PM
:jawdrop:
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Whooter on June 20, 2010, 09:50:00 PM
Quote from: "Ursus"
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Perhaps the most important piece of etiquette is gratitude. It is important to be thankful to the purpose of the sweat, the people joining you in the lodge, and those helping to support the sweat lodge.
The going "gratitude" for James Arthur Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" retreat, which was supposed to "absolutely change your life," and of which this sweat experience was part of, was roughly $9000. I believe that sums up to a gross of well over half a million $$$.

You need to consider the guys expenses before judging him.  Although they are paying $9,000 a piece, you need to consider that  the program lasts for several days at a time and they have to feed and lodge these 70 or so people.  So Mr. Ray is kept very busy unless he hires help, which doesn’t come cheap.  Say 10 people, to help out,   at $15/hour, 10 hours a day for 3 days.  That’s $4,500 he needs to pay his employees in salary for the 3 days.  Say $5 dollars per meal @ 3 meals per day.. that totals $3,100 (maybe $10/meal thats $6,200) for the 3 days.  The sweat lodge must cost a few hundred dollars a month to maintain.  He probably donates a few thousand to local charities every summer.. sponsors a kids baseball team, donations to the local police drive, picks up the tab for a big part of the local town mayors campaign expenses, which can be overwhelming for a small town mayor who has to work a second job to keep things going with 2 kids facing college.
So he grosses $630,000 for a 3 day weekend and pays out about $10,000 in expenses.  He doesn’t have to work every weekend during the year to make a decent living.

You really cant get too pissed at Mr. Ray because if you really think about it after a few years it must get pretty tiresome sitting in a hot sweaty tent with 70 people (weekend after weekend) trying to find themselves when you have an air conditioned villa in the Bahamas waiting for you on Tuesday night.  Who the hell would want to sit in a sweat lodge with these people once the checks cleared?



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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 20, 2010, 10:46:14 PM
Quote from: "Whooter"
Quote from: "Ursus"
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Perhaps the most important piece of etiquette is gratitude. It is important to be thankful to the purpose of the sweat, the people joining you in the lodge, and those helping to support the sweat lodge.
The going "gratitude" for James Arthur Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" retreat, which was supposed to "absolutely change your life," and of which this sweat experience was part of, was roughly $9000. I believe that sums up to a gross of well over half a million $$$.


Whooter wrote:
You need to consider the guys expenses before judging him.  Although they are paying $9,000 a piece, you need to consider that  the program lasts for several days at a time and they have to feed and lodge these 70 or so people.  So Mr. Ray is kept very busy unless he hires help, which doesn’t come cheap.  Say 10 people, to help out,   at $15/hour, 10 hours a day for 3 days.  That’s $4,500 he needs to pay his employees in salary for the 3 days.  Say $5 dollars per meal @ 3 meals per day.. that totals $3,100 (maybe $10/meal thats $6,200) for the 3 days.  The sweat lodge must cost a few hundred dollars a month to maintain.  He probably donates a few thousand to local charities every summer.. sponsors a kids baseball team, donations to the local police drive, picks up the tab for a big part of the local town mayors campaign expenses, which can be overwhelming for a small town mayor who has to work a second job to keep things going with 2 kids facing college.
So he grosses $630,000 for a 3 day weekend and pays out about $10,000 in expenses.  He doesn’t have to work every weekend during the year to make a decent living.

You really cant get too pissed at Mr. Ray because if you really think about it after a few years it must get pretty tiresome sitting in a hot sweaty tent with 70 people (weekend after weekend) trying to find themselves when you have an air conditioned villa in the Bahamas waiting for you on Tuesday night.  Who the hell would want to sit in a sweat lodge with these people once the checks cleared?


Dag'gum Whootie, smacks of American capitalism.
Anthony Robbins made a fortune in Bali and no I never attended.
Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco runs a 4 day workshop at $2500.00 a head, 200 people attend, 3 staff/owners administer and the other 30 are non-tendered past attendees. The net $500,000.00. Four days worth of work, 3 staff/owners split after expenses $425,000.00, thats $141,666.66 each. "They Get Paid".
Cherly, Joy and Eric actually run one of the best experiential workshops I've ever attended, though I did not have to pay.
I don't think I would give any company that runs experiential workshops $2500.00 for a weekend. Just sounds crazy to me.

danny
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 21, 2010, 01:08:04 AM
Quote from: "Whooter"
Quote from: "Ursus"
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Perhaps the most important piece of etiquette is gratitude. It is important to be thankful to the purpose of the sweat, the people joining you in the lodge, and those helping to support the sweat lodge.
The going "gratitude" for James Arthur Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" retreat, which was supposed to "absolutely change your life," and of which this sweat experience was part of, was roughly $9000. I believe that sums up to a gross of well over half a million $$$.
You need to consider the guys expenses before judging him.  Although they are paying $9,000 a piece, you need to consider that  the program lasts for several days at a time and they have to feed and lodge these 70 or so people.  So Mr. Ray is kept very busy unless he hires help, which doesn’t come cheap.  Say 10 people, to help out,   at $15/hour, 10 hours a day for 3 days.  That’s $4,500 he needs to pay his employees in salary for the 3 days.  Say $5 dollars per meal @ 3 meals per day.. that totals $3,100 (maybe $10/meal thats $6,200) for the 3 days.  The sweat lodge must cost a few hundred dollars a month to maintain.  He probably donates a few thousand to local charities every summer.. sponsors a kids baseball team, donations to the local police drive, picks up the tab for a big part of the local town mayors campaign expenses, which can be overwhelming for a small town mayor who has to work a second job to keep things going with 2 kids facing college.
So he grosses $630,000 for a 3 day weekend and pays out about $10,000 in expenses.  He doesn’t have to work every weekend during the year to make a decent living.

You really cant get too pissed at Mr. Ray because if you really think about it after a few years it must get pretty tiresome sitting in a hot sweaty tent with 70 people (weekend after weekend) trying to find themselves when you have an air conditioned villa in the Bahamas waiting for you on Tuesday night.  Who the hell would want to sit in a sweat lodge with these people once the checks cleared?
Lol. Always a question of finances for you, eh?

And... just going with your train of thought for the moment, and using your figures... wow. Somewhat over $600,000 minus $10,000 is ... still somewhat over $600,000. Huge difference, that, don't ya think?  :D

That's not even taking into consideration that participants were on a 36-hour fast prior to the sweat fest. I imagine the costs to feed the herd were significantly less during that time period.

But... I digress too much.

Has it ever occurred to you that the primary source of ire might... not be the money per se? That loss of life, and the callous disregard for that, cannot be measured in dollars and cents?
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 21, 2010, 01:14:53 AM
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Ursus wrote:
And... just going with your train of thought for the moment, and using your figures... wow. Somewhat over $600,000 minus $10,000 is ... still somewhat over $600,000. Huge difference, that, don't ya think?  :D

That's not even taking into consideration that participants were on a 36-hour fast prior to the sweat fest. I imagine the costs to feed the herd were significantly less during that time period.

But... I digress too much.

Has it ever occurred to you that the primary source of ire might... not be the money per se? That loss of life, and the callous disregard for that, cannot be measured in dollars and cents?



Oh, Ursus please....drama class is not until Tuesday.    :seg2:
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 21, 2010, 01:55:06 AM
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Dag'gum Whootie, smacks of American capitalism.
Anthony Robbins made a fortune in Bali and no I never attended.
Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco runs a 4 day workshop at $2500.00 a head, 200 people attend, 3 staff/owners administer and the other 30 are non-tendered past attendees. The net $500,000.00. Four days worth of work, 3 staff/owners split after expenses $425,000.00, thats $141,666.66 each. "They Get Paid".
Cherly, Joy and Eric actually run one of the best experiential workshops I've ever attended, though I did not have to pay.
I don't think I would give any company that runs experiential workshops $2500.00 for a weekend. Just sounds crazy to me.
Interesting. You're really into this "group experience" motif for self-improvement, eh? How come you "did not have to pay?" Were you a friend of theirs? Or, did you facilitate a portion of the weekend?
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 21, 2010, 01:56:10 AM
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Quote from: "Ursus"
And... just going with your train of thought for the moment, and using your figures... wow. Somewhat over $600,000 minus $10,000 is ... still somewhat over $600,000. Huge difference, that, don't ya think?  :D

That's not even taking into consideration that participants were on a 36-hour fast prior to the sweat fest. I imagine the costs to feed the herd were significantly less during that time period.

But... I digress too much.

Has it ever occurred to you that the primary source of ire might... not be the money per se? That loss of life, and the callous disregard for that, cannot be measured in dollars and cents?
Oh, Ursus please....drama class is not until Tuesday.    :seg2:
Ya really think so, Danny? Did you actually read the article? Some people died. A lot more of them got sick, and could have died. And all this happened over the course of a couple of hours.

What kind of slavish group-think was going on there, that people felt compelled to push themselves to the brink, and in a few tragic cases - over the brink, of multiple organ failure? And just how much of a "spiritual leader" was James Arthur Ray ... to not even comprehend the gravity of the situation ... before it was too late?
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Froderik on June 21, 2010, 09:44:55 AM
I'm tired of being tormented to hell, that's what I'm tired of.

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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Anne Bonney on June 21, 2010, 02:08:15 PM
Quote from: "Ursus"
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Dag'gum Whootie, smacks of American capitalism.
Anthony Robbins made a fortune in Bali and no I never attended.
Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco runs a 4 day workshop at $2500.00 a head, 200 people attend, 3 staff/owners administer and the other 30 are non-tendered past attendees. The net $500,000.00. Four days worth of work, 3 staff/owners split after expenses $425,000.00, thats $141,666.66 each. "They Get Paid".
Cherly, Joy and Eric actually run one of the best experiential workshops I've ever attended, though I did not have to pay.
I don't think I would give any company that runs experiential workshops $2500.00 for a weekend. Just sounds crazy to me.

Interesting. You're really into this "group experience" motif for self-improvement, eh? How come you "did not have to pay?" Were you a friend of theirs? Or, did you facilitate a portion of the weekend?


This explains soooo much.  :nods:
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 21, 2010, 08:20:33 PM
Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
Quote from: "Ursus"
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Dag'gum Whootie, smacks of American capitalism.
Anthony Robbins made a fortune in Bali and no I never attended.
Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco runs a 4 day workshop at $2500.00 a head, 200 people attend, 3 staff/owners administer and the other 30 are non-tendered past attendees. The net $500,000.00. Four days worth of work, 3 staff/owners split after expenses $425,000.00, thats $141,666.66 each. "They Get Paid".
Cherly, Joy and Eric actually run one of the best experiential workshops I've ever attended, though I did not have to pay.
I don't think I would give any company that runs experiential workshops $2500.00 for a weekend. Just sounds crazy to me.

Interesting. You're really into this "group experience" motif for self-improvement, eh? How come you "did not have to pay?" Were you a friend of theirs? Or, did you facilitate a portion of the weekend?


This explains soooo much.  :nods:

 
I know Anne it is horrible isn't it Hilter, Idi Amin, who became known as the 'Butcher of Uganda, Saddam Hussein ect.....play this right Ursus and yourself just may win the Fornits Award for "Best Dramatic Post".
I get what happened and it is sad, I also know that Roy was and is raking in the money along with thousands other in this country and millions world wide. Folks want experiences and they will pay handsomely.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 21, 2010, 08:25:04 PM
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
Quote from: "Ursus"
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Dag'gum Whootie, smacks of American capitalism.
Anthony Robbins made a fortune in Bali and no I never attended.
Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco runs a 4 day workshop at $2500.00 a head, 200 people attend, 3 staff/owners administer and the other 30 are non-tendered past attendees. The net $500,000.00. Four days worth of work, 3 staff/owners split after expenses $425,000.00, thats $141,666.66 each. "They Get Paid".
Cherly, Joy and Eric actually run one of the best experiential workshops I've ever attended, though I did not have to pay.
I don't think I would give any company that runs experiential workshops $2500.00 for a weekend. Just sounds crazy to me.
Interesting. You're really into this "group experience" motif for self-improvement, eh? How come you "did not have to pay?" Were you a friend of theirs? Or, did you facilitate a portion of the weekend?
This explains soooo much.  :nods:
I know Anne it is horrible isn't it Hilter, Idi Amin, who became known as the 'Butcher of Uganda, Saddam Hussein ect.....play this right Ursus and yourself just may win the Fornits Award for "Best Dramatic Post".
I get what happened and it is sad, I also know that Roy was and is raking in the money along with thousands other in this country and millions world wide. Folks want experiences and they will pay handsomely.
So... did you facilitate or work as a non-paid volunteer at "Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco?"

Btw, re. the LGAT facilitator whose handiwork started this thread: his name is James Arthur RAY. Wasn't sure whether that was a typo on your part, or whether you were referring to someone else... ?
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 21, 2010, 08:45:04 PM
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Ursus wrote:
So.. did you facilitate or work as a non-paid volunteer at "Teminos Inc. out of San Francisco?"
Danny wrote:
Ursus you still have not answered my question, "did you attend the Warrior Weekend Retreat".


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Ursus wrote:
Btw, re. the LGAT facilitator whose handiwork started this thread: his name is  James Arthur RAY . Wasn't sure whether that was a typo on your part, or whether you were referring to someone else...?

Danny wrote:
That was a typo on my part, thanks for the correction.
Title: 2 die, 19 overcome at Sedona retreat sweat lodge (#2)
Post by: Ursus on June 21, 2010, 11:58:28 PM
Here's another article with the same title, also the same publication date, but with a different author.

My guess is that the initial report was primarily taken from Associated Press (it's quite similar to the previous article), but that the update contained enough original material for a local reporter to put his byline on it.

The initial report follows the update directly below:

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The Daily Courier
10/9/2009 12:06:00 PM
2 die, 19 overcome at Sedona retreat sweat lodge (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73288)

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Investigators look over a "sweat lodge" on the grounds of Angel Valley Retreat Center near Sedona Friday where two people died and an estimated 19 others were taken to hospitals after being overcome while sitting in the sauna-like sweat lodge during a Sedona spiritual retreat, authorities said Friday.
Tom Tingle/The Associated Press


BY JON HUTCHINSON
Special to the Courier, Verde Valley News


UPDATE, 5:44 p.m.

SEDONA - Two people have died and a total of 19 received treatment at one of three medical centers Thursday night when participants collapsed after a New Age-type sweat lodge experience near Sedona.

As many as 68 reportedly crowded into a tarpaulin-covered dome at the remote retreat in Deer Pass Valley about 6.5 miles south of West Sedona along Oak Creek. The domed structure is about 30 feet long and about shoulder high, estimated Merry Shanks of the Verde Valley Fire District, the agency that commanded the rescue.

Angel Valley Retreat operators say they rented out the lodge to another group for the Thursday event. In addition to the 48 participants, three staff members and three members of the "Dream Team" were in the sweat lodge, where operators pour water over hot rocks to create steam in the enclosures.

James Arthur Ray played host for the event for a "Spiritual Warrior" phase of his "Journey of Power Experience" series of lectures presented across the country. Participants told Sheriff's Office investigators they paid $9,695 for the experience. Ray was in the shelter at the time of the illnesses. Investigators interviewed him, and he since has left the retreat center.

Shanks retreat participants said the "experience" had eight "rounds" over a two-hour period.

The Verde Valley Fire District initially responded about 5:19 p.m. to a reported emergency medical incident, but it quickly escalated as sweat lodge participants reportedly "coded."

"While we were there more and more people were getting sick," said Shanks, spokeswoman for the Verde Valley Fire District.

Eventually, three medical helicopters carried four victims to Flagstaff Medical Center. Ground ambulances responded from Sedona Fire, Montezuma-Rimrock Fire, Verde Valley Ambulance and Camp Verde Fire.

Doctors pronounced two of those taken to Verde Valley Medical Center dead shortly after arrival. They were a middle-aged man and a woman. Authorities are withholding their names pending notification of relatives.

A preliminary assessment by the Camp Verde Haz-Mat Team showed no hazardous materials. Camp Verde Fire Spokeswoman Barbara Rice notes that authorities conducted tests nearly an hour after the first call and when the structure had been ventilated. Crews found carbon monoxide traces in the "voids" between the covering blankets, and a lack of oxygen.

Five patients taken to Sedona Medical Center were treated and released. A total of 12 went to Verde Valley Medical Center. Seven were treated and released Thursday. Three more were admitted, treated and released Friday. Of four patients flown to Flagstaff Medical Center, four remained in critical condition Friday and one is in fair condition.

Robert Resendes, director of the Yavapai County Health Department, says the department inspects the kitchen at the retreat in another building, but does not have any authority over the sweat lodge.

Yavapai Sheriff's Office detectives arrived Thursday night to begin the unexplained death investigation. They interviewed principals in the activities and were to obtain search warrants to determine if evidence exists in other buildings at the retreat.

The 70-acre retreat lies at the end of a rough Forest Service Road on the east side of Oak Creek.

The retreat area has been closed to the press and public pending the investigation.

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INITIAL REPORT:

(AP) - Two people died and an estimated 19 others were taken to hospitals after being overcome while sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a Sedona retreat, authorities said Friday.

About 50 people were in a crudely constructed "sweatbox" next to an open sitting area at the 70-acre Angel Valley resort Thursday evening, Yavapai County sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said. The facility nestled in the forest about 20 minutes from Sedona provides spiritual retreats.

Many people began feeling ill after about two hours in the sweat box, emerging lightheaded and weak, said Verde Valley Fire District Chief Jerry Doerksen.

About 21 people were taken by ambulance or helicopter to area hospitals, where two were pronounced dead, D'Evelyn said. The dead were identified only as a man and woman, both middle-aged.

Three people taken to Flagstaff Medical Center were listed in critical condition Friday, and another was in fair condition. Three others who were admitted to a hospital in nearby Verde Valley recovered quickly; two of them were released overnight and one was reported in good condition Friday.

Sheriff's homicide investigators were working to determine what happened and whether any criminal actions might have been a factor in the incident, D'Evelyn said. They were at the resort Friday interviewing the retreat director, staff and guests.

D'Evelyn said authorities were checking into whether any of the attendees had preexisting medical conditions and the possibility that some of the people might have been fasting.

"There are a lot of issues that may have led up to these injuries and deaths," he said.

"It's not something you'd normally see at one of the resorts there," he added, "and it's unfortunate regardless of the cause."

Doerksen, whose fire district responded to emergency calls, said he sent a hazardous materials team into the sweat lodge to test for carbon monoxide, carbon dioxide and other contaminants.

"The test they ran didn't show anything out of the ordinary," he said.

Sedona is a resort town about 115 miles north of Phoenix famous for its red rocks. It is well-known as a center for the modern spiritual movement.

A woman who answered the phone at the resort Friday said its founders, Michael and Amayra Hamilton, would have no comment. The resort's Web site credits various vortexes, a creek and the surrounding vegetation as a way to transform, heal and nourish visitors.


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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Anne Bonney on June 22, 2010, 12:32:51 PM
Quote from: "DannyB II"

I know Anne it is horrible isn't it Hilter, Idi Amin, who became known as the 'Butcher of Uganda, Saddam Hussein ect.


Ummm..........what?

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....play this right Ursus and yourself just may win the Fornits Award for "Best Dramatic Post".

"yourself just may win"?  Do you read what you write?  Can you?

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I get what happened and it is sad, I also know that Roy was and is raking in the money along with thousands other in this country and millions world wide. Folks want experiences and they will pay handsomely.

And your point is........?  That this guy is making tons of cash scamming gullible people and occasionally kills a few?

How sad that someone has to go thru life constantly in search of a new guru to lead them.   Sheeple.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: SharonMcCarthy on June 22, 2010, 01:05:33 PM
:roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao: Danny the main drama momma of fornits history has the utter gall to even suggest others are drama winners..Now that is absurd. Then again I believe we all are aware of that. Daniel you obviously wore out your welcome go intrude another website.  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:
Title: Comments for "2 die, 19 overcome at ... sweat lodge" (#2)
Post by: Ursus on June 22, 2010, 06:24:26 PM
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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 22, 2010, 08:03:45 PM
Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
Quote from: "DannyB II"

I know Anne it is horrible isn't it Hilter, Idi Amin, who became known as the 'Butcher of Uganda, Saddam Hussein ect.


Ummm..........what?

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....play this right Ursus and yourself just may win the Fornits Award for "Best Dramatic Post".

"yourself just may win"?  Do you read what you write?  Can you?

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I get what happened and it is sad, I also know that Roy was and is raking in the money along with thousands other in this country and millions world wide. Folks want experiences and they will pay handsomely.

And your point is........?  That this guy is making tons of cash scamming gullible people and occasionally kills a few?

How sad that someone has to go thru life constantly in search of a new guru to lead them.   Sheeple.

No my whole point to this stupid thread is I "don't give a shit" what grown ups want to do, it is there choice. If they want to give Anthony Robbins $25,000.00 for a 4 hour motivational rehearsal, just before a big sale pitch, so be it, who gives a shit.
Like I said, ya bad things happen to good people, welcome to Mother Earth.
Yes I do listen to Guru's......Chiefs/Spiritual Healers/Psychiatrists/Psychotherapist/Dahlia llama/My significant other/Rabbi's/Priests/Buddists/ Hindu Spiritual Leaders/ My older Siblings/My Father ect.....of many different ethic groups, I do seek guidance from all over the world, I do explore the outer limits of my mind and soul.
I would rather be a sheeple then someone who is so lost they contemplate suicide everyday, live a unfulfilled life, who is alone and full of fear.
No Anne I am definitely not a follower, just someone that is not to big, I can't ask for help when I am stuck in life.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 23, 2010, 12:01:06 PM
Quote from: "DannyB II"
No my whole point to this stupid thread is I "don't give a shit" what grown ups want to do, it is there choice. If they want to give Anthony Robbins $25,000.00 for a 4 hour motivational rehearsal, just before a big sale pitch, so be it, who gives a shit.
Like I said, ya bad things happen to good people, welcome to Mother Earth.
To a certain degree, you have a point. James Arthur Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" experience is certainly an enterprise that involved adults, presumably fully informed, consenting ones...

People join cults and participate in LGATs all the time. Perhaps some folk might even say that most of these ventures are pretty benign and have little long-lasting effects on participants, save perhaps a dip in disposable income and a reduction in critical thinking ability for a period of time. Of course, should anything bad happen to someone during that time ... then they are not so "benign."

Like all organizations that recruit followers or public participation, cults and LGATs operate on the continuum of persuasion. On one end of it, ya have pursuits like advertising and marketing, on the other, physical restraint and brutality.

As it so happens, LGAT recruitment and indoctrination are very similar to what goes on in the TTI. There are common tricks of the trade, involving physiological and psychological stressors, which help put the participants or recipients in a more easily indoctrinated or "teachable" state. In fact, LGATs and programs in the TTI have some of the same influences in their evolution. Moreover, certain programs featured on fornits also specifically utilize LGATs, to a greater or lesser degree, as part of their indoctrination of TTI parents.

So... like it or not, LGATs are "of interest" to some of us who post here.  :D
Title: Dahlia Llama
Post by: Ursus on June 23, 2010, 12:09:14 PM
Quote from: "DannyB II"
Like I said, ya bad things happen to good people, welcome to Mother Earth.
Yes I do listen to Guru's......Chiefs/Spiritual Healers/Psychiatrists/Psychotherapist/
Dahlia llama/My significant other/Rabbi's/Priests/Buddists/ Hindu Spiritual Leaders/ My older Siblings/My Father ect.....of many different ethic groups, I do seek guidance from all over the world, I do explore the outer limits of my mind and soul.
I would rather be a sheeple then someone who is so lost they contemplate suicide everyday, live a unfulfilled life, who is alone and full of fear.
(http://http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/7/70/Dahlia_blanc_rose.jpg/120px-Dahlia_blanc_rose.jpg) + (http://http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/8/83/Lama_Portrait_06072007_01.jpg/120px-Lama_Portrait_06072007_01.jpg)

I'm happy to hear that you're grounding yourself, Danny, in the teachings of Mother Earth.





 ;)
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Anne Bonney on June 23, 2010, 02:34:02 PM
Quote from: "DannyB II"

No my whole point to this stupid thread is I "don't give a shit" what grown ups want to do, it is there choice. If they want to give Anthony Robbins $25,000.00 for a 4 hour motivational rehearsal, just before a big sale pitch, so be it, who gives a shit.

Sure, they're (contraction of "they" & "are") free to throw their (possessive) money away in any form they desire.  I'm free to point and laugh at them when they do.


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Like I said, ya bad things happen to good people, welcome to Mother Earth.

Yes, they do but being gullible makes it all that much easier for them to be preyed upon.

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Yes I do listen to Guru's......Chiefs/Spiritual Healers/Psychiatrists/Psychotherapist/Dahlia llama/My significant other/Rabbi's/Priests/Buddists/ Hindu Spiritual Leaders/ My older Siblings/My Father ect.....of many different ethic groups, I do seek guidance from all over the world, I do explore the outer limits of my mind and soul.

Good for you.  I do as well.  I just don't lose myself in the process by following them around like some slobbering puppy dog or becoming some cheerleader/recruiter for them.


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I would rather be a sheeple then someone who is so lost they contemplate suicide everyday, live a unfulfilled life, who is alone and full of fear.

And it's either one or the other, right?  No in between, right?  More black/white thinking that, I believe, comes from exposure to programs.  It's either right or wrong, their (possessive) way or the wrong way...no grey area, no in between.


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No Anne I am definitely not a follower,

 :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:

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just someone that is not to big, I can't ask for help when I am stuck in life.

Me neither, I just seek my help from reputable sources and I don't "turn my will over" to anyone.
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 23, 2010, 07:52:16 PM
Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
Quote from: "DannyB II"

No my whole point to this stupid thread is I "don't give a shit" what grown ups want to do, it is there choice. If they want to give Anthony Robbins $25,000.00 for a 4 hour motivational rehearsal, just before a big sale pitch, so be it, who gives a shit.

Sure, they're free to throw their money away in any form they desire.  I'm free to point and laugh at them when they do.


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Like I said, ya bad things happen to good people, welcome to Mother Earth.

Yes, they do but being gullible makes it all that much easier for them to be preyed upon.

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Yes I do listen to Guru's......Chiefs/Spiritual Healers/Psychiatrists/Psychotherapist/Dahlia llama/My significant other/Rabbi's/Priests/Buddists/ Hindu Spiritual Leaders/ My older Siblings/My Father ect.....of many different ethic groups, I do seek guidance from all over the world, I do explore the outer limits of my mind and soul.

Good for you.  I do as well.  I just don't lose myself in the process by following them around like some slobbering puppy dog or becoming some cheerleader/recruiter for them.


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I would rather be a sheeple then someone who is so lost they contemplate suicide everyday, live a unfulfilled life, who is alone and full of fear.

And it's either one or the other, right?  No in between, right?  More black/white thinking that, I believe, comes from exposure to programs.  It's either right or wrong, their (possessive) way or the wrong way...no grey area, no in between.


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No Anne I am definitely not a follower,

 :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:

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just someone that is not to big, I can't ask for help when I am stuck in life.

Me neither, I just seek my help from reputable sources and I don't "turn my will over" to anyone.



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Anne,
Can we have a mature debate here without insulting one another, for having opposing views.
Well I am willing to try, so here goes.
Anne if you only knew who I am, believe me you would never confuse me with someone who follows or has black and white thinking.
In business I do have a tendency of seeing thing as black or red, there is no other way and the purple area can get you in a lot of trouble. So I guess this leaks out of my personality at times.
Personally with my family, friends and self I have a laid back approach for the most part.
I am on the periphery of the programs, workshops and others interests I have in regards to helping folks. I do not push, endorse or recruit anyone to do anything. I help where I can.
I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs, I know over time the experience will have more clarity for them, as it has for me. This doesn't always mean that folks will condemn their treatment centers even after 30 years. I don't believe they are suffering from "Stockholm Syndrome" or anything else, they just were not scarred as others. Ya know, I really don't know why so many folks I know from Elan are not angry, scarred, pissed off or whatever but there not and they are not suffering either.
This also includes Daytop, Marathon House, Phoenix House, Straight, Synanon (yes I know folks from Synanon, actually introduced by my brother.) The Third Nail and various other programs. There are literally thousands upon thousands that are not walking around wounded and helpless.    
Anne I think I know one thing, yourself and I had many of the same experiences with our Treatment Centers, I know this from talking extensively with folks from Georgia Straight and from making friends with Straights from Florida. So all this bickering I do with you is nothing more then bullshit because I agree with most of your experiences and opinions concerning programs of our past. I actually get where you are coming from, I just don't always agree with your opinions.  
Last thing, "I don't turn my will over to anyone either". That's why I have a God. I was introduced to that spiritual lesson from, Old Pastor Herman Hanson, Pastor of the Carolina Free Baptist Church, Carolina R.I. A village of Charlestown R.I. Now, I am not a Baptist and never was (more Catholic growing up) but I do believe there is a God. A Just God who is looking over all of us, wondering when the hell were going to wake up and realize no version of God is better then the next.
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Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: Ursus on June 24, 2010, 12:24:16 AM
Quote from: "DannyB II's program propaganda team"
Anne,
Can we have a mature debate here without insulting one another, for having opposing views.
Well I am willing to try, so here goes.
Anne if you only knew who I am, believe me you would never confuse me with someone who follows or has black and white thinking.
In business I do have a tendency of seeing thing as black or red, there is no other way and the purple area can get you in a lot of trouble. So I guess this leaks out of my personality at times.
Personally with my family, friends and self I have a laid back approach for the most part.
I am on the periphery of the programs, workshops and others interests I have in regards to helping folks. I do not push, endorse or recruit anyone to do anything. I help where I can.
I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs, I know over time the experience will have more clarity for them, as it has for me. This doesn't always mean that folks will condemn their treatment centers even after 30 years. I don't believe they are suffering from "Stockholm Syndrome" or anything else, they just were not scarred as others. Ya know, I really don't know why so many folks I know from Elan are not angry, scarred, pissed off or whatever but there not and they are not suffering either.
This also includes Daytop, Marathon House, Phoenix House, Straight, Synanon (yes I know folks from Synanon, actually introduced by my brother.) The Third Nail and various other programs. There are literally thousands upon thousands that are not walking around wounded and helpless.    
Anne I think I know one thing, yourself and I had many of the same experiences with our Treatment Centers, I know this from talking extensively with folks from Georgia Straight and from making friends with Straights from Florida. So all this bickering I do with you is nothing more then bullshit because I agree with most of your experiences and opinions concerning programs of our past. I actually get where you are coming from, I just don't always agree with your opinions.  
Last thing, "I don't turn my will over to anyone either". That's why I have a God. I was introduced to that spiritual lesson from, Old Pastor Herman Hanson, Pastor of the Carolina Free Baptist Church, Carolina R.I. A village of Charlestown R.I. Now, I am not a Baptist and never was (more Catholic growing up) but I do believe there is a God. A Just God who is looking over all of us, wondering when the hell were going to wake up and realize no version of God is better then the next.
Lol, like anyone who's read more than a few of your posts actually believes that is the real Danny speaking there!  :rofl:


"I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs..."[/list]
Ya really think so? That you're in a position to "allow" someone to have their own experience?
Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
Post by: DannyB II on June 24, 2010, 12:55:03 AM
Quote from: "Ursus"
Quote from: "DannyB II's program propaganda team"
Anne,
Can we have a mature debate here without insulting one another, for having opposing views.
Well I am willing to try, so here goes.
Anne if you only knew who I am, believe me you would never confuse me with someone who follows or has black and white thinking.
In business I do have a tendency of seeing thing as black or red, there is no other way and the purple area can get you in a lot of trouble. So I guess this leaks out of my personality at times.
Personally with my family, friends and self I have a laid back approach for the most part.
I am on the periphery of the programs, workshops and others interests I have in regards to helping folks. I do not push, endorse or recruit anyone to do anything. I help where I can.
I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs, I know over time the experience will have more clarity for them, as it has for me. This doesn't always mean that folks will condemn their treatment centers even after 30 years. I don't believe they are suffering from "Stockholm Syndrome" or anything else, they just were not scarred as others. Ya know, I really don't know why so many folks I know from Elan are not angry, scarred, pissed off or whatever but there not and they are not suffering either.
This also includes Daytop, Marathon House, Phoenix House, Straight, Synanon (yes I know folks from Synanon, actually introduced by my brother.) The Third Nail and various other programs. There are literally thousands upon thousands that are not walking around wounded and helpless.    
Anne I think I know one thing, yourself and I had many of the same experiences with our Treatment Centers, I know this from talking extensively with folks from Georgia Straight and from making friends with Straights from Florida. So all this bickering I do with you is nothing more then bullshit because I agree with most of your experiences and opinions concerning programs of our past. I actually get where you are coming from, I just don't always agree with your opinions.  
Last thing, "I don't turn my will over to anyone either". That's why I have a God. I was introduced to that spiritual lesson from, Old Pastor Herman Hanson, Pastor of the Carolina Free Baptist Church, Carolina R.I. A village of Charlestown R.I. Now, I am not a Baptist and never was (more Catholic growing up) but I do believe there is a God. A Just God who is looking over all of us, wondering when the hell were going to wake up and realize no version of God is better then the next.
Lol, like anyone who's read more than a few of your posts actually believes that is the real Danny speaking there!  :rofl:


    "I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs..."[/list]
    Ya really think so? That you're in a position to "allow" someone to have their own experience?

    Ursus please don't hurt yourself making your point. Yes the above post was all me.
    Somehow I knew that you would not be able to comprehend those few words. Let me see if I can help the "uber wordsmith".
    Allow, in the context of my meaning is, to let someone voluntarily have a experience without any control on my part.  
    Jeesh I almost forgot, nite  nite...
    Oh Ursus make sure you email Anne, to discredit my post. I know you just could not let that post slide by. MY!! MY!!
    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
    Post by: Paul St. John on June 24, 2010, 01:02:36 AM
    see ya tomorrow, Danny...

    Paul
    Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
    Post by: Joel on June 24, 2010, 01:11:27 AM
    Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
    Post by: Ursus on June 24, 2010, 01:22:57 AM
    Quote from: "DannyB II"
    Quote from: "Ursus"
    Quote from: "DannyB II's program propaganda team"
    Anne,
    Can we have a mature debate here without insulting one another, for having opposing views.
    Well I am willing to try, so here goes.
    Anne if you only knew who I am, believe me you would never confuse me with someone who follows or has black and white thinking.
    In business I do have a tendency of seeing thing as black or red, there is no other way and the purple area can get you in a lot of trouble. So I guess this leaks out of my personality at times.
    Personally with my family, friends and self I have a laid back approach for the most part.
    I am on the periphery of the programs, workshops and others interests I have in regards to helping folks. I do not push, endorse or recruit anyone to do anything. I help where I can.
    I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs, I know over time the experience will have more clarity for them, as it has for me. This doesn't always mean that folks will condemn their treatment centers even after 30 years. I don't believe they are suffering from "Stockholm Syndrome" or anything else, they just were not scarred as others. Ya know, I really don't know why so many folks I know from Elan are not angry, scarred, pissed off or whatever but there not and they are not suffering either.
    This also includes Daytop, Marathon House, Phoenix House, Straight, Synanon (yes I know folks from Synanon, actually introduced by my brother.) The Third Nail and various other programs. There are literally thousands upon thousands that are not walking around wounded and helpless.    
    Anne I think I know one thing, yourself and I had many of the same experiences with our Treatment Centers, I know this from talking extensively with folks from Georgia Straight and from making friends with Straights from Florida. So all this bickering I do with you is nothing more then bullshit because I agree with most of your experiences and opinions concerning programs of our past. I actually get where you are coming from, I just don't always agree with your opinions.  
    Last thing, "I don't turn my will over to anyone either". That's why I have a God. I was introduced to that spiritual lesson from, Old Pastor Herman Hanson, Pastor of the Carolina Free Baptist Church, Carolina R.I. A village of Charlestown R.I. Now, I am not a Baptist and never was (more Catholic growing up) but I do believe there is a God. A Just God who is looking over all of us, wondering when the hell were going to wake up and realize no version of God is better then the next.
    Lol, like anyone who's read more than a few of your posts actually believes that is the real Danny speaking there!  :rofl:


      "I allow most folks to have whatever experience they have had in their respective programs..."[/list]
      Ya really think so? That you're in a position to "allow" someone to have their own experience?
      Ursus please don't hurt yourself making your point. Yes the above post was all me.
      Somehow I knew that you would not be able to comprehend those few words. Let me see if I can help the "uber wordsmith".
      Allow, in the context of my meaning is, to let someone voluntarily have a experience without any control on my part.  
      Jeesh I almost forgot, nite  nite...
      Oh Ursus make sure you email Anne, to discredit my post. I know you just could not let that post slide by. MY!! MY!!
      The point I was making DannyBoy, had to do with concepts and context, not words. Perhaps tomorrow morning, when you've had a good night's sleep, ya might give it another try for the good ol' mothership, eh?  :D
      Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
      Post by: Anne Bonney on June 24, 2010, 02:33:19 PM
      Quote from: "DannyB II"
      Oh Ursus make sure you email Anne, to discredit my post. I know you just could not let that post slide by. MY!! MY!!


      He doesn't need to.  You discredit yourself well enough.
      Title: No charges yet in sweat lodge deaths
      Post by: Ursus on June 24, 2010, 05:25:22 PM
      Some more details of the previous days' events are noted in this next Daily Courier article:

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      The Daily Courier
      10/10/2009 1:25:00 PM
      No charges yet in sweat lodge deaths (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&SubSectionID=1&ArticleID=73316)

      (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73316a.jpg)
      Lt. David Rhodes of the criminal investigation bureau of the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office speaks to the media during a press conference Saturday at the Yavapai County Board of Supervisors Room in Prescott. Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh, at left, also provided information.
      Lisa Irish/The Daily Courier


      (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73316b.jpg)
      Investigators look over a "sweat lodge" on the grounds of Angel Valley Retreat Center, near Sedona. Two people died and an estimated 19 others were taken to hospitals after being overcome while sitting in the sauna-like sweat lodge during a Sedona spiritual retreat.
      Tom Tingle/The Arizona Republic, AP


      By Lisa Irish · The Daily Courier

      Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh identified two people who died after participating in a sweat lodge ceremony that was the culmination of a "Spiritual Warrior" conference run by James Arthur Ray at the Angel Valley Retreat Center on Sedona Thursday.

      James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee, Wis., and Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., died at Verde Valley Medical Center at 6:36 p.m. Thursday, Waugh said at a Saturday press conference at the Yavapai County Board of Supervisors Room in Prescott.

      More than 20 participants were transported by ambulance, air and private vehicles for care at the Verde Valley Medical Center, Flagstaff Medical Center and the Sedona Medical Center. Three patients remain in fair condition and one is in critical condition at the Flagstaff Medical Center, said Starla Addair-Collins, public relations specialist at Flagstaff Medical Center.

      "Right now there are no criminal charges pending, and we do not know at this point if there ever will be," Lt. David Rhodes of the YCSO criminal investigation bureau said at the press conference. "We haven't encountered anything like this before."

      Waugh also said Ray, who led the sweat lodge ceremony, refused to talk to investigators on site and returned to California.

      "We will at some point in time schedule another interview with him," Waugh said.

      "I do not know why he chose not to speak with us," Rhodes added. "Everyone else we have spoken with has been very forthcoming with information."

      The sweat lodge ceremony Thursday afternoon was the culmination of a four-day retreat in the Sedona area, Waugh said. Ray had hosted events at the resort, including sweat lodges, before, and investigators are following up to see if any similar incidents had happened at previous events. Rhodes said the owners of the resort, the participants and Ray's staff on site are all part of the investigation.

      "We are investigating it, at this point in time, as a death investigation," Waugh said. "If there are items that we are looking at that will turn this into a criminal investigation, I will not share it at this time."

      A 911 call at 5 p.m. Thursday reported two people at the sweat dome had no pulse. When YCSO officers responded at 5:42 p.m., they found people in medical distress, complaining of illness, and two who were unresponsive and in critical condition.

      Investigators interviewed 65 people of the 71 on site from the time they arrived until 3 a.m. Friday. Seven people were paid staff, including Ray, seven were volunteers, and 50 people were paying participants, Waugh said.

      "We continue monitoring the condition of participants," Waugh said.

      "We believe 50 to 60 people were in the lodge at the time that these deaths occurred," Waugh said.

      Spiritual Warrior program participants attended lectures from Sunday to Tuesday, Waugh said. At 10 p.m. Tuesday, participants began a vision quest in surrounding canyons. The vision quest was a 36-hour period of fasting and spiritual exercises, Waugh said. Thursday morning, vision quest ended at daybreak and participants ate a buffet breakfast of eggs, fruit and cereal. Waugh said. Participants were also encouraged to drink water, he said. From midmorning until 3 p.m., participants attended lectures and seminars.

      At 3 p.m., participants began the sweat lodge ceremony, with each sweat lodge session lasting from 15 to 30 minutes. Some participants said the original plan was for eight sweat lodge experiences, Waugh said.

      In one round, Ray led the participants in various spiritual exercises, Waugh said. Many of the participants were from out of state, and one is from Canada, Rhodes said.

      According to investigators, the first round began when 12 cantaloupe-sized rocks were brought into the lodge, water was put on the rocks to create steam and sandalwood was thrown on the rocks to give the effect of incense. At the end of each round, the door flap was raised and new rocks were brought in. Investigators found 58 rocks in the pit when they arrived at the lodge.

      After the fourth round, two participants were dragged to the door by people in the lodge, Waugh said.

      Ray's staff built the lodge, a temporary structure, with a frame of juniper and oak and covered it with many layers of blankets, comforters and tarps. The lodge is 415 square feet, just 53 inches high in the center, and 30 inches high on the edges. Fifty to 60 people were in the lodge during the ceremony, Waugh said.

      "So literally no one could stand up in the lodge," Waugh said.

      "We're estimating 50 to 65 people in an area 415 square feet - that is very tight quarters," Rhodes said. "The only ventilation was the door, the one entrance, when it was open."

      Autopsies were conducted by the medical examiner of Yavapai County on Friday and results and toxicology are pending. Waugh said determining the actual cause of death may take up to 10 days.

      Samples were taken from the fabric covering the roof, firewood, and other items inside and around the lodge to aid in the investigation.

      Shore is survived by his wife and three children, a brother in Chicago, and other family members. Brown is survived by her parents, Waugh said.


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      Title: Re: No charges yet in sweat lodge deaths
      Post by: DannyB II on June 24, 2010, 05:43:45 PM
      Quote from: "Ursus"
      Some more details of the previous days' events are noted in this next Daily Courier article:

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       The Daily Courier
       10/10/2009 1:25:00 PM
       No charges yet in sweat lodge deaths and "Right now there are no criminal charges pending, and we do not know at this point if there ever will be," Lt. David Rhodes of the YCSO criminal investigation bureau said at the press conference. "We haven't encountered anything like this before."

      Danny wrote
      Made some necessary corrections to the headline of this post, so we would have a more balanced headline.


      (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73316a.jpg)
      Lt. David Rhodes of the criminal investigation bureau of the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office speaks to the media during a press conference Saturday at the Yavapai County Board of Supervisors Room in Prescott. Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh, at left, also provided information.
      Lisa Irish/The Daily Courier


      (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73316b.jpg)
      Investigators look over a "sweat lodge" on the grounds of Angel Valley Retreat Center, near Sedona. Two people died and an estimated 19 others were taken to hospitals after being overcome while sitting in the sauna-like sweat lodge during a Sedona spiritual retreat.
      Tom Tingle/The Arizona Republic, AP


      By Lisa Irish · The Daily Courier

      Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh identified two people who died after participating in a sweat lodge ceremony that was the culmination of a "Spiritual Warrior" conference run by James Arthur Ray at the Angel Valley Retreat Center on Sedona Thursday.

      James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee, Wis., and Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., died at Verde Valley Medical Center at 6:36 p.m. Thursday, Waugh said at a Saturday press conference at the Yavapai County Board of Supervisors Room in Prescott.

      More than 20 participants were transported by ambulance, air and private vehicles for care at the Verde Valley Medical Center, Flagstaff Medical Center and the Sedona Medical Center. Three patients remain in fair condition and one is in critical condition at the Flagstaff Medical Center, said Starla Addair-Collins, public relations specialist at Flagstaff Medical Center.

      "Right now there are no criminal charges pending, and we do not know at this point if there ever will be," Lt. David Rhodes of the YCSO criminal investigation bureau said at the press conference. "We haven't encountered anything like this before."

      Waugh also said Ray, who led the sweat lodge ceremony, refused to talk to investigators on site and returned to California.

      "We will at some point in time schedule another interview with him," Waugh said.

      "I do not know why he chose not to speak with us," Rhodes added. "Everyone else we have spoken with has been very forthcoming with information."

      The sweat lodge ceremony Thursday afternoon was the culmination of a four-day retreat in the Sedona area, Waugh said. Ray had hosted events at the resort, including sweat lodges, before, and investigators are following up to see if any similar incidents had happened at previous events. Rhodes said the owners of the resort, the participants and Ray's staff on site are all part of the investigation.

      "We are investigating it, at this point in time, as a death investigation," Waugh said. "If there are items that we are looking at that will turn this into a criminal investigation, I will not share it at this time."

      A 911 call at 5 p.m. Thursday reported two people at the sweat dome had no pulse. When YCSO officers responded at 5:42 p.m., they found people in medical distress, complaining of illness, and two who were unresponsive and in critical condition.

      Investigators interviewed 65 people of the 71 on site from the time they arrived until 3 a.m. Friday. Seven people were paid staff, including Ray, seven were volunteers, and 50 people were paying participants, Waugh said.

      "We continue monitoring the condition of participants," Waugh said.

      "We believe 50 to 60 people were in the lodge at the time that these deaths occurred," Waugh said.

      Spiritual Warrior program participants attended lectures from Sunday to Tuesday, Waugh said. At 10 p.m. Tuesday, participants began a vision quest in surrounding canyons. The vision quest was a 36-hour period of fasting and spiritual exercises, Waugh said. Thursday morning, vision quest ended at daybreak and participants ate a buffet breakfast of eggs, fruit and cereal. Waugh said. Participants were also encouraged to drink water, he said. From midmorning until 3 p.m., participants attended lectures and seminars.

      At 3 p.m., participants began the sweat lodge ceremony, with each sweat lodge session lasting from 15 to 30 minutes. Some participants said the original plan was for eight sweat lodge experiences, Waugh said.

      In one round, Ray led the participants in various spiritual exercises, Waugh said. Many of the participants were from out of state, and one is from Canada, Rhodes said.

      According to investigators, the first round began when 12 cantaloupe-sized rocks were brought into the lodge, water was put on the rocks to create steam and sandalwood was thrown on the rocks to give the effect of incense. At the end of each round, the door flap was raised and new rocks were brought in. Investigators found 58 rocks in the pit when they arrived at the lodge.

      After the fourth round, two participants were dragged to the door by people in the lodge, Waugh said.

      Ray's staff built the lodge, a temporary structure, with a frame of juniper and oak and covered it with many layers of blankets, comforters and tarps. The lodge is 415 square feet, just 53 inches high in the center, and 30 inches high on the edges. Fifty to 60 people were in the lodge during the ceremony, Waugh said.

      "So literally no one could stand up in the lodge," Waugh said.

      "We're estimating 50 to 65 people in an area 415 square feet - that is very tight quarters," Rhodes said. "The only ventilation was the door, the one entrance, when it was open."

      Autopsies were conducted by the medical examiner of Yavapai County on Friday and results and toxicology are pending. Waugh said determining the actual cause of death may take up to 10 days.

      Samples were taken from the fabric covering the roof, firewood, and other items inside and around the lodge to aid in the investigation.

      Shore is survived by his wife and three children, a brother in Chicago, and other family members. Brown is survived by her parents, Waugh said.


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      Title: Re: No charges yet in sweat lodge deaths
      Post by: Ursus on June 25, 2010, 11:00:45 AM
      Quote from: "DannyB II"
      Quote
      The Daily Courier
      10/10/2009 1:25:00 PM
      No charges yet in sweat lodge deaths and "Right now there are no criminal charges pending, and we do not know at this point if there ever will be," Lt. David Rhodes of the YCSO criminal investigation bureau said at the press conference. "We haven't encountered anything like this before." (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&SubSectionID=1&ArticleID=73316)
      Danny wrote
      Made some necessary corrections to the headline of this post, so we would have a more balanced headline.
      Ya really think so?
      Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
      Post by: Anne Bonney on June 25, 2010, 11:10:21 AM
      I couldn't even see that he changed anything.  Then again, I have difficulty reading his posts.  Especially when he quotes (or attempts to quote) somebody else.
      Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
      Post by: Ursus on June 25, 2010, 11:21:03 AM
      Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
      I couldn't even see that he changed anything.  Then again, I have difficulty reading his posts.  Especially when he quotes (or attempts to quote) somebody else.
      He took a couple of sentences from the text that there were no criminal charges pending, and that they didn't know if there ever would be any, and inserted that into the article's headline. Does Danny believe that James Ray shouldn't be held the least bit responsible in any way, shape, or form?

      James Ray, fwiw, wasn't around anyway. He hightailed it back to California:

      Waugh also said Ray, who led the sweat lodge ceremony, refused to talk to investigators on site and returned to California.

      "We will at some point in time schedule another interview with him," Waugh said.

      "I do not know why he chose not to speak with us," Rhodes added. "Everyone else we have spoken with has been very forthcoming with information."
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      Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
      Post by: DannyB II on June 26, 2010, 06:29:38 PM
      Quote from: "Ursus"
      Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
      I couldn't even see that he changed anything.  Then again, I have difficulty reading his posts.  Especially when he quotes (or attempts to quote) somebody else.
      He took a couple of sentences from the text that there were no criminal charges pending, and that they didn't know if there ever would be any, and inserted that into the article's headline.


      Does Danny believe that James Ray shouldn't be held the least bit responsible in any way, shape, or form?


      No I don't obviously, Ursus. I'm just not sure what responsibility to lay at his feet.
      I have read Anne and your opinion's, I agree there was malfeasance but what. I am acting naive on purpose because I just don't have enough info. The Police report said, James was not talking so once again, we have to wait.    

      James Ray, fwiw, wasn't around anyway. He hightailed it back to California:

        Waugh also said Ray, who led the sweat lodge ceremony, refused to talk to investigators on site and returned to California.

        "We will at some point in time schedule another interview with him," Waugh said.

        "I do not know why he chose not to speak with us," Rhodes added. "Everyone else we have spoken with has been very forthcoming with information."
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        Title: The dirty secret
        Post by: Inculcated on June 30, 2010, 03:16:31 AM
        By the accounts of his own staff that guru-warrior James Ray stood by without rendering aid as participants were suffering and dying.

        I watched the Primetime on that tonight. It was intensely disturbing.It was so ugly to see the ad hoc collection of all too familiar elements that were incorporated into those *teachings*.“Play full on” was their dissembling stop thought of the act as if variety. On it went from the (literal) haircut initiation to holotropic breath work and on to inane psychodramas (which resulted in a jump to suicide from a previous group and by the last had James Ray robed in the role of a mute god while participants simulated seppuku/hara-kiri pantomimed sacrifices) + circular-logic and an amalgam of metphyspsychological hocus-pocus. What those people went through was a panoply of more of the same, and it’s just so awful. It was a Grand-Guignol, all culminating into the rebirthing experience that resulted in such senseless deaths.

        Best line from that profile was: "The Laws of Attraction are very different from the laws of the State of Arizona."

        Reportedly, he's had some difficulty actualizing his bail provisions and the self-styled guru-warrior's secret included a stash of steroids.
        Title: Two die at 'sweat lodge' retreat led by author
        Post by: Ursus on June 30, 2010, 11:11:58 AM
        This article from the UK went into more detail re. the physical suffering that folks endured in the name of spiritual warrioring: "burns, dehydration, respiratory arrest, kidney failure or elevated body temperature."

        -------------- • -------------- • --------------

        The Sunday Times
        October 11, 2009
        Two die at 'sweat lodge' retreat led by author (http://http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/world/us_and_americas/article6869857.ece)

        Times Online

        A self-help author who featured in the movie version of The Secret is at the centre of a police investigation into the deaths of two people at a "sweat lodge" that was meant to provide spiritual cleansing.

        Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said his detectives were focusing on James Arthur Ray and his staff as they try to determine if there was any criminal negligence.

        James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee and Kirby Brown, 38, of New York died after being overcome during a ceremony in which people were crowded inside a sauna-like tent. Nineteen other people were taken to area hospitals, suffering from burns, dehydration, respiratory arrest, kidney failure or elevated body temperature. Most were soon released, but one remained in critical condition on Saturday.

        Authorities have not determined what caused the deaths and illnesses, but ruled out carbon monoxide poisoning.

        "We will continue this investigation down every road that is possible to find out if there is culpability on anybody relative to the deaths of these individuals," Sheriff Waugh said.

        He said it could be three to four weeks before they knew if criminal charges would be filed. Sherriff Waugh said Mr Ray refused to speak with authorities and has since left the state.

        The resort is owned by Michael and Amayra Hamilton, who have declined to comment.

        Often used in Native American ceremonies, a sweat lodge, similar to a sauna, is an enclosed space where water is poured on heated rocks. The retreat lodge was only four and a half feet tall at its highest point, Mr Waugh said.

        Mr Ray rented the Angel Valley Retreat Centre just outside Sedona to hold a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that promised to "absolutely change your life". Participants, whose ages ranged from 30 to the 60s, paid between $9,000 and $10,000 to attend this year's event.

        Between 55 and 65 people were crowded into the 38.5-square-metre sweat lodge during a two-hour period that consisted of eight 15-minute rounds and various spiritual exercises led by Mr Ray, Sheriff Waugh said. After each round, the flap to the crudely constructed structure was raised to allow more heated rocks to be brought inside.

        Authorities said participants were highly encouraged but not forced to remain in the sweat lodge for the full two hours.

        The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet on Thursday morning. After various seminars, they entered the sweat lodge lightly dressed at 3pm.

        Two hours later, a woman dialled the emergency dispatcher to say that two people, whom Sherriff Waugh identified as Ms Brown and Mr Shore, did not have a pulse and weren't breathing.

        A nurse hired by Mr Ray was directing rescue efforts including cardiopulmonary resuscitation when emergency crews arrived, Sherriff Waugh said. Mr Shore and Ms Brown were pronounced dead when they arrived at a hospital.

        Autopsies were conducted on Friday, but the results are pending additional tests.

        Sheriff's Lt David Rhodes said authorities are looking into whether there was a lag time between the first signs of medical distress and the emergency call.

        Mr Ray, who was in the sweat lodge for the ceremony, has been holding retreats there since 2003. He has appeared on Oprah Winfrey's television show and wrote a best-selling book, Harmonic Wealth: The Secret of Attracting the Life You Want.

        In his most recent posting on his Twitter account Mr Ray said he was "shocked and saddened" by the tragedy.

        "My deep heartfelt condolences to family and friends of those who lost their lives," he wrote. "I am spending the weekend in prayer and meditation for all involved in this difficult time; and I ask you to join me in doing the same."


        © Times Newspapers Ltd 2010 Registered in England No. 894646 Registered office: 1 Virginia Street, London, E98 1XY
        Title: Re: The dirty secret
        Post by: DannyB II on June 30, 2010, 04:02:16 PM
        Quote from: "Inculcated"
        By the accounts of his own staff that guru-warrior James Ray stood by without rendering aid as participants were suffering and dying.

        I watched the Primetime on that tonight. It was intensely disturbing.It was so ugly to see the ad hoc collection of all too familiar elements that were incorporated into those *teachings*.“Play full on” was their dissembling stop thought of the act as if variety. On it went from the (literal) haircut initiation to  breath work

        holotropic:
        Holotropic Breathwork is a form of breathwork  developed by Stanislav Grof, M.D., Ph.D. and Christina Grof, that allows access to nonordinary states of consciousness. Holotropic breathing has some similarities to Rebirthing-Breathwork, but was developed independently. Holotropic Breathwork is an approach to self-exploration and healing that integrates insights from modern consciousness research, anthropology, various depth psychologies, transpersonal psychology, Eastern spiritual practices, and mystical traditions of the world. The name Holotropic means "moving toward wholeness" (from the Greek "holos"=whole and "trepein"=moving in the direction of something).

        The method comprises five elements: group process, intensified breathing (so-called hyperventilation), evocative music, focused body work, and expressive drawing. The method's general effect is a non-specific amplification of a person's psychic process, which facilitates the psyche's natural capacity for healing.

        Holotropic Breathwork is usually done in groups, although individual sessions are done. Within the groups, people work in pairs and alternate in the roles of experiencer ("breather") and "sitter". The sitter's primary responsibility is to focus compassionate attention on the breather. Secondarily, the sitter is available to assist the breather, but not to interfere or interrupt the process. The same is true for trained facilitators, who are available as helpers if necessary.

        Originally developed as an adjunct to psychedelic psychotherapy, Holotropic Breathwork is an autonomous psychotherapeutic practice which, nevertheless, retains many of the clinical precautionary measures that were implemented in the medical use of LSD.  




        and on to inane psychodramas (which resulted in a jump to suicide from a previous group and by the last had James Ray robed in the role of a mute god while participants simulated seppuku/hara-kiri pantomimed sacrifices) + circular-logic and an amalgam of


        metphyspsychological: is this misspelled, if not what dictionary or book can I find it in.


        What those people went through was a panoply of more of the same, and it’s just so awful. It was a
        Grand-Guignol:
        Le Théâtre du Grand-Guignol (French pronunciation: [???? ?i??l]: "The Theater of the Big Puppet") — known as the Grand Guignol — was in the Pigalle area of Paris (at 20 bis, rue Chaptal). From its opening in 1897 until its closing in 1962 it specialized in naturalistic horror shows. Its name is often used as a general term for graphic, amoral  horror entertainment, a genre popular from Elizabethan and Jacobean theatre (for instance Shakespeare's Titus Andronicus and Webster's The White Devil) to today's splatter films.  
        Rocky Horror Picture Show; ........1979 Los Angles



        all culminating into the rebirthing experience that resulted in such senseless deaths.

        Best line from that profile was: "The Laws of Attraction are very different from the laws of the State of Arizona."

        Reportedly, he's had some difficulty actualizing his bail provisions and the self-styled guru-warrior's secret included a stash of steroids.

         
        No offense Inculcate but why do you reject so many different forms of healing. I am not necessarily talking about your responses to James Ray's fiasco. I think your own views are coming through also. You sound like you work in the mental health industry, I was wondering what would you suggest for yourself or others for healing treatment.
        Title: Sweat lodge victim's family says she was in shape
        Post by: Ursus on June 30, 2010, 08:17:43 PM
        The Daily Courier
        10/10/2009 5:04:00 PM

        Sweat lodge victim's family says she was in shape (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73317)
        By FELICIA FONSECA · The Associated Press

        (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73317a.jpg)
        This April 2008 photo provided by the family of Kirby Brown shows the 38-year-old woman from Westtown, N.Y. Brown was one of two people who died after being overcome in a sauna-like sweat lodge during a retreat just outside of Sedona. Family of Kirby Brown/
        The Associated Press


        PRESCOTT - A 38-year-old New York woman who died after sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a scenic Arizona resort was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," took self-improvement seriously and had a passion for art, a family spokesman said.

        Kirby Brown of Westtown, N.Y., had no pre-existing health conditions that would have kept her from participating in an otherwise safe activity, said cousin and family spokesman Tom McFeeley. That two people died and 19 others became ill indicates that "something went horribly wrong."

        "Our only thought is shock, sadness and surprise," McFeeley said. "There will be plenty of time to react to the truth of what happened here, but we believe it is pointless to be angry or to place blame or to make assumptions before we understand what occurred here."

        Brown was one of two people who died Thursday evening after being overcome in a crudely built sweat lodge during a spiritual cleansing ceremony at the Angel Valley Retreat Center. Authorities on Saturday identified the other victim as 40-year-old James Shore of Milwaukee.

        A man who answered the door at Shore's address in Wisconsin said he had no immediate comment.

        Nineteen other people were taken to hospitals, suffering from burns, dehydration, respiratory arrest, kidney failure or elevated body temperature. Most were soon released, but one remained in critical condition Saturday.

        Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted Friday, but the results weren't disclosed pending additional tests.

        Authorities haven't determined what caused the deaths and illnesses but ruled out carbon monoxide poisoning.

        Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said Saturday his detectives were focusing on self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray and his staff as they try to determine if criminal negligence played a role. Waugh said Ray refused to speak with authorities and has since left the state. No charges have been filed.

        "We will continue this investigation down every road that is possible to find out if there is culpability on anybody relative to the deaths of these individuals," Waugh said.

        He said it could be three to four weeks before they knew if criminal charges would be filed.

        Ray's recent postings on his Twitter account said he was "shocked and saddened" by the tragedy.

        "My deep heartfelt condolences to family and friends of those who lost their lives," he wrote. "I am spending the weekend in prayer and meditation for all involved in this difficult time; and I ask you to join me in doing the same.

        Ray's company, James Ray International, is based in Carlsbad, Calif. His publicist, Howard Bragman, declined to comment Friday and didn't return a call Saturday from The Associated Press.

        The Angel Valley Retreat Center is owned by Michael and Amayra Hamilton, who have declined to comment.

        Ray rented the resort to hold a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that promised to "absolutely change your life." Ray has held similar retreats at the resort in the past. Participants, whose ages ranged from 30 to the 60s, paid between $9,000 and $10,000 to attend this year's event.

        Between 55 and 65 people were crowded into the 415-square-foot sweat lodge during a two-hour period that consisted of eight 15-minute rounds and various spiritual exercises led by Ray, Waugh said. After each round, the flap to the crudely constructed structure was raised to allow more heated rocks to be brought inside.

        Authorities said participants were highly encouraged but not forced to remain in the sweat lodge for the entire two hours.

        The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet Thursday morning. After various seminars, they entered the sweat lodge lightly dressed at 3 p.m.

        Two hours later, a woman dialed 911 to say that two people, whom Waugh identified as Brown and Shore, did not have a pulse and weren't breathing.

        A nurse hired by Ray was directing rescue efforts including CPR when emergency crews arrived, Waugh said. Shore and Brown were pronounced dead when they arrived at a hospital.

        Sheriff's Lt. David Rhodes said authorities are looking into whether there was a lag time between the first signs of medical distress and the emergency call.

        McFeeley said Brown had attended similar retreats, although he wasn't certain whether any were hosted by Ray. He said Brown, who grew up in Brooklyn and Westtown, saw the outing as a chance to continue on a positive path in life.

        Brown, a graduate of the State University of New York at Genesco, had two sisters who recently got married, two new nephews and a focus on "making the world more beautiful for someone, not only with her art but with her heart," McFeeley said. Although the family is saddened by her death, he said Brown created a roadmap by which others should live.

        "She was the least selfish, kindest person I knew," he said.


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        Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
        Post by: Joel on June 30, 2010, 08:41:03 PM
        Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
        Title: Re: Sweat lodge victim's family says she was in shape
        Post by: DannyB II on June 30, 2010, 08:54:01 PM
        Quote from: "Ursus"
        The Daily Courier
        10/10/2009 5:04:00 PM

        Sweat lodge victim's family says she was in shape (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73317)
        By FELICIA FONSECA · The Associated Press

        (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73317a.jpg)
        This April 2008 photo provided by the family of Kirby Brown shows the 38-year-old woman from Westtown, N.Y. Brown was one of two people who died after being overcome in a sauna-like sweat lodge during a retreat just outside of Sedona. Family of Kirby Brown/
        The Associated Press


        PRESCOTT - A 38-year-old New York woman who died after sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a scenic Arizona resort was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," took self-improvement seriously and had a passion for art, a family spokesman said.

        Kirby Brown of Westtown, N.Y., had no pre-existing health conditions that would have kept her from participating in an otherwise safe activity, said cousin and family spokesman Tom McFeeley. That two people died and 19 others became ill indicates that "something went horribly wrong."

        "Our only thought is shock, sadness and surprise," McFeeley said. "There will be plenty of time to react to the truth of what happened here, but we believe it is pointless to be angry or to place blame or to make assumptions before we understand what occurred here."

        Brown was one of two people who died Thursday evening after being overcome in a crudely built sweat lodge during a spiritual cleansing ceremony at the Angel Valley Retreat Center. Authorities on Saturday identified the other victim as 40-year-old James Shore of Milwaukee.

        A man who answered the door at Shore's address in Wisconsin said he had no immediate comment.

        Nineteen other people were taken to hospitals, suffering from burns, dehydration, respiratory arrest, kidney failure or elevated body temperature. Most were soon released, but one remained in critical condition Saturday.

        Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted Friday, but the results weren't disclosed pending additional tests.

        Authorities haven't determined what caused the deaths and illnesses but ruled out carbon monoxide poisoning.

        Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said Saturday his detectives were focusing on self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray and his staff as they try to determine if criminal negligence played a role. Waugh said Ray refused to speak with authorities and has since left the state. No charges have been filed.

        "We will continue this investigation down every road that is possible to find out if there is culpability on anybody relative to the deaths of these individuals," Waugh said.

        He said it could be three to four weeks before they knew if criminal charges would be filed.

        Ray's recent postings on his Twitter account said he was "shocked and saddened" by the tragedy.

        "My deep heartfelt condolences to family and friends of those who lost their lives," he wrote. "I am spending the weekend in prayer and meditation for all involved in this difficult time; and I ask you to join me in doing the same.

        Ray's company, James Ray International, is based in Carlsbad, Calif. His publicist, Howard Bragman, declined to comment Friday and didn't return a call Saturday from The Associated Press.

        The Angel Valley Retreat Center is owned by Michael and Amayra Hamilton, who have declined to comment.

        Ray rented the resort to hold a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that promised to "absolutely change your life." Ray has held similar retreats at the resort in the past. Participants, whose ages ranged from 30 to the 60s, paid between $9,000 and $10,000 to attend this year's event.

        Between 55 and 65 people were crowded into the 415-square-foot sweat lodge during a two-hour period that consisted of eight 15-minute rounds and various spiritual exercises led by Ray, Waugh said. After each round, the flap to the crudely constructed structure was raised to allow more heated rocks to be brought inside.

        Authorities said participants were highly encouraged but not forced to remain in the sweat lodge for the entire two hours.

        The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet Thursday morning. After various seminars, they entered the sweat lodge lightly dressed at 3 p.m.

        Two hours later, a woman dialed 911 to say that two people, whom Waugh identified as Brown and Shore, did not have a pulse and weren't breathing.

        A nurse hired by Ray was directing rescue efforts including CPR when emergency crews arrived, Waugh said. Shore and Brown were pronounced dead when they arrived at a hospital.

        Sheriff's Lt. David Rhodes said authorities are looking into whether there was a lag time between the first signs of medical distress and the emergency call.

        McFeeley said Brown had attended similar retreats, although he wasn't certain whether any were hosted by Ray. He said Brown, who grew up in Brooklyn and Westtown, saw the outing as a chance to continue on a positive path in life.

        Brown, a graduate of the State University of New York at Genesco, had two sisters who recently got married, two new nephews and a focus on "making the world more beautiful for someone, not only with her art but with her heart," McFeeley said. Although the family is saddened by her death, he said Brown created a roadmap by which others should live.

        "She was the least selfish, kindest person I knew," he said.


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        Like I said these were not folks without smarts.
        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
        Post by: Ursus on July 01, 2010, 10:21:37 AM
        Quote from: "DannyB II"
        Like I said these were not folks without smarts.
        Often it is they who are the easiest to be duped. Precisely 'cuz they don't believe they can be.

        Appealing to a mark's vanity on the basis of their intelligence, "spirituality," altruism, idealism, or even "manliness," to cite some examples, is the surest way to get a mark invested in getting him or herself hooked on the koolaid.
        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
        Post by: DannyB II on July 01, 2010, 02:11:54 PM
        Quote from: "Ursus"
        Quote from: "DannyB II"
        Like I said these were not folks without smarts.
        Often it is they who are the easiest to be duped. Precisely 'cuz they don't believe they can be.

        Appealing to a mark's vanity on the basis of their intelligence, "spirituality," altruism, idealism, or even "manliness," to cite some examples, is the surest way to get a mark invested in getting him or herself hooked on the koolaid.

        I will not argue this point, Ursus.  Been guilty myself a few times.
        I don't believe it is as sinister as you make it, though. Maybe I am reading
        more into your posts, if I am I apologize.
        I also don't believe this is your typical "kool-aid" drinking populace. They were
        not there for the kool-aid, I think the experience they were looking for was like
        a drug, they just wanted to get high.
        I hope this makes some sense, it is the best way I can explain what I am trying to say.
        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
        Post by: Whooter on July 01, 2010, 03:40:39 PM
        Something else to think about......Its just a sweat lodge for most of these people.  Like a trip to the spa.  They see it as a weekend of cleansing, not a life style.  It gets them away from their lives and gives them something to talk about at their next social event.  The $9-10,000 cost is meaningless to most of them.  The relatively high cost insures everyone attending that they will be hanging around with a certain social class and the cost eliminates the chances of having to sit next to some uneducated sweaty guys drinking beer they snuck into the lodge.  If they charged only $500 for the weekend not one of those people would have signed up.



        ...
        Title: in the company of "harmonic like-minded individuals"
        Post by: Ursus on July 01, 2010, 04:28:00 PM
        Quote from: "Whooter"
        Something else to think about......Its just a sweat lodge for most of these people.  Like a trip to the spa.  They see it as a weekend of cleansing, not a life style.  It gets them away from their lives and gives them something to talk about at their next social event.  The $9-10,000 cost is meaningless to most of them.  The relatively high cost insures everyone attending that they will be hanging around with a certain social class and the cost eliminates the chances of having to sit next to some uneducated sweaty guys drinking beer they snuck into the lodge.  If they charged only $500 for the weekend not one of those people would have signed up.
        Hmm. I disagree that it was "just a sweat lodge" for most of them, though I'd venture that your observation might well hold true for some of them.

        If it was just a "weekend of cleansing," chances are, more than a few would have bailed when they began to believe they were dying. From what I've read, this sentiment was voiced by a number of folk during this experience. What caused them to stay, despite their bodies' signals of distress, and contrary to all common sense? James Ray's exhortations to push through the physical discomfort and to transcend it, that's what. And he — being the guru of "spiritual" wealth whose wisdom they were seeking — is who they listened to. Not to themselves.

        IMO, for most of them, this was a several-day LGAT, filled more or less with 'round the clock indoctrination via a variety of means, in the company of "harmonic like-minded individuals." But sure, there *is* a certain elitism to that type of "spirituality."
        Title: Re: in the company of "harmonic like-minded individuals"
        Post by: Froderik on July 01, 2010, 04:46:21 PM
        Quote from: "Ursus"
        they began to believe they were dying.
        No pain, no gain.  :clown:
        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
        Post by: Whooter on July 01, 2010, 04:48:57 PM
        A lot of people love that stuff.  My inlaws still talk about how much it changed their lives and how good they felt for a few days after they attended est.  They realize it was a “mind fuck” but they liked it.  I am sure this guru had everyone on the hook and believing what he told them (not what their own bodies were).  If you have confidence in someone then its not hard to let them take over for awhile.  The LGAT, if it was used, was probably part of the high leading up to the sweat lodge.  The guy just screwed up or didn’t know what he was doing.

        We people who dropped acid in the 60’s and 70’s knew we risked flashbacks or a bad trip or even death.  Maybe that was the lure.  We were careful not to do it often as to preserve as many brain cells as possible.  But it was fun looking forward to doing it again and recalling the experiences we had together.



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        Title: Comments for "Sweat lodge victim's family says she was..."
        Post by: Ursus on July 01, 2010, 05:06:42 PM
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        Title: Family Says New Yorker Kirby Brown was in Great Shape...
        Post by: Ursus on July 01, 2010, 09:25:00 PM
        This version published by CBS is pretty much the same (as the previous article); however, it does give some additional details on James Shore:

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        cbsnews.com CRIMESIDER
        October 12, 2009 9:41 AM

        Family Says New Yorker Kirby Brown was in Great Shape before Mysterious Sweat Lodge Death (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5378496-504083.html?tag=contentMain%3bcontentBody)
        Posted by Edecio Martinez

        (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/11/image5377289x.jpg)
        Photo: Kirby Brown.
        (AP Photo/Family of Kirby Brown)


        PRESCOTT, Ariz. (CBS/AP) Kirby Brown seemed to be in the prime of her life. Her family says the 38-year-old New York woman who died after sitting in a sauna-like sweat lodge at a scenic Arizona resort was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," took self-improvement seriously and had a passion for art.

        Brown of Westtown, N.Y., was one of two people who died Thursday evening after being overcome in the crudely built hut during a spiritual cleansing ceremony. Authorities on Saturday identified the other victim as 40-year-old James Shore of Milwaukee, who served as director of business development at an Internet marketing company in his hometown.

        Nineteen other people were taken to hospitals, suffering from burns, dehydration, respiratory arrest, kidney failure or elevated body temperature. Most were soon released, but one remained in critical condition Saturday.

        Brown had no pre-existing health conditions that would have kept her from participating in an otherwise safe activity, said cousin and family spokesman Tom McFeeley. That two people died and 19 others became ill at the Angel Valley Retreat Center indicates that "something went horribly wrong."

        "Our only thought is shock, sadness and surprise," McFeeley said. "There will be plenty of time to react to the truth of what happened here, but we believe it is pointless to be angry or to place blame or to make assumptions before we understand what occurred here."

        Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said Saturday that his detectives were focusing on self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray and his staff as they try to determine if criminal negligence played a role. Waugh said Ray refused to speak with authorities and has since left the state.

        Ray is a polished self-help guru who was appeared on Oprah and Larry King, according to his own website.

        Ray rented the Angel Valley Retreat Center for a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that promised to "absolutely change your life." Ray has held an annual event at the resort for seven years without incident, according to property owner Amayra Hamilton.

        Police are now looking at the large number of people who were asked to sit in a 415-square-foot super-heated structure. The 55 to 65 participants had fasted for 36 hours before sitting in the temporary sweat lodge. Authorities said participants were highly encouraged, but not forced, to remain in the sweat lodge for the entire time.

        The group entered the structure at 3 p.m. Two hours later, a woman dialed 911 to say that two people, whom Waugh identified as Brown and Shore, did not have a pulse and weren't breathing.

        Matt Collins, who knew Shore since seventh grade, described his friend as a wonderful husband and father whose life revolved around his three kids. "Everybody who got to know him absolutely loved him," Collins told The Associated Press.

        Collins said he was stunned to hear of Shore's death, and the family remained in shock.

        "Right now we're trying to focus on making sure that his wife, his children are comforted during this time," he said.

        Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted Friday, but the results weren't disclosed pending additional tests. Authorities have ruled out carbon monoxide poising as the cause.

        Brown, a graduate of the State University of New York at Geneseo, had two sisters who recently got married, two new nephews and a focus on "making the world more beautiful for someone, not only with her art but with her heart," McFeeley said. Although the family is saddened by her death, he said Brown created a roadmap by which others should live.

        "She was the least selfish, kindest person I knew," he said.


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        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
        Post by: minn kota on July 01, 2010, 11:38:07 PM
        http://saltydroid.info/who-killed-colleen-conaway/ (http://saltydroid.info/who-killed-colleen-conaway/)
        http://saltydroid.info/james-arthur-ray ... favorites/ (http://saltydroid.info/james-arthur-rays-television-favorites/)
        Title: About James Ray
        Post by: Ursus on July 03, 2010, 10:40:34 AM
        Quote from: "minn kota"
        http://saltydroid.info/who-killed-colleen-conaway/ (http://saltydroid.info/who-killed-colleen-conaway/)
        http://saltydroid.info/james-arthur-ray ... favorites/ (http://saltydroid.info/james-arthur-rays-television-favorites/)
        Such a contrast ... from what's on his website (!):

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        About James Ray (http://http://jamesray.com/company/about-james-ray.php)

        (http://http://jamesray.com/skin1/images/james-08.jpg)

        James Arthur Ray is transforming the way the world thinks. As an internationally-renowned Personal Success Strategist, Visionary and New York Times Best-Selling Author who has traveled the globe dedicating over two decades of his life to studying the thoughts, actions, and habits of those who create true wealth in every area of their life, James delivers his practical teachings to hundreds of thousands of individuals and business leaders every year.

        James is President and CEO of his own multi-million dollar corporation, James Ray International (JRI), which was named to Inc. Magazine's coveted Inc. 500 list of America's fastest-growing private companies in the September 2009 issue, reaching a remarkable 547.4% growth over the previous three years. JRI is dedicated to mentoring individuals to create wealth in all areas of their lives: financially, relationally, mentally, physically and spiritually. James' most recent book, Harmonic Wealth: The Secret of Attracting the Life You Want, reached number five on the New York Times Best-Sellers list in its first week in print.

        Throughout his life, James Arthur Ray has studied and been exposed to a wide diversity of teachings and teachers – from his collegiate learning and the schools of the corporate world, to the ancient cultures of Peru, Egypt and the Amazon. Armed with this comprehensive and diverse background in behavioral sciences, coupled with his experience as a successful, entrepreneur, and an avid thirst for spiritual knowledge, James boasts the unique and powerful ability to blend the practical and mystical into a usable and easy-to-access formula for achieving true wealth across all aspects of life.

        Seeking to share his unique way of living with individuals around the world, James presents his insights at public appearances and seminars over 200 days each year. His Journey of Power® events fuse together the wealth-building principles, success strategies, and the teachings of all great spiritual traditions and practices that he has experienced and assimilated over the last 25 years.

        James Arthur Ray has made multiple appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show and Larry King Live, and is a recurring guest on NBC's top-rated national morning show, Today. He has been featured in numerous publications, both regionally and nationally, including a feature article in a March 2009 issue of The New York Times on the growing success of his Harmonic Wealth Weekends and an April 2008 profile in Fortune Magazine.


        © 2010 James Ray
        Title: Milwaukee Man's Death At Sweat Lodge Still...
        Post by: Ursus on July 03, 2010, 10:45:24 AM
        Here's an article from Wisconsin, from which James Shore originated...

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        WISN.com
        Milwaukee Man's Death At Sweat Lodge Still Under Investigation (http://http://www.wisn.com/news/21276855/detail.html)
        Arizona Police Trying To Figure Out Cause Of Death

        POSTED: 6:07 pm CDT October 12, 2009
        UPDATED: 7:05 pm CDT October 12, 2009


        (http://http://www.wisn.com/2009/1012/21277180_240X180.jpg)

        MILWAUKEE -- The family of the Milwaukee man who died at an Arizona retreat last week is waiting for answers.

        James Shore, 40, of Bay View, was one of two who died during a spiritual cleansing exercise called a sweat lodge.

        Arizona police are still investigating and can't say if it was the heat or toxic fumes that killed Shore and a New York woman. James Shore attended the retreat run by popular motivational speaker James Arthur Ray. Ray called it the "spiritual warrior," which he described as "a heroic quest for higher consciousness."

        More than 60 people paid $10,000 each to attend Ray's retreat at a resort near Sedona, Ariz. The retreat involved a 36-hour fast, followed by a sweat lodge. The sweat lodge is a Native American tradition, a spiritual sauna of sorts, where participants gather under a makeshift tent and pour water over hot rocks. 40 others ended up getting sick while at the retreat.

        "We attempted to interview Mr. Ray at the scene. He refused to talk to us," said Sheriff Steve Waugh of Yavapai County, Ariz.

        Shore was the married father of three who lived in Bay View. Shore also operated internet marketing businesses from an office on Capitol Drive in Milwaukee. No one there would comment.

        "We are shocked and saddened by James' sudden death. Our primary focus now is to take care of our family and friends. We will continue to grieve for the loss of James and honor his memory as a dedicated husband, father, brother and son. We are awaiting the results of the investigation," Shore's younger brother said in a written statement.

        The incident prompted criticism from some who question gathering that many people in such a small space, including Mario Black Wolf who owns a sweat lodge.

        "Everybody has the right to believe and practice the way they wish to, but when it endangers the lives of others, or when you have to pay for it, that's not a spiritual belief," Black Wolf said.

        Investigators say it will be weeks before they can determine if criminal charges are warranted against event organizers. They intend to interview Ray, who's only comment has been on his Facebook and Twitter pages where he wrote, "I am spending the weekend in prayer and meditation for all involved in this difficult time; and I ask you to join me in doing the same."


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        Title: Comments for "Milwaukee Man's Death At Sweat Lodge Still..."
        Post by: Ursus on July 03, 2010, 11:17:54 PM
        Comment (http://http://www.wisn.com/news/21276855/detail.html) left for the above article, "Milwaukee Man's Death At Sweat Lodge Still Under Investigation (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=368470#p368470)" (Oct. 12, 2009, WISN.com):


        manystarswoman · Oct. 14, 2009 2:08pm


        Copyright 2010 by WISN.com.
        Title: Sweat Lodge Death Investigation Turns to Self-Help Guru...
        Post by: Ursus on July 04, 2010, 12:29:52 AM
        CBSnews.com · CRIMESIDER
        October 12, 2009 10:20 AM

        Sweat Lodge Death Investigation Turns to Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5378668-504083.html)

        Posted by Neil Katz  

        (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/12/image5378574x.jpg)
        Photo: James Arthur Ray. (JamesRay.com)

        PRESCOTT, Ariz. (CBS/AP) Police have now turned their attention to television self-help guru James Arthur Ray in their investigation of an Arizona sweat lodge ceremony that left two dead and 19 hospitalized.

        Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said Saturday that his detectives were focusing on the self-help expert and his staff as they try to determine if criminal negligence played a role in the tragic deaths at the Angel Valley Retreat Center in Sedona, Ariz., on Oct. 9.

        The town is a desert vacation spot two hours north of Phoenix that is popular with those seeking meditation and spiritual health.

        Waugh said Ray refused to speak with authorities and has since left the state.

        "We will continue this investigation down every road that is possible to find out if there is culpability on anybody relative to the deaths of these individuals," Waugh said. He said it could be three to four weeks before they knew if criminal charges would be filed.

        Ray's recent postings on his Twitter account (http://http://twitter.com/jamesaray) said he was "shocked and saddened" by the tragedy.

        "My deep heartfelt condolences to family and friends of those who lost their lives," he wrote. "I am spending the weekend in prayer and meditation for all involved in this difficult time; and I ask you to join me in doing the same."

        Ray claims to help people achieve both spiritual and financial wealth. "The real key to creating the life of your dreams is achieving true Harmonic Wealth?," he says on his Web site (http://http://jamesray.com/), trademark included.

        The self-styled success guru, who has appeared on Oprah, Larry King and the movie "The Secret," says people are ready for his wisdom if "You simply (and deeply) want to make more money and become more successful" and "want to double, triple, even multiply by ten the size of your business."

        It's not clear what type of financial wizardry was being taught inside the 415-square-foot homemade sweat lodge when a 38-year-old female surfer and a 40-year-old father of three dropped dead.

        Ray's company, James Ray International, is based in Carlsbad, Calif. Ray's publicist, Howard Bragman, expressed condolences in a statement Friday but declined to speak about the deaths. Bragman didn't return a call for additional comment Saturday.

        The Angel Valley Retreat Center is owned by Michael and Amayra Hamilton, who rented it to Ray for a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" retreat that promised to "absolutely change your life."

        On Saturday, Amayra Hamilton said Ray has held the event at the resort for seven years, and there never have been any problems.

        Hamilton said the resort remains closed to the public. The sweat lodge has been dismantled and a ceremony was conducted for those affected by Thursday's incident.

        "The whole situation is very traumatizing for everybody," she said.

        The people at Ray's retreat, whose ages ranged from 30 to the 60s, paid between $9,000 and $10,000 to attend.

        Ray and his staff constructed the temporary sweat lodge with a wood frame and covered it with layers of tarps and blankets, Waugh said. The sweat lodge — a structure commonly used by American Indian tribes to cleanse the body and prepare for hunts, ceremonies and other events — was 53 inches high at the center and about 30 inches high around the outer edges.

        Between 55 and 65 people were crowded into the 415-square-foot space during a two-hour period that included various spiritual exercises led by Ray, Waugh said. Every 15 minutes, a flap was raised to allow more volcanic rocks the size of cantaloupes to be brought inside.

        Authorities said participants were highly encouraged but not forced to remain in the sweat lodge for the entire time.

        Joseph Bruchac, author of "The Native American Sweat Lodge: History and Legends," called the number of participants in the lodge "appalling."

        "If you put people in a restrictive, airtight structure, you are going to use up all oxygen," he said by phone Saturday from his home in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. "And if you're doing a sweat, you're going to use it up that much faster."

        American Indian sweat lodges typically hold about 12 people and are covered with blankets made of natural materials, such as cotton or wool, and the air flow isn't restricted, he said.

        "I don't see how the person running that lodge could have been aware of the health and well-being of that many people," he said.

        The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet Thursday morning. After various seminars, they entered the sweat lodge lightly dressed at 3 p.m.

        Two hours later, a woman dialed 911 to say that two people, whom Waugh identified as 38-year old New Yorker Kirby Brown and 40-year-old James Shore of Milwaukee, did not have a pulse and weren't breathing.

        According to a family spokesperson, Brown was an avid surfer and hiker who was "in top shape," before the mysterious sweat lodge death.

        (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/11/image5377289x.jpg)
        Photo: Kirby Brown in undated family image. (AP Photo/Family of Kirby Brown)

        A nurse hired by Ray was directing rescue efforts including CPR when emergency crews arrived, Waugh said. Shore and Brown were pronounced dead when they arrived at a hospital.

        Sheriff's Lt. David Rhodes said authorities were checking whether there was a lag time between the first signs of medical distress and the emergency call.

        Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted Friday, but the results weren't disclosed pending additional tests. Authorities have ruled out carbon monoxide poising as the cause.

        Matt Collins, who knew Shore since seventh grade, described his friend as a wonderful husband and father whose life revolved around his three kids. "Everybody who got to know him absolutely loved him," Collins told The Associated Press.

        Brown, a graduate of the State University of New York at Geneseo, had two sisters who recently got married, two new nephews and a focus on "making the world more beautiful for someone, not only with her art but with her heart," family spokesman Tom McFeeley said. Although the family is saddened by her death, he said Brown created a roadmap by which others should live.

        "She was the least selfish, kindest person I knew," he said.

        McFeeley said Brown had attended similar retreats, although he wasn't certain whether any were hosted by Ray. He said Brown, who grew up in Brooklyn and Westtown and spent time in Mexico, saw the outing as a chance to continue on a positive path in life.


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        Title: Comments for "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation...," #s 1-30
        Post by: Ursus on July 05, 2010, 08:49:07 PM
        This set of comments includes not only a reference to the aforementioned mysterious suicide (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=368658#p368321) of Colleen Conaway (whilst attending one of James Ray's seminars), but also former James Ray followers who want their money back!

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        Title: Re: Comments for "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation Turns..."
        Post by: DannyB II on July 05, 2010, 10:46:15 PM
        Quote from: "Ursus"
        This set of comments includes not only a reference to the aforementioned mysterious suicide (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=368658#p368321) of Colleen Conaway (whilst attending one of James Ray's seminars), but also former James Ray followers who want their money back!

        Jeesh now we have a mysterious suicide attached to this, wow I wonder what next Tuesday episode will bring.    :suicide:  :suicide:  :suicide: I see it is the 10 year reunion for Elian Rodriquiz, maybe Don Knotts will come back from the dead, Dick Chaney will become a Democrat, maybe Ron Paul became president after all.


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        Comments (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5378668-504083.html) left for the above article, "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation Turns to Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=368658#p368544)" (by Neil Katz; Oct. 12, 2009; Crimesider):


        • by RenHombre October 12, 2009 1:41 PM EDT
          It was just a matter of time before a disaster of this magnitude occurred. There are too many "white men playing Indians" today, and putting lots of unassuming people at risk.

          Having been in sweat lodges run by QUALIFIED Native American elders, I know it is outright dangerous to put 60 people in a dark sweat lodge because there's no way to keep track of everyone, nor regulate the steam in a safe way (even if they had the right lodge coverings, which they clearly didn't).

          It's no surprise the investigation is now on James Arthur Ray...negligence seems so apparent, and meanwhile, his ego and aggressive self marketing tactics are out there on the Web for everyone to see.

          I would be fine if this guy would simply stay on a hotel stage like the rest of the self-help gurus, and take the easy money that comes their way from the new-age 'searchers.'

          However, it's appalling to me that a guy like Ray can hijack once-sacred rituals of Native Americans and charge $10,000 for a retreat that is based on them.
          • by meroe_9 October 12, 2009 10:48 PM EDT
            Sweat Lodge is a sacred tradition of many indigenous cultures (including Eastern European). It is not exclusive to Native Americans. I am of Native American descent and I accept the coming together of all of my brothers and sisters no matter what race they are incarnated into.

            I do feel a great loss because of this tragedy. This was a poorly thought out and executed event that lead to devastating consequences.
          • by LightInformation October 14, 2009 9:41 AM EDT
            I believe we all have essential and meaningful, and unique gifts to give and share with others in this life - gifts that are authentically ours - gifts we are born with, gifts we are given. I feel it is our responsibility to use these gifts for the increase of love, of awareness, of healing, and of connection.

            This is a story of someone allowing their innate gifts to be guided by their lower nature and this always causes harm.

            My heart goes out to all the loving, wonderful, open-hearted people who were impacted by this event - especially the attendees and their families, and those left behind the people who left their bodies.

            They have provided such an important gift for all of us in the ending of their lives...Be fearless and follow the Knowingness of your OWN Heart, be guided by that which expands love and healing. Take your power back from those who seek to exploit you in the name of spiritual evolution or financial freedom, or whatever the buzzword of the day is!

            It is so very revealing to see how people respond to tragic events we are responsible for creating...

            how we respond essentially reveals our level of consciousness and our ability to live our Love, our Connection.

            If I were pretending to be a GURU and "my followers" were willing to trust me to guide them into their transformation - I would stand by their side, regardless of the circumstances I created that actually led to people dying. I cannot believe that James would text such awful, disconnected, harmful responses to the tragedy that he caused -

            Did you see the tweets that James left the night that his followers died?

            These were posted on James Arthur Ray?s Twitter account during the Spiritual Warrior Event WHICH HE TRIED TO DELETE! Yet, these tweets can still be found on searching twitter!

            "JamesARay: is still in Spiritual Warrior... for anything new to live something first must die. What needs to die in you so that new life can emerge?"

            THIS WAS HIS TWEET THE NIGHT THAT HIS EVENT KILLED TWO PEOPLE! AND INJURED NEARLY 1/3 OF HIS "FOLLOWERS." Sounds like he was sitting comfortably in his hotel room while he left more than 60 of his followers traumatized, several- 29 or so injured and in the hospital, and two dead. He went to the comfort of his hotel, and his dis-connected mind to spout "spiritual" things - in complete denial of the damage he created!

            " JamesARay: Day 5 of SPW. The Spiritual Warrior has conquered death and therefore has no enemies, and no fear, in this life or the next."

            " JamesARay: SPW day 4. Your actions often speak louder than your words. A life of honor is living you values above and beyond your moods."

            IF JAMES HAD ANY CONSCIOUSNESS OF LOVE WITHIN HIM HE WOULD HAVE REFUSED TO FOLLOW HIS FEAR AND REPTILIAN BRAIN INSTINCTS TO FLEE THE SCENE, ABANDON HIS FOLLOWERS AND TO GO INTO SPOUTING SPIRITUAL MUMBO-JUMBO AS YOU CAN SEE AND FEEL FROM HIS TWEETS THE NIGHT OF HIS SO-CALLED "SPIRITUAL WARRIOR" TRAINING.

            IT IS SO EASY TO SAY "that was their destiny, they created their reality."

            Yet, also just as true is the REALITY CHECK lesson that a charasmatic con-man who manipulates people into following him...his "wisdom"...his teaching...his program- promising innocent, vulnerable, good-hearted people that they will receive an end to their pain, a solution to their problems, a transformed life with higher brainwave frequencies, and "financial freedom!" all in the name of feeding his already ridiculous sense of masculine "power" or rather - force equating to dominance, control and the illusion of power.

            listen to your own heart...dear Ones reading this!

            follow the Knowingness within.

            allow your self to be your own savior - as in the end it is only you who can save you and all the "leaders" will abandon you - just when you need them most! They are not here to protect you, save you, help you - they are here to get energy from you to fuel their ego dominant intentions - masked as "spiritual wisdom"

            All is revealed through consciousness...and is palpably evident in response to the events they set in motion.
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          • by jntlw October 12, 2009 1:46 PM EDT
            Any guru or preacher who professes to teach you the "how to get wealthy' is a crock. If you are a Chrisitan, money is not your goal and should never be first and foremost. These people were paying to get rich through some bogus guru offering bogus theories and methods and they end up dead. Stop looking to get rich and just be happy in life and work and produce at that which pleases you most and helps society - that is true riches.
            • by Cheryl_Laures October 13, 2009 7:39 PM EDT
              So very true... someone teaching "Spiritual Precepts" is not all about "show me the money." However, Mr. Ray certainly thought his "brain-child-teachings" were worth 10K... probably because HE is so focused on the money. hummmm... makes you wonder just how altruistic and pure are his intentions.

              His intentions seem rather ego-based to me. I've watched him from the sidelines and the "halo-effect" of media attention he received after The Secret was released. And I have only one comment about that, "Pride doth go before a fall."

              As for the safety of his 10K program... As an RN I must say that the RN he hired definitely missed the mark on the schedule of events in the first place. You just DON'T have people fast for 36 hours, give them a buffet breakfast and expect the body to normalize itself after 36 hours of deprivation. Let alone... subject the body to profusely sweating in extreme heat, which pushes the body even further out of balance.

              Sweat lodges or steam saunas are best tolerated when someone is well nourished and more than sufficiently hydrated... in order to tolerate the profound loss of fluids.

              I would guess these folks got in a situation of electrolyte compromise along with their core temperature rising too high for way too long. TWO HOURS?... good grief!

              And as a Spirit centered person, I think my biggest grief is that Mr. Ray hasn't even said he's sorry, or asked for forgiveness of the public on his Twitter posts. No.. instead he's still being the "guru" suggesting everyone join him in meditation. I guess asking for forgiveness would indicate blame and he doesn't want to incriminate himself.

              It's a shame that he's so very willing to fleece people of 10K yet not take responsibility for his actions.

              An author of a book, or cast member in a movie does NOT a Spiritual Adept make. Buyer beware, for there are many like this prowling the market, on the internet and elsewhere.
            • by hogi2 October 20, 2009 11:58 PM EDT
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            • by all_father October 12, 2009 2:34 PM EDT
              The numbers here are shocking. 60 people in a sweat room with less volume than a small living room! Someone needs to go to jail for this catastrophe. And Ray is first, followed by the Hamiltons. Sad, too, that the participants didn't think about their risk... proof positive that trusting any "guru" can be deadly.
            • by Awakened1 October 12, 2009 2:53 PM EDT
              That's really sad. I knew that guy had bad karma written all over him. Just goes to show you that the "powers that be" don't like it when someone uses their spiritual awareness and rapport w/ people to take advantage of what's supposed to be the most sacred side of people. I hope James Ray has gotten his "message" through meditation he was seeking. Maybe if he stepped outside of himself or his ego for a moment, he would see it plain as day. Come on....9 to 10 GRAND for a spiritual weekend retreat??? 65 people = $650,000! I have also learned that NO ONE should conduct a "sweat" unless they are Native American or have a tribe's blessing to do so and are being assisted. Some Native American's don't do it until they are "called" to. I do have to say, he had it coming to him...James Ray that is. Those people gave their lives, I hope he learns the lesson that they sacrificed themselves for him to learn.
              • by kwhitecloud October 12, 2009 10:50 PM EDT
                With that kind of money, one would think these people could have bought some blankets to cover the lodge and maybe a few cases of WATER.
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              • by momofthreebo October 12, 2009 2:55 PM EDT
                Self help guro, my butt...He is nothing but a money hungry idiot trying to make a pofit off sacred native traditions. My heart goes out to all the families involved.
              • by TwistedFeather12 October 12, 2009 3:37 PM EDT
                Writer has been working with sweats for over 20 years and have not seen a death. With saying this writer has worked with Elders and people have to know there is a protocol to follow with sweats. Many people use native spirituality as a quick fix to make money.The regultions of having a sweat are earned and having a great abundence of people in the lodge is unnatural. It is with great sadness to the families who have lost their loved ones for a quick fix society for false healing. Please leave the native culture to the First Nations Elders and to the right people who earn the sweat rights. If needing to have a sweat for health please go to a reservation and give tabacco and monetary gift to an Elder for help. Thank you
                • by kwhitecloud October 12, 2009 10:45 PM EDT
                  Well Said.
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                • by Thousandoaks October 12, 2009 7:22 PM EDT
                  This is a heartbreaking tragedy and all affected deserve our sympathy. And, yes it should be investigated to learn what went wrong. But accusing or imprisoning someone will not make it better. We aren't 'at risk' because someone hasn't been jailed in this event. Put your focus where it deserves to be; sympathy and support for those affected. Not on a lynching quest to find someone to sacrifice.
                  It is so easy to trivialize the leader of this event, and to jealously demonize his success. I'd suggest you first consult those who he has helped through all of his teaching. This event is tragic but it is not James Ray's teaching that caused the deaths.
                  There may have been negligence but it is doubtful that it was criminal or with malicious intent. And certainly it was not that way with James Ray or his team. These are good people who have been leading other people to lead more meaningful lives for years now. Stop the bloodlust and just help the healing begin. Now is not the time for hatred.
                  • by Ahaseheset October 12, 2009 8:02 PM EDT
                    He was selling sacred traditions! If his arrest and conviction would put more of these cultural thieves out of business...good!
                    Hasn't "American culture" taken away enough from the Indigenous people of this continent???
                    They used to jail NDN's for practicing their religion and put their children in boarding schools (that still exist in some areas) to "americanize" them, now these New Agers want to steal the very things the people were crucified for!!
                    Enough is enough!
                  • by JaclyneW October 12, 2009 10:28 PM EDT
                    I think you are forgetting that he lead the ceremony. Which means he was the LEADER!! which means he was negligent!! Which means, in the world today, that he will have to be accountable for his actions!!

                    And to add Rocks every 15 mins. This was no real sweat. Which means he made it up! Which means it was his IDEA, Which means he is responsible for not clearly thinking this through or getting proper advice for this event.

                    And to convince people into believing that they have to get through the heat of the sweat!! Something that never, ever would have been done with those who are trained in the REAL Ceremony, which has been done for Thousands of Years!! Means HE IS RESPONSIBLE.

                    IF the man is ignoring REALITY, he and his team Are Super Negligent, and it doesn't matter if it was there conscious intentions or NOT. Negligence is Negligence if you are working at it or not!

                    We can have all the compassion in the world for him. But he still has to be responsible for his actions, words and where he is taking people who are paying him in TRUST!!
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                  • by clhs2007 October 12, 2009 7:24 PM EDT
                    55-65 people? WOW; Paying for a sweat? Wow, I'm at a loss of words. One of the dumbest things thats ever happened!
                  • by Ahaseheset October 12, 2009 7:55 PM EDT
                    It was with great sadness that I read about the people who died in AZ in a sweat lodge run by an individual who was charging a fair amount of money to his victims.
                    No charges have been filed against this person.

                    Not that he intended for this to happen. Not at all. His intent was to help these people in spiritual health and his own capital gain.

                    The trouble is he was using HIS vision of what is a sacred Native American ceremony. Now people have suffered for his lack of respect of Native traditions.
                    He was selling those traditions as if they were some sort of of commodity. I wonder if he also offered Holy Communion and Confession complete with Rosary and the prescribed numbers of Hail Marys?? For these traditions and ceremonies must also be for sale, in his eyes.

                    About five years ago, Arvol Looking Horse, a bundle keeper for the Lakota people and several other medicine people, elders and bundle keepers for many nations decreed that Native American ceremony is for NATIVE AMERICANS.
                    You may be invited to attend, but the ceremony is to be conducted by NATIVE AMERICANS who are trained. They came to this conclusion after a similar tragedy happened in Redding, CA.

                    I absolutely agree with this decree by the Plains Nations elders.

                    STOP STEALING TRADITIONS! STOP SELLING TRADITIONS!!
                    • by apachepat07 October 14, 2009 1:45 PM EDT
                      you cant stop it. know matter what they say. White men will run all kinds of ceremonies. some for money some not. I agree but the question is how do we deal with the problem because like the life it will go on. Believe me I've seen it all living on the west coast. Just pray.
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                    • by parkrapidsmn October 12, 2009 8:39 PM EDT
                      This is not the first time someone has died at a James Arthur Ray seminar.

                      On July 26 of this year Colleen died during a James Arthur Ray Creating Absolute Wealth Seminar in San Diego. She had been emotionally broken down, starved and kept awake ungodly amounts of time. During a group "field trip" to Horton Plaza Mall she plunged to the floor from a third level railing.

                      Colleen was a happy and succcessful woman. Prior to her death she had absolutely never given any of her friends and co-workers any signs of suicidal thoughts/intentions. She was making future plans...had a positive outlook on life...and was completely healthy.

                      Colleen was brainwashed. She fell victim to Large Group Awareness Training. I believe James Arthur Ray and his company completely covered up their involvement in her death.

                      There must be others who have been injured ect. by James Arthur Ray either physically, financially or mentally...please, please, please contact officials and tell your story. This must be stopped before more people are hurt!
                    •  by JaclyneW October 12, 2009 10:34 PM EDT
                      I also feel that the Retreat Center should be held accountable for allowing a sweat of that large to be RENTED out to participants of, obviously anyone, who want to rent their Center!!!

                      They obviously built the structure, and rented it to Mr. Ray. So in all actuality, they all should be accountable.
                    • by ChristopherBlackwell October 12, 2009 10:38 PM EDT
                      Another greedy spiritual con man who making money was more important than reasonable safety of his followers. Anyone with sense would never keep anyone in a sweat lodge for so long. Fools running sweat lodges can kill people and con men are always fools when chasing enrichment.

                    • by willwalden October 12, 2009 11:09 PM EDT
                      Like others here in Sedona I live here and was saddened and angered by this tragedy which could have been avoided. I spoke to some local nurses about this tragedy and they told me there is some sort of loophole in the law that requires only "minimal" medical coverage for an event of this type. Apparently all that is required is to have one nurse on call, and not even necessarily on site, and the organizers are covered according to the insurance companies that deal with this sort of event. $600,000 plus revenue went to the guy and ONE NURSE was paid to be available. No equipment, no ambulance, nothing - just one poor nurse left to deal with whatever happens. This also needs to be looked at and fixed before another one of these guys shows up here.
                    • by kwhitecloud October 12, 2009 11:21 PM EDT
                      I have been working with sweat lodges for more than two decades. I have never seen a death. My Uncle told of this twenty years ago when people begin to sell sage. There was a time my Brothers would have visited this place and asked them to stop...or....?
                      Someone running a business like this one in Arizona, offered me thousands of dollars to work for them. This was not the only "warrior camp" to try to solicit this writer. They are dangerous. As for the plastic covering, I would not stick my head into a trash bag and expect to breathe, not for any amount of money...these people did just that. Air, like Traditions should not be sold. Ten Grand is NOT going to manifest air in a trash bag. Obviously, this guy thought he could sell it, and sadly there were people that believed it could be purchased.
                      • by SotaMabaTanke October 14, 2009 5:08 PM EDT
                        AHO MITAKUYE OYASIN,Pilamia
                        Thank you couldnt have said it better(plastic???come on folks,this is pure neglegents
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                      • by kwhitecloud October 12, 2009 11:36 PM EDT
                        STOP SELLING TRADITIONS STOP SELLING TRADITIONS STOP SELLING TRADITIONS STOP SELLING TRADITIONS...that was four times. DOOR !
                      • by DeleneSC October 13, 2009 12:31 AM EDT
                        My husband and I took a $750. weekend course from James Ray (not this particular 5 day retreat) and it was wonderful. We were shocked and saddened as everyone here is. James has been doing these retreats (of which the sweat is just one part) since 2003. I think there was carelessness and mistakes were made (too many people and session was too long), leading to tragic results. It is very unfortunate for everyone involved and my heart goes out to the families of the 2 people who died.

                        However, James is not a greedy "bad" person. He truly wants to help people achieve their dreams, but humans DO make mistakes. Tragic of course, but don't assume he is necessarily a bad person who just things of money. I think people here are making assumptions without knowing of his otherwise incredible integrity and knowledge about many different traditions, not just Native American. I also feel for him too because I see how he has improved so many people's lives.

                        Our hearts go out to ALL those affected by those terrible mistakes~yes, even James Ray.
                        • by jewelz33 October 13, 2009 12:44 AM EDT
                          Well said DeleneSC!!
                        • by NikEst October 16, 2009 12:21 PM EDT
                          If what James Ray preached actually worked, there would be more people talking about it. Instead, we hear "I spent thousands and now I'm just thousands poorer". Please do not say something like "You have to work at it!" because while true, the work you work on should show a glimmer of success early or what you're doing is probably a waste of time.

                          Also, James Ray isn't rich by his preached scheme. His rich because he preaches the scheme. Funny, he doesn't preach that get rich quick idea. He may not be a "bad" person, but he is greedy. Charging thousands per person just so they can hear you talk is greedy. Imagine if teachers could do that, they'd finally be paid something resembling the impact they have on the world.
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                        • by jewelz33 October 13, 2009 12:42 AM EDT
                          I send out my prayers and sympathies to all affected by this horrible situation, especially to the families of those who died.

                          I have to say it really amazes me that people use their time and energy to write things like so many of the above posts - no one even has all of the facts...we hear and see what the news reports and it may or may not be accurate and we don't even know 100% what caused this tragedy yet other than what appears to be the case. America is about innocent until proven guilty and you all are not the people to decide guilt, that is what the police and law were created to do - so I say leave your condemnation to the proper authorities and use your energy for something POSITIVE and helpful! How about putting energy into something like saying prayers or meditating for all involved or investigating how to send sympathies or something to soothe the families affected or maybe see if there is anything else you can do or say to help this situation versus spewing out negative words and judgments...this world is full of people who focus on retribution or anger about things and that doesn't help any situation...what helps is people taking action to help others rather than using their anger and words for negative purposes!! We're all allowed an opinion but use your minds and opinions wisely based on concrete facts and for the best possible use of the mind we've all been given. Don't get me wrong, I say let justice be served accordingly but by the people who understand & have all of the facts and were hired to do so!
                        • by sshakeri02 October 13, 2009 4:06 AM EDT
                          Thank you everyone for your posts. My prayers go out to the victims and their loved ones. I am one of the naive ones who has paid tens of 1000s of $$$ to attend many seminars of James Ray. I now realize what a big mistake I made. I must say that he is very charismatic and the energy really sucks a person in, especially during one of his high energy, high entertainment value seminars. Tomorrow (Tuesday) I am going to one of his free events to ask for my money back for the seminars since I no longer feel the seminars are in the best interest of my wife or myself. I am one of the few in the James Ray follower camp who actually has an authentic spiritual teacher. I was warned by my spiritual teacher about people like James Ray, but I did not listen... at least until now. My wife and I were oh so very close to attending the "Spiritual Warrior" event. That is the only event we did not purchase. We almost did. I am going to ask for my money back for the seminars in lieu of the recent tragedy. I will be interested to see how he or his office treats my request. Yes, they have waivers that say you are not entitled to a refund after purchasing the seminars, but I will be interested to see whether they honor my request with all the media attention and how everyone is watching his every move now.

                          As my spiritual teacher said when I told him about the $1000s I spent on James Ray's seminars which utilizes techniques drawing on the inner world such as visualizations to achieve worldly success, "...using visualizations and other inner techniques to get money is like raping the inner world. The inner world is for connecting with the sacred and not for making money."

                          I believe we must learn to differentiate between authentic, pure spirituality and pseudo-spiritual self-help techniques. In addition, I think we need to realize that this New Age eclecticism and superficial intermingling of spiritual traditions is for show and constitutes nothing but ego-trips.

                          I'll let you all know how it goes tomorrow at the James Ray event.

                          Blessings to all!


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                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 10:44:34 AM
                        Comments (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5378668-504083.html) left for the above article, "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation Turns to Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=368658#p368544)" (by Neil Katz; Oct. 12, 2009; CBS News Crimesider), #s 31-60:


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                        Post by: Anne Bonney on July 30, 2010, 11:21:55 AM
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Comments (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5378668-504083.html) left for the above article, "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation Turns to Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=368658#p368544)" (by Neil Katz; Oct. 12, 2009; Crimesider), #s 31-60:
                        • by LightInformation October 14, 2009 9:28 AM EDT
                          It is so very revealing to see how people respond to tragic events we are responsible for creating...

                          how we respond essentially reveals our level of consciousness and our ability to live our Love, our Connection.

                          If I were pretending to be a GURU and "my followers" were willing to trust me to guide them into their transformation - I would stand by their side, regardless of the circumstances I created that actually led to people dying. I cannot believe that James would text such awful, disconnected, harmful responses to the tragedy that he caused -

                          Did you see the tweets that James left the night that his followers died?

                          These were posted on James Arthur Ray?s Twitter account during the Spiritual Warrior Event WHICH HE TRIED TO DELETE! Yet, these tweets can still be found on searching twitter!

                        "JamesARay: is still in Spiritual Warrior... for anything new to live something first must die. What needs to die in you so that new life can emerge?"   :eek:  :eek:

                        THIS WAS HIS TWEET THE NIGHT THAT HIS EVENT KILLED TWO PEOPLE! AND INJURED NEARLY 1/3 OF HIS "FOLLOWERS." Sounds like he was sitting comfortably in his hotel room while he left more than 60 of his followers traumatized, several- 29 or so injured and in the hospital, and two dead. He went to the comfort of his hotel, and his dis-connected mind to spout "spiritual" things - in complete denial of the damage he created!

                        " JamesARay: Day 5 of SPW. The Spiritual Warrior has conquered death and therefore has no enemies, and no fear, in this life or the next."

                        " JamesARay: SPW day 4. Your actions often speak louder than your words. A life of honor is living you values above and beyond your moods."

                        IF JAMES HAD ANY CONSCIOUSNESS OF LOVE WITHIN HIM HE WOULD HAVE REFUSED TO FOLLOW HIS FEAR AND REPTILIAN BRAIN INSTINCTS TO FLEE THE SCENE, ABANDON HIS FOLLOWERS AND TO GO INTO SPOUTING SPIRITUAL MUMBO-JUMBO AS YOU CAN SEE AND FEEL FROM HIS TWEETS THE NIGHT OF HIS SO-CALLED "SPIRITUAL WARRIOR" TRAINING.

                        IT IS SO EASY TO SAY "that was their destiny, they created their reality."

                        Yet, also just as true is the REALITY CHECK lesson that a charasmatic con-man who manipulates people into following him...his "wisdom"...his teaching...his program- promising innocent, vulnerable, good-hearted people that they will receive an end to their pain, a solution to their problems, a transformed life with higher brainwave frequencies, and "financial freedom!" all in the name of feeding his already ridiculous sense of masculine "power" or rather - force equating to dominance, control and the illusion of power.

                        listen to your own heart...dear Ones reading this!

                        follow the Knowingness within.

                        allow your self to be your own savior - as in the end it is only you who can save you and all the "leaders" will abandon you - just when you need them most! They are not here to protect you, save you, help you - they are here to get energy from you to fuel their ego dominant intentions - masked as "spiritual wisdom"

                        All is revealed through consciousness...and is palpably evident in response to the events they set in motion.
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                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 11:34:43 AM
                        Yep... This comment below (from that latest collection (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=60#p371503)) set off some firing neurons for me! Geezz... Another commenter mentioned that it might even be James Ray himself posting under pseudonym, though I think that possibility might be a bit far-fetched... Or, maybe not!  :D

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                        • by BenjaminRamsey October 15, 2009 10:13 PM EDT
                          The situation with the deaths during the sweat ceremony in Arizona is certainly tragic, and I can't speak to the leader James Ray's personal integrity. But what's more tragic than the sad loss of those two people is the widespread belief that wealth is not created but only taken from others. It's called the "fixed size pie" belief, that there is only a fixed set of wealth in the world, one set "pie", and in order to have a large piece of the pie someone else has to have less. Nothing could be further from the truth!!! Almost ALL wealth is created! It's a natural offshoot of the miracle of exchange, both parties are better off (or the exchange wouldn't happen). The more business one perpetuates, the more economic growth occurs, and the better off EVERYONE is, including that person. If more people could understand how this works (and I admit it sometimes can be hard to see it), the world would be a much better place. It's part of why you never hear about anyone starving to death in America, the great wealth we've generated here, in the end, SAVES LIVES!!!

                          As I work to create wealth for me and my family, I don't take it away from anyone. I must offer, or exchange, MORE value than I receive, plain and simple. In order to earn a million dollars, I have to put out MORE than a million dollars worth of value. Thus the overall economy is better off. You see?

                          Here's a simple example: I want $1, so do some work by going into the forest and pick an apple and come back and sell it at the market for $1. Whoever buys that apple values it MORE than $1, which is why they decide it's better to give up the $1 and get the apple. Thus, in the economy, there is MORE value than there was before: the man has something worth MORE than a dollar, AND I have a dollar! If I want $100 I have to work to produce something worth MORE than $100 so that the market will gladly pay me $100 for that something. If I want $10,000 it might be hard to pick 10,000 apples, so maybe I'll come up with a plan to magnify my efforts. I could plant 100 apple trees, invent a new kind of apple picker tool, and hire 10 people to pick all the apples in a fraction of the time. They would all receive fair worker's wages they agree to, and I would get the benefit of having CREATED all the new value of all those apples to trade in the market.

                          The whole entire economy works like this, wealth is CREATED one dollar's worth at a time. The only time it doesn't work like this is when people TAKE, such as when they steal, or when they receive welfare checks, or when they use up community pot resources without paying for them, etc. Takers expect the government or the community to provide benefits for them, they complain a lot, and they come up with false ideas about how the rich are somehow causing them to be poor. BALONEY! The poor should THANK the rich, because without them they would be POORER than they already are! It's thanks to the richest men in history, men who CREATED LOTS OF WEALTH, that the whole economy is as good as it is. We aren't starving. We aren't dying of malaria by the thousands like in Africa. We aren't literally freezing to death or being killed off by mudslides and tsunamis like they are in the poor nations of the earth. Hurricane in Florida? We EVACUATE! We have cars! We don't stay in little mud huts to die. It's mostly thanks to all the wealth which has been CREATED over the decades and centuries by entrepreneurs and businessmen. They are our greatest saving angels.

                          Almost all wealth is created. We should strive to create as much as we can, for ourselves and our families, and at the same time for the overall economies of the world, which helps everyone live longer happier lives.
                        Title: Comments for "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation...," #s 61-90
                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 04:50:26 PM
                        This "JasonDaro" commenter is a real piece of work...  :clown:

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                        Post by: Eliscu2 on July 30, 2010, 08:17:24 PM
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                        Title: Re: Benjamin Ramsey
                        Post by: DannyB II on July 30, 2010, 08:41:33 PM
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Yep... This comment below (from that latest collection (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=60#p371503)) set off some firing neurons for me! Geezz... Another commenter mentioned that it might even be James Ray himself posting under pseudonym, though I think that possibility might be a bit far-fetched... Or, maybe not!  :D

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                        • by BenjaminRamsey October 15, 2009 10:13 PM EDT
                          The situation with the deaths during the sweat ceremony in Arizona is certainly tragic, and I can't speak to the leader James Ray's personal integrity. But what's more tragic than the sad loss of those two people is the widespread belief that wealth is not created but only taken from others. It's called the "fixed size pie" belief, that there is only a fixed set of wealth in the world, one set "pie", and in order to have a large piece of the pie someone else has to have less. Nothing could be further from the truth!!! Almost ALL wealth is created! It's a natural offshoot of the miracle of exchange, both parties are better off (or the exchange wouldn't happen). The more business one perpetuates, the more economic growth occurs, and the better off EVERYONE is, including that person. If more people could understand how this works (and I admit it sometimes can be hard to see it), the world would be a much better place. It's part of why you never hear about anyone starving to death in America, the great wealth we've generated here, in the end, SAVES LIVES!!!

                          As I work to create wealth for me and my family, I don't take it away from anyone. I must offer, or exchange, MORE value than I receive, plain and simple. In order to earn a million dollars, I have to put out MORE than a million dollars worth of value. Thus the overall economy is better off. You see?

                          Here's a simple example: I want $1, so do some work by going into the forest and pick an apple and come back and sell it at the market for $1. Whoever buys that apple values it MORE than $1, which is why they decide it's better to give up the $1 and get the apple. Thus, in the economy, there is MORE value than there was before: the man has something worth MORE than a dollar, AND I have a dollar! If I want $100 I have to work to produce something worth MORE than $100 so that the market will gladly pay me $100 for that something. If I want $10,000 it might be hard to pick 10,000 apples, so maybe I'll come up with a plan to magnify my efforts. I could plant 100 apple trees, invent a new kind of apple picker tool, and hire 10 people to pick all the apples in a fraction of the time. They would all receive fair worker's wages they agree to, and I would get the benefit of having CREATED all the new value of all those apples to trade in the market.

                          The whole entire economy works like this, wealth is CREATED one dollar's worth at a time. The only time it doesn't work like this is when people TAKE, such as when they steal, or when they receive welfare checks, or when they use up community pot resources without paying for them, etc. Takers expect the government or the community to provide benefits for them, they complain a lot, and they come up with false ideas about how the rich are somehow causing them to be poor. BALONEY! The poor should THANK the rich, because without them they would be POORER than they already are! It's thanks to the richest men in history, men who CREATED LOTS OF WEALTH, that the whole economy is as good as it is. We aren't starving. We aren't dying of malaria by the thousands like in Africa. We aren't literally freezing to death or being killed off by mudslides and tsunamis like they are in the poor nations of the earth. Hurricane in Florida? We EVACUATE! We have cars! We don't stay in little mud huts to die. It's mostly thanks to all the wealth which has been CREATED over the decades and centuries by entrepreneurs and businessmen. They are our greatest saving angels.

                          Almost all wealth is created. We should strive to create as much as we can, for ourselves and our families, and at the same time for the overall economies of the world, which helps everyone live longer happier lives.



                        Ursus where are the articles that praise this man, did we lose them by mistake??????? Hhhhmmmmm.........
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Pile of Dead Kids on July 30, 2010, 08:43:38 PM
                        Same place as Ed Gein's fan club.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: DannyB II on July 30, 2010, 08:52:09 PM
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Same place as Ed Gein's fan club.

                        Man that dude was spooky, can't believe you would even think of him.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 08:57:27 PM
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Ursus where are the articles that praise this man, did we lose them by mistake??????? Hhhhmmmmm.........
                        Nope. I guess there aren't any. At least not in the main stream media.

                        Myself, I would looooovee posting examples of hardcore kool-aid guzzlers sousing it up. I guess those folk keep kinda quiet once their brethren-in-spirit start dropping off like flies ... on the spiritual warrior barbecue of life! Can't say that I blame them.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Pile of Dead Kids on July 30, 2010, 08:59:24 PM
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 09:07:35 PM
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.
                        Ah, Pile, but Danny is a Spiritual Warrior... He did the New Warrior Training Adventure.  :D

                        That is, at least one of the personages who posts under Danny's name claims to have done so...
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Pile of Dead Kids on July 30, 2010, 09:12:54 PM
                        He also dragged a girl behind his car, which probably makes him about average for the participants.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: DannyB II on July 30, 2010, 10:39:48 PM
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.


                        All this talk of Jeffery Dahmer and Ed Gein just creeps me out. I have sat in many of saunas and sweat lodges, people have died of heat stroke and heart attacks not necessarily when I have been there. So this is not some extraordinary circumstance, my friends.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Pile of Dead Kids on July 30, 2010, 10:58:32 PM
                        Ah, so people self-Darwinating is normal. Okay. Carry on, then.

                        Hey, did you know that sitting around and having a chat at the lip of an extra-large, always-running meatgrinder is therapeutic?
                        Title: Comments for "Sweat Lodge Death Investigation...," #s 91-120
                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 11:27:15 PM
                        Some more over-the-top vehemence offered by the Jason Daro character, also some interesting material quoted from one of the police interviews re. folks' possibly conscious attempts to have "out of body experiences" during James Ray's retreats...

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                        http://jamesray.com/docs/White_Paper_No._1.PDF (http://jamesray.com/docs/White_Paper_No._1.PDF)

                        ?2 The reasons for this tragic accident may never be known, in part because we understand that Angel Valley subsequently destroyed the sweat lodge structure and coverings and buried the stones used in the ceremony. The loss of this critical environmental information may render determining the exact cause of death impossible, and the loss of this critical evidence from any ?crime scene? would itself undermine and criminal charges against Mr. Ray.?

                        MY RESPONSE:

                        WHAT????? The authorities investigating this case did not confiscate exhibit A???

                        The yokels in charge of this criminal investigation are going to have a very difficult time explaining to the judge why they did not confiscate EXHIBIT A, in this Sedona investigation, and allowed the OBVIOUSLY GULITY PARTY which is ANGEL VALLEY to destroy the evidence.

                        ANGEL VALLEY constructed that sweat lodge, not James Arthur Ray, and Angel Valley apparently destroyed the evidence OBVIOUSLY because they knew if they did not THEY would be proven the guilty party in this criminal investigation!

                        Can you imagine what the media would have said if James Arthur Ray was caught destroying exhibit A in the Sedona criminal investigation? We would still be hearing the repercussions all over the media. So, you who are so vocal about guilt in this matter consider that ANGEL VALLEY destroyed the evidence. Why? Because THEY are obviously the guilty party in the Sedona tragedy. If they were completely innocent in this matter they would NOT have destroyed exhibit A in this criminal investigation.

                        Those in charge of this criminal investigation are going to really get in trouble for not confiscating that evidence. You can bet they will! It?s going to be very (((VERY))) embarrassing for them as they try to explain why they did not confiscate the evidence and allowed the obviously guilty party, in this tragedy (Angel Valley), to destroy that evidence.

                        It?s going to be brutal! I hope they televise the trial so we can all watch those idiots trying to explain to the judge why they did not confiscate exhibit A as evidence and allowed Angel Valley to destroy it.[/list]
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                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Ursus on July 30, 2010, 11:35:30 PM
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.
                        All this talk of Jeffery Dahmer and Ed Gein just creeps me out. I have sat in many of saunas and sweat lodges, people have died of heat stroke and heart attacks not necessarily when I have been there. So this is not some extraordinary circumstance, my friends.
                        Was entertainment provided in the saunas and sweat lodges, Danny? Did some Jim Jones stand-in have y'all push through the toxemia and altered mental state brought about when your liver and kidneys shut down, and have y'all chant "it's a good day to die" when the going got tough?
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: DannyB II on July 30, 2010, 11:54:40 PM
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.
                        All this talk of Jeffery Dahmer and Ed Gein just creeps me out. I have sat in many of saunas and sweat lodges, people have died of heat stroke and heart attacks not necessarily when I have been there. So this is not some extraordinary circumstance, my friends.
                        Was entertainment provided in the saunas and sweat lodges, Danny? Did some Jim Jones stand-in have y'all push through the toxemia and altered mental state brought about when your liver and kidneys shut down, and have y'all chant "it's a good day to die" when the going got tough?


                        Mr Breach, all I'm saying is folks have died while or after sweating at a lodges, I believe I forgot to mention the saunas too. This is horrible but not extraordinary. Though I believe we applaud your daily dose of dramatics. You should start you own news paper or Magazine, The DDD= Daily Dose of Dramatics.
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: Ursus on July 31, 2010, 12:26:20 PM
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.
                        All this talk of Jeffery Dahmer and Ed Gein just creeps me out. I have sat in many of saunas and sweat lodges, people have died of heat stroke and heart attacks not necessarily when I have been there. So this is not some extraordinary circumstance, my friends.
                        Was entertainment provided in the saunas and sweat lodges, Danny? Did some Jim Jones stand-in have y'all push through the toxemia and altered mental state brought about when your liver and kidneys shut down, and have y'all chant "it's a good day to die" when the going got tough?
                        Mr Breach, all I'm saying is folks have died while or after sweating at a lodges, I believe I forgot to mention the saunas too. This is horrible but not extraordinary. Though I believe we applaud your daily dose of dramatics. You should start you own news paper or Magazine, The DDD= Daily Dose of Dramatics.
                        So... am I correct in understanding you to say ... that all this which went down in James "Death" Ray's sweating bonanza ... was all pretty much par for the course?
                        Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                        Post by: DannyB II on July 31, 2010, 12:37:43 PM
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                        Danny, we're posting on a forum which prominently features parents willingly sending their own children to total isolation a thousand miles away, with extremely limited contact, to people with obviously sadistic goals, whose notion of what makes good therapy is like Jeffrey Dahmer's notion of what makes a good lunch.

                        And this particular topic features people doing it to themselves, willingly sitting in a sauna until they died of heat exhaustion.

                        Maybe it's just because it's been in so many movies, but Ed Gein's brand of crazy seems tame and textbook by comparison.
                        All this talk of Jeffery Dahmer and Ed Gein just creeps me out. I have sat in many of saunas and sweat lodges, people have died of heat stroke and heart attacks not necessarily when I have been there. So this is not some extraordinary circumstance, my friends.
                        Was entertainment provided in the saunas and sweat lodges, Danny? Did some Jim Jones stand-in have y'all push through the toxemia and altered mental state brought about when your liver and kidneys shut down, and have y'all chant "it's a good day to die" when the going got tough?
                        Mr Breach, all I'm saying is folks have died while or after sweating at a lodges, I believe I forgot to mention the saunas too. This is horrible but not extraordinary. Though I believe we applaud your daily dose of dramatics. You should start you own news paper or Magazine, The DDD= Daily Dose of Dramatics.
                        So... am I correct in understanding you to say ... that all this which went down in James "Death" Ray's sweating bonanza ... was all pretty much par for the course?

                        Well now, I don't know if I would use your exact words. How about something similar to what I said yesterday. People have died from complications brought on by saunas and sweat lodges.
                        Ursus, I think if you go back in James Ray's, "Sweat Lodge" history, I believe this is the first time folks have died. How many sweats has he guided in his lifetime, literally thousands.
                        Why are you personally attached to this particular article, did something happen to you at a sweat lodge, you are not revealing here. Weird things can happen in there.
                        I am of the same opinion as you that these deaths are tragic. James fleeing the scene does not help either but if you know anything about law, you know that was a calculated move directed by his lawyer.
                        Title: James Ray is gonna one-up the Native Americans
                        Post by: Ursus on July 31, 2010, 12:59:27 PM
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Ursus, I think if you go back in James Ray's, "Sweat Lodge" history, I believe this is the first time folks have died. How many sweats has he guided in his lifetime, literally thousands.
                        Somehow, I have grave doubts about your figure. Lol. This is supposed to be a spiritual ceremony, eh? Not some activity you churn out as many times as you can drum up enough participants for. Besides, Ray hasn't been doing it all that long.

                        And... apparently, he had some of his own ideas which superseded the advice of American Indian elders. From Green582's comment above (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=75#p371739) (June 13, 2010 7:37 AM EDT); these are three quotes taken from one of the police interviews, colored emphasis added:

                        "James sits at the door... and there is you know chanting and praying and that kind of stuff in between and blah-blah-blah.... and there is a saying that's called Haiyaha, it's like I don't know and some kind of Native American thing like you know that's cool.... We called these things radical spiritual experiences, okay, so anytime we did something like this... the idea is to give yourself an out of, not so much in it, but I know that word "out of body experience" has been used, but it's more about knowing that you are more, I mean normal people can't bend rebar with their necks, would you agree?"

                        "Okay so the sweat lodge, he borrows from everybody and that actually has been part of his brilliance in my opinion is that he had the ability to take material from all kinds of different sources and synthesize it together and deliver it in a very understandable way. So he would borrow from the Native American tradition, he borrowed from the Hawaiian traditions, he borrowed from the South American natives, and has read extensively and like weaves all this stuff together. So when you are doing the stuff in Arizona, you are of course heavily on the Native American side of things and you are experiencing the energy of Sedona which is why people go there and the red rocks, and okay now we are going to do a sweat lodge...."

                        "I do remember the first time we did it, he said, he called around to try to find somebody who would facilitate this, host it and facilitate it. He couldn't find anybody who was willing to do it, because he called some Native American places I guess that do this. And they said well how many stones or how many rounds did you want to do and I forget how many he said, but whatever his number was, they said no, white people can't do that. And he thought that was really funny then he said, well you don't know my white people, but yeah exactly you don't know my white people is what he said. So he took over and did it himself and found Angel Valley who was willing to let him do that, I guess."
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                        It's almost as if James Ray set out to prove that his followers could do anything the Native Americans could do, and more.
                        Title: Re: James Ray is gonna one-up the Native Americans
                        Post by: DannyB II on July 31, 2010, 05:42:37 PM
                        Quote from: "Ursus"
                        Quote from: "DannyB II"
                        Ursus, I think if you go back in James Ray's, "Sweat Lodge" history, I believe this is the first time folks have died. How many sweats has he guided in his lifetime, literally thousands.
                        Somehow, I have grave doubts about your figure. Lol. This is supposed to be a spiritual ceremony, eh? Not some activity you churn out as many times as you can drum up enough participants for. Besides, Ray hasn't been doing it all that long.

                        This is true, I wrote my response wrong. I meant he has had thousands go through his sweat lodge experience.
                        Spritual ceremony, it definitely has the potential but it is up to the participants. James can only guide and witness their  spiritual experience.


                        And... apparently, he had some of his own ideas which superseded the advice of American Indian elders. From Green582's comment above (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=75#p371739) (June 13, 2010 7:37 AM EDT); these are three quotes taken from one of the police interviews, colored emphasis added:

                        There is no doubt he allowed for himself to venture out of the, "Native American" sweat experience.


                          "James sits at the door... and there is you know chanting and praying and that kind of stuff in between and blah-blah-blah.... and there is a saying that's called Haiyaha, it's like I don't know and some kind of Native American thing like you know that's cool.... We called these things radical spiritual experiences, okay, so anytime we did something like this... the idea is to give yourself an out of, not so much in it, but I know that word "out of body experience" has been used, but it's more about knowing that you are more, I mean normal people can't bend rebar with their necks, would you agree?"

                          "Okay so the sweat lodge, he borrows from everybody and that actually has been part of his brilliance in my opinion is that he had the ability to take material from all kinds of different sources and synthesize it together and deliver it in a very understandable way. So he would borrow from the Native American tradition, he borrowed from the Hawaiian traditions, he borrowed from the South American natives, and has read extensively and like weaves all this stuff together. So when you are doing the stuff in Arizona, you are of course heavily on the Native American side of things and you are experiencing the energy of Sedona which is why people go there and the red rocks, and okay now we are going to do a sweat lodge...."

                          "I do remember the first time we did it, he said, he called around to try to find somebody who would facilitate this, host it and facilitate it. He couldn't find anybody who was willing to do it, because he called some Native American places I guess that do this. And they said well how many stones or how many rounds did you want to do and I forget how many he said, but whatever his number was, they said no, white people can't do that. And he thought that was really funny then he said, well you don't know my white people, but yeah exactly you don't know my white people is what he said. So he took over and did it himself and found Angel Valley who was willing to let him do that, I guess."
                          [/list]

                          It's almost as if James Ray set out to prove that his followers could do anything the Native Americans could do, and more.
                          Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                          Post by: Pile of Dead Kids on July 31, 2010, 09:18:31 PM
                          Quote from: "Some dipshit"
                          their spiritual experience

                          Well, they're definitely having a "spiritual experience" now, aren't they?
                          Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                          Post by: DannyB II on July 31, 2010, 09:23:43 PM
                          Quote from: "Pile of Dead Kids"
                          Quote from: "Some dipshit"
                          their spiritual experience

                          Well, they're definitely having a "spiritual experience" now, aren't they?


                          Why are you hell bent on being as disgusting and ill-tempered as you can be.
                          Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                          Post by: DannyB11 on August 03, 2010, 11:36:58 AM
                          My apologies Pile, my other personality was rude to you and I was wrong. I think we can all get along here so long as you all play by my rules. My cult is growing and with it my powerlessness. I recruited several new members from the gutter behind the AA meeting last night. I have rendered them as powerless as myself. They shall serve me in the afterlife.
                          Peace and Powerlessness
                          Danny
                          Title: Two different takes on "spiritual warrior" chants
                          Post by: Ursus on August 04, 2010, 11:09:34 PM
                          Two different understandings of the "spiritual chant" James Ray had his followers do whilst in the sweat lodge; from this set of comments (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=75#p371739), color emphasis added:


                          James Ray follower, probably not Native American:

                          • by Green582 June 13, 2010 7:37 AM EDT
                          Haiyaha, it's like I don't know and some kind of Native American thing like you know that's cool.... We called these things radical spiritual experiences, okay, so anytime we did something like this... the idea is to give yourself an out of, not so much in it, but I know that word "out of body experience" has been used, but it's more about knowing that you are more, I mean normal people can't bend rebar with their necks, would you agree?"[/list][/list]

                          Native American, and not a James Ray follower:

                          • by weawakshte June 18, 2010 3:50 PM EDT
                          hoka he - a warrior's battle cry loosely (or literally by some) translated to mean: IT IS A GOOD DAY TO DIE![/list][/list]
                          Title: Re: Two different takes on "spiritual warrior" chants
                          Post by: DannyB II on August 04, 2010, 11:18:30 PM
                          Quote from: "Ursus"
                          Two different understandings of the "spiritual chant" James Ray had his followers do whilst in the sweat lodge; from this set of comments (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=75#p371739), color emphasis added:


                          James Ray follower, probably not Native American:

                            • by Green582 June 13, 2010 7:37 AM EDT
                              A woman in one of the police interviews has some interesting things to say about the Giant Plastic Death Tent:

                              "James sits at the door... and there is you know chanting and praying and that kind of stuff in between and blah-blah-blah.... and there is a saying that's called
                            Haiyaha, it's like I don't know and some kind of Native American thing like you know that's cool.... We called these things radical spiritual experiences, okay, so anytime we did something like this... the idea is to give yourself an out of, not so much in it, but I know that word "out of body experience" has been used, but it's more about knowing that you are more, I mean normal people can't bend rebar with their necks, would you agree?"[/list][/list]

                            Native American, and not a James Ray follower:

                              • by weawakshte June 18, 2010 3:50 PM EDT
                                PS His chant appears to be a variation of
                              hoka he - a warrior's battle cry loosely (or literally by some) translated to mean: IT IS A GOOD DAY TO DIE![/list][/list]

                              I agree, there will be a time when, "IT IS A GOOD DAY TO DIE", for everyone.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Anne Bonney on August 05, 2010, 01:40:45 PM
                              Oh FFS......this is nothing more than newage bullshit, run by a guy with a guru complex.  People like this are called Malignant Narcissists and have a deep need to be 'adored' and the "goto guy".

                              Malignant Narcissism:

                              http://narcissistic-personality.suite10 ... narcissism (http://narcissistic-personality.suite101.com/article.cfm/malignant_narcissism)

                              Traits of Malignant Narcissism
                              Behavioral Pathology beyond Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
                              Aug 27, 2007 Tami Port

                               What is Malignant Narcissism? - public domain copywrt exp wikimediaMost of us have narcissistic traits, and a certain degree of self-interest is healthy. But at what point does self-absorption become pathological narcissism?
                                 
                              The term narcissism is derived from the Greek myth of Narcissus, a handsome youth who became obsessed with himself, falling in love with his own reflection. Some degree of narcissism is considered normal; however, when narcissistic traits are so predominant that they significantly impair an individual’s social functioning, this merits a psychological diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Yet, the spectrum of narcissistic behavior can extend far beyond NPD to include even more serious forms of self-obsession including malignant narcissism and psychopathy (Kernberg 2003, 2004).

                              What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
                              The DSM-IV-TR, a manual that psychologists use to diagnose NPD and other mental disorders, explains that NPD is a type of psychological personality disorder characterized by grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy. Narcissism occurs in a spectrum of severity, but the pathologically narcissistic tend primarily be men (75%) who are extremely self-absorbed, intolerant of others’ perspectives, insensitive to others’ needs and indifferent to the effect of their own egocentric behavior. NPD is one of a cluster of loosely-related personality disorders (Borderline PD, Antisocial PD and Histrionic PD), all based on dramatic, emotional or erratic behavior.
                              Diagnostic Overlap of Cluster B Disorders
                              Considerable overlap between the characteristics of different personality disorders can make diagnosis of NPD challenging. Grandiosity, lack of empathy and exploitative interpersonal relations are not unique to NPD, nor is the need to be seen as special or unique. The differential diagnosis of NPD is typically made based on the absence of certain behaviors.


                              Borderline Personality Concerned a loved one has it? 8 minute video. Non-profit. http://www.bpdfamily.com (http://www.bpdfamily.com)
                              Narcissistic Personality Traits Search multiple engines for narcissistic personality traits http://www.webcrawler.com (http://www.webcrawler.com)
                              Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) has several conspicuous similarities, but unlike NPD is characterized by self-injury, whereas narcissists are rarely physically self-injurious. The need for constant attention is also found in Histrionic Personality Disorder, but HPD and BPD are both relationship oriented, whereas NPD is characterized by avoidance of intimacy. Psychopathy, or Antisocial Personality Disorder, is differentiated from NPD by psychopaths' willingness to use physical violence, whereas narcissists rarely commit crimes (Vaknin, 1999-2007).

                              How Is Malignant Narcissism Different from NPD?
                              Otto Kernberg MD, a legendary thought leader in the study of personality disorders, originated the term "malignant narcissism" to describe a syndrome of narcissism that went beyond Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Malignant narcissism is like NPD on pathological steroids, manifesting additional antisocial features, paranoid traits, and ego-syntonic aggression. Kernberg believed that malignant narcissism was part of a spectrum of narcissistic behavior; ranging from NPD, at the low end, to malignant narcissism, and with psychopathy representing the high end of narcissistic severity.

                              Spectrum of Narcissism
                              Psychopaths can almost be thought of as emotionally disabled in that they appear to experience a very limited range of emotion. They know the difference between what society considers “right” and “wrong,” but do not experience, and cannot empathize with, the feelings of suffering, remorse, elation and love that are normally part of the human experience.

                              Kernberg differentiated psychopathy from malignant narcissism based on his assessment that psychopaths are so resistant to external influences that they are unlikely to internalize even the values of the "aggressor." Psychopaths are unable to emotionally identify with others. In contrast, he believed narcissists to have the capacity to identify with and admire powerful people, “which permits at least some loyalty and good object relations to be internalized." However, all three levels of narcissistic behavior pathology share the common threads of extreme self-absorption and insensitivity that often result in a trail of victims--emotional wreckage left in the narcissist’s wake (Kernberg 2003, 2004).

                              Read on
                              Assessing Narcissistic Personality
                              Narcissistic Personality Disorder Diagnosis
                              Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD
                              More Information on Narcissism

                              There are numerous on-line and in print resources with additional information on narcissism and personality disorders in general, including: Psychology Prof Online, The Mayo Clinic: Mental Health Center and the article Personality Disorders: Brief Summary of the Ten Disorders of Personality.

                              This article is a summary of narcissistic traits and disorders. The contents of this article are not meant to be a substitute for professional help and counseling.

                              Additional Narcissism Resources
                              Kernberg, Otto (2004) Aggressivity, Narcissism, and Self-Destructiveness in the Psychotherapeutic Relationship: New Developments in the Psychopathology and Psychotherapy of Severe Personality Disorders.

                              Kernberg, Otto and Akhtar, Salman. (2003) Broken Structures: Severe Personality Disorders and Their Treatment.

                              Vaknin, S (1999-2007). Malignant Self Love: Narcissism Revisited.

                              Wikipedia: Narcissism and Malignant Narcissism

                              American Psychiatric Association APA (2000) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR)



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                              Title: program founders frequently on NPD spectrum
                              Post by: Ursus on August 06, 2010, 04:48:33 PM
                              I think a lot of the older program founders and similar movers and shakers (before this industry got populated by large companies like Aspen Ed) *do* qualify as being on the Narcissistic Personality Disorder spectrum...  :D
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: justonemore on August 06, 2010, 11:18:30 PM
                              Wow Anne, Well done and thanks! J.O.M.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: DannyB II on August 07, 2010, 04:09:12 PM
                              Quote from: "justonemore"
                              Wow Anne, Well done and thanks! J.O.M.

                              WOW!!!! ya, real nifty, JOM . Like, "what if".
                              Ya well done Anne, like I bet you were just scrolling through the internet on your bosses time and found this, like, totally awesome take on narcissism. Like, fucking narley duse, totally fits in with the scene around here. This James Ray dude, is like, a total loser, man.
                              Guru, no way, man. There is only one, "Zen Meister" and that is Dr. Phil, totally wicked, dude.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Ursus on August 08, 2010, 11:12:59 AM
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Quote from: "justonemore"
                              Wow Anne, Well done and thanks! J.O.M.
                              WOW!!!! ya, real nifty, JOM . Like, "what if".
                              Ya well done Anne, like I bet you were just scrolling through the internet on your bosses time and found this, like, totally awesome take on narcissism. Like, fucking narley duse, totally fits in with the scene around here. This James Ray dude, is like, a total loser, man.
                              Guru, no way, man. There is only one, "Zen Meister" and that is Dr. Phil, totally wicked, dude.
                              Do you really think of Dr. Phil as the "Zen Meister," Danny?
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: DannyB II on August 08, 2010, 11:26:04 AM
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Quote from: "justonemore"
                              Wow Anne, Well done and thanks! J.O.M.
                              WOW!!!! ya, real nifty, JOM . Like, "what if".
                              Ya well done Anne, like I bet you were just scrolling through the internet on your bosses time and found this, like, totally awesome take on narcissism. Like, fucking narley duse, totally fits in with the scene around here. This James Ray dude, is like, a total loser, man.
                              Guru, no way, man. There is only one, "Zen Meister" and that is Dr. Phil, totally wicked, dude.
                              Do you really think of Dr. Phil as the "Zen Meister," Danny?

                              Well, how do I answer this. Danny 1, did not post this but a lively and satirical young lady did.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Ursus on August 08, 2010, 01:48:04 PM
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Quote from: "justonemore"
                              Wow Anne, Well done and thanks! J.O.M.
                              WOW!!!! ya, real nifty, JOM . Like, "what if".
                              Ya well done Anne, like I bet you were just scrolling through the internet on your bosses time and found this, like, totally awesome take on narcissism. Like, fucking narley duse, totally fits in with the scene around here. This James Ray dude, is like, a total loser, man.
                              Guru, no way, man. There is only one, "Zen Meister" and that is Dr. Phil, totally wicked, dude.
                              Do you really think of Dr. Phil as the "Zen Meister," Danny?
                              Well, how do I answer this. Danny 1, did not post this but a lively and satirical young lady did.
                              I would say ... that you're responsible for everything that's posted under your username. Claiming that it was really someone else... sounds like a bit of a cop-out.
                              Title: Self-Help Expert Contests Police Statements
                              Post by: Ursus on August 08, 2010, 01:56:30 PM
                              Back to the story...

                              -------------- • -------------- • --------------

                              The New York Times
                              Arizona: Self-Help Expert Contests Police Statements (http://http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/13/us/13brfs-SELFHELPEXPE_BRF.html)
                              By JOHN DOUGHERTY
                              Published: October 12, 2009


                              A spokesman for James Arthur Ray, the self-help expert who was leading a sweat lodge ceremony in Sedona when two people died and three others were critically injured on Thursday, is contesting statements by the police that the lodge was built by Mr. Ray's staff. The spokesman, Howard Bragman, said Mr. Ray's contract with the Angel Valley spiritual retreat called for Angel Valley to "design and construct" the sweat lodge. Dwight D'Evelyn, a Yavapai County Sheriff's Office spokesman, said the office stood by its contention that members of Mr. Ray's staff built the sweat lodge. Angel Valley's owners declined to comment on the contract. Mr. Bragman also contested earlier police statements that Mr. Ray had left the area Thursday evening. He said Mr. Ray left Sedona on Friday. Mr. D'Evelyn said Mr. Ray was at Angel Valley as late as 10 p.m. Thursday when detectives began their investigation. Mr. Ray declined to give a statement to detectives on the case, the police said.

                              A version of this article appeared in print on October 13, 2009, on page A23 of the New York edition.


                              Copyright 2009 The New York Times Company
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: DannyB II on August 08, 2010, 02:26:28 PM
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Quote from: "justonemore"
                              Wow Anne, Well done and thanks! J.O.M.
                              WOW!!!! ya, real nifty, JOM . Like, "what if".
                              Ya well done Anne, like I bet you were just scrolling through the internet on your bosses time and found this, like, totally awesome take on narcissism. Like, fucking narley duse, totally fits in with the scene around here. This James Ray dude, is like, a total loser, man.
                              Guru, no way, man. There is only one, "Zen Meister" and that is Dr. Phil, totally wicked, dude.
                              Do you really think of Dr. Phil as the "Zen Meister," Danny?
                              Well, how do I answer this. Danny 1, did not post this but a lively and satirical young lady did.
                              I would say ... that you're responsible for everything that's posted under your username. Claiming that it was really someone else... sounds like a bit of a cop-out.

                              "You would say",  :rofl: I'm responsible, claiming, cop out, all coming from someone who hides behind a fake name and a law of internet confidentiality, governing Web Sites.
                              Ursus go and pander your nonsense else where.
                              Title: SWEAT LODGE DEATHS: Ray speaks out, says he's 'being tested'
                              Post by: Ursus on August 08, 2010, 02:54:46 PM
                              The Daily Courier
                              10/13/2009 10:23:00 PM

                              SWEAT LODGE DEATHS: Ray speaks out, says he's 'being tested' (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?Search=1&ArticleID=73429&SectionID=1&SubSectionID=1&S=1)
                              By DAISY NGUYEN and FELICIA FONSECA
                              The Associated Press


                              LOS ANGELES - The man in charge of a spiritual retreat last week in Arizona that left two people dead after they were overcome in a sweat lodge said Tuesday night he is facing a difficult time and is "being tested" by the tragedy.

                              The comments from self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray came during a seminar he held at a hotel in Marina del Rey, near Los Angeles. Ray broke down in tears as he addressed the deaths.

                              "This is the most difficult time I've ever faced," Ray told the crowd of about 200. "I don't know how to deal with it really."

                              An audience member asked Ray to describe what happened at the retreat, but he declined, saying only that he has hired his own investigative team and is cooperating with authorities.

                              "We're looking for answers," he said. "I'm as frustrated and confused as other people are."

                              Ray added that he wrestled with whether to go through with Tuesday's seminar, which he said was scheduled weeks before the sweat lodge deaths.

                              "My advisers told me, 'Don't do that. You don't know who'll show up. They're going to eat you alive,"' he told the audience. But he said it was important for him to keep his commitments.

                              "I'm grieving right now," Ray said. "I'm grieving for the families."

                              Ray led a group of more than 50 people last week through a five-day program at a resort near Sedona, Ariz., intended to push people beyond their limits. The course included a Thursday sweat lodge ceremony, which ended tragically in the deaths of Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee.

                              Nineteen other people were hurt, and one remains in critical condition.

                              Ray's comments followed a demand earlier Tuesday from a spokesman for Brown's family for more accountability from Ray.

                              Tom McFeeley, Brown's cousin and family spokesman, called on Ray to assure that the retreat's participants "were not mistreated and not put in a reckless situation.

                              "He was someone people believed in, people paid good money to get his advice," McFeeley said. "It's a person we all wanted to believe had our best interest in mind. Quite simply, that didn't happen."

                              McFeeley also said he is concerned that Ray exhibited a "godlike complex" during the event that might have kept people from opting out of activities Ray acknowledged could cause "physical, emotional, financial or other injuries."

                              Fire department reports released Tuesday show the incident wasn't the first involving a sweat lodge ceremony at the resort. Verde Valley Fire Chief Jerry Doerksen said his department responded to a 911 call in October 2005 about a person who was unconscious after being in a sweat lodge.

                              Angel Valley resort owner Amayra Hamilton confirmed that Ray was leading the sweat ceremony during the 2005 event. Ray's spokesman declined to comment.

                              Meanwhile, the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office continued to investigate last week's ceremony to determine if criminal negligence played a role in the deaths or illnesses. Sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said Tuesday that authorities have not yet spoken with Ray.

                              Ray's spokesman, Howard Bragman, declined Tuesday to address the Brown family's concerns.

                              Authorities say 55 to 65 people attending the program were crowded into the 415-square-foot, crudely built sweat lodge during a two-hour period Thursday night. Participants paid between $9,000 and $10,000 for the retreat. They were highly encouraged, but not forced, to remain inside for the entire two hours, authorities said.

                              The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet before entering the sweat lodge around 3 p.m. A 911 call two hours later said two people, who authorities said were Shore and Brown, had no pulse and weren't breathing.

                              Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted, but the results are being withheld pending additional tests. Carbon monoxide poisoning was ruled out as a cause of the deaths and illnesses.

                              A statement released by the family of Liz Neuman, who remains in critical condition at the Flagstaff Medical Center, said she is in a coma and doctors are working to stabilize damage to multiple organs.

                              Two others remained hospitalized. Fire officials say the victims exhibited symptoms ranging from dehydration to kidney failure after sitting in the sweat lodge.

                              Officials say the sweat lodge, built specifically for the five-day retreat, lacked the necessary building permit.

                              Resort owners Amayra Hamilton and her husband, Michael, asked Tuesday for prayers in hopes that something positive would come out of what they said was a tragic and unexpected event.


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                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: DannyB II on August 08, 2010, 03:13:41 PM
                              Jeesh, this is all great and what not but your posts are almost a year old and what the hell does any of this have to do with the TTI. As written on the home page of Fornits.
                              Oh, that's right Ursus is off on one of his, Chronicles of Blarnia, well I sure do hope your entertained.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Ursus on August 09, 2010, 11:04:59 AM
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Jeesh, this is all great and what not but your posts are almost a year old and what the hell does any of this have to do with the TTI. As written on the home page of Fornits.
                              Oh, that's right Ursus is off on one of his, Chronicles of Blarnia, well I sure do hope your entertained.
                              Oh, I think it has quite a lot to do with the TTI. There's more than a few of the same methodologies used ... when it comes to getting folks to give up their critical reasoning skills and "follow the leader."

                              I'm guessing you don't agree, and it's certainly within your rights to opine that-a-way.  :D
                              Title: Sweat Lodge Deaths: Owner Didn't Have Permits
                              Post by: Ursus on August 09, 2010, 11:41:26 AM
                              CBSnews.com · CRIMESIDER
                              October 13, 2009 9:31 AM

                              Angel Valley Sweat Lodge Deaths: Owner Didn't Have Permits (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5381438-504083.html?tag=contentMain%3bcontentBody)
                              Posted by Edecio Martinez

                              FLAGSTAFF, Ariz. (CBS/AP) No permit. Not even an application.

                              A sweat lodge in central Arizona where two people were overcome and later died lacked the necessary building permit, an official said Monday.

                              Yavapai County building safety manager Jack Judd said there was no record of an application or permit for a temporary structure at the Angel Valley Retreat Center near Sedona.

                              At any one time, 55 to 65 people attending the "Spiritual Warrior" program hosted by self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray were crowded into the 415-square-foot space during a two-hour period Thursday night, Yavapai County sheriff's officials said.

                              Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, New York, and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee died after being overcome in the sauna-like hut, which was built specifically for the five-day retreat. Nineteen other people were hospitalized with symptoms ranging from dehydration to kidney failure. One remained in critical condition Monday, and two others were in fair condition.

                              Sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said authorities believe Ray's staff either participated in erecting the structure or oversaw the construction. Ray's spokesman, Howard Bragman, declined to comment on the permit but said the resort's staff was under contract to build a sweat lodge to accommodate up to 75 people.

                              Resort owner Michael Hamilton declined to address the permit issue late Monday. His wife, Amayra Hamilton, said Saturday the sweat lodge, which was built with a wood frame and covered with layers of tarps and blankets, had been taken down.

                              Judd said no inspection of the structure was conducted before it was dismantled.

                              Verde Valley Fire Chief Jerry Doerksen, whose department responded to the initial emergency call of two people not breathing, said his department regularly inspects the Hamiltons' property. He said the couple never hesitates to ask questions, raise concerns or address issues brought up by fire officials.

                              An inspection of the fire area used to heat the cantaloupe-sized rocks that were taken into the sweat lodge determined it "would have been a legal fire," Doerksen said.

                              The sheriff's office is investigating to determine if criminal negligence played a role in the deaths or illnesses. Tests for contaminants ruled out carbon monoxide poisoning as a cause.

                              Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted, but the results are being withheld pending additional tests.

                              Sweat lodges — used by American Indian tribes to cleanse the body and prepare for hunts, ceremonies and other events — are a common practice in the area. Most are on private property and hold no more than a dozen people, Doerksen said.

                              Large-scale sweat lodges appear to create a "new challenge for us," he said.

                              Talks are planned between his department and county officials to consider issuing health warnings for events such as sweat lodges that would include suggestions on how long to stay in.

                              "It's the same with hot tubs and saunas," Doerksen said. "Most of the time in a motel, it will say do not stay in there more than 10 to 15 minutes. What we're looking at is the same kind of thing."


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                              Title: Comments for "Sweat Lodge Deaths: Owner Didn't Have Permits"
                              Post by: Ursus on August 09, 2010, 11:55:54 AM
                              Comments (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5381438-504083.html?tag=contentMain%3bcontentBody) left for the above article, "Sweat Lodge Deaths: Owner Didn't Have Permits (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=373158#p373156)" (by Edecio Martinez; October 13, 2009; CBS News Crimesider):


                              by Ms_enza · October 13, 2009 11:20 AM EDT
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                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Anne Bonney on August 09, 2010, 12:19:39 PM
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Ya well done Anne

                              Thanks, I thought it was pretty good myself.

                               :seg:  :seg:  :seg2:  :seg2:
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: DannyB II on August 09, 2010, 03:49:17 PM
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Jeesh, this is all great and what not but your posts are almost a year old and what the hell does any of this have to do with the TTI. As written on the home page of Fornits.
                              Oh, that's right Ursus is off on one of his, Chronicles of Blarnia, well I sure do hope your entertained.
                              Oh, I think it has quite a lot to do with the TTI. There's more than a few of the same methodologies used ... when it comes to getting folks to give up their critical reasoning skills and "follow the leader."

                              I'm guessing you don't agree, and it's certainly within your rights to opine that-a-way.  :D


                              No that would be the adult version, TAI.
                              There using the same methodologies, "folks giving up their critical reasoning skills and following the leader".
                              You can't be serious, Ursus.
                              Like you do when your busted by your wife for being on the computer, yet again. You explain to her, you have no
                              critical reasoning for being on the computer as much as you are and if she would intervene you would follow her out of the office.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Fnord on August 09, 2010, 04:04:55 PM
                              Spoken like a douche as usual Danno
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                              Title: SWEAT LODGE DEATHS: Victim's family seeks more details
                              Post by: Ursus on August 14, 2010, 11:05:53 AM
                              The Daily Courier
                              10/13/2009 10:23:00 PM

                              SWEAT LODGE DEATHS: Victim's family seeks more details (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73432)
                              By FELICIA FONSECA · The Associated Press

                              (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73432a.jpg)
                              A view of the Angel Valley Retreat Center Tuesday near Sedona shows a heart-shaped stone memorial on the site of last week's sweat lodge tragedy. Ross D. Franklin/The Associated Press

                              SEDONA - A spokesman for the family of one of two people who died after being overcome in an Arizona sweat lodge demanded more accountability Tuesday from the man in charge of the spiritual retreat that led to the deaths.

                              Self-help expert and author James Arthur Ray led a group of more than 50 people last week through a five-day program intended to push people beyond their limits. The course included a Thursday sweat lodge ceremony, which ended tragically in the deaths of Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., and 40-year-old James Shore of Milwaukee.

                              Nineteen other people were hurt, and one remains in critical condition.

                              Tom McFeeley, Brown's cousin and family spokesman, called on Ray to assure that the participants "were not mistreated and not put in a reckless situation.

                              "He was someone people believed in, people paid good money to get his advice," McFeeley said. "It's a person we all wanted to believe had our best interest in mind. Quite simply, that didn't happen."

                              McFeeley also said he is concerned that Ray exhibited a "godlike complex" during the event that might have kept people from opting out of activities Ray acknowledged could cause "physical, emotional, financial or other injuries."

                              "We need to look at this way beyond the sweat lodge," McFeeley said. "If we could understand minute by minute what happened this week, I think we'll get a much greater view on what kind of event this was and the level of danger that existed."

                              Fire department reports released Tuesday show the incident wasn't the first involving a sweat lodge ceremony at the resort. Verde Valley Fire Chief Jerry Doerksen said his department responded to a 911 call in October 2005 about a person who was unconscious after being in a sweat lodge.

                              Angel Valley resort owner Amayra Hamilton confirmed that Ray was leading the sweat ceremony during the 2005 event. Ray's spokesman declined to comment.

                              No other details about the 2005 incident were immediately available.

                              Meanwhile, the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office continued to investigate last week's ceremony to determine if criminal negligence played a role in the deaths or illnesses. Authorities said Ray has refused to speak with authorities. No charges have been filed.

                              Ray's spokesman, Howard Bragman, has said Ray would speak when it's appropriate. He declined Tuesday to address the Brown family's concerns.

                              "The facts are going to come out," he said. "We're not going to conduct our investigation in the media. We're going to let the investigative bodies do their jobs."

                              Authorities say 55 to 65 people attending the program were crowded into the 415-square-foot crudely built sweat lodge during a two-hour period Thursday night. Participants paid between $9,000 and $10,000 for the retreat. They were highly encouraged, but not forced, to remain inside for the entire two hours, authorities said.

                              The participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness, then ate a breakfast buffet before entering the sweat lodge around 3 p.m. A 911 call two hours later said two people, who authorities said were Shore and Brown, had no pulse and weren't breathing.

                              Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted, but the results are being withheld pending additional tests. Carbon monoxide poisoning was ruled out as a cause of the deaths and illnesses.

                              A statement released by the family of Liz Neuman, who remains in critical condition at the Flagstaff Medical Center, said she is in a coma and doctors are working to stabilize damage to multiple organs.

                              "Liz is fighting hard and her family asks for everyone to keep her in their thoughts and prayers," the statement said.

                              Two others remained hospitalized. Fire officials say the victims exhibited symptoms ranging from dehydration to kidney failure after sitting in the sweat lodge.

                              Officials say the sweat lodge, built specifically for the five-day retreat, lacked the necessary building permit.

                              Resort owners Amayra Hamilton and her husband, Michael, asked Tuesday for prayers in hopes that something positive will come out of what they say was a tragic and unexpected event. The Hamiltons said that a prayer ceremony has been conducted at the sweat lodge site, and a heart-shaped memorial has been laid with stones for Brown and Shore.

                              Ray has expressed his condolences through social networking sites and said he is praying for the victims and their families.

                              McFeeley said the Hamiltons have been in contact with the Brown family, but did not receive a call from Ray until Tuesday.


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                              Title: Comments for "...Victim's family seeks more details"
                              Post by: Ursus on August 14, 2010, 02:36:44 PM
                              Comments (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73432) left for the above article, "SWEAT LODGE DEATHS: Victim's family seeks more details (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=373759#p373752)" (by Felicia Fonseca, 10/13/2009, The Daily Courier/AP):


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                              Title: Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray "Frustrated and Confused"...
                              Post by: Ursus on August 15, 2010, 12:19:07 PM
                              CBSnews.com · CRIMESIDER
                              October 14, 2009 11:34 AM

                              Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray "Frustrated and Confused" Over Angel Valley Sweat Lodge Deaths (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5368846-504083.html?tag=contentMain%3bcontentBody)
                              Posted by Edecio Martinez

                              (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/14/image5383828x.jpg)
                              Photo: James Arthur Ray. (JamesRay.com)

                              LOS ANGELES (CBS/AP) James Arthur Ray, the man who led a spiritual retreat in Arizona where two people died after being overcome in a sweat lodge, broke down in tears as he said the tragedy has left him "frustrated and confused."

                              At a seminar outside Los Angeles, the self-help expert addressed the deaths of Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee.

                              Authorities say Brown, Shore and more than 50 other people attending the retreat near Sedona, Ariz., were crowded into a 415-square-foot sweat lodge over two hours last Thursday Oct. 9.

                              Brown and Shore died, and 19 others were hurt. One remains in critical condition. Autopsy results are being withheld pending additional tests, but carbon monoxide poisoning was ruled out as a cause of the deaths and illnesses. Fire officials said the surviving victims exhibited symptoms ranging from dehydration to kidney failure.

                              "This is the most difficult time I've ever faced," Ray told a crowd of about 200 at a hotel in Marina del Rey Tuesday. "I don't know how to deal with it really."

                              An audience member asked Ray to describe what happened at the retreat, but he declined, saying only that he has hired his own investigative team and is cooperating with authorities.

                              "We're looking for answers," he said. "I'm as frustrated and confused as other people are."

                              Ray, who said he is "being tested" by the tragedy, added that he wrestled with whether to go through with Tuesday's seminar. He said it had been scheduled weeks before the Arizona retreat.

                              "My advisers told me, 'Don't do that. You don't know who'll show up. They're going to eat you alive,"' he told the audience. But he said it was important for him to keep his commitments.

                              "I'm grieving right now," said Ray. "I'm grieving for the families."

                              The comments followed a demand earlier Tuesday from a spokesman for Brown's family for more accountability from Ray.

                              Tom McFeeley, Brown's cousin and family spokesman, called on Ray to assure that the retreat's participants "were not mistreated and not put in a reckless situation."

                              McFeeley also said he is concerned that Ray exhibited a "godlike complex" during the event that might have kept people from opting out of activities that Ray acknowledged could cause "physical, emotional, financial or other injuries."

                              Ray's spokesman, Howard Bragman, declined Tuesday to address McFeeley's concerns.

                              Fire department reports released Tuesday show the incident wasn't the first involving a sweat lodge ceremony at the resort, the Angel Valley Retreat Center. Verde Valley Fire Chief Jerry Doerksen said his department responded to a 911 call in October 2005 about a person who was unconscious after being in a sweat lodge.

                              (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/10/image5376265x.jpg)
                              Photo: Investigators look over a "sweat lodge" on the grounds of Angel Valley Retreat Center. (AP/Tom Tingle, Arizona Republic)

                              Angel Valley resort owner Amayra Hamilton confirmed that Ray was leading the sweat ceremony during the 2005 event. Ray's spokesman declined to comment.

                              Meanwhile, the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office continued to investigate last week's ceremony to determine if criminal negligence played a role in the deaths or illnesses. Sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said Tuesday that authorities have not yet spoken with Ray.

                              No charges have been filed.

                              Participants paid between $9,000 and $10,000 for the retreat, and police said they were highly encouraged, but not forced, to remain inside the crudely built sweat lodge the entire two hours, authorities said.

                              A statement released by the family of Liz Neuman, who remains in critical condition at the Flagstaff Medical Center, said she is in a coma and doctors are working to stabilize damage to multiple organs.

                              Two others remained hospitalized.

                              Officials say the sweat lodge, built specifically for the five-day retreat, lacked the necessary building permit.


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                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: T-Rex on August 15, 2010, 12:28:45 PM
                              Not to be confrontational but what is the purpose of posting a incident that happened over a year ago, we are well aware of the story going back to your first posting. Is this for archival reasons for this Web Site. Some of the posting are redundant stories copied by the same poster, Ursus.
                              I am confused.
                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: Ursus on August 15, 2010, 01:14:58 PM
                              Quote from: "T-Rex"
                              Not to be confrontational but what is the purpose of posting a incident that happened over a year ago, we are well aware of the story going back to your first posting. Is this for archival reasons for this Web Site. Some of the posting are redundant stories copied by the same poster, Ursus.
                              I am confused.
                              See the following previous post, just a few back... Perhaps ya missed it! ;D


                              Originally posted (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=105#p373149) on 09 Aug 2010:
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "DannyB II"
                              Jeesh, this is all great and what not but your posts are almost a year old and what the hell does any of this have to do with the TTI. As written on the home page of Fornits.
                              Oh, that's right Ursus is off on one of his, Chronicles of Blarnia, well I sure do hope your entertained.
                              Oh, I think it has quite a lot to do with the TTI. There's more than a few of the same methodologies used ... when it comes to getting folks to give up their critical reasoning skills and "follow the leader."

                              I'm guessing you don't agree, and it's certainly within your rights to opine that-a-way.  :D
                              [/list]
                              Title: Services set for 2 who died in Ariz. sweat lodge
                              Post by: Ursus on August 15, 2010, 01:28:02 PM
                              The Daily Courier
                              10/14/2009 9:57:00 PM

                              Services set for 2 who died in Ariz. sweat lodge (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73479)
                              The Associated Press

                              SEDONA - Memorial services have been set for two people who died after being overcome in a sauna-like sweat lodge near Sedona.

                              Services are scheduled Saturday morning at Holy Name of Jesus Church in Otisville, N.Y., for 38-year-old Kirby Brown and late Saturday afternoon at the Hubbard Lodge in Milwaukee for 40-year-old James Shore.

                              Authorities say Brown, Shore and more than 50 other people attending a retreat were crowded into a sweat lodge for more than two hours on Oct. 8.

                              Nineteen others were treated at hospitals. One remains in critical condition and another was in good condition. A third patient was released.

                              Authorities are trying to determine if criminal negligence played a role. No charges have been filed.


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                              Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                              Post by: T-Rex on August 15, 2010, 01:41:43 PM
                              Quote from: "Ursus"
                              Quote from: "T-Rex"
                              Not to be confrontational but what is the purpose of posting a incident that happened over a year ago, we are well aware of the story going back to your first posting. Is this for archival reasons for this Web Site. Some of the posting are redundant stories copied by the same poster, Ursus.
                              I am confused.
                              See the following previous post, just a few back... Perhaps ya missed it! ;D


                                Originally posted (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=105#p373149) on 09 Aug 2010:
                                Quote from: "Ursus"
                                Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                Jeesh, this is all great and what not but your posts are almost a year old and what the hell does any of this have to do with the TTI. As written on the home page of Fornits.
                                Oh, that's right Ursus is off on one of his, Chronicles of Blarnia, well I sure do hope your entertained.
                                Oh, I think it has quite a lot to do with the TTI. There's more than a few of the same methodologies used ... when it comes to getting folks to give up their critical reasoning skills and "follow the leader."

                                I'm guessing you don't agree, and it's certainly within your rights to opine that-a-way.  :D
                                [/list]


                                OK I don't get it, please help me out. I asked a question and you sent me to a different poster that asked a question that somewhat resembles my question.
                                I am seriously asking a question, why are you cataloging all this material??
                                You have been redundant with your postings and this incident happened a year ago.
                                Does fornits have a purpose for all this information?
                                I will say this, you really did not answer Danny's question nor mine in so far as Fornits need for this information, is fornits going to move into the adult special workshop arena.
                                I have no judgment on this either way. I am not looking for confrontation, please I am just asking thoughtful questions, for my general knowledge.
                                Thanks for answering any questions, you can.
                                Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                Post by: Ursus on August 17, 2010, 02:04:17 AM
                                Quote from: "T-Rex"
                                Quote from: "Ursus"
                                Quote from: "T-Rex"
                                Not to be confrontational but what is the purpose of posting a incident that happened over a year ago, we are well aware of the story going back to your first posting. Is this for archival reasons for this Web Site. Some of the posting are redundant stories copied by the same poster, Ursus.
                                I am confused.
                                See the following previous post, just a few back... Perhaps ya missed it! ;D


                                  Originally posted (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&start=105#p373149) on 09 Aug 2010:
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Jeesh, this is all great and what not but your posts are almost a year old and what the hell does any of this have to do with the TTI. As written on the home page of Fornits.
                                  Oh, that's right Ursus is off on one of his, Chronicles of Blarnia, well I sure do hope your entertained.
                                  Oh, I think it has quite a lot to do with the TTI. There's more than a few of the same methodologies used ... when it comes to getting folks to give up their critical reasoning skills and "follow the leader."

                                  I'm guessing you don't agree, and it's certainly within your rights to opine that-a-way.  :D
                                  [/list]
                                  OK I don't get it, please help me out. I asked a question and you sent me to a different poster that asked a question that somewhat resembles my question.
                                  I am seriously asking a question, why are you cataloging all this material??
                                  You have been redundant with your postings and this incident happened a year ago.
                                  Does fornits have a purpose for all this information?
                                  I will say this, you really did not answer Danny's question nor mine in so far as Fornits need for this information, is fornits going to move into the adult special workshop arena.
                                  I have no judgment on this either way. I am not looking for confrontation, please I am just asking thoughtful questions, for my general knowledge.
                                  Thanks for answering any questions, you can.
                                  Actually, I think I answered Danny's question quite well. It is certainly your and Danny's prerogative to disagree with my take on that issue. However, just because you don't like or agree with my answer ... doesn't mean that the question was not addressed.

                                  See also Buzz's post in the Suicide thread, emphasis added:

                                  Originally posted (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=30920&p=373983#p373894) on 16 Aug 2010:
                                  Quote from: "BuzzKill"
                                  Understanding LGAT, what it is, how it works and why it is so dangerous, is very important to understanding how some of these programs operate and grow. Its covered pretty well in the book: Cults in our Midst. There is quite a bit on Rick Ross' web site too. ISAC used to have a bunch of links on the topic. I guess someone needs to try and recreate that links resource.
                                  [/list]

                                  As far as posting articles is concerned, I'm just doing my wee part for the Cassandra Project (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/search.php?keywords=cassandra+project&terms=all&author=&sc=1&sf=all&sr=posts&sk=t&sd=d&st=0&ch=300&t=0&submit=Search), that's all...  ;D
                                  Title: Resort near Sedona had previous sweat lodge incident
                                  Post by: Ursus on August 17, 2010, 02:31:44 AM
                                  So... I take it this wasn't the first time that folk were carted off to the emergency room from one of James "Death" Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" bake-offs!


                                  [There are a ton of comments on this article, too many to post. I also suspect that they've been heavily moderated...]

                                  -------------- • -------------- • --------------

                                  The Arizona Republic
                                  Resort near Sedona had previous sweat lodge incident (http://http://www.azcentral.com/news/articles/2009/10/14/20091014sweatlodgerecords1014-ON.html)

                                  By JJ Hensley - Oct. 15, 2009 12:00 AM

                                  The scene that unfolded outside a sweat lodge at a remote compound near Sedona was not the first time paramedics responded to one of James Arthur Ray's seminars at the Angel Valley Spiritual Retreat Center.

                                  Records released Wednesday show firefighters also were called to the center for a sweat-lodge-related illness in mid-October 2005.

                                  Amayra Hamilton, one of the retreat's owners, said it was another Ray retreat.

                                  The records show paramedics treated a 42-year-old man who was unconscious after spending time in a sweat lodge. The man was taken to Verde Valley Medical Center about 20 minutes later. Hamilton said the man returned the next day.

                                  As for the events that left two dead and four hospitalized last week, records that the Verde Valley Fire District released Wednesday depict a scene that tested the resources of the emergency responders in the Sedona area.

                                  By the time the legion of ambulances, fire engines and helicopters reached the remote area at about 7:40 p.m. Thursday, emergency workers found "multiple people lying on the ground around a sweat lodge needing medical condition," according to reports.

                                  In addition to two patients in cardiac arrest, some were lying on the ground unconscious and others were "walking around not feeling well," according to reports.

                                  Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee, were later pronounced dead at Verde Valley Medical Center. Services for both will be Saturday.

                                  More people who were in the sweat lodge had moved to the retreat center's dining hall and, according to Angel Valley and Ray's spokesman, didn't need any medical attention. Eight of those people later went to emergency rooms in Sedona and Cottonwood after paramedics assessed them.

                                  Others were feeling ill, but the doctor in charge of the outdoor triage scene determined that those who were not critical were "all becoming better fast" and instead recommended they call 911 or go to the hospital if they started to feel sick.

                                  The reports didn't say what caused all of the people to get sick, although authorities have ruled out carbon monoxide poisoning. Investigators have said there were more than 60 people in the 415-square-foot enclosure.

                                  Kim Moore of Verde Valley Ambulance Co. was one of the emergency-medical people called to the scene last week. She said one of her patients had burns. People didn't want to talk about what happened because the event was intended to be a personal spiritual experience.

                                  "The people weren't talking about it, the ones who could talk," she said.

                                  Ray stuck to his schedule of events this week. He told a Los Angeles-area seminar Tuesday night that his advisers told him not to, but he wanted to keep his commitments.

                                  Ray had another seminar scheduled for Wednesday and also was scheduled to begin his two-day World Wealth Summit in San Diego on Friday. His Web site says the two-day event costs nearly $1,000. Authorities said people at the Sedona event paid more than $9,000 for the five days of lectures and exercises that culminated with the sweat-lodge event.

                                  Howard Bragman, Ray's spokesman, said Ray wouldn't comment on the ongoing investigation.

                                  "There's more questions than answers right now," he said.

                                  Of the four people hospitalized after Thursday's events, two remained at Flagstaff Medical Center on Wednesday afternoon, with one patient in good condition and one in critical condition.

                                  The family of Liz Neuman released a statement that said she remained in a coma in critical condition.

                                  "Liz is still fighting hard and her family asks for everyone to keep her in their thoughts and prayers," according to the statement.


                                  Copyright © 2010, azcentral.com.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: T-Rex on August 17, 2010, 05:13:30 PM
                                  Ursus,
                                  I am not disagreeing with what you are doing here or on any other thread my question is why are you doing the posting. Is this something that goes into a archive, wiki, or whatever. I really don't know. I have never asked the question before so I thought I would ask now.
                                  I am genuinely interested.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Ursus on August 17, 2010, 10:08:13 PM
                                  Quote from: "T-Rex"
                                  Ursus,
                                  I am not disagreeing with what you are doing here or on any other thread my question is why are you doing the posting. Is this something that goes into a archive, wiki, or whatever. I really don't know. I have never asked the question before so I thought I would ask now.
                                  I am genuinely interested.
                                  And I thought I had addressed your question in my post (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=374069#p374015) above. If you are asking about the organization of such material within this website, etc., you'd best take up such questions with Ginger...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 17, 2010, 10:56:21 PM
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Quote from: "T-Rex"
                                  Ursus,
                                  I am not disagreeing with what you are doing here or on any other thread my question is why are you doing the posting. Is this something that goes into a archive, wiki, or whatever. I really don't know. I have never asked the question before so I thought I would ask now.
                                  I am genuinely interested.
                                  And I thought I had addressed your question in my post (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=374069#p374015) above. If you are asking about the organization of such material within this website, etc., you'd best take up such questions with Ginger...

                                  I don't know if you actually stay up at night and practice being a dumbass but your darn good at it. Boy I bet you get a big woody just being as stubborn as you can be.
                                  Once again, for you dumbass....no need to answer, just want to say it.
                                  WHY DO YOU POST ALL THE SHIT YOU DO EVERYDAY???
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Ursus on August 18, 2010, 12:30:18 AM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Quote from: "T-Rex"
                                  Ursus,
                                  I am not disagreeing with what you are doing here or on any other thread my question is why are you doing the posting. Is this something that goes into a archive, wiki, or whatever. I really don't know. I have never asked the question before so I thought I would ask now.
                                  I am genuinely interested.
                                  And I thought I had addressed your question in my post (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=374069#p374015) above. If you are asking about the organization of such material within this website, etc., you'd best take up such questions with Ginger...
                                  I don't know if you actually stay up at night and practice being a dumbass but your darn good at it. Boy I bet you get a big woody just being as stubborn as you can be.
                                  Once again, for you dumbass....no need to answer, just want to say it.
                                  WHY DO YOU POST ALL THE SHIT YOU DO EVERYDAY???
                                  Lol, Danny... Such vitriol! Do you really get that hot and bothered 'bout somebody's posts ... that have nothing to do with you?

                                  Or... perhaps they do. In addition to being a diehard fan of the Mankind Project, do you also perchance subscribe to James "Death" Ray's brand of "spiritual warrioring?"
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 19, 2010, 12:04:33 AM
                                  Quote
                                  Ursus wrote:
                                  Lol, Danny... Such vitriol! Do you really get that hot and bothered 'bout somebody's posts ... that have nothing to do with you?
                                  Or... perhaps they do. In addition to being a diehard fan of the Mankind Project, do you also perchance subscribe to James "Death" Ray's brand of "spiritual warrioring?"

                                  You do understand how stupid this post of your sounds. You started the threads and you post on them everyday.

                                  I now have nothing to do with what you post, HHhhhhmmmmmm. Wow your universe is growing everyday.
                                  Title: Sweat Lodge deaths now a homicide case
                                  Post by: Ursus on August 25, 2010, 09:02:09 PM
                                  The Daily Courier
                                  10/15/2009 3:46:00 PM

                                  Sweat Lodge deaths now a homicide case (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=91&subsectionID=148&articleID=73486)
                                  By Lisa Irish · The Daily Courier

                                  The investigation into the two deaths and numerous injuries that occurred during a James Arthur Ray "Spiritual Warrior" seminar at the Angel Valley Retreat near Sedona has turned from a death investigation into a homicide investigation, said Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said.

                                  "Because of information that we have obtained from interviews from participants in this most recent "Spiritual Warrior" seminar and from other past participants in them, we have elevated the investigation from an accidental death investigation to a homicide investigation," Waugh said.

                                  Sheriff's detectives executed search warrants earlier this week at James Ray International's offices in Carlsbad, Calif., with help from Carlsbad Police Department officers, Waugh said.

                                  "Detectives when they exercised that search warrant were looking for medical information on participants of the current Spiritual Warrior event and also other previous events," Waugh said. "We're also trying to determine if documentation exists on how to construct sweat lodges and the proper use of those lodges. Additionally, documentation on whether participants were advised of the risks before or during the Spiritual Warrior program," Waugh said.

                                  Waugh said investigators will focus on Ray and any other person who may have played a role in the deaths of James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee, Wis., and Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, New York.

                                  Waugh said his office would like all participants who have knowledge of the Spiritual Warrior seminar at Angel Valley Retreat, or who have experienced something similar, to contact the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office by e-mail at http://www.ycsoaz.gov (http://www.ycsoaz.gov) or Yavapai Silent Witness 1-800-939-3232.


                                  © Copyright 2010 Western News&Info, Inc.® The Daily Courier is the information source for Prescott area communities in Northern Arizona.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: iamartsy on August 26, 2010, 06:37:43 PM
                                  I admit that I almost attended a sweat lodge two weeks ago. Then, during lunch the day before, a friend that had attended two years prior told me not to go due to my medical problems. I immediately canceled!

                                  I have adrenal problems, and had asked the "doctor" that ran it if I should do it. He said, "Why yes, I see no reason for you not to".

                                  Two nights ago I investigated this "doctor" further. I read between the lines of his CV, and guess what I found? It appears that he has been kicked out of every residency program he ever attended. I had asked him about his latest move to the NE, and he me brushed me off. I now know. He obviously, was discovered to be a QUACK, and I was damn near a SUCKER! The guy that discouraged me from doing the sweat lodge had gotten ill during the one he attended. August in the Southwest is hotter than Hell! Why make it even hotter. I am embarrassed to admit any of this. I think I would do damn near anything to get off of my numerous meds I take daily, but I don't want to die doing it. I actually like life too much for that! On top of it current state of residence is a constant sweat lodge!

                                  I am sick of hearing about herbs, potions, etc. What do people think meds are derived from? Simply, look at penicillin!
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 26, 2010, 07:02:48 PM
                                  I think as we all read through these posts we should try to separate out the sweat lodge from the person running the sweat lodge.  Sweat lodges themselves can be very therapeutic.  We use to vacation on the Canadian border and would build a Sweat Lodge. We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled it with stones. We were all teenagers for the most part and others who were vacationing and also some locals.  We use to smoke and try to solve all the world’s problems. If we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in the lodge. I remember  feeling so good afterwards. We slept like babies.

                                  Looking back the magical effect was probably caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.  

                                  I could see how someone would try to capitalize on that and try to make a buck,  but I think this James Ray guy showed us all that there needs to be some controls placed around places like this.  Its scary how people like him can get so many others to follow his directions like sheep.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 10:17:37 AM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  I think as we all read through these posts we should try to separate out the sweat lodge from the person running the sweat lodge.  Sweat lodges themselves can be very therapeutic.  We use to vacation on the Canadian border and would build a Sweat Lodge. We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled it with stones. We were all teenagers for the most part and others who were vacationing and also some locals.  We use to smoke and try to solve all the world’s problems. If we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in the lodge. I remember  feeling so good afterwards. We slept like babies.

                                  Looking back the magical effect was probably caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.  

                                  I could see how someone would try to capitalize on that and try to make a buck,  but I think this James Ray guy showed us all that there needs to be some controls placed around places like this.  Its scary how people like him can get so many others to follow his directions like sheep.


                                  Yes, but that's not what we're dealing with here.   A simple sweat lodge without the psycho-babble LGAT bullshit isn't inherently dangerous, provided they have qualified medical help in case of heatstroke or the like.  Just as there is a difference between a traditional boarding school or summer camp and what the TTI does.  Get rid of the mindfuck and traditional boarding schools or regular summer camps aren't systemically harmful.  Amazing!   ::)
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 12:49:58 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  I think as we all read through these posts we should try to separate out the sweat lodge from the person running the sweat lodge.  Sweat lodges themselves can be very therapeutic.  We use to vacation on the Canadian border and would build a Sweat Lodge. We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled it with stones. We were all teenagers for the most part and others who were vacationing and also some locals.  We use to smoke and try to solve all the world’s problems. If we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in the lodge. I remember  feeling so good afterwards. We slept like babies.

                                  Looking back the magical effect was probably caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.  

                                  I could see how someone would try to capitalize on that and try to make a buck,  but I think this James Ray guy showed us all that there needs to be some controls placed around places like this.  Its scary how people like him can get so many others to follow his directions like sheep.


                                  Yes, but that's not what we're dealing with here.   A simple sweat lodge without the psycho-babble LGAT bullshit isn't inherently dangerous, provided they have qualified medical help in case of heatstroke or the like.  Just as there is a difference between a traditional boarding school or summer camp and what the TTI does.  Get rid of the mindfuck and traditional boarding schools or regular summer camps aren't systemically harmful.  Amazing!   ::)


                                  Anne, do you really know what is happening at a sweat???  Any idea?????  Please, tell me your not just intellectualizing this whole experience with James Ray against a experience you had over 30 years ago. Is this all you got??
                                  Honestly if you can be fair, you really don't know.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 01:16:34 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, do you really know what is happening at a sweat???  Any idea?????  Please, tell me your not just intellectualizing this whole experience with James Ray against a experience you had over 30 years ago. Is this all you got??
                                  Honestly if you can be fair, you really don't know.


                                  Yes, Danny.....it's more of that "fancy book lernin'" that you seem to have so much of a problem with and apparently avoid like the plague.

                                  Damn readers!

                                   :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:  :rofl:   :twofinger:  :twofinger:
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 01:49:05 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  I think as we all read through these posts we should try to separate out the sweat lodge from the person running the sweat lodge.  Sweat lodges themselves can be very therapeutic.  We use to vacation on the Canadian border and would build a Sweat Lodge. We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled it with stones. We were all teenagers for the most part and others who were vacationing and also some locals.  We use to smoke and try to solve all the world’s problems. If we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in the lodge. I remember  feeling so good afterwards. We slept like babies.

                                  Looking back the magical effect was probably caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.  

                                  I could see how someone would try to capitalize on that and try to make a buck,  but I think this James Ray guy showed us all that there needs to be some controls placed around places like this.  Its scary how people like him can get so many others to follow his directions like sheep.


                                  Yes, but that's not what we're dealing with here.   A simple sweat lodge without the psycho-babble LGAT bullshit isn't inherently dangerous, provided they have qualified medical help in case of heatstroke or the like.  Just as there is a difference between a traditional boarding school or summer camp and what the TTI does.  Get rid of the mindfuck and traditional boarding schools or regular summer camps aren't systemically harmful.  Amazing!   ::)

                                  That was exactly my point.  We need to separate out the sweat lodge form the people that run it.  There is nothing wrong with the sweat lodge itself.  We use to do it as kids.  Its people that try to make a buck off it that screw it up.


                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Troll Control on August 27, 2010, 01:52:35 PM
                                  Sweat this, dirtbag.

                                  Quote from: "Dysfunction Junction"
                                  Well, there you have it.  TheWho confesses to his deep self-loathing, while under the impression he can blame it on RB. (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=16007&start=3915#p335465)

                                  Quote from: "TheWho"
                                  Quote from: "Guest"
                                  Quote from: "TheWho"
                                  Hmmm, DJ has a point. What if RobertBruce is expressing this sickness of his outside of the internet where he is not just using aliases like TheWho and Little cats. At least if Bruce is contained to forums he cannot really hurt anyone. If Dysfunctions diagnosis is correct Bruce could be a danger to neighborhood children as well as family members.

                                  It sickens me to think that this trolling is all just TheWho's transeference of his own twisted ideations onto RB.  If you read TheWho's posts and understand he's revealing his innermost problems and thoughts it's very disturbing.

                                  It seemed to all come out under TheWho postings.  Somehow I think this was healing for RobertBruce to get this sickness out this way.  But it has continued for years.  Lots of self hatred is evident.

                                  You're a sick freak.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 02:07:25 PM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  I think as we all read through these posts we should try to separate out the sweat lodge from the person running the sweat lodge.  Sweat lodges themselves can be very therapeutic.  We use to vacation on the Canadian border and would build a Sweat Lodge. We covered it in old blankets after the fire was really hot and filled it with stones. We were all teenagers for the most part and others who were vacationing and also some locals.  We use to smoke and try to solve all the world’s problems. If we got too hot we would jump in the lake and then go back in the lodge. I remember  feeling so good afterwards. We slept like babies.

                                  Looking back the magical effect was probably caused by heat, a lack of oxygen to the brain along with getting high.  

                                  I could see how someone would try to capitalize on that and try to make a buck,  but I think this James Ray guy showed us all that there needs to be some controls placed around places like this.  Its scary how people like him can get so many others to follow his directions like sheep.


                                  Yes, but that's not what we're dealing with here.   A simple sweat lodge without the psycho-babble LGAT bullshit isn't inherently dangerous, provided they have qualified medical help in case of heatstroke or the like.  Just as there is a difference between a traditional boarding school or summer camp and what the TTI does.  Get rid of the mindfuck and traditional boarding schools or regular summer camps aren't systemically harmful.  Amazing!   ::)

                                  That was exactly my point.  We need to separate out the sweat lodge form the people that run it.  There is nothing wrong with the sweat lodge itself.  We use to do it as kids. Its people that try to make a buck off it that screw it up.....


                                  .....by using the psycho-babble LGAT bullshit.  Just like programs.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: iamartsy on August 27, 2010, 02:23:15 PM
                                  Anne, that was my point. I came home to find out that the guy running the sweat lodge was barely a doctor. It had taken him over thirty years and lots of states to finish his training. Do I want to do a sweat lodge with this guy? HELL NO! I don't trust anything about him anymore!
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 04:39:36 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"


                                  .....by using the psycho-babble LGAT bullshit.  Just like programs.

                                  Even if it isnt psycho-babble LGAT stuff I think that the person running it needs to use a little common sense and allow people to leave and get hydrated or go to the bathroom when needed.  To force them to stay in there for long period of time isnt good.  When we were younger we could stay in there for hours. But now I wouldn't last 20 minutes probably.  So you need to have someone who knows what they are doing and look at each individual differently.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 04:42:16 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, do you really know what is happening at a sweat???  Any idea?????  Please, tell me your not just intellectualizing this whole experience with James Ray against a experience you had over 30 years ago. Is this all you got??
                                  Honestly if you can be fair, you really don't know.


                                  Yes, Danny.....it's more of that "fancy book lernin'" that you seem to have so much of a problem with and apparently avoid like the plague.

                                  Damn readers!

                                   

                                  Well, then why don't you sit back and learn. Instead of running your mouth about something you have no experience.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 04:45:20 PM
                                  Quote from: "Dysfunction Junction"
                                  Sweat this, dirtbag.

                                  Quote from: "Dysfunction Junction"
                                  Well, there you have it.  TheWho confesses to his deep self-loathing, while under the impression he can blame it on RB. (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=16007&start=3915#p335465)

                                  Quote from: "TheWho"
                                  Quote from: "Guest"
                                  Quote from: "TheWho"
                                  Hmmm, DJ has a point. What if RobertBruce is expressing this sickness of his outside of the internet where he is not just using aliases like TheWho and Little cats. At least if Bruce is contained to forums he cannot really hurt anyone. If Dysfunctions diagnosis is correct Bruce could be a danger to neighborhood children as well as family members.

                                  It sickens me to think that this trolling is all just TheWho's transeference of his own twisted ideations onto RB.  If you read TheWho's posts and understand he's revealing his innermost problems and thoughts it's very disturbing.

                                  It seemed to all come out under TheWho postings.  Somehow I think this was healing for RobertBruce to get this sickness out this way.  But it has continued for years.  Lots of self hatred is evident.

                                  You're a sick freak.


                                  DJ, you don't need to follow Whooter like your a tick on his ass. You are polluting this thread with your fanatical rubbish.
                                  Get off the thread or stay on topic.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 04:48:12 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, do you really know what is happening at a sweat???  Any idea?????  Please, tell me your not just intellectualizing this whole experience with James Ray against a experience you had over 30 years ago. Is this all you got??
                                  Honestly if you can be fair, you really don't know.


                                  Yes, Danny.....it's more of that "fancy book lernin'" that you seem to have so much of a problem with and apparently avoid like the plague.

                                  Damn readers!

                                   

                                  Well, then why don't you sit back and learn. Instead of running your mouth about something you have no experience.


                                  Assuming facts not in evidence.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 04:56:45 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, do you really know what is happening at a sweat???  Any idea?????  Please, tell me your not just intellectualizing this whole experience with James Ray against a experience you had over 30 years ago. Is this all you got??
                                  Honestly if you can be fair, you really don't know.


                                  Yes, Danny.....it's more of that "fancy book lernin'" that you seem to have so much of a problem with and apparently avoid like the plague.

                                  Damn readers!

                                   

                                  Well, then why don't you sit back and learn. Instead of running your mouth about something you have no experience.


                                  Assuming facts not in evidence.

                                  I am not assuming anything. I have read enough of your posts to know. Please spare me the lawyer talk your not one. "That is a fact presented as evidence".
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 05:01:15 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  I am not assuming anything. I have read enough of your posts to know. Please spare me the lawyer talk your not one. "That is a fact presented as evidence".



                                  Poor thing..........Here, maybe you need the definition of what it means to assume:


                                  as·sume
                                  ? ?/??sum/ Show Spelled [uh-soom] Show IPA verb, -sumed, -sum·ing.
                                  –verb (used with object)
                                  1.
                                  to take for granted or without proof; suppose; postulate; posit: to assume that everyone wants peace.
                                  2.
                                  to take upon oneself; undertake: to assume an obligation.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 05:17:50 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  I am not assuming anything. I have read enough of your posts to know. Please spare me the lawyer talk your not one. "That is a fact presented as evidence".



                                  Poor thing..........Here, maybe you need the definition of what it means to assume:


                                  as·sume
                                  ? ?/??sum/ Show Spelled [uh-soom] Show IPA verb, -sumed, -sum·ing.
                                  –verb (used with object)
                                  1.
                                  to take for granted or without proof; suppose; postulate; posit: to assume that everyone wants peace.
                                  2.
                                  to take upon oneself; undertake: to assume an obligation.


                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her", I said at that time, "no I will assume she is flexible and understanding. Well as time has passed, I have come to know you post about topics with authority you have very little actual knowledge and when busted concerning your ignorance, you become stubborn and start calling people names.
                                  This is what weknow about you, Anne.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 05:20:25 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her",

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Nice try though.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 05:22:30 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 05:24:24 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her",

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Nice try though.

                                  Anne, trust me unlike you I have no reason to lie. You are not well liked over there on the other site and you know this.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 05:27:02 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote
                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her", I said at that time, "no I will assume she is flexible and understanding. Well as time has passed, I have come to know you post about topics with authority you have very little actual knowledge and when busted concerning your ignorance, you become stubborn. Start calling people names and trying to insult them.
                                  This is what weknow about you, Anne.

                                  Danny is your club foot in your mouth again?   :D

                                  How the hell would you know. When have you ever been been around Straight Folk unless it was here. Anne will not even venture certain places where there are Straight people because they will rip her head off.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 05:30:52 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 05:32:18 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her",

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Nice try though.

                                  Anne, trust me unlike you I have no reason to lie. You are not well liked over there on the other site and you know this.


                                  Aw, sweetie....... :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:

                                  Seriously, just give it up.  You're just embarrassing yourself.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 05:57:52 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her",

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Nice try though.

                                  Anne, trust me unlike you I have no reason to lie. You are not well liked over there on the other site and you know this.


                                  Aw, sweetie....... :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:

                                  Seriously, just give it up.  You're just embarrassing yourself.


                                  Well here is a interesting point, you are not disagreeing with me, at all. So keep laughing it off. I would be embarrassed also. Emoticans and sarcastic phrases usally help divert attention away.  
                                  Let me help, Anne. You are not well liked amongst your peers from Straight. Am I wrong???
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 06:01:30 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her",

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Nice try though.

                                  Anne, trust me unlike you I have no reason to lie. You are not well liked over there on the other site and you know this.

                                  Danny is falling back on staffer tactics.  The staff provokes an emotional reaction to gain control over the said person.  Moreover this is common throughout the troubled teen industry.  Danny did you learn this from Joe Ricci at ELAN, your parents or in the Marine Corps?
                                    :D

                                  NO. Actually it was Aaron and your mother, I learned this from. Remember when I talked with a member of your family a while back. How else did Aaron and yourself end up in the TTI.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:04:11 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Let me help, Anne. You are not well liked amongst your peers from Straight. Am I wrong???


                                  Yes, you are wrong.  I can think of two people out of the approximately 100 that I've met that I had any kind of clashes with and that was because they were heavily into AA and, well...you know my feelings on the Stepcraft culture.  

                                  I'm starting to feel sorry for you DannyBoi.  Poor dear.


                                  Want some more emoticons?  Here.....

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :rocker:  :rocker:  :cheers:  :cheers:  :cheers:  :rasta:  :rasta:  :rasta:  :rasta:  :rasta:  :rasta:  :seg:  :seg:  :seg:


                                  Feel better now?
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Che Gookin on August 27, 2010, 06:11:13 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Anne, many Straight folk who know you said, "she is a stubborn ignorant fool but don't mind her",

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Nice try though.

                                  Anne, trust me unlike you I have no reason to lie. You are not well liked over there on the other site and you know this.

                                  Danny is falling back on staffer tactics.  The staff provokes an emotional reaction to gain control over the said person.  Moreover this is common throughout the troubled teen industry.  Danny did you learn this from Joe Ricci at ELAN, your parents or in the Marine Corps?
                                    :D

                                  NO. Actually it was Aaron and your mother, I learned this from. Remember when I talked with a member of your family a while back. How else did Aaron and yourself end up in the TTI.

                                  Claiming you can speak to the dead now? Must have fallen off the wagon, again.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:14:01 PM
                                  Quote from: "Che Gookin"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  NO. Actually it was Aaron and your mother, I learned this from. Remember when I talked with a member of your family a while back. How else did Aaron and yourself end up in the TTI.

                                  Claiming you can speak to the dead now? Must have fallen off the wagon, again.

                                   :eek:   WTF?
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Che Gookin on August 27, 2010, 06:17:38 PM
                                  As he is claiming to have learned something from my mother I can only suspect he's thinking he is speaking with the dead. My mother died of cancer when I was 12. Not sure how he thinks he's learned a damn thing from her.

                                  Knowing Danno it'll be a long, poorly written, and semi-moronic response.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:20:00 PM
                                  Quote from: "Che Gookin"
                                  As he is claiming to have learned something from my mother I can only suspect he's thinking he is speaking with the dead. My mother died of cancer when I was 12. Not sure how he thinks he's learned a damn thing from her.

                                  Knowing Danno it'll be a long, poorly written, and semi-moronic response.


                                  Wow...it's like Whooter and DannyBoi are having a pissing contest to see how low the blows they through around can get.

                                  I'm really sorry about you losing your mom at such a young age.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 06:24:33 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Let me help, Anne. You are not well liked amongst your peers from Straight. Am I wrong???


                                  Yes, you are wrong.  I can think of two people out of the approximately 100 that I've met that I had any kind of clashes with and that was because they were heavily into AA and, well...you know my feelings on the Stepcraft culture.  

                                  I'm starting to feel sorry for you DannyBoi.  Poor dear.


                                  Want some more emoticons?  Here...


                                  Anne your lying, lets you and I take a trip over to your Straight site and ask. I think if you are unaware (which your not) folks will let you know.
                                  Title:
                                  Post by: Dr Fucktard on August 27, 2010, 06:29:53 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Anne your lying, lets you and I take a trip over to your Straight site and ask. I think if you are unaware (which your not) folks will let you know.

                                  Bring her on over there, Danny, thatta boy!!  ::)

                                   :ftard:  ::evil::  :ftard:  ::evil::  :ftard:  ::evil::  :nods:

                                   :feedtrolls:  :feedtrolls:

                                   :roflmao:
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:31:30 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Let me help, Anne. You are not well liked amongst your peers from Straight. Am I wrong???


                                  Yes, you are wrong.  I can think of two people out of the approximately 100 that I've met that I had any kind of clashes with and that was because they were heavily into AA and, well...you know my feelings on the Stepcraft culture.  

                                  I'm starting to feel sorry for you DannyBoi.  Poor dear.


                                  Want some more emoticons?  Here...


                                  Anne your lying, lets you and I take a trip over to your Straight site and ask. I think if you are unaware (which your not) folks will let you know.


                                  DannyBoi, you're nothing more than a gnat, annoying the hell out of pretty much everyone here.    "My" Straight site??  I don't have a Straight site and the only other one I am aware of, well I haven't posted there in a few years IIRC.  But, if it makes you feel better to believe that, you go right ahead sweetheart.  Joel called it (I think it was Joel)....this is nothing more than your usual Staff Syndrome rearing it's ugly, ugly head.  Again.

                                  Run along now to your sandbox little one.  I'm sure Mommy will be by soon enough to pay some attention to you.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 06:32:46 PM
                                  Quote from: "Che Gookin"
                                  As he is claiming to have learned something from my mother I can only suspect he's thinking he is speaking with the dead. My mother died of cancer when I was 12. Not sure how he thinks he's learned a damn thing from her.

                                  Knowing Danno it'll be a long, poorly written, and semi-moronic response.

                                  Well then when your brother wants to talk about my mom who passed away, jack slap his stupid ass.
                                  Title: Re:
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:36:55 PM
                                  Quote from: "Dr Fucktard"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Anne your lying, lets you and I take a trip over to your Straight site and ask. I think if you are unaware (which your not) folks will let you know.

                                  Bring her on over there, Danny, thatta boy!!  ::)

                                   :ftard:  ::evil::  :ftard:  ::evil::  :ftard:  ::evil::  :nods:

                                   :feedtrolls:  :feedtrolls:

                                   :roflmao:

                                   :rofl:  :rofl:  :cheers:  ;)
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 06:38:25 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Dr Fucktard on August 27, 2010, 06:38:54 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Run along now to your sandbox little one.  I'm sure Mommy will be by soon enough to pay some attention to you.

                                  I like the sound of this Anne, you dirty girl.  :nods:

                                  Y'know, Anne.. I've been thinking...we could really use a girl with your sort of moxie here at SIBS. (A couple of my female staff quit on me recently when they found out about my Philippina hooker.. Oops!  :wall: )   :seg:   Anyway, should you decide to take me up on it, please don't hesitate to get back to me! Gotta run, there's been another report of an escape attempt..and I like to take care of these cases personally! :whip:  ::evil::
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:43:32 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Staffers have several ways of controlling people whether it be through provoking emotional reactions { like Danny is doing }

                                  Well, he's trying but failing.  I don't think he realizes that quite a few that post over there, are also here.  :seg:


                                  Quote
                                  or creating a chaotic environment where peers attack each other verbally/physically.  He is notorious for that on fornits.  Danny acts out because his basic needs aren't being met, yes?  I'm sure he'll chime in to tell us to fuck off. [/color][/b]  :D

                                  No doubt.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 06:46:39 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Let me help, Anne. You are not well liked amongst your peers from Straight. Am I wrong???


                                  Yes, you are wrong.  I can think of two people out of the approximately 100 that I've met that I had any kind of clashes with and that was because they were heavily into AA and, well...you know my feelings on the Stepcraft culture.  

                                  I'm starting to feel sorry for you DannyBoi.  Poor dear.


                                  Want some more emoticons?  Here...


                                  Anne your lying, lets you and I take a trip over to your Straight site and ask. I think if you are unaware (which your not) folks will let you know.


                                  DannyBoi, you're nothing more than a gnat, annoying the hell out of pretty much everyone here.    "My" Straight site??  I don't have a Straight site and the only other one I am aware of, well I haven't posted there in a few years IIRC.  But, if it makes you feel better to believe that, you go right ahead sweetheart.  Joel called it (I think it was Joel)....this is nothing more than your usual Staff Syndrome rearing it's ugly, ugly head.  Again.

                                  Run along now to your sandbox little one.  I'm sure Mommy will be by soon enough to pay some attention to you.
                                   

                                  No, Anne, I called you out on your inability to get along with anyone, you love confrontation. Yeah, staff syndrome, which ended at barely 19 years old. Nice try Anne. No one who really knows you likes you. You are a unforgiving, unrelenting brat that was kicked around and now must punish others. You are sick, you say you have been counseled, it does not show.
                                  Stop harassing and abusing folks here. Many folks here are sick and tired of your bile being hurled at us. We are not your problem.
                                  Anne you are not welcome on those other sites, that is why you are here. The only reason you have found success here is because folks like DJ are just as much a outcast as you are.  
                                  You are not radicals for this industry, you are the termites that continuously set us back by undermining are efforts to make us look credible.
                                  Anne, find the time to get quiet and think about what I am saying. You know it to be true.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 06:51:57 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Staffers have several ways of controlling people whether it be through provoking emotional reactions { like Danny is doing }

                                  Well, he's trying but failing.  I don't think he realizes that quite a few that post over there, are also here.  :seg:


                                  Quote
                                  or creating a chaotic environment where peers attack each other verbally/physically.  He is notorious for that on fornits.  Danny acts out because his basic needs aren't being met, yes?  I'm sure he'll chime in to tell us to fuck off. [/color][/b]  :D

                                  No doubt.


                                  You really are stupid or just dense. I know just about every poster from Straight, here on fornits. Talk with 10 -20 Straight folk on weekly to monthly bases from Atlanta to Tampa (where your from), so please Anne. If I have told you once or a hundred times, I don't say things that are not true.
                                  Girl, you are not very well liked amongst your brethren and by all accounts here, it is understood.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 06:56:16 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 06:56:36 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  No, Anne, I called you out on your inability to get along with anyone, you love confrontation. Yeah, staff syndrome, which ended at barely 19 years old. Nice try Anne. No one who really knows you likes you. You are a unforgiving, unrelenting brat that was kicked around and now must punish others. You are sick, you say you have been counseled, it does not show.
                                  Stop harassing and abusing folks here. Many folks here are sick and tired of your bile being hurled at us. We are not your problem.
                                  Anne you are not welcome on those other sites, that is why you are here. The only reason you have found success here is because folks like DJ are just as much a outcast as you are.  
                                  You are not radicals for this industry, you are the termites that continuously set us back by undermining are efforts to make us look credible.
                                  Anne, find the time to get quiet and think about what I am saying. You know it to be true.


                                   :rofl:  :rofl:

                                  You really have no idea how much of a fool you're making of yourself, do you?  You think you've latched onto something here....do you really not realize that I'm talking, at this very moment, with some of "those people"?  Do you really not realize that some of "those people" are here as well?

                                  Seriously, quit while you're behind.  You're really terrible at this.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 07:03:38 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  No, Anne, I called you out on your inability to get along with anyone, you love confrontation. Yeah, staff syndrome, which ended at barely 19 years old. Nice try Anne. No one who really knows you likes you. You are a unforgiving, unrelenting brat that was kicked around and now must punish others. You are sick, you say you have been counseled, it does not show.
                                  Stop harassing and abusing folks here. Many folks here are sick and tired of your bile being hurled at us. We are not your problem.
                                  Anne you are not welcome on those other sites, that is why you are here. The only reason you have found success here is because folks like DJ are just as much a outcast as you are.  
                                  You are not radicals for this industry, you are the termites that continuously set us back by undermining are efforts to make us look credible.
                                  Anne, find the time to get quiet and think about what I am saying. You know it to be true.


                                   :rofl:  :rofl:

                                  You really have no idea how much of a fool you're making of yourself, do you?  You think you've latched onto something here....do you really not realize that I'm talking, at this very moment, with some of "those people"?  Do you really not realize that some of "those people" are here as well?

                                  Seriously, quit while you're behind.  You're really terrible at this.

                                   Anne, just like I said, you are either stupid or dense. No shit the folks who post here (not all) like you or put up with you. Most don't even bother with this site anymore and some post every once in a while.
                                  What you underestimate is how many Straight Folk I know through many affiliations.
                                  Here is how everyone knows you, "Oh the girl that put her ass out there". Yeah that's the one.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 07:06:09 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                   Anne, just like I said, you are either stupid or dense. No shit the folks who post here (not all) like you or put up with you. Most don't even bother with this site anymore and some post every once in a while.
                                  What you underestimate is how many Straight Folk I know through many affiliations.
                                  Here is how everyone knows you, "Oh the girl that put her ass out there". Yeah that's the one.


                                  Whatever makes you feel better babe.  

                                  So, what's your point in doing this then if not the Staff Syndrome?  You're trying (and failing) to bully me or make me feel somehow hurt or inferior.  Staff Syndrome indeed.  G'head...keep proving us all right.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 07:19:50 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 07:25:18 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Anne I think Danny perceives women are weak.  Whereas Danny would back off from another male during  a confrontation.  


                                  We've all seen him go after the women here, but you're right.  He does back down from the guys.  Wow...that must be some heavy duty insecurity there.

                                  (http://http://inkville.typepad.com/.a/6a00e552233b8f88340133f03b3b84970b-800wi)
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 07:43:41 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Danny perceives women are weak.  Whereas Danny would back off from a male during  a confrontation.  He will be back to bully you.

                                  Geeesh, Joel, of all people to say that.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: shaggys on August 27, 2010, 07:50:56 PM
                                  Whooter's minions are dropping away. Even Danny can only muster a half-hearted defense of his former-God Whooter. I am just glad to be here to witness this.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 08:20:59 PM
                                  Quote from: "shaggys"
                                  Whooter's minions are dropping away. Even Danny can only muster a half-hearted defense of his former-God Whooter. I am just glad to be here to witness this.

                                  We must be entering yet another era.  Hopefully the next one will be more improved than the last and people will have more tolerance towards those survivors who were helped by the industry, have positive stories and also tolerance towards proprogram people.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 08:37:42 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                   Anne, just like I said, you are either stupid or dense. No shit the folks who post here (not all) like you or put up with you. Most don't even bother with this site anymore and some post every once in a while.
                                  What you underestimate is how many Straight Folk I know through many affiliations.
                                  Here is how everyone knows you, "Oh the girl that put her ass out there". Yeah that's the one.


                                  Whatever makes you feel better babe.  

                                  So, what's your point in doing this then if not the Staff Syndrome?  You're trying (and failing) to bully me or make me feel somehow hurt or inferior.  Staff Syndrome indeed.  G'head...keep proving us all right.
                                   

                                  No, Anne, what I am doing to you is exactly what you do to other posters on this web site. I am sticking up for them because apparently no one else will. Just because you and your cohorts do not like certain people here, y'all seem to think you can abuse them anyway you want. Ya know what this reminds me of, I had a black friend at Elan called Don Hampton, we used to get into it sometimes, we both boxed and did martial arts together in Portland Me. At the YMCA one evening we were sparring and one thing led to another and for about 2 mins. we went all out, to exhaustion. Right after the physical confrontation we started calling one another names, he ended up calling me a racist (in anger, he did not mean it)well I told him he was racist. He came back we a interesting statement he said, "he could not be racist because he was black, the crimes had been committed against his ancestors. This is how I view most of you folks here, concerning abuse. You really do not believe you are abusing Whooter, Suck-IT, and others when your doing it. It does not make a difference what there doing, it is what your doing and the motive behind it that is disturbing to me. Most folks just ignore Suck-it and Whooter, the ones who don't, not all...you know who I am talking about, you are abusive.
                                  Back to the subject.
                                  Well I am here to point out your short coming and parade you down the isle and see how you like it, Anne.
                                  I read your posts on the Hyde Forum from years past, Anne you were brutal on some of those kids, you harassed Tim, you never stood up for Morgan openly with conviction and on and on.
                                  I do not like people like you, Joel, DJ and others. You are nothing more then the staff and owners we left behind, you abuse and subject people here to demeaning ridicule at your whim.
                                  Then cry foul when it is done to you. OH, whoa is me I am a survivor, your a ex-staffer, your suffering from a syndrome boo-hoo. You fuckers are sick, I mean it.
                                  You are inferior, trust me on that one and you have no one to blame but yourself. You remain stuck in a time warp like so many here and act out feeling of 30 years ago. I am not your problem, I'm just pointing out a problem you folks have.
                                  Anne, you and I both know this type of confrontational behavior does not help you on your journey to peace. Belittling and harassing people is not good for the soul.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 08:40:32 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote
                                   No, Anne, I called you out on your inability to get along with anyone, you love confrontation. Yeah, staff syndrome, which ended at barely 19 years old. Nice try Anne. No one who really knows you likes you. You are a unforgiving, unrelenting brat that was kicked around and now must punish others. You are sick, you say you have been counseled, it does not show.

                                  Stop harassing and abusing folks here. Many folks here are sick and tired of your bile being hurled at us. We are not your problem.  Anne you are not welcome on those other sites, that is why you are here. The only reason you have found success here is because folks like DJ are just as much a outcast as you are.

                                  You are not radicals for this industry, you are the termites that continuously set us back by undermining are efforts to make us look credible.  Anne, find the time to get quiet and think about what I am saying. You know it to be true.

                                  Danny you have moved on to someone who you "perceive as weak."  It appears to people that you think women are weak and easy to mentally control.  These are signs of men who abuse their wives.  Stalking is also another sign.  The bully tactics and humiliation are also signs.

                                  Joel, getting down and sucking Anne's ass is a sign that you are a pussy, so like your brother always tells you keep your faggotry to yourself. You are not a counselor or anything similar, what you did do is harass young children while you ran them through a obstacle course. Please sit back and learn.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 08:54:18 PM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  Quote from: "shaggys"
                                  Whooter's minions are dropping away. Even Danny can only muster a half-hearted defense of his former-God Whooter. I am just glad to be here to witness this.

                                  We must be entering yet another era.  Hopefully the next one will be more improved than the last and people will have more tolerance towards those survivors who were helped by the industry, have positive stories and also tolerance towards proprogram people.

                                  ...

                                  Whooter, we are still hanging. Suck-It got off track there, I still don't know what that was all about. Maybe it was all the pressure, he did have many valid points. His writing was incredible, liked how he expressed himself through his writings.
                                  One thing though I need to say, we all need to stay above board and have a certain respect for fairness.
                                  What Art put this Site through back at the beginning of the year was crazy, uncalled for. Suck-It was showing signs of this behavior, we can harass, abuse, ridicule, demean, poke fun of, post nasty things ect....but the integrity of the site can not be fucked with.
                                  When we get down to it, even though in anger at times I have said different, this site does help people, mothers, fathers, siblings, and kids. I know this to be true. We can fight with one another but we can not undermine the foundation of this site.
                                  I will not stand for that. Just making myself crystal clear.
                                  My opinion.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 09:00:39 PM
                                  Quote
                                  Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too

                                  Postby Joel » Today, 6:19 pm
                                  Danny perceives women are weak. Whereas Danny would back off from a male during a confrontation. He will be back to bully you.

                                  Joel
                                   

                                  Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too

                                  Postby Anne Bonney » Today, 6:25 pm

                                      Joel wrote:Anne I think Danny perceives women are weak. Whereas Danny would back off from another male during a confrontation.


                                  We've all seen him go after the women here, but you're right. He does back down from the guys. Wow...that must be some heavy duty insecurity there.

                                  Image


                                  Thank you for that little therapy session. Would have been much more effective if either one of you had any training in psychology, Joel shut up, were not talking about harassing young boys on a jaunt up Camp Yahoo Mountain, in Exeter R.I.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 09:03:35 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  You are nothing more then the staff and owners we left behind,

                                   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:


                                  Wow.  Cognitive dissonance all around tonight, huh Warrior Man? (you might have to look that one up.  It's more of that fancy book lernin' stuff you don't like)

                                  (http://http://skeptico.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/pot_kettle.jpg)
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 09:09:20 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 27, 2010, 09:32:19 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"


                                  Quote
                                  I am sticking up for them because apparently no one else will. Just because you and your cohorts do not like certain people here, y'all seem to think you can abuse them anyway you want.



                                  The Who / Suck it and all his other alter egos don't need help..


                                  Quote
                                  you and I both know this type of confrontational behavior does not help you on your journey to peace. Belittling and harassing people is not good for the soul.


                                  Then why do you continue to come here and harass Anne and other suvivors... there are plenty of other websites for you to go to and spew your hate ... preferrably go to a pro-program website... You are only here to battle with people, not to heal.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 09:39:24 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  I'm just calling it how I see it Danny.  No, I don't intend to shut up.  Obviously I struck a nerve.  I am not the only one who notices you try and intimidate women.  It doesn't take a degree in psychology to figure out your actions.  Your actions towards Anne are similar of Men who abuse their wives.  The verbal intimidation, stalking {which you've done} etc.

                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad. I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me, I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 27, 2010, 09:48:25 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  I'm just calling it how I see it Danny.  No, I don't intend to shut up.  Obviously I struck a nerve.  I am not the only one who notices you try and intimidate women.  It doesn't take a degree in psychology to figure out your actions.  Your actions towards Anne are similar of Men who abuse their wives.  The verbal intimidation, stalking {which you've done} etc.

                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad. I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me, I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  Dude... You have some issues, if there was ever a person who needs some professional counseling that person is you... do you realize that you made a cyber-threat which is punishable by law..I would choose words wisely before posting as you could end up in jail...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 09:52:21 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  You are nothing more then the staff and owners we left behind,

                                  Wow.  Cognitive dissonance all around tonight, huh Warrior Man? (you might have to look that one up.  It's more of that fancy book lernin' stuff you don't like)

                                   

                                  Anne, you know what is really sad is, you throw all these wonderful phrases around and you really aren't going anywhere with them. Two conflicting thoughts that are happening simultaneously, no one needs to look this up. Come on Anne, my para-legal who all of sudden has placed herself in the intellectual crowd.
                                  Baby you do not have the hardware to be there. You have not earned it, your a clerk, "wannbe".
                                  Hey, don't worry about cognitive dissonance right now, get your issue with detachment worked out first. So at least you have a shot at becoming focused. Get into the present of who you actually are instead of who you want to be.
                                  Get back to me, please.
                                  Ciao....
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 09:52:34 PM
                                  Quote from: "Botched Programming"

                                  Dude... You have some issues, if there was ever a person who needs some professional counseling that person is you... do you realize that you made a cyber-threat which is punishable by law..I would choose words wisely before posting as you could end up in jail...


                                  LOL, why do you keep telling everyone that they need counseling?  You may want to look inward with this constant request.


                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 09:53:18 PM
                                  Quote from: "Botched Programming"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  I'm just calling it how I see it Danny.  No, I don't intend to shut up.  Obviously I struck a nerve.  I am not the only one who notices you try and intimidate women.  It doesn't take a degree in psychology to figure out your actions.  Your actions towards Anne are similar of Men who abuse their wives.  The verbal intimidation, stalking {which you've done} etc.

                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad. I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me, I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  Dude... You have some issues, if there was ever a person who needs some professional counseling that person is you... do you realize that you made a cyber-threat which is punishable by law..I would choose words wisely before posting as you could end up in jail...

                                  Don't like it don't read my posts, asswipe.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 09:57:02 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  , I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.


                                  Well, aren't you the big man.

                                  Like I said....g'head and just keep proving what everyone's been saying here about you.  This isn't the first time you've threatened me or other women here.  Do ya feel like a big boy now?
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 27, 2010, 10:02:22 PM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  Quote from: "Botched Programming"

                                  Dude... You have some issues, if there was ever a person who needs some professional counseling that person is you... do you realize that you made a cyber-threat which is punishable by law..I would choose words wisely before posting as you could end up in jail...


                                  LOL, why do you keep telling everyone that they need counseling?  You may want to look inward with this constant request.


                                  ...

                                  Because you guys are belligerent... all the time on here trying to cause some kind of battle... Why don't you go to another website that is in group unison with the way you think... (The reason being you guys are belligerent) and people with this kind of condition could lead happy lives if they got the proper help.

                                  Belligerent definition

                                  (1) A belligerent is an individual, group, country or other entity which acts in a hostile manner, such as engaging in combat. Belligerent comes from Latin, literally meaning "to wage war".
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 10:02:38 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  , I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.

                                  Is this part of your New Warrior Training?

                                   :rofl:
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 27, 2010, 10:11:05 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Don't like it don't read my posts, asswipe.


                                  Post your vulgar display of immaturity on a different website... Don't need a survivor basher on a site that was meant to be for the good of survivors healing.. and spreading the truth about the abuse that was encountered in our stays at these facilities.

                                  PS If you don't like what I say don't read my responses that I post on your threads... I still recommend you go see a professional and talk to them honestly about your obsession with being belligerent.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 10:12:12 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 10:13:46 PM
                                  Quote from: "Botched Programming"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Don't like it don't read my posts, asswipe.


                                  Post your vulgar display of immaturity on a different website... Don't need a survivor basher on a site that was meant to be for the good of survivors healing.. and spreading the truth about the abuse that was encountered in our stays at these facilities.

                                  PS If you don't like what I say don't read my responses that I post on your threads... I still recommend you go see a professional and talk to them honestly about your obsession with being belligerent.

                                  And this obsession with beating up women.  Must be part of his New Warrior Training.  Weird stuff.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 10:25:41 PM
                                  Quote from: "Botched Programming"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  Quote from: "Botched Programming"

                                  Dude... You have some issues, if there was ever a person who needs some professional counseling that person is you... do you realize that you made a cyber-threat which is punishable by law..I would choose words wisely before posting as you could end up in jail...


                                  LOL, why do you keep telling everyone that they need counseling?  You may want to look inward with this constant request.


                                  ...

                                  Because you guys are belligerent... all the time on here trying to cause some kind of battle... Why don't you go to another website that is in group unison with the way you think... (The reason being you guys are belligerent) and people with this kind of condition could lead happy lives if they got the proper help.

                                  Belligerent definition

                                  (1) A belligerent is an individual, group, country or other entity which acts in a hostile manner, such as engaging in combat. Belligerent comes from Latin, literally meaning "to wage war".

                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  I am okay just discussing the issues and having a chat or two.  If I didnt like it here or didnt feel comfortable I would move on (any of us would).  If there are people who want to seek therapy that is their business, I dont need to be involved or suggest they need it.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 10:28:47 PM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"

                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  


                                  Gee...I wonder why?


                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me,. I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 27, 2010, 10:37:37 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"


                                  *  FWIW> I don't have anything to say to Whooter.

                                  That is really funny.  You should write something and then wait ten minutes and delete it, then write it again, then delete... then say:

                                  "I dont have anything to say to Whooter"

                                  You have been doing this for months Joel.  Whats up with that?  There is no way you can be Che's brother, he would kick your ass for acting that way.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 10:40:25 PM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  Quote from: "Joel"


                                  *  FWIW> I don't have anything to say to Whooter.

                                  That is really funny.  You should write something and then wait ten minutes and delete it, then write it again, then delete... then say:

                                  "I dont have anything to say to Whooter"

                                  You have been doing this for months Joel.  Whats up with that?  There is no way you can be Che's brother, he would kick your ass for acting that way.



                                  ...


                                  Hey, if you can ignore the questions about your post making fun of a survivors accounts of abuse and selectively reply to only the posts you feel you can refute, then Joel can delete what he wrote.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 27, 2010, 10:42:08 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"

                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  


                                  Gee...I wonder why?


                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me,. I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  What you got to say about your Danny boy... Making threats... you would recommend putting a kid in treatment if he did this... what's the difference in me telling you and him you need it... people must have already mentioned that's why you are getting defensive..
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 10:42:22 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 27, 2010, 10:45:50 PM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote
                                  I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.

                                  There are ways to suppress freedom of speech.  Physical violence, verbal threats, sexual harassment {stalking} and other means.  People who threaten women cower when confronted about the said threats.  I'm 100% certain Danny would do that outside of fornits.  Obviously he isn't on this website.     :D


                                  One of the other times he threatened me, he said that he was near the town where I live at the time.  So, ummmm - should something suddenly uh, happen to me....y'all know where to send the cops.

                                   :eek:  :deal:  :nods:
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 27, 2010, 10:46:42 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Che Gookin on August 27, 2010, 10:49:00 PM
                                  You people do realize that absolutely nothing will ever be resolved here?

                                  best to go with the old stand by:

                                  fuck you danny..

                                  and move on. You dopes are giving this gerbil too much of your bandwidth. Go mess with a program, seriously, go mess with a program today.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Che Gookin on August 27, 2010, 10:52:49 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote
                                  I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.

                                  There are ways to suppress freedom of speech.  Physical violence, verbal threats, sexual harassment {stalking} and other means.  People who threaten women cower when confronted about the said threats.  I'm 100% certain Danny would do that outside of fornits.  Obviously he isn't on this website.     :D


                                  One of the other times he threatened me, he said that he was near the town where I live at the time.  So, ummmm - should something suddenly uh, happen to me....y'all know where to send the cops.

                                   :eek:  :deal:  :nods:

                                  The worst Danno will do is try to take you to an AA meeting, which in itself is pretty mean. Hardly life threatening though.  Be the only reported case of kidnapping in history to be resolved by checking out all the local AA meeting spots.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 11:40:39 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"

                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  


                                  Gee...I wonder why?


                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me,. I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  Anne, shut your pie hole and suck it up, ya baby. No, Anne, I said I would kick your ass.... :roflmao:
                                  Oh, hear we go. Danny said he was going to kick my ass. OH boo hoo, I'm so scared I peed my pants. Would Anne, Joel and BP like some depends for your protection. Right now I am kicking your ass, how does it feel.
                                  I just love how you folks make such a big deal out of what I say. That is why I say it. Because I love to see you folks cry.
                                  Oh Danny is threatening me, Danny is sexually assaulting me, Danny is doing this, Suck-It is doing that, Tim is doing this, Whooter is doing that and bla bla bla.........
                                  Guys step off you freaking pansies. Go cry to the authorities or other wise suck it up. You get what ya get because you give what ya give.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 27, 2010, 11:58:14 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  , I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.


                                  Well, aren't you the big man.

                                  Like I said....g'head and just keep proving what everyone's been saying here about you.  This isn't the first time you've threatened me or other women here.  Do ya feel like a big boy now?

                                  Absolutely, have no problem beating your ass like the skank you are. Actually I rather enjoy it. Thanks. I hope every swinging dick and vagina on this site reads everything I wrote twice before they go to bed. I hope I prove to everybody here and a far that I will not stand for the likes of you. I truly believe you make fornits a little less credible by being here, you phony.
                                  Anne, please you should know by know I don't care what anybody thinks about what I say to you. I have lost all respect for you.
                                  You prey on people and I don't like it. As long as I can, I will be right on your ass with my size 11 foot.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 28, 2010, 12:00:26 AM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 28, 2010, 12:04:34 AM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"

                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  


                                  Gee...I wonder why?


                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me,. I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  Anne, shut your pie hole and suck it up, ya baby. No, Anne, I said I would kick your ass.... :roflmao:
                                  Oh, hear we go. Danny said he was going to kick my ass. OH boo hoo, I'm so scared I peed my pants. Would Anne, Joel and BP like some depends for your protection. Right now I am kicking your ass, how does it feel.
                                  I just love how you folks make such a big deal out of what I say. That is why I say it. Because I love to see you folks cry.
                                  Oh Danny is threatening me, Danny is sexually assaulting me, Danny is doing this, Suck-It is doing that, Tim is doing this, Whooter is doing that and bla bla bla.........
                                  Guys step off you freaking pansies. Go cry to the authorities or other wise suck it up. You get what ya get because you give what ya give.

                                  Ladies and gentlemen let me expose this as being one of Who's alter egos.. as Who is the only one who ever called me BP...    :seg:
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Che Gookin on August 28, 2010, 12:08:05 AM
                                  Sorry Botched, but sadly DB is an actual functioning person. Though an argument can be made for him functioning on the level of an amoeba, but none the less, he's actually is who he says he is.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 28, 2010, 12:09:21 AM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  , I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.

                                  Is this part of your New Warrior Training?

                                   :rofl:

                                  Ya know there is actually a warrior training program for both men and women, I would love to see your girly ass out there but I doubt it. Your the kind of person who picks the fight, talks shit until she gets her butt kicked, then runs crying to the authorities.
                                  Anne, you started it, when you fight, people fight to win. You know this, you love to call people names. That is threatening someone, especially when you question there manhood, like several of you women like to do. Then when retaliated on, you start crying. Stop fighting people if you can't take it.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 28, 2010, 12:14:13 AM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 28, 2010, 12:15:35 AM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  , I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.


                                  Well, aren't you the big man.

                                  Like I said....g'head and just keep proving what everyone's been saying here about you.  This isn't the first time you've threatened me or other women here.  Do ya feel like a big boy now?

                                  Absolutely, have no problem beating your ass like the skank you are. Actually I rather enjoy it. Thanks. I hope every swinging dick and vagina on this site reads everything I wrote twice before they go to bed. I hope I prove to everybody here and a far that I will not stand for the likes of you. I truly believe you make fornits a little less credible by being here, you phony.

                                  Anne, please you should know by know I don't care what anybody thinks about what I say to you. I have lost all respect for you.
                                  You prey on people and I don't like it. As long as I can, I will be right on your ass with my size 11 foot.

                                  Recording

                                  Thanks Joel, now record this. I also said I was kicking your sweet ass, honey boy. Are you still in Rhode Island, sweet cheeks. Because if you are, in Providence there is a place called, "federal hill" meet me up there. Bring your depends.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 28, 2010, 12:18:23 AM
                                  Quote from: "Joel"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  , I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass.

                                  Is this part of your New Warrior Training?

                                   :rofl:

                                  Ya know there is actually a warrior training program for both men and women, I would love to see your girly ass out there but I doubt it. Your the kind of person who picks the fight, talks shit until she gets her butt kicked, then runs crying to the authorities.
                                  Anne, you started it, when you fight, people fight to win. You know this, you love to call people names. That is threatening someone, especially when you question there manhood, like several of you women like to do. Then when retaliated on, you start crying. Stop fighting people if you can't take it.

                                  http://www.newbeginningsnh.org/html/signs.html (http://www.newbeginningsnh.org/html/signs.html)

                                  Abusive Personality Signs     
                                     

                                  Signs to Look for in an Abusive Personality, from the Project for Victims of Family Violence, Inc., Fayetteville, Az

                                  I make all my women wear "depends". Yessiree, them X-large type.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Botched Programming on August 28, 2010, 09:47:04 AM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  I make all my women wear "depends". Yessiree, them X-large type.

                                  Dude... You are a sick man... Chubby chaser who like his women with a bladder control problem !!!!  ::OMG::
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 28, 2010, 12:34:52 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: Bullies
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 28, 2010, 12:50:01 PM
                                  Quote from: Joel
                                  I found another interesting article about bullying   :D

                                  http://ezinearticles.com/?Bullying---Tw ... id=2659108 (http://ezinearticles.com/?Bullying---Twenty-Basic-Traits-of-the-Subtle-and-Not-So-Subtle-Serial-Forms-of-It&id=2659108)

                                  Thanks, sweet cheeks.
                                  Title: Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Post by: Joel on August 28, 2010, 01:03:59 PM
                                  Edited: Wednesday, October 06, 2010
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 28, 2010, 01:17:26 PM
                                  Quote
                                  "Joel" wrote:
                                  Me thinks "sweet cheeks" was your childhood pet name?  I can speculate who gave it to you but they would roll over .

                                  Awe, that is so cute sweet cheeks, thank You. Not everyone can have your "pet name" Joel.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Queen Bitch on August 29, 2010, 04:57:00 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Absolutely, have no problem beating your ass like the skank you are. Actually I rather enjoy it. Thanks. I hope every swinging dick and vagina on this site reads everything I wrote twice before they go to bed.
                                  ::)  ::)  ::)

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                                  Anne . . . You prey on people and I don't like it. As long as I can, I will be right on your ass with my size 11 foot.
                                  Classic pot calling the kettle black,,, maybe you'd like to bend over for me, Dannyboi?
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 29, 2010, 05:45:07 PM
                                  Quote from: "Queen Bitch"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Absolutely, have no problem beating your ass like the skank you are. Actually I rather enjoy it. Thanks. I hope every swinging dick and vagina on this site reads everything I wrote twice before they go to bed.
                                  ::)  ::)  ::)

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                                  Anne . . . You prey on people and I don't like it. As long as I can, I will be right on your ass with my size 11 foot.
                                  Classic pot calling the kettle black,,, maybe you'd like to bend over for me, Dannyboi?

                                  No I stopped doing that 30 years ago, remember.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 30, 2010, 10:09:20 AM
                                  This is just DannyBoi trying to feel like a big man.  He must have been picked on in high school and couldn't get a date, so he's an angry little man now and it makes him feel better to threaten women.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 30, 2010, 10:09:49 AM
                                  So, Whooter.....what do you think of DannyBoi's threats to me and others?
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Whooter on August 30, 2010, 12:49:18 PM
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  So, Whooter.....what do you think of DannyBoi's threats to me and others?

                                  I didnt see any threats,  I have been looking at DJ's and my trolling posts in the old TheWho thread.  So I havent kept up much here the last day.



                                  ...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on August 30, 2010, 01:03:20 PM
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  So, Whooter.....what do you think of DannyBoi's threats to me and others?

                                  I didnt see any threats


                                   :roflmao:  

                                  Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.


                                  You are so full of shit.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on August 30, 2010, 01:21:15 PM
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                                  Title: Desperate 911 Call: First Glimpse
                                  Post by: Ursus on September 09, 2010, 01:54:12 PM
                                  Getting back to the story at hand...

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                                  CBSnews.com — CRIMESIDER
                                  October 15, 2009 6:30 AM

                                  Desperate 911 Call: First Glimpse Into Angel Valley Sweat Lodge Deaths (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5384310-504083.html?tag=contentMain%3bcontentBody)
                                  Posted by Edecio Martinez

                                  FLAGSTAFF, Ariz. (CBS/AP) A newly released 911 call is now offering a first glimpse into what really happened inside an Arizona sweat lodge, leaving two people dead and more hospitalized.

                                  KPHO: 911 Calls From Sweat Lodge Incident (http://http://www.kpho.com/download/2009/1009/21255851.mp3) (Mp3)

                                  "Two people aren't breathing," the caller said while panting. "Two have no pulse."

                                  Those two people were 38-year-old Kirby Brown of Westtown, N.Y., and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee. They died shortly after emergency workers removed them from the sweat lodge on Oct. 8.

                                  Brown and Shore and more than 50 others had come to Angel Valley Resort in Sedona, Ariz., to listen to the teachings of spiritual and financial guru James Arthur Ray.

                                  Participants had fasted for 36 hours as part of a personal and spiritual quest in the wilderness before entering a 415-square-foot makeshift structure of wood and fabric that was filled with fire-heated stones.

                                  It's not clear what type of financial wizardry Ray was offering inside the super-heated tent. Perhaps he was explaining how it's possible to get scores of people to pay up to $10,000 for a two-day retreat in the desert.

                                  At those rates, the deadly retreat earned around half-a-million in revenue. It's not clear if Ray returned the funds to the victims' survivors. Neither his company nor his press agency returned phone messages from Crimesider.

                                  On the day in question, between 55 and 65 participants had eaten a breakfast buffet after a 36-hour fast, and entered the tent around 3 p.m.

                                  Two hours later a 911 call was made which said two people had no pulse and weren't breathing.

                                  "They're both unconscious, no pulse, they're not breathing," said the 911 caller. "There's a lot of people here."

                                  Police said participants were highly encouraged, but not forced, to remain inside the crudely built sweat lodge for the entire two-hour ceremony.

                                  Fire department reports released Tuesday show the incident wasn't the first involving a sweat lodge ceremony at the resort.

                                  Verde Valley Fire Chief Jerry Doerksen said his department responded to a 911 call in October 2005 about a person who was unconscious after being in a sweat lodge.

                                  Angel Valley resort owner Amayra Hamilton confirmed that Ray was leading the ceremony during the 2005 event.

                                  Autopsies on Brown and Shore were conducted, but the results are being withheld pending additional tests. Carbon monoxide poisoning was ruled out as a cause of the deaths and illnesses.

                                  Meanwhile, the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office continued to investigate last week's ceremony to determine if criminal negligence played a role in the deaths or illnesses. No charges have been filed.


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                                  Title: Comments for "Desperate 911 Call: First Glimpse..."
                                  Post by: Ursus on September 09, 2010, 02:13:45 PM
                                  Interesting Comment (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5384310-504083.html?tag=contentMain%3bcontentBody) left for the above article, "Desperate 911 Call: First Glimpse Into Angel Valley Sweat Lodge Deaths (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=22&t=28923&p=377990#p377975)" (by Edecio Martinez; Oct. 15, 2009; CBS Crimesider):


                                  by JosiahTapper · October 18, 2009 2:39 PM EDT


                                  Copyright ©2010 CBS Interactive Inc.
                                  Title: Breaking news: Transcript of private call...
                                  Post by: Ursus on September 10, 2010, 07:27:07 PM
                                  Emphasis as per the original:

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                                  Examiner.com
                                  Breaking news: Transcript of private call between James Ray and sweat lodge victims (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d15-Breaking-news-transcript-of-private-call-between-James-Ray-and-sweat-lodge-victims)
                                  October 15th, 2009 2:32 am ET · Cassandra Yorgey

                                  Mind control is a subject commonly found in works of speculative fiction, but rarely in reality. Self-help guru James Arthur Ray (http://http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Arthur_Ray) is the latest to use mind-control, called coercive persuasion among psychologists, in the sweat lodge tragedy that occurred last week. James Ray is currently under investigation for two deaths and 19 additional hospitalizations (http://http://www.examiner.com/a-2261207~2_dead_after_hours_in_Ariz__sweat_lodge_identified.html) that occurred at his Spiritual Warrior Retreat last week in Sedona, AZ during the sweat lodge portion.

                                  Last night James Ray made his first public statement regarding the tragedy and today he had a conference call that was only for the victims of his latest retreat-gone-wrong. Why does James Ray want to have private communication with his victims? What is he hiding (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d16-Breaking-news-Inside-accounts-of-James-Ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat)? It would appear that he is psychologically tampering with witnesses as well as continuing to hit them up for money, trying to enroll them into more of his programs, and giving them bad advice. What proof do I have of this? Today I received a transcript of this call from a victim that wishes to remain anonymous. I have great respect and sympathy for all the victims, their families, and what they are going through in this trying time, so I will not post the transcript in its entirety. I want to protect the victims that are not yet ready to speak out but I will gladly post everything James Ray and his staff said though, because it is inexcusable and he must be brought to accountability.

                                  The call started with Greg (a staff member) (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m12d10-Breaking-news-James-Ray-employee-Greg-Hartle-has-his-own-death-tweets) explaining the purpose of the call was to bring closure to the retreat and to give James Ray a chance to interact with everyone. Next, Greg introduced Katie Carlson as an international follower of James Ray and strongly urged everyone to seek guidance about this tragedy with her, even though she is not certified as a counselor. I'd like to repeat that because of the crazy factor – he urged people to consult someone who is in no way certified in the fields of therapy. Why would he refer trauma victims to a non-professional to cope with this tragedy? Because James Ray and his staff kept stressing the importance of turning to others in the James Ray community for support, or as James Ray kept referring to his followers "Harmonic minded individuals". This is a huge warning sign of cult activities – turning to unqualified people for help only because they are members. Cults focus their members inwards in an attempt to cut off outside influences.

                                  "Harmonic minded individuals" is bad enough but another phrase James Ray and staff kept using was "those who have fallen ill" apparently he is choosing to portray this as some sort of disease or sickness, as opposed to the reality - they are suffering from overexposure to dangerous levels of heat that is a direct consequence of James Ray's actions in the sweat lodge. Even more astounding is how many victims were agreeing with James Ray, even though they themselves are still recovering from injuries he imposed upon them. This raises serious questions about the levels of indoctrination James Ray has achieved among his followers – they are willing to support him even after he almost killed them. Some even espoused the near death experience as transformative and praised James Ray for it, even while they discussed the physical problems they are still struggling to overcome. I have heard similar sentiments from other people who suffered from the effects of coercive persuasion – cult members, abused teenagers from wilderness therapy programs, etc.

                                  The words of the staff are bad enough, but barely scratch the surface of what James Ray himself stated. He starts by saying "I really wanted to be with you all on the final night and my thoughts were consisistenly with everyone who was having challenges." Of course, he neglects to mention why he wasn't there with everyone, because he was not in police custody – he was on his way out of the state. Doesn't seem like he really wanted to be there then, huh?

                                  He goes on to say "I just kept thinking 'I have to take care of my people'." How he could even utter those words after his gross failure to take care of them during the retreat when they needed it is beyond me. James Ray insists to the callers that "this is something I have never been confronted with before" and George and Amayra Hamilton, the owners of Angel Valley Retreat (where the sweat lodge was held), have repeatedly backed him in news reports. However, "not been confronted" is not the same as "never happened before" and the fire department released information that something exactly like this has happened before. In 2005 a call was placed to 911 because of another sweat lodge being run by James Ray at the same Angel Valley Retreat center. Furthermore, the police are investigating James Ray's retreats at multiple other locations.

                                  Another catch-phrase James Ray and staff kept using is "remember your teachings" and "remind you of what you know" which he used a lot while saying "just be good to yourself. This is the most important time, its always important, to practice what you know, eat right… You gotta eat and you gotta eat healthy. You gotta get your workouts in, speaking from experience, sometimes you don't feel like it but you gotta get rest and eat right." That's strange advice coming from James Ray, the very same person who deprived them of food, water, and sleep for 36+ hours right before shutting them in the sweat lodge.

                                  James continued, "As restless as your mind might be, take 15 to 20 minutes to slow down and remember who you are. Next it's important to surround yourself with healthy harmonic minded individuals who support you and love you. Hopefully you've connected with support, and if you haven't please, please do because this community is coming together like never before and there is lots of support around the world. I'm sending [unclear] to all those who took ill and also those that transitioned and left this physical life, you can only give what you have and you can't give what you're not. Again lets all remind each other of what we know." The first part sounds like followers struggle with their sense of self unless they are around other followers, the last part of the quote doesn't even make sense, and he wraps up with more repetition.

                                  "I have an incredible support group in my life and it's been invaluable. I know Greg and Megan left me a voicemail last Friday and I saved it and listen to it several times a day. It's important to do these things. That's why we have Katie, she has experience and knows how to do these things." Katie is present on the call and agrees that these things are important. I guess it's nice that James Ray listens to his friends' messages on repeat, but I am not sure that would qualify as important in the grieving process. It is also unclear as to what Katie has contributed to the exchange, other than agreement, which means very little as she is not a qualified therapist. Nor is James Ray, while we're discussing it.

                                  "Now is the time to rise above the mood and use what you know. It's OK to grieve. I feel grief, but in the midst of that you have to do the things that will keep you healthy and that are best for every one of our family members who are still ill or deceased." Again, James Ray is heavy on the repetition. "Use what you know" is such a dangerous catchphrase because the very act of making it a catchphrase encourages people to replace actual thinking with oft spouted empty words. Notice also how he calls the victims "family members". Most of these people only met last week, hardly long enough to form bonds of friendship, let alone familial ties. I would think it would be healthier for the victims to turn to their actual families and loved ones, but like Katie and James Ray, I am not qualified to give counseling. It would be best to ask a licensed therapist about such things.

                                  "We all know the power of prayer, studies prove it. [Let's have a] moment of silence for those who have taken ill and for those in recovery and for those that are family members of those who transitioned. A moment of silence to do what we will to send our brightest intentions and love to all those involved including ourselves. Envision all of us in a circle if you will. Let's take a deep breath in. Breathe in. And out. You know what to do. Be the light in the darkness for ourselves and each other for all involved. Envision ourselves standing together in a circle, as we have so many times before, and as we stay in that circle we can press *6 to mute out our line if we're being noisy."

                                  Everyone beeps their line while they follow his command.

                                  "Take a breath in. Out. Remembering who we are and what we know. Remembering that we are here in this special time in world history to make a major positive difference in a world that needs it so much. Knowing that we can and that we are. Next breath in. And out. Loving ourselves and allowing ourselves to experience whatever we experience and loving ourselves because the only way to go beyond it is to [unclear]. We [unclear] energy in this circle, breath in and out. Remembering all that we've learned and experienced and knowing the laws of the universe that every [unclear] chaos comes order that never existed before the chaos, moving elegantly through chaos to facilitate the order. Knowing a higher power than what we know conciously is guiding and directing us. No matter what we feel in the moment we are guided and protected always. Imagine ourselves standing in a pyramid of light and on the next breath take all intentionality and experience into the heart and crown chakra. Through the heart of each of us here now, into the crown, out through the heart, connecting all of us here and now. Breathe in and out. Irrelevant who is here, the unconscious mind knows and the universe knows. Now that we are connected I [unclear] to heartfelt energy [unclear] infinite [unclear] to still hospitalized. To their highest good and rapid healing at whatever level that may be. Breathe in and out through heart and all those who may still be hospitalized breathing in an out. Send out to all those how have taken ill for their rapid healing and breakthrough for new level - breathe in and out through the heart. We just feel the energy going out. Individuals who transitioned out of this physical life feel love and support of God and energy to assist them in this time of grief and challenge. Breathe in and out through the hearts of families, bathing them and supporting them in this moment. Final breath back to ourselves. Support each other, re-bond this community. In and out to the hearts of each other. Vibrating and pulsating through our bodies in this moment and we step forward acting upon this moment and the laws of the universe. So be it and it is."

                                  "Let me say one more thing before I turn it over to Barb. Barb, *6 again to share. I did an event in L.A last night, last thing I wanted to do, would rather stay home and meditate and heal but it was the right thing to do. It was a commitment and same with San Diego tonight. Many are discussing [attending] summit, and the bottom line is i made a commitment and people are flying in. There has never been a more important time to stay dialed in to thoughts of hope, thoughts of possibility and to be reminded of the things all the greatest teachers [have taught]. I know most of you are going. It will help you to be there. It will feed your soul. What we're doing is necessary so I'm gonna be there and give it my best. Barb, will you now tell us a little about what you experienced during the closing ceremony?"

                                  This, I think, is the worst part of the entire conference call. Barb is one of James Ray's staff members and she goes on to talk "of the two that had passed and they left their bodies during the ceremony and had so much fun they chose not to come back and that was their choice that they made." This is going to be really hard for James Ray and his people to explain when the autopsy results are released, because people do not cook themselves to death. They just don't. Barb implying they do is asserting James Ray's innocence and falsely supporting that the survivors are alive because they chose to live. In actuality, James Ray had to be interrupted and the participants were physically removed from the sweat lodge because they were not capable of transporting themselves.

                                  The rest of Barb's words were less offensive, but still rather odd. "There were a number of us that were still there Friday afternoon. We had all been sharing and working through the processes and Angel Valley and [unclear] and Friday evening one of them did [unclear] with cleansing for various sights they had been on and a session with everyone still on site. I gotta say they opened up their hearts and [unclear] he opened up, got into her mode and I believe she was channeling some of the spirits from Angel Valley and she opened it up for questions that anyone wanted to ask, but I don't remember them all."

                                  "This is bringing attention to how sweat lodges should be used. The next morning the police had cleared the site and then Angel Valley could take the shelter down and burn it."

                                  "We were in the dining hall the next day and got a circle together and did prayer pouches to put on fire to honor the process the participants went through on their vision quest. We had tobacco, material, and strings that varied people had and Angel Valley gave cornmeal and we sat in a circle and talked about who and what we wanted to do with all the pouches. We made a pouch for those who passed, James Ray, James Ray International, the hospitalized, all the participants, and last is all encompassing for everyone on the globe being affected by this. Saturday in circle we held hands, took hot breath, and sand for each pouch took intentions and [unclear] that pouch for intentions and prayers for that particular person represented. Instead of leaving in the string we tied it in a circle to represent togetherness. After that we went to the sweat lodge area and everything had been taken off except the wooden structure. We gathered around and all the participants of the dream team who were left stood in the north, at that point some Angel Valley people spoke and opened up to anyone who [wanted to speak]. People really spoke about embracing the dark and the light."

                                  "Some spoke of being next to those who were dead or sick, others of the teaching the rest of the week and [how] it was exactly what they needed to [unclear] higher evolution. Some spoke of the use of sweat lodges in the future. Everyone was quiet for a bit. Everyone spoke of embracing the light if anyone had anger or frustration [unclear] that they really need to not hold that within ourselves. I can't remember if anyone spoke but I think if [unclear] it was expressed in themselves and not spoken words."

                                  Barb spoke of dismantling the sweat lodge. "The tradtional way is to cut or untie the strings that held the wood together. It took a while to take it down but we [unclear]. Ffter we had that kind of filled we took the grandfathers and put them in the shape of a heart around the pit. Participants [unclear] on the ground and that was tied through the circle of pouches we created that morning that [unclear] held up and put both pouches on [unclear] and that represented our intentions for [unclear] and the other string of pouches from [unclear] represented all of the participants that didn't make it to the fire [unclear]."

                                  "And then matches were passed around for everyone and we all struck a match and helped to light the fire and watched the fire and said what was in their hearts."

                                  James Ray ended Barb's story. "Hopefully all of you appreciate hearing that as well as I did reading it and hearing it again. Greg you were gonna say something?"

                                  Greg chimes in. "Thank you very much Barb, that helps a lot. I did want to acknowledge Katie, she is available and [unclear] contact us to be in contact with Katie, everything you have she can help with. At this point Katie, is there anything you want to add or say?"

                                  Katie, the not qualified to be counseling anyone on grieving follower of James Ray, says "For the most part it is OK to feel what you're feeling and don't do it alone. You guys really know how to journal, get those feeling out of you. Make sure you connect with anyone, especially Harmonic like-minded individuals. There's a ton of people out there for you."

                                  "Thank you Katie"

                                  "My pleasure."

                                  Greg continues, "I would like to open up to anyone, I know there's a lot of you, I want to be sure that out of respect we stick with our own feelings and how we can best support each other."

                                  This is when the survivors begin to share and I cannot in good conscience repeat their private feelings. I will say that many had difficulty recalling the experience clearly and many thanked the others for pulling them to safety while they were incapacitated.

                                  James Ray wraps up the call with "I love you guys with all my heart. I've thought about each and every one of you. The families. Nonstop. I would have loved to have been with you that night. Please, please let me remind you since [retracted] said she was late, as a reminder, take care of yourself. Now more than ever stay plugged in. As hard as it was for me I told Megan and Greg it was every bit as healing to go speak to those people last night as it was for them. Stay plugged in, eat exercise, talk to Kaite and stay connected with this community. I give you 110% of what I have. Thank you so much for who you are and what you are doing for each other and the world. Highest prayers for the families and those taken ill and a speedy recovery. Love you lots."

                                  Read part two: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d16-Breaking-news-Inside-accounts-of-James-Ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat)

                                  Read an interview: Brett Merle, former wilderness program owner speaks out about NLP and proper safety measures for programs such as James Ray's

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                                  Post by: Ursus on September 11, 2010, 06:27:10 PM
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                                  Title: Breaking News: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge...
                                  Post by: Ursus on September 15, 2010, 12:11:24 PM
                                  Here's the aforementioned (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&p=379196#p378350) "part two." Emphasis as per the original:

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                                  October 16th, 2009 3:36 pm ET · Cassandra Yorgey

                                  People are flailing in seizures; others are vomiting violently, or foaming at the mouth. Bodies are lined up unconscious, some are blue from lack of oxygen, but for some it is too late, they are already dead. Survivors that are barely able to stand struggle to help the others, they have had almost no food or water for nearly three days, even longer without sleep. It looks like a war zone, but for the incongruent figure of James Arthur Ray (a contributing author to The Secret) who exits the sweat lodge and stands tall with a big smile, the only one able to stand on his own volition. He is not concerned with the medical emergency going on full swing around him. He is not worried about the health and well-being of his followers who have paid $10,000.00 (tack on an additional 5,000.00 or so if you include flights, room and board, and camping supplies) to attend his retreat. In fact, he and his team urge people to stop taking care of others and focus on their own journey, assuring them they are fine and only "purging". Someone finally realizes James Ray is not in control of the situation and calls 911.

                                  It sounds like this is right out of a science fiction novel, doesn't it? But sadly, this is one of those rare times I pull my head out of a fantasy book and report on reality. How did a retreat aimed at spiritual growth and financial wealth go so horribly, tragically wrong? Those who were not present are pointing fingers at the physical experience of a sweat lodge – was it constructed properly by James Ray and his staff? Did they have the proper building permits? Did they use too many hot rocks or have too many participants? Does the government need to issue standardized guidelines for sweat lodge participants? After interviewing one of James Ray’s victims who was present at the retreat, I would argue no - although it is clear the technical specifications of the lodge were innapropriate. This is not an accident of negligence because a leader was untrained in the Native American sweat lodge practices. This tragedy is the consequence of a charismatic, megalomaniacal smooth-talker with undue influence and his own agenda – one that did not, at any point during the retreat, account for the safety of the participants, physically, mentally, or emotionally. This offends me as a backpacker and wilderness enthusiast, as a dabbler in psychological theory, and as someone who has an interest in bettering myself morally – but most importantly, it offends me as a human being who has compassion and empathy for my fellow humans.

                                  Today I'm going to look deep into the soulless belly of the James Ray Spiritual Warrior retreat with thoughts and descriptions based on what I have learned from firsthand witnesses and participants. These brave victims are speaking in the midst of recovery (on the condition of anonymity) because of the urgency of the situation, as well as a moral obligation to the victims who passed away, Kirby Brown (38) and James Shore (40) and their families, and to those who can still be saved from this man. James Ray and the Angel Valley retreat have lied repeatedly, stating that they have never had any problems at previous retreats and that nothing like this has ever happened before - yet it is well documented that police are investigating multiple James Ray retreat locations and that a similar incident happened at the very same Angel Valley retreat center in AZ, at a James Ray retreat no less, in 2005. Why the lies? Well, there is no way these guys could tell you the truth without immediate prosecution, do not pass go, do not collect two hundred dollars, and proceed immediately to jail. Speaking of money, did you know neither James Ray nor Angel Valley has refunded any of the money they have collected from this retreat? I mean, obviously there will be lawsuits but it would be in good taste to refund the victims. It would be in better taste to also pick up the hospital charges, but James Ray is clearly not about accountability or decency to others. But enough about that, you want to know what the heck happened at this retreat and I am here to relay that to you.
                                   
                                  Before the retreat even started, participants were advised to read The Holotropic Mind by Stanislav Grof and Hal Zina Bennett, as well as listen to a CD titled The Holosync Solution Awakening Prologue (the CD set is 175.00 dollars and not included in with the cost of the retreat, by the way). I have not read The Holotropic Mind personally, however Stanislav Grof is notable in the field of psychiatry for his studies on altered states of consciousness. After (briefly) searching Wikipedia and James Ray's personal website, I am unable to find any credentials that would qualify him to be using psychological techniques. His website only states he "has studied and been exposed to a wide diversity of teachings and teachers – from his collegiate learning and the schools of the corporate world, to the ancient cultures of Peru, Egypt and the Amazon." Pretty vague, huh? I mean, it's never killed James Ray to name-drop before *coughOprahcough*. Which schools? What teachers?
                                   
                                  The first day or so of the retreat was mostly unremarkable as far as self-help retreats go – a lot of time spent in the "classroom" doing meditation and listening to other CD's as well as lectures. I say "mostly" because James Ray urged participants to forego sleep, insisting that working on their assignments all night would be more beneficial. Sleep deprivation is well-known to cause impairment of ability and of deductive reasoning, often times displaying comparable results to consumption of alcohol. Why would a self-help retreat supposedly focused on healing want to keep participants from thinking clearly? My guess is because the aim of the retreat was not self-improvement but coercive persuasion. If you are not familiar with the term it can be summed up as techniques used to produce ideological and behavioral changes in a fully conscious, mentally intact individual. Is this an acceptable practice? I would say it depends, like so many other things, on the execution. It certainly can be used to beneficial effect; however it can also employ means such as psychological pressure, hypnotic suggestion, undue influence, threats, anxiety, intimidation and/or stress in an unethical manner.
                                   
                                  Some people might find it more alarming that immediately upon starting the retreat participants shaved their heads – before the sleep deprivation. Yes, even the women. This actually doesn't bother me at all. In fact, I think every woman should shave her head at least once in her life. Besides, all the kids are doing it. It's fashionable. It's also emotionally freeing. However, I know a lot of family members of the participants are upset about it – excuses such as "It looks dykey!" or "You're in a cult!" get tossed around, to which I roll my eyes. "Wait!" you're probably accusing me right now, "I read your transcript of the conference call James Ray made to these victims (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d15-Breaking-news-transcript-of-private-call-between-James-Ray-and-sweat-lodge-victims), and you outright accuse him of being a cult leader!" Yes, you are absolutely right; I do state repeatedly that James Ray is a cult leader.
                                   
                                  Many commenters chided me for using the term inappropriately, but I stand by my terminology. They were right to chide me though, because I didn't make clear that not all of James Ray's followers are cult members. Not even all of his victims could be considered cult members. This is a very important distinction that I want to take a moment to clear up. James Ray and his staff display cult-like qualities that are dangerous to the followers, from people who idly glanced at The Secret all the way through to the victims of his sweat lodge tragedy, but his followers are not a cult. One more time, for emphasis - James Ray's followers are not a cult. Reading his works, practicing some of his techniques at home by yourself, these things do not make a cult member. Not even attending the seminars guarantees membership into the ranks of cult. If James Ray spouted the crazy right up front no one would listen. Think of the tale of Hansel and Gretel – the Witch lured them in with a house made of delicious candy and then locked them in an oven. James Ray is smarter than the Witch though, because he stuffed Hansel and Gretel and their pockets full of candy and sent them back to the village to lure the others in. More people for the oven-oops-I-mean-sweat-lodge that way, you see. There is nothing wrong with sweat lodges, ovens, candy, or some of these teachings; it is all in how you use it. Now that we've cleared that up, let's get back to what happened at the deadly retreat.
                                   
                                  Day Two the sleep deprivation has begun - but that by itself is not enough of a warning to foresee this tragedy. The real warning signs begin with the James Ray Games. One of the brave and recovering victims described a game they all had to play in which James Ray played God. Yep, you read that right; James Ray cast himself in the role of God and would then command participants to die. He would point at someone and they would have to fall down and play dead. They would be covered with a blanket and if they moved another person would "die".
                                   
                                  Kirby Brown exemplified the dangerous psychological twisting behind these games. After the game she was seen standing in line for the outhouse, clutching herself and crying. After another participant ushered her to the front of the line they asked her "Why didn't you just get up and go?" She looked up sincerely and said she didn't want to ruin the game for others. It breaks my heart to know that James Ray took the life of such a compassionate woman away, a woman willing to suffer so others could benefit, but it also really pisses me off that he warped such a sweet motivation and used it masochistically. My inner neo-hippie rises up and shouts "Dude! No one should have to hold it so long it hurts!" That's just cruel.
                                   
                                  "What was the motivation behind such games?" you are probably demanding of your computer screen right now. James Ray reasoned something along the lines of "it demonstrated the transcendental nature of death" and explained how it would allow participants to leave behind their fears of death. He spoke of honor, integrity, and strength. He spoke of being reborn (These are not direct quotes, they are adlibbed from the memories of participants).
                                   
                                  At the end of the second day the James Ray Vision Quest began. I personally have done several vision quests in the desert so I do have an inkling of an idea of what I'm talking about here. I find the biggest red flags of dangerous indoctrination to be restriction of water, food, or bathroom breaks – So when I heard James Ray dropped everyone off in the desert with no food, no water, and nothing but a sleeping bag, the clothes on their back, and a notebook I start to sputter obscenities. No water, in the desert, for 36+ hours is dangerous. I've always been told to drink at least a gallon of water a day when hiking in the desert. Furthermore, even if the participants had been fully rested and cognitively ready to question the water restriction, it is still completely traditional (and uneccesary) to go without food on these solo journeys.
                                   
                                  James Ray mixes a subtle combination of increasingly risky behavior with perfectly legitimate practices (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d20-James-Ray-uses-teen-wilderness-program-techniques-on-adults-Interview-with-Brett-Merle) that leave these poor victims slightly confused and he keeps them physically in a hurry -preventing them from sitting down and taking the time to think these things through. We've all been in that state of mind. Who hasn't pulled an all-nighter studying just to be on autopilot the next day in class? Yeah, we can still function but it takes its toll. Now imagine before this all-nighter you've spent your classes working on trust exercises, being coddled by your professor and told how it's important to relearn trusting others. You will be taken care. You are provided for. Stop thinking about those things and focus on your inner journey. Just learn stuff. Of course, you've paid $15,000 dollars or so to be there, so you expect to be able to really relax and let go. This is why James Ray is such a dangerous man, anyone could fall into that trap. By the time the participants started to think "Hey, I should have really insisted on that canteen of sweet, delicious, life-giving water..." it's too late. They were stranded alone, in the dark, in an unknown location in the Arizona desert.
                                   
                                  If you haven't done one of these vision quests it might be hard to understand how the participants didn't want to leave after that, but I assure you, it's a powerful experience even when you're fully rested and stuff yourself full of food and water. I imagine that sense of wonder and transformation is magnified when one is starving and dehydrated. Sleep was still hard to come by because most participants were not prepared for the devastating cold that comes over the desert at night. Participants were coerced into buying thickly woven Peruvian ponchos for additional charges of $250.00. While that price may seem exorbitant, one victim I interviewed was happy to have paid it, repeatedly stating that it was literally life-saving. The tightly woven material also kept out the intermittent rain, helping to keep participants dry. Still, sleep was hard to come by in those temperatures, being fitful at best and it hardly alleviated the impaired thinking that has become prevalent. It's easy to see how thinking could become distorted at this point – feelings of being ripped off by a leader and staff that didn't give proper information about necessary equipment are battling with rationalizations of how at least they pushed the extra gear on everyone instead of letting them freeze to death.
                                   
                                  When James Ray's team finally returned to pick them up from their isolation (surprisingly enough, James Ray was not fasting on a vision quest during this period, nor were his staff – makes you wonder what they were doing, huh?) the participants were all so happy to be warm, with food and water, and thrilled to be surrounded by all their new friends who were all equally excited about their amazing transformative experiences, that the measly hour or so they had to eat and rehydrate themselves flew by. Food was hardly touched, most people opting to drink water first which quickly filled their newly shrunken stomachs. Before anyone had a chance to really recover the participants were whisked off to a group meditation (led by James Ray) and then to the final piece of the James Ray Spiritual Warrior Retreat. The sweat lodge.
                                   
                                  We've painted a picture of the participants mental state leading up to the sweat lodge, and we know what happened when James Ray turned the relaxing Native American equivalent of a sauna into an endurance competition. He not only encouraged participants to stay and push past physical discomfort, he also actively dissuaded people that wanted to leave. The phrase "push through your threshold" was repeated often by James Ray. If participants didn't make it to the door fast enough they had to wait for the next round. James Ray would slam the tarp shut shouting "Too late! Door's shut!" and as he was sitting directly next to the door he was escalating it into a physical confrontation (not to mention he was the only one getting reprieve from the heat. Others could not feel a thing when the door was opened) – playing off something we are trained from birth to avoid. Throughout all this, James Ray is speaking words of encouragement. He speaks of how throwing up is good and actually purging (it isn't. it's actually a sign of dehydration and many other bad things), and explains that passing out is common (it isn't). He encourages people who find it too hot to bury their faces in the dirt, because it was cooler. This is like telling people to stay in a sauna and if it's too hot – hey, just stick your face by the bottom of the door!
                                   
                                  These honorable participants tried time and time again to re-organize and keep everyone safe, but at every stage they were thwarted by James Ray and his staff. Participants who expressed concern over others were told time and time again to focus on their own journey, and not to interfere with another's. Once outside the enclosure some people were physically restrained from helping the rescue effort by staff members. One unconscious victim was dropped on their head while staff carried them out of the sweat lodge.
                                   
                                  After paramedics responded, James Ray was escorted away by police; however he chose his right to silence. Police are reported to have released James Ray that evening, at which point he immediately left the state (this is based on other reports in the media).
                                   
                                  This type of devastation isn't caused by a faulty sweat lodge, oh no, people will leave a faulty sweat lodge when left to their own devices. This is the fault of a leader who seems to think Jonestown was a super idea, and Hitler had some great technique. There are probably some who question my interpretations of the psychology here, and you should because I am not certified for this stuff in any way, so please contribute your own thoughts and research. My opinion is based on research of the following topics: Coercive persuasion, POW mind control studies, wilderness programs to rehabilitate delinquent youth as well as adult programs such as Landmark Education, the Milgram Experiment, Stockholm syndrome, Jonestown tragedy, cult psychology, and many other random topics that I've studied for my current work-in-progress.
                                   
                                  What will other self-help gurus say about this kind of behavior? Will Oprah continue to endorse James Ray? When dealing with cult leaders and other dangerously charismatic people we must always remember to focus not on the beauty of one's words, but on the morality of one's actions.

                                  For more info: I am not the only teen advocate speaking out. Shawna Bowen (http://http://teenandparentsupport.com/) is a licensed therapist who focuses on teens with substance abuse problems. I am not familiar with her body of work but the things she reveals in this interview seem to be supporting my own research. Click here (http://http://verdevalleyblog.com/2009/10/shawna-bowen-interviews-james-ray-sweat-lodge/) to see her on CBS.

                                  Finally, I have been piecing this retelling together for days. Checking and re-checking to verify everything is as accurate as we can make it. I say "we" even though I was not there. This is not my story. I have offered my voice to victims that wish to remain faceless because, well, how can I not? These people are not only victims, but survivors. I offer them all my support, love, strength, and protection. It is my hope that in sharing this we can put an end to any victim-blaming and focus our efforts on providing a safe and loving place for victims to be able to come forth without fear, but until that time I ask everyone to respect the privacy of those affected by this tragedy. I feel honored by those who have stepped forth and extended me their trust, I know it is an amazing act of bravery and I will do my best to represent the honesty, integrity, and strength that James Ray failed to deliver.

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                                  Title: Re: Breaking News: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge.
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on September 15, 2010, 01:18:42 PM
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Here's the aforementioned (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&p=379196#p378350) "part two." Emphasis as per the original:

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                                  October 16th, 2009 3:36 pm ET · Cassandra Yorgey



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                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: try another castle on September 15, 2010, 08:59:21 PM
                                  ursus, it's time someone took a ball-peen hammer to your CTRL key.  TL;DR  :timeout:

                                  I know you can write, Ive seen you do it. It's just been a while.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on September 15, 2010, 09:17:51 PM
                                  Ursus, are you bases this whole page after page of information solely on what, Cassandra Yorgey has to say, her opinion, she is not a expert, she is a journalist.  You have thrown in some anecdotal opinions from around the country off of websites, ya know these sections they have at end of all sites at the bottom.
                                  We can read them from the links you provide. The problem I have, is no hard evidence against the man. There is no pattern established as of yet, just some disgruntled participants spouting off.
                                  Don't let me stop ya, I know your on a roll.
                                  Title: quack quack
                                  Post by: Ursus on September 15, 2010, 11:10:01 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Ursus, are you bases this whole page after page of information solely on what, Cassandra Yorgey has to say, her opinion, she is not a expert, she is a journalist.  You have thrown in some anecdotal opinions from around the country off of websites, ya know these sections they have at end of all sites at the bottom.
                                  We can read them from the links you provide. The problem I have, is no hard evidence against the man. There is no pattern established as of yet, just some disgruntled participants spouting off.
                                  Don't let me stop ya, I know your on a roll.
                                  Yah, well, I s'pose someone could say that your stories 'bout Elan being a hellhole are nothing but a whole lot of "anecdotal opinions" when you come right down to it, eh? I myself might not be so inclined, but someone with the kind of reasoning you just demonstrated above might well take such a tack...

                                  Jes sayin', when it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on September 16, 2010, 11:37:29 AM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Ursus, are you bases this whole page after page of information solely on what, Cassandra Yorgey has to say, her opinion, she is not a expert, she is a journalist.

                                  Yes, she is a journalist and is doing her job.....reporting.


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                                  The problem I have, is no hard evidence against the man. There is no pattern established as of yet, just some disgruntled participants spouting off.

                                  That's a matter of opinion.  Apparently, the cops and the D.A.'s office felt there was enough evidence to file manslaughter charges against him.  With a $5 million bond.  That's a pretty significant bond, even for manslaughter.  The "establishing a pattern" is what comes during the trial.  Right now, they're still gathering and processing all the evidence.

                                  And, sorry Danny but...the "disgruntled" participant bit is exactly how the TTI refers to anyone who dares to criticize them.  


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                                  Don't let me stop ya, I know your on a roll.


                                  I'm glad he's posting them and find it to be very interesting reading, especially the comments.  I really think it's scary how so many people are so willing to hand themselves over to these self proclaimed "gurus" or "life coaches".  It's ridiculous.  Most of these people don't have the qualifications to be counseling my dog, let alone have that kind of influence over people.  I think part of it is the goddamned "Oprah effect".
                                  Title: Re: quack quack
                                  Post by: DannyB II on September 16, 2010, 02:42:28 PM
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Ursus, are you bases this whole page after page of information solely on what, Cassandra Yorgey has to say, her opinion, she is not a expert, she is a journalist.  You have thrown in some anecdotal opinions from around the country off of websites, ya know these sections they have at end of all sites at the bottom.
                                  We can read them from the links you provide. The problem I have, is no hard evidence against the man. There is no pattern established as of yet, just some disgruntled participants spouting off.
                                  Don't let me stop ya, I know your on a roll.
                                  Yah, well, I s'pose someone could say that your stories 'bout Elan being a hellhole are nothing but a whole lot of "anecdotal opinions" when you come right down to it, eh? I myself might not be so inclined, but someone with the kind of reasoning you just demonstrated above might well take such a tack...

                                  Jes sayin', when it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...

                                  Well, there is just one problem with your analogy up there Anne, I have maybe 2 paragraphs of posts concerning Elan, spread out over 10 months. One would have to be very interested in reading my anecdotal opinions to find them.
                                  Now maybe your bias for Ursus is leaking through your post, above.
                                  Title: Re: quack quack
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on September 16, 2010, 04:25:44 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"

                                  Well, there is just one problem with your analogy up there Anne, I have maybe 2 paragraphs of posts concerning Elan, spread out over 10 months. One would have to be very interested in reading my anecdotal opinions to find them.

                                  Oh, it wasn't an analogy....it was a direct comparison.  What you said about "disgruntled patients" is exactly what programs say about kids or their parents who dare to question their so-called "treatment" in the TTI.


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                                  Now maybe your bias for Ursus is leaking through your post, above.

                                  Bias for Ursus?  What, you seriously think I'm gonna base my opinion on this New Warrior bullshit on what Ursus says?  I mean, sure I like the guy but c'mon....gimme credit for having my own mind.  I find that newage garbage just as creepy, if not more, than the TTI - all by my little lonesome.  Adults actually sign up for this crap...kids are forced into it.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on October 08, 2010, 01:00:46 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                  Quote from: "Whooter"

                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  


                                  Gee...I wonder why?


                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me,. I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  Anne, shut your pie hole and suck it up, ya baby. No, Anne, I said I would kick your ass.... :roflmao:
                                  Oh, hear we go. Danny said he was going to kick my ass. OH boo hoo, I'm so scared I peed my pants. Would Anne, Joel and BP like some depends for your protection. Right now I am kicking your ass, how does it feel.
                                  I just love how you folks make such a big deal out of what I say. That is why I say it. Because I love to see you folks cry.
                                  Oh Danny is threatening me, Danny is sexually assaulting me, Danny is doing this, Suck-It is doing that, Tim is doing this, Whooter is doing that and bla bla bla.........
                                  Guys step off you freaking pansies. Go cry to the authorities or other wise suck it up. You get what ya get because you give what ya give.




                                  See, whenever someone threatens DannyBoi's worldview, he gets upset and throws tantrums.  He makes threats, hints that he has "inside info" about you and all sorts of other weird stuff.  I wonder if they teach that at this New Warrior Training?
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 08, 2010, 01:38:53 PM
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                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on October 08, 2010, 02:01:23 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
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                                  It seems you are the one that feels threatened.  


                                  Gee...I wonder why?


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                                  Well then keep drumming because your solo. Joel your not even with someone and neither is your brother. DUh.....I have been with two women in my life, one passed on and I am currently with the second. She has posted here and has had some serious comments for Anne and Felice. I/we have absolutely no respect for them then again I have showed no mercy on Ursus, Che, DJ, Paul (lill johnny) and yourself dickwad I don't give a flying fuck what you think of me,. I'll kick Annes ass as sure as I will kick your ass. Don't like it, take your balls and go home.
                                  Don't like what I have to say about Anne, go back and read and you will see who started the vulgar deprecating verbal attacks. You have always seemed to have no memory.
                                  Don't come around with some moronic psycho-babble, you know nothing about.
                                  Keep trying your diversion Joel, sorry though (3) of us have our feet planted right on Anne's ass.
                                  You were just a snack during intermission.

                                  Bye Bye sissyboy.

                                  Anne, shut your pie hole and suck it up, ya baby. No, Anne, I said I would kick your ass.... :roflmao:
                                  Oh, hear we go. Danny said he was going to kick my ass. OH boo hoo, I'm so scared I peed my pants. Would Anne, Joel and BP like some depends for your protection. Right now I am kicking your ass, how does it feel.
                                  I just love how you folks make such a big deal out of what I say. That is why I say it. Because I love to see you folks cry.
                                  Oh Danny is threatening me, Danny is sexually assaulting me, Danny is doing this, Suck-It is doing that, Tim is doing this, Whooter is doing that and bla bla bla.........
                                  Guys step off you freaking pansies. Go cry to the authorities or other wise suck it up. You get what ya get because you give what ya give.




                                  See, whenever someone threatens DannyBoi's worldview, he gets upset and throws tantrums.  He makes threats, hints that he has "inside info" about you and all sorts of other weird stuff.  I wonder if they teach that at this New Warrior Training?



                                  So you came all the way over here to make this point. Yah, one of those real got 'cha posts.   :rofl:

                                  Ummm, yeah...it is.  You physically threaten women who you feel intellectually threatened by.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 08, 2010, 03:06:38 PM
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                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on October 08, 2010, 03:16:13 PM
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                                  Really, I think instead of hurling accusations around of me threatening you,

                                  It's not just an accusation.  You admitted and and expanded on it.

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                                  maybe we should be asking ourselves what is going on with Anne, that she always runs to the victim role. Anne, you are a big girl now and I am not your father.

                                  Thank FSM!!

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                                  This is not a LGAT and I am not a staff member anymore
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                                  Coulda fooled me cuz you sure do act like one.  But I guess that's what comes from a lifetime of following LGATs and chasing after wannabe gurus.

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                                  Please repeat after me.....I am a big girl, I am not a victim, this is not a LGAT, Danny is not my father.
                                  Keep going on your own, you'll get there.

                                  You're a very odd man DannyBoi.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 08, 2010, 03:47:41 PM
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                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: Anne Bonney on October 08, 2010, 03:56:51 PM
                                  Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                  Anne, ADHD is a problem I know but hey, work with me here.

                                  You have ADHD?  I'm sorry.  I should have guessed.
                                  Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 08, 2010, 10:21:40 PM
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                                  Title: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 1-25
                                  Post by: Ursus on October 09, 2010, 10:16:15 AM
                                  Getting back to the last article, here are comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) left for the above piece, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 16th, 2009; Examiner.com), #s 1-25:


                                  by Trish · 11 months ago
                                  by native woman · 11 months ago
                                  by native woman · 11 months ago
                                  by Mary Ann · 11 months ago
                                  by Lynn · 11 months ago
                                  by A friend · 11 months ago
                                  by Duff · 11 months ago
                                  by Critical Thinker · 11 months ago
                                  by Dave · 11 months ago
                                  by Incredulous · 11 months ago
                                  by Bob Schnebly · 11 months ago
                                  by Curious · 11 months ago
                                  by Incredulous · 11 months ago
                                  by Disturbed · 11 months ago
                                  by MLWilde · 11 months ago
                                  by DJ · 11 months ago
                                  by Karin Hiebert · 11 months ago
                                  by Corinne · 11 months ago
                                  by Henry · 11 months ago
                                  by Ruth · 11 months ago
                                  by Ruth · 11 months ago
                                  by Julie · 11 months ago
                                  by Dan · 11 months ago
                                  by Cassandra Yorgey · 11 months ago
                                  by Mourning. · 11 months ago


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                                  Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 1-2
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 09, 2010, 12:37:35 PM
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Getting back to the last article, here are comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) left for the above piece, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 16th, 2009; Examiner.com), #s 1-25:


                                  by Trish · 11 months ago
                                    My heart is literally pounding out of my chest reading this! I am outraged at James Ray and his cult leaders. These people were like lambs to the slaughter, but they had to pay thousands for it. He should be sued for everything he has but that will not bring back the dead. You have people attending his meetings who have been abused, who have self-doubt, who are trying to become stronger and more powerful AND THIS IS WHAT THEY GET? I dont' even know what to say after this except that the universe rights itself James, so watch out...


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                                  by native woman · 11 months ago

                                  Do any of you James Ray followers ask him if he knows what he is doing in that lodge? Whats the name of the person who taught him that and would they vouch for him? Did he ask if anyone had any health concerns before they went in? Did you EVEN ask questions? Are you discouraged from asking questions or looked down on if you do? Are you given real answers that you are satisfied with?
                                  Before you went into that lodge did you feel you could trust that man with your life?

                                  If I dont feel any safe answers to these questions about someone who says they can run a sweat. I DON'T go in.

                                  ANYONE CAN TELL YOU THAT THEY ARE CAPABLE OR ALLOWED TO RUN A SWEAT!! Not everyone is telling you the truth.

                                  Look up "New age Fraud" before you try to attend one of these things you call a "native american ritual" run by some nonnative who was taught by some white guy who was taught by his mom who was adopted into the XXX tribe became their medicine woman!!! why? cuz that's a lie!!!

                                  by native woman ·11 months ago

                                  say this because no one seems to question people that do this. I believe those people died and got hurt because James Ray didn't know how to properly run that lodge. Did anyone ask questions?

                                  For all here, read the comments, "native women" makes, then maybe you will stop being a follower of the, "I blame every one else in my life for my decisions, crusade".
                                  Ursus the originator of this thread is a strong believer in this and would like to convince you that with a fist full of money and a lawyer you too can be like me. Make any decision you want and not worry about the consequences, it is not your fault. I know doesn't make any sense.  



                                  by Mary Ann · 11 months ago
                                    Breaks my heart that they went through this. I too offer love and support to them as they work to learn to trust again.
                                  by Lynn · 11 months ago
                                    Woooowww. That man needs to be put out of commission.

                                    Excellent article, Cassandra. The description by attendees (finally!) closely matched what I had imagined in my mind after researching the kind of man James Ray appears to be and getting some insight into his ego and his almost sociopathic responses to people's suffering, both now and in the past. It's aaaallll about him, after all, isn't it? Scary and sad.
                                  by A friend · 11 months ago
                                    Typo you can easily repair:
                                    >>You will be taken care. You are provided for.
                                    Thank you -- too astonished to comment right now.
                                  by Duff · 11 months ago
                                    Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are a hero.
                                  by Critical Thinker · 11 months ago
                                    Questioning such people are discouraged. They mock the questioner as being "negative" and imply even the slightest criticism is "proof" of the questioner's heresy. You see this all the time among the Secret "teachers"--Vitale, Schirmer, Ray--they all spout the same money-cult blame-the-victim lines. Ask 'em a question they don't want to answer, and time by the second hand on your watch how quickly it's turned on the questioner. Give 'em extra points if they use any of the following terms: "negative" "jealous" "destructive" or the ever-popular "I feel sorry for (the questioner)".
                                  by Dave · 11 months ago
                                    Excellent work. This guy, and others like him, are truly despicable and dangerous, yet they always seem to carry on with their programs unencumbered by guilt or shame, regardless of any evidence of their immoral, often criminal actions. Amazing. There has to be some way to hold them accountable.

                                    I wish the best for the victims of his abuse, and I can only hope they reject his sliminess and come out in force to testify against him. Never mind lawsuits - this creep needs to go to prison.
                                  by Incredulous · 11 months ago
                                    I've watched and both liked and not liked James Ray for a few years now. I despised his pompous, arrogant, I'm so great talk, "I can help you - let me help you" in his videos, teleseminars, radio interviews. I think he truly believes he is annointed to raise up "the masses". Problem is NO ONE OTHER THAN ONESELF CAN RAISE UP ONESELF.

                                    That's what all Spiritual Warrior was about, to create an experience that participants would identify as enlightenment so they would "attach" to James Ray and rave about his expensive events.

                                    Megalomaniac describes it well. It also explains ALL that behavior that turned me off so many times I observed it.

                                    Pure and simple, this man killed those people. To play with the flap door like that, physically stopping emergency exits? I'm speechless, ONLY a megalomaniac could do such a thing.

                                    In this Universe one always gets back what one puts out. It's James turn to receive back that which he has wrought upon others.

                                    My heart is with the surv
                                  by Bob Schnebly · 11 months ago
                                    This man James Ray needs to be held accountable for this in no uncertain terms... We need to get him off the streets. NOW!!!

                                    Bob
                                  by Curious · 11 months ago
                                    Hi Cassandra, Can you check this out please? Did Colleen Marian Conaway die while attending a James Arthur Ray, Creating Absolute Wealth Seminar in San Diego CA Jul 24-26 2009?
                                    Did she die while attending a "group field trip to Horton Plaza Mall" as part of the seminar?
                                  by Incredulous · 11 months ago
                                    I've watched and both liked and not liked James Ray for a few years now. I despised his pompous, arrogant, I'm so great talk, "I can help you - let me help you" in his videos, teleseminars, radio interviews. I think he truly believes he is annointed to raise up "the masses". Problem is NO ONE OTHER THAN ONESELF CAN RAISE UP ONESELF.

                                    That's what all Spiritual Warrior was about, to create an experience that participants would identify as enlightenment so they would "attach" to James Ray and rave about his expensive events.

                                    Megalomaniac describes it well. It also explains ALL that behavior that turned me off so many times I observed it.

                                    Pure and simple, this man killed those people. To play with the flap door like that, physically stopping emergency exits? I'm speechless, ONLY a megalomaniac could do such a thing.

                                    In this Universe one always gets back what one puts out. It's James turn to receive back that which he has wrought upon others.

                                    My heart is with the surv
                                  by Disturbed · 11 months ago
                                    I was at CAW July 24-26 and was never made aware that any of the participants were missing much less dead despite the fact a "buddy" system was in place. I found out due to this recent tragedy that there was in fact a tragedy at my event too. I have only received good from the teachings that I have learned at events however I realize now that safety and concern of the participants is left at the door. There is definitely an air of time limited preparation if any and you never know where you are going to go. Granted this creates an aire of concern for your safety and does get you out of your comfort zone which is good. Many never reach their potential due to being stuck in "the same". But again, it must be done properly so there is only a belief you are in danger not actual danger. Less than that is a careless act of the host & means tragedy is just a matter of time. His lessons are destroyed by his actions regardless of how true they may be.


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                                  by MLWilde · 11 months ago

                                  Like Incredulous, I have been both intrigued and repelled by James Ray. I met him in person with my infant daughter and his energy was like a block of lead - nothing inside. Sort of a locked energy and it was not very authentic. For someone like me, who is an empath, that said a lot.

                                  I do not presume (like the author) to make assumptions about the retreat or Ray's ultimate intentions for his work. I am saddened that people will put unwavering faith in such guru figures.

                                  We are all messengers for one another. We all respond to different packaging. I didn't like Rays overall packaging but I don't necessarily see him as inherently evil or as a megalomaniac. His intentions now are irrelevant, however telling his subsequent actions seem to be.

                                  Teachers are just that, teachers. Take their words, find your truth and always listen to your inner voice. I don't think we need to point fingers at James Ray but to find the compassion to educate others and heal our own hearts.
                                  [/b]
                                   
                                  Another story for the sheep to read. Stop blaming others for your decisions.



                                  by DJ · 11 months ago
                                    Ditto!

                                    I am speechless. What are the authorities in the USA and Australia doing about these people? People have been crying out for help for years without anyone listening. People have been intimidated, manipulated, abused, threatened, silenced, deceived, stolen from, told they were so negative just because they have an opinion or question someone and the list goes on and on and not one authority has done anything about it. Now we have several deaths that have made it to the media both in the US and Australia but WHAT ARE THE AUTHORITIES DOING? These people need shutting down immediately, at least until a full investigation has been conducted into the teachers qualifications, students interviewed (and not the ones that these teaches think should be interviewed, the ones who have walked away in disgust which actually seems to be the majority now) and the business accounts of these people thoroughly and forensically investigated. I would be a very very willing participant,thanks
                                  by Karin Hiebert · 11 months ago
                                    Ditto -- to what Duff SAID!

                                    Read more;

                                    saltydroid.info


                                  by Corinne · 11 months ago

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                                  I was a member of Seaside Church in Encinitas, CA where James Ray's Parents both attend regularly. James Ray brought his "building wealth" seminar to us for a nominal fee, and when I went up to talk to him about my hesitation to pay $750 (after I'd already spent close to 10k on Judith Kravitz's Transformational Breathwork, as well as on Byron Katie's The Work, I was about "GURU'd" "Motivational Speakered" OUT! When I said I couldn't afford it now, he immediately dismissed me & moved his eyes from me and on to the next person he could convice. I realized then that all these types of people who offer seminars are just unable to work in the "regular sector" and it is most unfortunate that so many are looking outside thenselves for what can ONLY be found from within, because all the answers you are looking for are already available to YOU by YOURSELF, no anyone else! Build your network for support amongst family and friends, not motivational speakers & workshop leaders--Love Yourself
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                                  These are messages underlined here that Corinne is so passionately saying, stop being followers, do not abandon yourself to anyone.


                                  by Henry · 11 months ago
                                    This is one of the best written report on this desateer event
                                    Iam a student of Stanislav Groff ..and its is shoking that he as
                                    mix the good name of dr Groff to this desaster
                                    Shoking ...and many more seminar are advertize James ray web sites who will stop him
                                  by Ruth · 11 months ago
                                    While interesting, there's an awful lot of opinion and hearsay in this article. It's unfortunate that Cassanadra cannot name her sources, as I find it odd that no one else, anywhere that I've looked, has interviewed and reported on the personal experiences of the participants, including the participants themselves.

                                    None of us were there, and therefore, it's all speculation. It's a big fat mess, and we can only wait and see what happens next.

                                    Having said that, I will say I've been to two of James' seminars, and they were, literally, life-changing. My life and outlook has changed and for that I owe a huge thanks to James, because his work helped facilitate that change I so wanted and needed. I had no plans to go to any further seminars, not because I think he's a charlatan, snake oil salesman, etc, but because I got what I needed from him, and my lessons are taking me in a different direction.
                                  by Ruth · 11 months ago
                                    Prt 2: And while the prices he charges are really outrageous, I still think the money I paid was completely worth it. What's is it worth to change your life around? Can you put a price on that? A powerful teacher indeed.
                                    But just because the teacher has failed spectacularly does not mean the teachings are not valid. Don't confuse the teachings with the teacher.
                                    I'm sure James' lawyers are saying, "Admit nothing!" but it doesn't matter whether he would increase his chances of going to jail by admitting any culpability--it was/is the right thing to do. Be accountable--that's James' mantra, and one I agree with. I cannot understand how leaving the scene, not being with those who were injured, refusing to talk to the police and refusing to say anything about his responsibility, is accountable. Yet, ultimately, I believe he will step up and be counted.
                                    And even though some of his devotees believe James is innocent, I'm quite sure this is going to haunt him for the rest of his days.
                                  by Julie · 11 months ago
                                    Thank you for this information. I attended last year and I'm stunned and heartsick to hear James would not let them out. That's inexcusable! Our event was similar but also VERY different because we were all able to go out when we felt we needed to. Oh my God, no wonder it ended so badly! I was not aware they were actually trapped or blocked from leaving. If that is the case, it makes the tragedy even worse. Mental coersion is bad enough but also physically preventing them from leaving? My heart breaks for these people.
                                  by Dan · 11 months ago
                                    Great rememberance of the event. One mistake, the Vision Quest was 24 hours in 2005. Otherwise reading this article was accurate. I chose to leave early in 2005. I was the first to exit and thank God that others followed me.
                                  by Cassandra Yorgey · 11 months ago
                                    Great comments everyone!

                                    Just to be clear, the above article is in reference to the October 2009 Spiritual Warrior retreat. While there is discussion on the 2005 event going on, I do not yet have enough information to speak authoratatively on that.
                                  by Mourning. · 11 months ago
                                    Thank You.


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                                  Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts...," #s 1-25
                                  Post by: Ursus on October 09, 2010, 01:18:42 PM
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                                  by native woman · 11 months ago

                                  Do any of you James Ray followers ask him if he knows what he is doing in that lodge? Whats the name of the person who taught him that and would they vouch for him? Did he ask if anyone had any health concerns before they went in? Did you EVEN ask questions? Are you discouraged from asking questions or looked down on if you do? Are you given real answers that you are satisfied with?
                                  Before you went into that lodge did you feel you could trust that man with your life?

                                  If I dont feel any safe answers to these questions about someone who says they can run a sweat. I DON'T go in.

                                  ANYONE CAN TELL YOU THAT THEY ARE CAPABLE OR ALLOWED TO RUN A SWEAT!! Not everyone is telling you the truth.

                                  Look up "New age Fraud" before you try to attend one of these things you call a "native american ritual" run by some nonnative who was taught by some white guy who was taught by his mom who was adopted into the XXX tribe became their medicine woman!!! why? cuz that's a lie!!!

                                  by native woman ·11 months ago

                                  I say this because no one seems to question people that do this. I believe those people died and got hurt because James Ray didn't know how to properly run that lodge. Did anyone ask questions?
                                  For all here, read the comments, "native women" makes, then maybe you will stop being a follower of the, "I blame every one else in my life for my decisions, crusade".
                                  Ursus the originator of this thread is a strong believer in this and would like to convince you that with a fist full of money and a lawyer you too can be like me. Make any decision you want and not worry about the consequences, it is not your fault. I know doesn't make any sense.
                                  Danny, I fully agree with your resonance with native woman's advocating for common sense and critical assessment. If more people approached important decisions in their life this way, then maybe we'd have a lot less of these unfortunate incidents brought about by the greed of irresponsible quacks and hucksters (kinda like what happens in a lot of these programs in the TTI, if you ask me).

                                  However, lack of common sense and critical thought does not necessarily equate to a "blam[ing] every one else in my life for my decisions crusade." Nor does lack of common sense and critical thought on the part of James Ray sweat lodge participants, if such is what it was, in any way lessen or even impact the moral culpability of James Ray and James Ray International for running the sweat lodge the way it was apparently run.

                                  Incidentally, speaking of a "blam[ing] every one else in my life for my decisions crusade," where on earth do you get the idea that *I* ... am a "strong believer in this?" And where, pray tell, does the picture of "a fist full of money and a lawyer" come from? Have your sooper seekret "sources" been bending your ear too much?  :rofl:  Be careful where those "voices" from, ol' chap, you don't wanna get played for a fool.

                                  Btw, I am also not the originator of this thread, although I kinda doubt that this fact will in any way sway your belief. I am under few illusions, at this point, that such a minor detail could possibly impact the sheer magnitude of your apparently quite strongly held preconceptions.  ;)
                                  Title: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 09, 2010, 03:06:34 PM
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                                  Title: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 09, 2010, 03:17:53 PM
                                  Ursus the originator of this thread is a strong believer in this and would like to convince you that with a fist full of money and a lawyer you too can be like me. Make any decision you want and not worry about the consequences, it is not your fault. I know doesn't make any sense.


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                                  Ursus wrote:
                                  Danny, I fully agree with your resonance with native woman's advocating for common sense and critical assessment. If more people approached important decisions in their life this way, then maybe we'd have a lot less of these unfortunate incidents brought about by the greed of irresponsible quacks and hucksters (kinda like a lot of these programs in the TTI are run, if you ask me).


                                  I did too, native women nailed it as far as I see it.
                                  Adults Ursus, these are adults. Maybe if we stopped coddling adults for their irresponsible quackery, "I want to get better now" huckster routine, then your right, unfortunate incidents would not happen. These hucksters are on both sides.
                                  Zanxax became poplar this way, hey pop a pill and you'll be fine. Go to James, your life changes. They believe this crap before they leave their living rooms because they want to.  



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                                  Ursus wrote
                                  However, lack of common sense and critical thought does not necessarily equate to a "blam[ing] every one else in my life for my decisions crusade." Nor does lack of common sense and critical thought on the part of James Ray sweat lodge participants, if such is what it was, in any way lessen the moral culpability of James Ray International for running the sweat lodge the way it was apparently run.


                                  We will have to see, (trial, judicial process) we already know something went wrong, folks died and were injured. So lets run the that, I have a major issue with common sense and critical thought and the lack of responsibility to use them, then when it is evident you did not, well, then we switch to hey, James Ray is morally deficient.

                                  Ursus, you like to play that moral card little to much, very quick to pull it out.
                                   
                                  Yah, Ray may be full of himself like any other person that has had large success (Bill O'Reily and Oprah Winfrey)  moral ineptness (maybe) but down right screwing people (lying) com'on.



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                                  Incidentally, speaking of a "blam[ing] every one else in my life for my decisions crusade," where on earth do you get the idea that *I* ... am a "strong believer in this?" And where, pray tell, does the picture of "a fist full of money and a lawyer" come from? Have your sooper seekret "sources" been bending your ear too much?  :rofl:  Be careful where those "voices" from, ol' chap, you don't wanna get played for a fool.

                                  Is there ever going to be a time when you can mind your own business and just comment on quotes that were specifically made to you. You love to run around this board snatching comments from everywhere and hurling them back at posters.
                                   You wonder why we say the things about you, you act like a neglected housewife.
                                  My comments were to Anne, tongue and cheek or not but still for Anne.

                                  Ursus, this is you whole spiel here, the great defender for the irresponsible. You advocate for folks who make decisions based on their sense of helplessness (laziness, procrastination, slothfulness) and when they don't work out (self fulfilling prophesy) you come in to enable them to find an excuse.
                                  Great a perpetuating circle of deniable actions.
                                  Problem, nobody really benefits.
                                  Hmmmm.......James Ray, MKP, Programs (TTI) it is all their fault, they set it all up, to swindle, terrorize and kill.
                                  My man Ursus, has it all figured out.
                                  Ursus, your crazy as most of your beliefs...... :D  have you forgotten that there are mainstream thoughts, come back.



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                                  Btw, I am also not the originator of this thread, although I kinda doubt that this fact will in any way sway your belief. I am under few illusions, at this point, that such a minor detail could possibly impact the sheer motherlode of your apparently quite strongly held preconceptions.

                                  Nope, Ursus, not preconceptions. They are monitored daily. You can sway my belief, you just choose not to.
                                  Illusions, your right but can we bring in the delusional behavior you show, at times.   :rofl:

                                  Got'ta admit that was funny.
                                  Title: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-50
                                  Post by: Ursus on October 09, 2010, 04:07:04 PM
                                  Onwards... to some more comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) left for the above piece, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 16th, 2009; Examiner.com), #s 26-50:


                                  by Mourning. · 11 months ago
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                                  Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                  Post by: DannyB II on October 09, 2010, 08:24:58 PM
                                  Quote from: "Ursus"
                                  Onwards... to some more comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) left for the above piece, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 16th, 2009; Examiner.com), #s 26-50:


                                  by Mourning. · 11 months ago
                                    Facebook Page for JAR: Blog Commenter:

                                    Danielle Hahn-Koprowski
                                    I was at the Spiritual Warrior (SW) event in 2008 and I know exactly how this tragedy occurred

                                    Since I had participated in more than 25 sweat lodge ceremonies prior to attending SW I had a different perspective than many who were there. I have never been to a lodge where anyone got sick except at SW. Last year, at least 20 people were sick and at least 1 person was dragged out unconscious at the end.

                                    At a normal lodge no one is ever encouraged to stay, especially if they feel unwell in any way. James did not conduct the ceremony in the way that it was intended.... Read More
                                  by Former employee · 11 months ago
                                    A third person has passed away from this tragedy. When are the authorities going to act??

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                                  by Kay · 11 months ago
                                    This is a lesson for all of us who seek truth and wisdom within for the coming times. I agree with Corinne. This is telling us that we are to look within at this time, rather than at Gurus for guidance. This was not LOVE-BASED, it was greed-based, unfortunately. We can create this new world together, simply, by helping each other and believing in the best....building a world that reflects community and love. There is no longer a need to SUFFER. We need only REMEMBER.

                                  People, stop blaming others for your stupidity. Your father does not hold the key, you do. Find it inside.
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                                  by James Possible · 11 months ago
                                    If we are to take to heart what I feel Cassandra is conveying, would it not be equally inappropriate to hold Cassandra as hero?

                                    What are the facts, where does Cassandra speak with HER bias? There is a lot of emotion in her writing, I would not be inclined to call it a subjective piece.

                                  Saying things like "Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are a hero." is in fact the very mentality that leads people to hold others as an authority ultimately giving them undue influence on their lives. Leaving many to feel powerless over their own lives.

                                  Personally, there is a lot to process here as there are many comments being shared that do seem to hit home in some way. What is there to learn from this, what can this experience tell me about me and my past choices with others of influence?

                                  As one commenter offered, indeed the messenger may have made a mistake, still, the message is worth understanding. Read more...[/list]

                                  Bravo Bravo!!!!!!!  Please everyone read again. So many want to be sheep and then howl like a wolf.




                                  by phil · 11 months ago
                                    Thanks for the warning now that was "harmonic"
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                                  by James Possible · 11 months ago
                                    Going on a witch hunt, wanting to blame one person for EVERYTHING, using absolutes such as ALL, ALWAYS, etc. speak more about the commenter and fear than the facts.

                                  Speaking as if the intent of another person is known to them again says more about the speaker than than the facts.

                                  Understanding how coercive persuasion works or even that it is something to know when attending such events is quite valuable. As well as understanding how depriving yourself of such things as sleep, food and water can have the unintended outcome of making you more likely to accept what you might not accept otherwise.

                                  Knowing your limits is critical and unfortunately for far to many people their limits are rarely tested. In the book "The Four Agreements" it is called domestication. Knowing that you are influenced and understanding how that influence impacts you and being able to make a choice thereafter is priceless.

                                  It is tragic that the price being paid at this event was someones life. Read m[/list]


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                                  by James Possible · 11 months ago
                                    In the end I would encourage you not to blame, rather to look at your own life and to observe where you are doing the same i.e., giving someone else authority over your life and choices. Even in small ways it comes with to high of a price.

                                  Remember, not all teachers, trainers, coaches, mentors or therapists are created equal. Each will no doubt have an occassion where they are acting with authority and blindly recognizing it is happening and therefore missing how they are in fact creating the outcome for the one seeking their counsel.

                                  I'll leave you with this final thought...

                                  Pay attention, pay attention, pay attention!


                                  Your life is your's to live, no one else can do it for you![/list]
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                                  by Tennis Boy · 11 months ago
                                    Is James human? Do accidents happen? Do we all have egos? Only if you have a body. Do egos become negligent? Do we all eventually transition (die)? Is this article filled with half truths? YES.
                                    As a former spiritual warrior and journey of power graduate, the cost of the teachings, realizations, spiritual growth, and friendships? PRICELESS! Heal on!
                                  by Ex JRI Warrior · 11 months ago
                                    healing thoughts and my condolences go out to the victims, now 3 of them. The latest victim Liz was a friend of mine in the past...and she was an amazing person who truly believed in James and his teachings.... She was probably one of the sweetest and most energetic person I knew...such a tragic ending. I know she is in a good place tho....and will be coming back soon in a new vehicle to experience a new life's journey.
                                  by Old Vehicle · 11 months ago
                                    I hope her new vehicle runs over your foot.
                                  by Witch Hunt · 11 months ago
                                    Not only do I hope we go on a "hunt", I further hope for a "capture".
                                  by Is James Human? · 11 months ago
                                    If by human, you mean criminally negligent.
                                  by Sarah · 11 months ago
                                    Dan above had the strength to leave in 2005, and he said, "Thank God that others followed me." People, you are sheep following the wrong leaders. Dan, spread the word - more should be following those who leave. So many followers are brainwashed victims. My dear friend died, brainwashed and believing lies.
                                  by insider · 11 months ago
                                    James is a charming, wayward Christian, went to darker beliefs. He needs to understand God is calling him back to his Christian beliefs. Only thru Christ can one obtain peace and tranquility in life. James, God wants your heart again.
                                  by Ex JRI Warrior · 11 months ago
                                    just for the record... i am one of the people that saw James for who he was and got out before I could be brainwashed any futher... My friend Liz was not so lucky... It is so scary to know that even after this tragic incident and other incidents in the past, people are still standing by James and sticking up for him and signing up for his events and forking out money they don't have!
                                  by Cassandra Yorgey · 11 months ago
                                    All my sci-fi peeps feel free to join me...
                                    "I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."

                                    Everyone's kind words mean a lot to me, and everyones critical discussions that point to where I can respond and help continue the discussion in new directions are just wonderful. To those that would brand me a hero, I am flattered but that's just silly. I'm merely participating in an effort to spread knowledge and improve the community.
                                  by Cassandra Yorgey · 11 months ago
                                    As always, lovely discussions continuing. I remind everyone to PLAY NICE WITH EACHOTHER.

                                    I would also like to remind everyone we are NOT going on a witch hunt. Wiki defines a witch hunt as a search for witches or evidence of witchcraft, often involving moral panic, mass hysteria, and lynching. The only relevant word in that entire definition is "moral". Using fear to motivate is James Ray's technique - fear of missing the next lesson, fear of his disapproval, fear of inadequacy.

                                    I WILL NOT ACT IN FEAR. I act with purposeful deliberation to open a discussion about the unethical use of different types of power.

                                    All my sci-fi peeps feel free to join me...
                                    "I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
                                  by Cassandra Yorgey · 11 months ago
                                    Everyone's kind words mean a lot to me, and everyones critical discussions that point to where I can respond and help continue the discussion in new directions are just wonderful. To those that would brand me a hero, I am flattered but that's just silly. I'm merely participating in an effort to spread knowledge and improve the community.
                                  by Sundancer01 · 11 months ago
                                    Wow, What a wide spectrum.
                                    I walk a beautiful path with the Creator,and never has he asked me for monetery gift's. I sweat and pray regulary and the description's I read are so far off it is heartbreaking. We need to seek true native leader's and offer tabacco in a good way. This is how the teaching's are shared after we as common human being's approach the spiritual side of living. We have several native leaders in this country that are willing to share this path. They do it for the health of our youth and our planet, and our own health . Money can't buy happy
                                  by Anonymous · 11 months ago
                                    Olivia Truthe publishes the corporate email address for contacting James Arthur Ray. Follow the link to get the address:
                                  http://www.facebook.com/oliviatruthe (http://www.facebook.com/oliviatruthe)[/list]
                                  by henry · 11 months ago
                                    Thank you so much for the the blog radio info
                                    So much precious informations from MR Tree.
                                    As a member of the native American church myself
                                    It is clear that this disaster was an abortion
                                    of what a native American ceremony should be conducted.
                                    Native elders had told James Ray that this was wrong
                                    misuse of a very sacred native American ways .According to participants like Mourning ..already in 2008
                                    20 people where sick....and James Ray ...still kept doing the same plastic cover sweat dome ....stupid ...criminal...greedy$$$
                                    Like Mickey mouse in the movie Fantasia...The Sorcerer in the Apprentice ...Mickey mouse created created a disaster.
                                    You do not play with sacred energy that native American
                                    have been teaching from generations to generations.
                                    Combine this with the teaching of James Ray
                                    "To play full on " Trust me I know
                                    May he be stop ASAP
                                  by Dylan · 11 months ago
                                    If anyone who has been involved in the James Ray scene is willing to go on the record - please email me [email protected]

                                    I am a reporter. Thanks.
                                  by gurugirl · 11 months ago
                                    D I S C E R N M E N T

                                    At this time of transition, be very careful about who and what you are following. In fact, if you are following at all, that is the first indication that you are off track. For those of you who are still students of gurus, we recommend discernment.

                                  This is no longer a time of great spiritual teachers. It is now the time of great spirits instead. This shift from master/student to just plain master may cause a temporary unemployment problem in India and elsewhere, but do not be alarmed.

                                  The true masters of light will make the shift with ease and will welcome your upcoming graduation with the same relief that they welcome their much deserved retirement.[/list]
                                  by badbob · 11 months ago
                                    birds of a feather? remember the Secret?
                                    google this:
                                    vimeo exposed national television schirmer 1 of 6



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                                  by Melonie · 11 months ago


                                    I attended this event Sept-07 and left before the Vision Quest. I couldn't believe the brainwashing that was taking place and I wanted no part of it. If you didn't shave your head, it meant you were not giving up your attachments? WHAT? Do you know how ridiculous these women looked when they went back to the real world of family, friends and work! The final straw was when I learned that we had to sleep in the desert for 36 hours with no food and water,


                                    This is a total fabrication and over dramatization of the experience she was going to attend. No one is denied water, food or shelter, you push yourself as far as you can go.
                                    Now paying $20,000.00 for these experiences only goes to her ignorance and down right stupidity. I paid $150.00 and spent 11 days in the desert with limited provisions. (I mean very little)
                                    I understand they are also paying for James Ray educational expertises, well I was told a long time ago, teachers are everywhere.



                                    if this was told to me in advance I could have saved myself a lot of money. There was no way I would go without water for 36 hrs! I left, and never attended another event, even though I bought the $20,000 package and still had 2 events to attend, of which he offers NO REFUNDS. I knew James was a fraud and a complete ego-maniac at that time and have warned many others over the last 2 years.
                                    My sincerest condolences to the families of the three deceased people.[/list]


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                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 10, 2010, 04:00:32 PM
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    Understanding how coercive persuasion works or even that it is something to know when attending such events is quite valuable.

                                    Maybe, but Ray sure didn't inform his clients of this now, did he?


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                                    As well as understanding how depriving yourself of such things as sleep, food and water can have the unintended outcome of making you more likely to accept what you might not accept otherwise.

                                    Yeah, it's called brainwashing.

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                                    Knowing your limits is critical and unfortunately for far to many people their limits are rarely tested. In the book "The Four Agreements" it is called domestication. Knowing that you are influenced and understanding how that influence impacts you and being able to make a choice thereafter is priceless.

                                    But when you sign yourself over to some wannabe guru who tells you to follow and trust him, no matter what then it's the responsibility of the supposed guru to keep you safe during your "treatment".  This guy couldn't have cared less about the safety of the people he was supposed to be helping.


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                                    This is a total fabrication and over dramatization of the experience she was going to attend. No one is denied water, food or shelter, you push yourself as far as you can go.
                                    Now paying $20,000.00 for these experiences only goes to her ignorance and down right stupidity. I paid $150.00 and spent 11 days in the desert with limited provisions. (I mean very little)
                                    I understand they are also paying for James Ray educational expertises, well I was told a long time ago, teachers are everywhere.


                                    You feel qualified to tell some woman whom you've never met that her experience is a "total fabrication", yet you get upset when people dare question your very strange worldview.  Interesting.
                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                    Post by: DannyB II on October 10, 2010, 06:32:23 PM
                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    Understanding how coercive persuasion works or even that it is something to know when attending such events is quite valuable.

                                    Maybe, but Ray sure didn't inform his clients of this now, did he?

                                    It does not make any difference if he told them or not, (many LGAT's are confidential until you do them)if you really want to get down to it, we are adults. Just the fact people read or studied to find out about Ray go to their awareness of at least some info on what they were going to be doing.

                                     


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                                    As well as understanding how depriving yourself of such things as sleep, food and water can have the unintended outcome of making you more likely to accept what you might not accept otherwise.

                                    Yeah, it's called brainwashing.

                                    Anne, it is critical that we understand that the attendees are engaged and willingly accept as part of the exercise the lack of essentials. This feeling of desperation is part of the experience. It is very important that folks understand their bodies.
                                    It is not for everyone. I did a Vision Quest in the Desert of California and on Bali. Both were extremely challenging.


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                                    Knowing your limits is critical and unfortunately for far to many people their limits are rarely tested. In the book "The Four Agreements" it is called domestication. Knowing that you are influenced and understanding how that influence impacts you and being able to make a choice thereafter is priceless.

                                    But when you sign yourself over to some wannabe guru who tells you to follow and trust him, no matter what then it's the responsibility of the supposed guru to keep you safe during your "treatment".  This guy couldn't have cared less about the safety of the people he was supposed to be helping.

                                    No No No, that is not how it is set up or how it works, nobody is encouraged to sign themselves over to anybody, it is the experience or exercise that your signing up for. Only you know how far your body can go.
                                    Anne, I have to disagree with you, it is not the guides job to make sure you are safe only that the experience/exercise is relatively safe for all. My job as a participant is to monitor my well being and safety.


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                                    This is a total fabrication and over dramatization of the experience she was going to attend. No one is denied water, food or shelter, you push yourself as far as you can go.
                                    Now paying $20,000.00 for these experiences only goes to her ignorance and down right stupidity. I paid $150.00 and spent 11 days in the desert with limited provisions. (I mean very little)
                                    I understand they are also paying for James Ray educational expertises, well I was told a long time ago, teachers are everywhere.


                                    You feel qualified to tell some woman whom you've never met that her experience is a "total fabrication", yet you get upset when people dare question your very strange worldview.  Interesting.

                                    I do to a certain degree because I have done (2) Vision Quests and Ray does his very similar. I never even paid close to $20,000.00 for both and for one I went to Bali.


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                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 10, 2010, 06:50:09 PM
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    [
                                    It does not make any difference if he told them or not, (many LGAT's are confidential until you do them)if you really want to get down to it, we are adults. Just the fact people read or studied to find out about Ray go to their awareness of at least some info on what they were going to be doing.


                                    Informed consent.  Especially if there is any form of "treatment" or "counseling" or "therapy" involved.
                                     
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                                    Anne, it is critical that we understand that the attendees are engaged and willingly accept as part of the exercise the lack of essentials. This feeling of desperation is part of the experience. It is very important that folks understand their bodies.
                                    It is not for everyone. I did a Vision Quest in the Desert of California and on Bali. Both were extremely challenging.


                                    Again, informed consent.  They deserve to know what they're getting themselves into.  

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                                    No No No, that is not how it is set up or how it works, nobody is encouraged to sign themselves over to anybody, it is the experience or exercise that your signing up for. Only you know how far your body can go.
                                    Anne, I have to disagree with you, it is not the guides job to make sure you are safe only that the experience/exercise is relatively safe for all. My job as a participant is to monitor my well being and safety.

                                    Safely....there's a key word. and the hell it isn't  the organization's responsibility to make sure the participants have informed consent, and I believe, from what the D.A./S.A's office has determined so far, that I'm right.  We'll see what the court decision is.

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                                    I do to a certain degree because I have done (2) Vision Quests and Ray does his very similar. I never even paid close to $20,000.00 for both and for one I went to Bali.

                                    So, I'll ask again....you feel qualified to completely dismiss this woman's view, her experience,  as a "total fabrication"?  People pay all kinds of money to all kinds of snakeoil salesmen to give them "the answer" to life.  The sad, yet wonderful truth is, we all have to figure it out for ourselves.
                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                    Post by: DannyB II on October 10, 2010, 07:29:49 PM
                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    [
                                    It does not make any difference if he told them or not, (many LGAT's are confidential until you do them)if you really want to get down to it, we are adults. Just the fact people read or studied to find out about Ray go to their awareness of at least some info on what they were going to be doing.


                                    Informed consent.  Especially if there is any form of "treatment" or "counseling" or "therapy" involved.

                                    No they don't.
                                     
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                                    Anne, it is critical that we understand that the attendees are engaged and willingly accept as part of the exercise the lack of essentials. This feeling of desperation is part of the experience. It is very important that folks understand their bodies.
                                    It is not for everyone. I did a Vision Quest in the Desert of California and on Bali. Both were extremely challenging.


                                    Again, informed consent.  They deserve to know what they're getting themselves into.  

                                    Once again not to be argumentive. They do not have to.


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                                    No No No, that is not how it is set up or how it works, nobody is encouraged to sign themselves over to anybody, it is the experience or exercise that your signing up for. Only you know how far your body can go.
                                    Anne, I have to disagree with you, it is not the guides job to make sure you are safe only that the experience/exercise is relatively safe for all. My job as a participant is to monitor my well being and safety.

                                    Safely....there's a key word. and the hell it isn't  the organization's responsibility to make sure the participants have informed consent, and I believe, from what the D.A./S.A's office has determined so far, that I'm right.  We'll see what the court decision is.

                                    Whatever.....what's the point, it is all about you. I am sure James Ray will be held accountable for negligence, folks died.
                                    Whether the workshops will have informed consent on the level you want it , I doubt it will ever work out that way.
                                    Yes Anne, more people will die pushing themselves, part of life.



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                                    I do to a certain degree because I have done (2) Vision Quests and Ray does his very similar. I never even paid close to $20,000.00 for both and for one I went to Bali.

                                    So, I'll ask again....you feel qualified to completely dismiss this woman's view, her experience,  as a "total fabrication"?  People pay all kinds of money to all kinds of snakeoil salesmen to give them "the answer" to life.  The sad, yet wonderful truth is, we all have to figure it out for ourselves.

                                    Women and men views I have dismissed as completely fabricated nonsense, yes absolutely.
                                    Problem, the only snakes are those in the desert.


                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 10, 2010, 07:57:36 PM
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    It does not make any difference if he told them or not, (many LGAT's are confidential until you do them)if you really want to get down to it, we are adults. Just the fact people read or studied to find out about Ray go to their awareness of at least some info on what they were going to be doing.


                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Informed consent.  Especially if there is any form of "treatment" or "counseling" or "therapy" involved.

                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    No they don't.

                                    Wait....you're seriously saying that anyone that enters into this kind of "treatment" or "counseling" or "therapy" is NOT entitled to informed consent???  Really?
                                     
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                                    Once again not to be argumentive. They do not have to.

                                    You don't believe they should be informed of what they're getting into?  Seriously?

                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Safely....there's a key word. and the hell it isn't  the organization's responsibility to make sure the participants have informed consent, and I believe, from what the D.A./S.A's office has determined so far, that I'm right.  We'll see what the court decision is.


                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    Whatever.....

                                    That's your response to the fact that the D.A./S.A. disagrees and had filed charges?


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                                    what's the point, it is all about you.


                                    Huh?

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                                    I am sure James Ray will be held accountable for negligence, folks died.

                                    Yeah, let's hope so.


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                                    Whether the workshops will have informed consent on the level you want it , I doubt it will ever work out that way.
                                    Yes Anne, more people will die pushing themselves, part of life.

                                    I don't have a problem with people dying while pushing themselves to their limits.  I do, however, believe...as do the courts.....that they have the right to informed consent to what they're getting into.  It's such a basic part of the standard of care that I can't believe you'd advocate for anything less.


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                                    Women and men views I have dismissed as completely fabricated nonsense, yes absolutely.
                                    Problem, the only snakes are those in the desert.

                                    I'm sorry.....what?
                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                    Post by: DannyB II on October 10, 2010, 08:50:16 PM
                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    It does not make any difference if he told them or not, (many LGAT's are confidential until you do them)if you really want to get down to it, we are adults. Just the fact people read or studied to find out about Ray go to their awareness of at least some info on what they were going to be doing.


                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Informed consent.  Especially if there is any form of "treatment" or "counseling" or "therapy" involved.

                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    No they don't.

                                    Wait....you're seriously saying that anyone that enters into this kind of "treatment" or "counseling" or "therapy" is NOT entitled to informed consent???  Really?

                                    This is not treatment, counseling or therapy. It is a guided experiential workshop. I don't presume any Psychiatrists, Doctors or educated counselors will be there or have to be there. I am not demanding informed consent because it is not needed.

                                     
                                     
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                                    Once again not to be argumentive. They do not have to.

                                    You don't believe they should be informed of what they're getting into?  Seriously?

                                    Of course I do, to a certain degree. Anne in all the workshops, sweats and challenges I've done, there was a certain amount of responsibility placed on me (I placed it there) to read and educate myself. I informed myself, then heard from the leaders of the workshop what they wanted from me.
                                    I have walked away from 3 workshops in my time due to either being lame or they were irresponsible in what they were doing.


                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    Safely....there's a key word. and the hell it isn't  the organization's responsibility to make sure the participants have informed consent, and I believe, from what the D.A./S.A's office has determined so far, that I'm right.  We'll see what the court decision is.


                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    Whatever.....

                                    That's your response to the fact that the D.A./S.A. disagrees and had filed charges?

                                    They are doing there JOB. No problem.


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                                    what's the point, it is all about you.


                                    Huh?

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                                    I am sure James Ray will be held accountable for negligence, folks died.

                                    Yeah, let's hope so.


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                                    Whether the workshops will have informed consent on the level you want it , I doubt it will ever work out that way.
                                    Yes Anne, more people will die pushing themselves, part of life.

                                    I don't have a problem with people dying while pushing themselves to their limits.  I do, however, believe...as do the courts.....that they have the right to informed consent to what they're getting into.  It's such a basic part of the standard of care that I can't believe you'd advocate for anything less.

                                    Anne, they were informed.



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                                    Women and men views I have dismissed as completely fabricated nonsense, yes absolutely.
                                    Problem, the only snakes are those in the desert.

                                    I'm sorry.....what?


                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 26-
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 10, 2010, 08:58:40 PM
                                    Quote from: "DannyB II"
                                    This is not treatment, counseling or therapy. It is a guided experiential workshop. I don't presume any Psychiatrists, Doctors or educated counselors will be there or have to be there. I am not demanding informed consent because it is not needed.

                                    Yup....and like I said in another thread.....any ole jackass can "lead" on of these.


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                                    Of course I do, to a certain degree. Anne in all the workshops, sweats and challenges I've done, there was a certain amount of responsibility placed on me (I placed it there) to read and educate myself. I informed myself, then heard from the leaders of the workshop what they wanted from me.
                                    I have walked away from 3 workshops in my time due to either being lame or they were irresponsible in what they were doing.

                                    Safety is the key for me.   These people put their trust in this guy and he not only let them down, he's downright proud of it and really doesn't seem to give a goddamn.  Which is why I've asked if the vileness you spew out here is a result of your "New Warrior Training", which you've never answered.  That's an honest question too, given what I've read in regards to how this guy views women.


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                                    Anne, they were informed.

                                    Apparently not well enough given that part of the plan is that they don't know what they're to expect.
                                    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                    Post by: DannyB II on October 10, 2010, 09:35:50 PM
                                    Hey, I don't know what else to tell you. This conversation is going in circles. So at this point I will just agree to disagree with you. Good nite.
                                    Title: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 51-75
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 11, 2010, 06:12:49 PM
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                                    Title: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 76-91
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 12, 2010, 12:23:38 AM
                                    Comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) left for the above piece, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 16th, 2009; Examiner.com), #s 76-91:


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                                    Title: Re: Comments: "Breaking News: Inside accounts of...," #s 76-
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 12, 2010, 10:21:36 AM
                                    Quote from: "Ursus"
                                    Comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) left for the above piece, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 16th, 2009; Examiner.com), #s 76-91:


                                    by JRweekend · 11 months ago
                                      It's Terrible what happened.His behavior seems bizarre.I went to the JR warrior event in 2006. Some highlights I recall are james bragging about selling a program that didn't exist yet and how he made 40k in a day. Lots of pressure to "raise our consciousness" by attending the future events. Of course- the only way to do it was by going. Volunteer staff encouraging the use of your credit card. james announcing the percentage of signups for the "quantum leap" live from the stage. Dorky pictures of himself as a kid with buck teeth and big glasses. I guess the implication is that if you do what he says you can be like him. james also liked people to know about his three homes in Hawaii, Vegas, and CA. All places where there are events BTW.. I think james should stop helping others and get help himself.


                                    All this bullshit is just one more of the line of many scams that prey on people who are searching the "the answer" to life, and they know it.  The wannabe gurus of this industry know very well what they're doing and exactly how much money people are willing for fork because they're desperate for someone, ANYone to follow.  This isn't about helping people.  It's about hijacking a cultural tradition from the Native Americans and pretending that they're doing anything near that all in search of the almighty dollar.



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                                    by Kaleah · 11 months ago
                                      Great Article and comments! I think we are dealing with "Spiritual Narcissism." There is a lot of it out there and I hope this tragedy will bring it more to light. I deal with Narcissistic abuse every day and it was easy to spot the narcissism in this man's behavior. My greatest concern is that the abuse survivors recognize and deal with the trauma they have faced. My second concern is that James Ray be accountable for leading so many people into a deadly dangerous situation. What I would have liked to hear from him is: "I was wrong! I was inexperienced and pushed too hard. I was not compassionate to the needs of the people in the lodge! It was my fault! I should have stopped the lodge when people were fainting and getting sick!" But narcissistic people don't admit fault or take responsibility. Whoever said we shouldn't focus on the leader, I have to question that. Why not? Lets not turn a blind eye here! The man needs to be accountable!
                                    That's an excellent way of putting it!  Spiritual Narcissism.  These wannabe gurus seem to truly need followers.  They can't live without the adoration of the sheep.  It's like life giving air to them.  It's absolutely true with Newton.  He still can't stop himself from trying to start some kind of a program.....even in his own house.  Thankfully, we knocked that one out of the park!  :deal:  :twofinger:

                                    These fucking "spiritual warriors" make me ill.  


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                                    by trishmon · 10 months ago
                                      What exactly about this article makes it so fabulous? As far I'm concerned this is nothing but a sensationalized, inflamatory, wanna be professional journalism piece of crap.

                                      This kind of news reporting is exactly why I choose to not watch the News anymore. The account of events are completely biased and the writer out right admits it. It's one thing you express your views, opinions and feelings on the situation but PLEASE don't try to pass it off as journalism.

                                    Cassandra, it seems you had a very negative experience with JRI and you are using this unfortunate and horrible situation as an excuse to vent. Me thinks thou protesth too much...you claim James was only concerned about himself - I don't see much difference in your pathetic rant.

                                    I care about the families who experienced such a devastating lose but please don't use their pain as an opportunity to promote your own agenda.

                                    Sound familiar to any of us??




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                                    by tahoe geminii · 10 months ago
                                      Brainwashed-obviously a mindless JAR sheep cruising the internet on damage control-I am so sick of seeing the blog entries made by the James Ray robots-you try to discredit the journalist and make some big deal over something someone said you find offensive-you actually are trying to still get people to pay to see this murderer!"He won't hurt you" I think the dead would dispute this statement-IF they could-ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS AND THE ONLY BACK J RAY HAS IS HIS OWN-You want proof-why has he not refunded the dead's money? or why did he charge Collen Conway for Spiritual Warrior when she was pronounced dead at one of his seminars in SD a month earlier. Dead for a month and still charged for the seminar she died at and for Spiritual Warrior.COME ON-how much of a sheep do you want to be-TRISHMON you aren't fooling anyone either-putting down the writer don't pay any attention to the fact that people died-let's target the writer.
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                                    I guess I haven't finished with TRISHMON yet--TRISHMON you quit watching the news because your are a mindless idiot who let's someone that is good looking and charismatic TELL YOU what you should think-Please don't try to pass off your damage control for James Ray as a unbiased comment from someone not in your little cult--BEWARE OF THE KOOLAID-hope you think your soooo smart falling for the oldest scam in the book--The only agenda here is from you--and for the record the difference is that the writer of this article is saving lives not ripping the innocent off and then leaving them for dead. Save your negativity insults for some one who sees the Emperor's New Clothes-at least some of us still have the brains to say-"Hey why is the Emperor naked?" Always the last defense of the LOA and Positive Thinking SCAMS is if you don't believe this malarkey-your just a negative person. BAAAA BAAAA TRISHMON-be careful now cause you could be J Ray's next victim-only if you pay up first though[/list][/list]

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                                    This is why this crap holds an interest for me.  It's got so much in common with programs.
                                    Title: Shawna Bowen Interviews About James Ray Sweat Lodge
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 19, 2010, 09:45:47 PM
                                    From the above article, "Breaking news: Inside accounts of James Ray sweat lodge tragedy and retreat (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&start=225#p379196)":
                                    Quote from: "Cassandra Yorgey"
                                    For more info: I am not the only teen advocate speaking out. Shawna Bowen (http://http://teenandparentsupport.com/) is a licensed therapist who focuses on teens with substance abuse problems. I am not familiar with her body of work but the things she reveals in this interview seem to be supporting my own research. Click here (http://http://verdevalleyblog.com/2009/10/shawna-bowen-interviews-james-ray-sweat-lodge/) to see her on CBS.
                                    Here's that piece. You'll need to click on the link (below) to watch the 3:51 CBS news clip entitled "Sweat Lodge Horror - Eyewitness Recalls Arizona Tragedy."

                                    There are also two more in-depth Blog Talk Radio Interviews: "The James Ray Incident: Let's Talk About..." and "The James Ray Incident: A Discussion about..." The latter one is also available on the original link (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/breaking-news-inside-accounts-of-james-ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) of the above quoted Cassandra Yorgey piece.

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                                    Shawna Bowen Interviews About James Ray Sweat Lodge (http://http://verdevalleyblog.com/2009/10/shawna-bowen-interviews-james-ray-sweat-lodge/)
                                    by Jason Shultz on October 16, 2009

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                                    Shawna Bowen, Motivational Speaker and Therapist

                                    Shawna Bowen interviews with Harry Smith of the CBS Early Show about what she saw at the James Ray Sweat Lodge in Sedona, Arizona where two people died. Shawna Bowen is a Therapist, Author, and Motivational Speaker. You can find out more about her at FromRockStarToTherapist.com (http://http://fromrockstartotherapist.com/).


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                                    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                    Post by: heretik on October 19, 2010, 11:48:14 PM
                                    Spiritual Narcissism...nifty little catch phrase word. Very fad coming from seasoned work shop junkies covering the circuit. One thing you must understand 90% of these people posting negative comments will be in another workshop within the year. They are addicted to them, they bring structure and organization to there lives. They want James Ray and others to be where they are. Cause and effect, leaders and followers and life goes on.
                                    Yes Anne these people want their Gurus and when one fails and is cast aside they find another to replace them and life goes on.
                                    Title: Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray in Crosshairs of...
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 21, 2010, 01:30:05 PM
                                    CBS News · Crimesider
                                    October 16, 2009 9:33 AM

                                    Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray in Crosshairs of Angel Valley Sweat Lodge Homicide Investigation (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5233225-504083.html)
                                    Posted by Edecio Martinez

                                    (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/14/image5383828x.jpg)
                                    James Arthur Ray. (JamesRay.com)

                                    PRESCOTT, Arizona (CBS/AP) The deaths of two people during the Angel Valley Retreat sweat lodge ceremony led by self-help guru James Arthur Ray are now being investigated as homicides, authorities said. And the "Spiritual Warrior" who earned around half-a-million dollars from the deadly retreat is in the crosshairs.

                                    Yavapai County Sheriff Steve Waugh said the deaths last week of Kirby Brown, 38, and James Shore, 40, were not accidental.

                                    "A combination of circumstances led to the deaths," Waugh said Thursday. "Whether or not we can prove a criminal case, that has yet to be determined."

                                    Waugh said investigators are looking at the way the sweat lodge was built, the fact that people had fallen ill at previous sweat ceremonies led by Ray, and questionable medical care on site. Authorities have said a nurse hired by Ray was directing rescue efforts including CPR when emergency crews arrived.

                                    Ray is the primary focus of the probe but others also are being investigated, the sheriff said.

                                    Ray's spokesman, Howard Bragman, said the sheriff's use of "homicide" to characterize the investigation was irresponsible and a rush to judgment.

                                    "I find it very interesting the police are trying to escalate the case in the media, and frankly, I think the escalation should be in getting the facts," he said. "We have one goal and that is to find out what happened so that it never happens again."

                                    Ray led more than 50 people into a makeshift sweat lodge at a rented retreat outside Sedona on Oct. 8. After about two hours, Brown and Shore were pulled out. Nineteen other people were taken to hospitals, and one remains in critical condition.

                                    "He's a motivational speaker who tried his hand at very dangerous physical things, and it was reckless," Brown's cousin and family spokesman Tom McFeeley said of the sheriff's announcement. "It doesn't surprise us in the least."

                                    Sheriff's Lt. David Rhodes said investigators have spoken to most of the sweat lodge participants, but they're not sure how much of what they're hearing is accurate. It was pitch black inside the structure and possible that no one noticed that Shore and Brown were passed out, authorities said.

                                    "You have two people who died in the presence of 50 other people in an environment in which no one seems to understand what happened," Rhodes said.

                                    Ray declined to be interviewed by the sheriff's office on the night of the incident and has not spoken with Arizona authorities. He hired his own investigative team to determine what went wrong, and Bragman said that team and Ray's attorney are cooperating with the sheriff's investigators.

                                    A search warrant was served Wednesday at Ray's Carlsbad, California-based company, James Ray International. Deputies were looking for medical records of those attending the Sedona retreat, documents on the sweat lodge's construction and use, and any warnings of health risks, Waugh said.

                                    The motivational speaker, author and self-help guru offers clients the promise of spiritual and financial wealth in his programs. The five-day "Spiritual Warrior" course during which the deaths occurred had about 50 participants who paid more than $9,000 each.

                                    Do the math. Ray raked in around half a million dollars. It's not clear if he has returned any of the money.

                                    The culmination of the retreat was the sweat lodge ceremony. Records obtained by The Associated Press on Tuesday showed local fire officials responded to the same retreat for a person who fell unconscious during a Ray-led sweat ceremony in 2005.


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                                    Title: Re: Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray in Crosshairs of...
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 21, 2010, 03:12:44 PM
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                                    (http://http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/10/14/image5383828x.jpg)
                                    James Arthur Ray. (JamesRay.com)



                                    I like this one better.


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                                    Ursus, if below has already been posted, please let me know and I'll delete it.  Thx!

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                                    Title: Comments: "Self-Help Guru James Arthur Ray in Crosshairs..."
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 21, 2010, 03:57:58 PM
                                    Quote from: "Anne Bonney"
                                    I like this one better.
                                    Ah, but there you're jumping a lil ahead in the story!  ;)  

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                                    Title: Third victim of sweat lodge dies
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 24, 2010, 11:03:42 AM
                                    Lizbeth Neuman never made it out of her coma, and has died. This is now the third death directly attributable to the James Ray sweat lodge tragedy.

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                                    10/17/2009 8:51:00 PM

                                    Third victim of sweat lodge dies (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73597)
                                    The Daily Courier

                                    A third victim of the Angel Valley Retreat Center's sweat lodge event has died, the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office announced late Saturday night.

                                    Lizbeth Neuman, a 49-year-old resident of Prior Lake, Minn., died at Flagstaff Medical Center. Neuman was hospitalized after participating in the sweat lodge hosted by James Arthur Ray on Oct. 8 near Sedona.

                                    Neuman marks the third death from the incident. James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee, Wis., and Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., died on Oct. 8. The Yavapai County Medical Examiner conducted autopsies the next day and the results are still pending. To help investigate the cause of death, authorities have obtained samples of the fabric constructing the lodge roof and also samples of rock, firewood and the wooden dome frame.

                                    There are no other retreat participants remaining hospitalized.

                                    The Yavapai County Sheriff's Office has elevated this investigation from an accidental death inquiry to a homicide investigation.


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                                    Title: Comments for "Third victim of sweat lodge dies"
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 24, 2010, 11:08:20 AM
                                    Comment (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73597) left for the above article, "Third victim of sweat lodge dies (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&p=384987#p384986)" (10/17/2009, The Daily Courier):


                                    Article comment by: Bad news for Mr. Ray · Posted: Sunday, October 18, 2009


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                                    Title: Third Death from Sweat Lodge Ceremony Led by...
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 24, 2010, 01:16:28 PM
                                    CBS News · Crimesider
                                    October 18, 2009 10:30 AM

                                    Third Death from Sweat Lodge Ceremony Led by James Arthur Ray (http://http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-5394208-504083.html)
                                    Posted by Neil Katz

                                    FLAGSTAFF, Ariz. - A third person has died a week after she attended a sweat lodge ceremony at the Angel Valley Retreat Center that has already left two dead and nearly two dozen hospitalized.

                                    The deaths are being investigated as homicides and James Arthur Ray, the self-help guru that led the retreat is in the crosshairs.

                                    Liz Neuman of Minnesota died Saturday at a Flagstaff hospital, Yavapai County sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said.

                                    The 49-year-old suffered multiple organ damage during the Oct. 8 ceremony at a resort near Sedona, a resort town 115 miles (185 kilometers) north of Phoenix that draws many in the New Age spiritual movement.

                                    Authorities were treating all three deaths as homicides, but no charges have been filed.

                                    Neuman was among more than 50 people crowded inside the sweat lodge run by self-help guru James Arthur Ray. An emergency call two hours after they entered the lodge reported two people not breathing.

                                    Twenty-one people were taken to area hospitals with illnesses ranging from dehydration to kidney failure. Kirby Brown, 38, and James Shore, 40, died upon arrival at a hospital.

                                    No one else remains hospitalized.

                                    Authorities haven't determined what caused the deaths. Autopsy results on Brown and Shore are pending further testing.

                                    The Rev. Meredith Ann Murray, who has completed all of Ray's retreats, said Neuman was among Ray's earliest followers and had attended dozens of his events.

                                    According to Ray's Web site, Neuman was the leader of the Minneapolis-area "Journey Expansion Team." The teams, developed by Ray's friends and followers around the country, meet to exchange ideas on his principles. The next Minneapolis-area meeting is scheduled for Oct. 23.

                                    Ray had rented the Angel Valley Retreat Center for his five-day "Spiritual Warrior" event that culminated in the sweat lodge ceremony. Participants paid between $9,000 and $10,000 to attend the retreat.

                                    Ray declined to be interviewed by the sheriff's office on the night of the incident and Arizona authorities said he had not spoken to them as of Thursday. In his first public appearance Tuesday in Los Angeles, Ray told a crowd of about 200 that he has hired his own investigative team to determine what went wrong.

                                    His spokesman, Howard Bragman, has said that Ray's team and Ray's attorney are co-operating with the sheriff's investigators.

                                    More than 100 people attended the funeral for Brown on Saturday at Holy Name of Jesus Church in Otisville, New York, according to The Times Herald-Record newspaper. The avid hiker and surfer who had a passion for art was remembered as a spiritual seeker.

                                    Services for Shore were held late Saturday afternoon at the Hubbard Lodge in Milwaukee.


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                                    Title: Comments: "Third Death from Sweat Lodge Ceremony..."
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 24, 2010, 01:19:35 PM
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                                    Title: Arizona sweat lodge death toll rises to three
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 25, 2010, 11:03:23 AM
                                    And... here's another article about this news, this one from The Guardian (UK). It seems to be pretty similar to the one published by CBS News Crimesider (above (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&p=384628#p385001)):

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                                    guardian.co.uk
                                    Arizona sweat lodge death toll rises to three (http://http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/oct/18/third-sweat-lodge-death)
                                    Woman, 49, dies of multiple organ failure a week after new age ceremony that left two dead
                                    Associated Press
                                    Sunday 18 October 2009 16.22 BST


                                    A third person has died following a ceremony in a so-called "sweat lodge" modelled on Native American traditions.

                                    A man and a woman died and nearly two dozen people were left needing hospital treatment as a result of the ceremony in Arizona more than a week ago.

                                    Liz Neuman of Minnesota died on Saturday at an Arizona hospital, Yavapai county sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said.

                                    The 49-year-old suffered multiple organ damage during the 8 October ceremony at a resort near Sedona, a town 115 miles north of Phoenix that draws many in the new age movement. The lodge forms part of a new age centre which advertises services of "spiritual cleansing."

                                    Authorities were treating all three deaths as homicides but no charges have been filed.

                                    Neuman was among more than 50 people crowded inside the sweat lodge run by self-help guru James Arthur Ray.

                                    The crowd had been packed for up to two hours inside the lodge, which was a little over 1.5m high in its centre and less than 1m high at the sides.

                                    An emergency call two hours after they entered the lodge reported two people not breathing.

                                    Twenty-one people were taken to area hospitals with illnesses ranging from dehydration to kidney failure. Kirby Brown, 38, and James Shore, 40, died upon arrival at hospital.

                                    All the other victims have now been discharged from hospital.

                                    Authorities have not yet determined what caused the deaths but autopsy results on Brown and Shore will be subject to further testing.

                                    The Rev Meredith Ann Murray, who has attended Ray's retreats, said Neuman was among Ray's earliest followers and had attended dozens of his events.

                                    According to Ray's website, Neuman was the leader of the Minneapolis-area "journey expansion team". The teams, developed by Ray's friends and followers around the US, regularly meet to exchange ideas on his principles.

                                    Ray had rented the Angel Valley Retreat Center for a five-day "spiritual warrior" event that culminated in the sweat lodge ceremony. Participants paid between $9,000 (£5,500) and $10,000 to attend.

                                    Ray declined to be interviewed by the sheriff's office on the night of the incident and Arizona authorities said he had not spoken to them as of Thursday. But, in a public appearance in Los Angeles, Ray told a crowd of about 200 that he had hired his own investigative team to determine what went wrong.

                                    His spokesman, Howard Bragman, has said Ray's team and his lawyer are cooperating with the sheriff's investigators.

                                    More than 100 people attended the funeral for Brown on Saturday at Holy Name of Jesus Church in Otisville, New York, said The Times Herald-Record newspaper. The avid hiker and surfer was remembered as a spiritual seeker.

                                    Services for Shore were held on Saturday afternoon in Milwaukee.


                                    guardian.co.uk © Guardian News and Media Limited 2010
                                    Title: Sweat lodge deaths cast negative spotlight on guru
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 25, 2010, 09:19:27 PM
                                    From the above article, "Arizona sweat lodge death toll rises to three (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&p=385075#p385034)":

                                    The Rev Meredith Ann Murray, who has attended Ray's retreats, said Neuman was among Ray's earliest followers and had attended dozens of his events.[/list]

                                    Here's another article, which also mentions Rev. Meredith Ann Murray:

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                                    The Daily Courier
                                    10/17/2009 10:00:00 PM

                                    Sweat lodge deaths cast negative spotlight on guru (http://http://www.dcourier.com/main.asp?SectionID=1&subsectionID=1&articleID=73584)
                                    By FELICIA FONSECA and BOB CHRISTIE · The Associated Press

                                    (http://http://www.dcourier.com/SiteImages/Article/73584a.jpg)
                                    This Sept. 2007 picture provided by Rev. Meredith Ann Murray shows her with James Arthur Ray at the Spiritual Warrior Course at Angel Valley Retreat Center in Sedona. Murray said she spent three hours in a sweat lodge led by Ray in 2007 that she said was done safely and helped her conquer claustrophobia. Courtesy of Meredith Ann Murray/AP

                                    SEDONA - James Arthur Ray led a group of more than 50 followers into a cramped, sauna-like sweat lodge in Arizona last week by convincing them that his words would lead them to spiritual and financial wealth.

                                    The mantra has made him a millionaire. People routinely pack Ray's seminars and follow the motivational guru to weeklong retreats that can cost more than $9,000 per person.

                                    But Ray's self-help empire was thrown into turmoil when two of his followers died after collapsing in the makeshift sweat lodge near Sedona; a third died a week later, and 19 others were hospitalized. A homicide investigation that followed has cast a critical spotlight on Ray's company.

                                    Critics are citing the sweat lodge tragedy as evidence that Ray is a charlatan who is not to be trusted. A relative of one victim accused Ray of exhibiting a "godlike complex" during the event that he said recklessly abandoned the safety of participants. Dedicated followers say they fully trust Ray to lead them through exercises that greatly improve their lives.

                                    Shawna Bowen, once a James Ray fanatic who was among those who tended to the ill, has had a change of heart since the deaths.

                                    "I could not imagine people looking to him after he made such egregious errors with human life," she said. "I don't think he has the right to be leading others right now. I think he needs to take a good look at where his ego, where his power trip got in the way."

                                    Ray wept openly during his first public appearance after the deaths. During a free recruiting seminar for his program Tuesday in Los Angeles, he broke down in tears, the confident pitchman momentarily gone.

                                    "This is the most difficult time I've ever faced," Ray told a crowd of about 200 at a hotel in Marina del Rey. "I don't know how to deal with it, really."

                                    Ray has become a self-help superstar by packaging his charismatic personality and selling wealth. Those who first attend his free seminars hear a motivational mantra that promises that they can achieve what he calls "Harmonic Wealth" - on a financial, mental, physical spiritual level.

                                    But his technique is not just motivational speaking. It's a combination of new age spiritualism, American Indian ritual, astrology and numerology. The sweat lodge experience was intended to be an almost religious awakening for the participants.

                                    Ray uses free seminars to recruit people to his expensive seminars, starting with $4,000 three-day "Quantum Leap" workshops and moving on to the weeklong $5,300 "Practical Mysticism" events and the $9,000-plus "Spiritual Warrior" retreats like the one that led to the sweat lodge tragedy.

                                    About 50 people attended the retreat near Sedona, the center of the new-age movement where practitioners draw energy from the surrounding Red Rocks and various vortexes to heal others.

                                    Sweat lodges, commonly used by American Indian tribes, also can be part of the healing process. Stones are heated up outside a lodge, brought inside and placed in a pail-sized hole. The door is closed, and water is poured on the stones, producing heat aimed at releasing toxins in the body.

                                    The ceremonies have been part of Ray's "Spiritual Warrior" retreats for years.

                                    Few details of what actually transpired during the two hours participants were inside the 415-square foot sweat lodge have emerged. Sheriff's deputies in Yavapai County are investigating whether Ray or his staff may have been criminally negligent. No charges have been filed.

                                    The Rev. Meredith Ann Murray spent three hours in a sweat lodge led by Ray in 2007 that she said was done safely and helped her conquer claustrophobia.

                                    "You're warned about all the possible things that might happen, how to take care of yourself, how to listen to your body," said the 56-year-old real estate agent from Bellingham, Wash. "I've done some amazing things I never thought I could do."

                                    But in 2005, during a previous "Spiritual Warrior" retreat at the same resort, a man had to be taken to the hospital after falling unconscious during a sweat lodge ceremony.

                                    Ray, 51, grew up as the son of a Tulsa preacher. Bored with college, he says he pursued a career as a telemarketer and began leading training classes for his employer, AT&T. He began honing his self-help business in the early 1990s.

                                    In a 2008 profile in Fortune magazine, Ray said 5,500 people paid for his seminars in 2007. His books also are major sales drivers, and he told the magazine his revenues went from $1 million in 2005 to an estimated $10 million in 2006.

                                    He soared in popularity after appearing in the 2006's Rhonda Byrne documentary "The Secret," and he later was a guest on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" and "Larry King Live" to promote it. His 2008 book "Harmonic Wealth" made the New York Times bestseller list.

                                    Whether Ray manages to maintain his success in the wake of the deaths depends in part on his supporters, and how long the tragedy dogs him as he goes from city to city recruiting paying customers for his wealth creation/spiritual harmony philosophy.

                                    Critics point to the Sedona events as yet more evidence that Ray is a huckster, who, like other motivational speakers, present their philosophies as a magic bullet to all of life's problems.

                                    "It's honing in on peoples' needs, their hopes and desires, telling them what they want to hear," said Rick Ross, founder of a virtual library of information on controversial groups and movements. "That's how any good con man makes his mark."

                                    Linda Jackson of Brentwood, Calif., already is looking forward to an event Ray has scheduled in the San Francisco Bay area later this year. The 59-year-old says Ray has a rare gift that coupled with charisma, power and a "walk the talk" attitude only helps mankind.

                                    Only God knows whether the recent tragedy will help or hurt Ray, she said. "Maybe it was necessary because he has to be cautious about something."

                                    Ray has no plans to slow down, said his spokesman, Howard Bragman. He'll continue conducting seminars and be a leader, educator and mentor to the thousands who seek his help.

                                    "One of his messages is about dealing with adversity," he said. "He's very clear and his team is very clear that we're going to continue his important work."


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                                    Title: Re: Arizona sweat lodge death toll rises to three
                                    Post by: heretik on October 25, 2010, 09:36:31 PM
                                    Quote from: "Ursus"
                                    And... here's another article about this news, this one from The Guardian (UK). It seems to be pretty similar to the one published by CBS News Crimesider:

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                                    guardian.co.uk
                                    Arizona sweat lodge death toll rises to three (http://http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/oct/18/third-sweat-lodge-death)
                                    Woman, 49, dies of multiple organ failure a week after new age ceremony that left two dead
                                    Associated Press
                                    Sunday 18 October 2009 16.22 BST


                                    A third person has died following a ceremony in a so-called "sweat lodge" modelled on Native American traditions.

                                    A man and a woman died and nearly two dozen people were left needing hospital treatment as a result of the ceremony in Arizona more than a week ago.

                                    Liz Neuman of Minnesota died on Saturday at an Arizona hospital, Yavapai county sheriff's spokesman Dwight D'Evelyn said.

                                    The 49-year-old suffered multiple organ damage during the 8 October ceremony at a resort near Sedona, a town 115 miles north of Phoenix that draws many in the new age movement. The lodge forms part of a new age centre which advertises services of "spiritual cleansing."

                                    Authorities were treating all three deaths as homicides but no charges have been filed.

                                    Neuman was among more than 50 people crowded inside the sweat lodge run by self-help guru James Arthur Ray.

                                    The crowd had been packed for up to two hours inside the lodge, which was a little over 1.5m high in its centre and less than 1m high at the sides.

                                    An emergency call two hours after they entered the lodge reported two people not breathing.

                                    Twenty-one people were taken to area hospitals with illnesses ranging from dehydration to kidney failure. Kirby Brown, 38, and James Shore, 40, died upon arrival at hospital.

                                    All the other victims have now been discharged from hospital.

                                    Authorities have not yet determined what caused the deaths but autopsy results on Brown and Shore will be subject to further testing.

                                    The Rev Meredith Ann Murray, who has attended Ray's retreats, said Neuman was among Ray's earliest followers and had attended dozens of his events.

                                    According to Ray's website, Neuman was the leader of the Minneapolis-area "journey expansion team". The teams, developed by Ray's friends and followers around the US, regularly meet to exchange ideas on his principles.

                                    Ray had rented the Angel Valley Retreat Center for a five-day "spiritual warrior" event that culminated in the sweat lodge ceremony. Participants paid between $9,000 (£5,500) and $10,000 to attend.

                                    Ray declined to be interviewed by the sheriff's office on the night of the incident and Arizona authorities said he had not spoken to them as of Thursday. But, in a public appearance in Los Angeles, Ray told a crowd of about 200 that he had hired his own investigative team to determine what went wrong.

                                    His spokesman, Howard Bragman, has said Ray's team and his lawyer are cooperating with the sheriff's investigators.

                                    More than 100 people attended the funeral for Brown on Saturday at Holy Name of Jesus Church in Otisville, New York, said The Times Herald-Record newspaper. The avid hiker and surfer was remembered as a spiritual seeker.

                                    Services for Shore were held on Saturday afternoon in Milwaukee.


                                    guardian.co.uk © Guardian News and Media Limited 2010

                                    How do you explain to people they don't need someone like James Ray and his price tag $9000.00. That the peace they are looking for is free, you can "sweat" for free, safely. I don't get it.
                                    Title: Comments: "Sweat lodge deaths cast negative spotlight..."
                                    Post by: Ursus on October 25, 2010, 11:32:23 PM
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                                    Title: Re: Arizona sweat lodge death toll rises to three
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on October 26, 2010, 12:18:37 PM
                                    Quote from: "heretik"

                                    How do you explain to people they don't need someone like James Ray and his price tag $9000.00. That the peace they are looking for is free, you can "sweat" for free, safely. I don't get it.

                                    What don't you get?  Just tell them.  Show them the articles, both pro and con, about Ray and his cashcow....then show them what a real sweat is and I think they'll be able to figure it out.
                                    Title: Third Death After Sweat Lodge Ceremony
                                    Post by: Ursus on November 01, 2010, 10:30:58 PM
                                    Another article about the third death from the sweat lodge tragedy...

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                                    The New York Times
                                    Third Death After Sweat Lodge Ceremony (http://http://www.nytimes.com/2009/10/19/us/19lodge.html?fta=y)

                                    By THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
                                    Published: October 18, 2009


                                    FLAGSTAFF, Ariz. (AP) — A Minnesota woman died Saturday, more than a week after being overcome in an Arizona sweat lodge ceremony.

                                    (http://http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2009/10/19/us/19lodge.inline.jpg)
                                    Liz Neuman

                                    The woman, Liz Neuman, 49, of Prior Lake, suffered multiple organ damage and was in a coma before she died at a hospital in Flagstaff. She was among dozens of people crowded into the sweat lodge on Oct. 8 at a resort just outside Sedona, a town 115 miles north of Phoenix, that draws many in the New Age spiritual movement.

                                    Louis Diesel, a lawyer for Ms. Neuman's family, said it was clear that appropriate measures were not taken to prevent her death. Mr. Diesel said Sunday that he planned to file a lawsuit over her death.

                                    Ms. Neuman, a divorced mother of three who worked as a computer data programmer, was "extremely athletic" and did not suffer from any medical problems, Mr. Diesel said.

                                    A self-help expert and author, James Arthur Ray, had rented the Angel Valley Retreat Center for a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" event that culminated in a sweat lodge ceremony.

                                    Fifty-five to 65 people were in the makeshift sweat lodge over a two-hour period. An emergency call reported two people without a pulse and not breathing.

                                    Twenty-one people were taken to area hospitals with ailments including dehydration and kidney failure. Two people, Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee, died at a hospital.

                                    The authorities were treating the deaths as homicides but have yet to determine the cause. Autopsy results for Ms. Brown and Mr. Shore were pending.

                                    Mr. Ray wrote on his Facebook page on Sunday that he was deeply saddened by the news of death of Ms. Neuman, whom he had known for more than seven years.

                                    "Liz was an amazing woman who touched so many lives," he wrote. "She'll be cherished and remembered by all. Liz, you're in our hearts forever. My continued love, prayers and support go out to her family in this time of grief and loss."

                                    Ms. Neuman had attended Mr. Ray's events in the past and served as the leader of a Minneapolis-area "Journey Expansion Team," according to Mr. Ray's Web site. The teams, developed by Mr. Ray's friends and followers around the country, meet to exchange ideas on his principles.

                                    A version of this article appeared in print on October 19, 2009, on page A17 of the New York edition.


                                    Copyright 2009 The New York Times Company
                                    Title: Progress report: James Ray sweat lodge scandal
                                    Post by: Ursus on November 09, 2010, 12:11:14 AM
                                    Back to Cassandra Yorgey...

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                                    Examiner.com
                                    Progress report: James Ray sweat lodge scandal (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/progress-report-james-ray-sweat-lodge-scandal)
                                    October 19th, 2009 9:01 pm ET · Cassandra Yorgey

                                    Many of you have wondered why I was not the first to post the news about the third death of a James Ray sweat lodge participant - Liz Neuman. I was made aware of it almost immediately and I continue to offer my condolences to her friends and family. Traditional media is all over covering that, so I did not feel I was needed or could really contribute to that conversation in a meaningful way. Sure, I have questions about James Ray's remarks that he had a friend looking over those who were still hospitalized, but I can't be the only one who noticed that. That is a worrisome response to accusations of undue influence over the mental state of others.

                                    Many of you have also pointed out that I write for the internet and have exercised the opinion I am an unreliable source, especially since I continue to respect the anonymity of my sources. That's just fine with me. Most science-fiction and fantasy fans have a habit of turning up in unexpected places. It goes with the territory of having a wide range of interests that are not always related. We are the nerds, the geeks, the thinkers and the speculators. We toss around ideas like others toss around something I've heard termed a "football", whatever that is. Sure, there was some breaking news here, maybe there will be more, but now we get to the heart of the matter – the discussions.

                                    I have publicly accused (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d16-Breaking-news-Inside-accounts-of-James-Ray-sweat-lodge-tragedy-and-retreat) James Ray of indoctrinating minds (http://http://www.examiner.com/x-11245-Philadelphia-Speculative-Fiction-Examiner~y2009m10d15-Breaking-news-transcript-of-private-call-between-James-Ray-and-sweat-lodge-victims) and using that power unethically and I do not hide my contempt of such behavior. It is now in police hands to investigate, speak with experts in the field, etc. They will deal with him, but it is us that are left to clean up the mess James Ray left behind. Am I getting paid to do this? Well, yeah, but I get paid regardless of what I choose to discuss.

                                    I am a nerdfighter (http://http://nerdfighters.ning.com/) and that means I have a vested interest in spreading awesome and decreasing world suck levels. When I sat around with my nerdfighter hat on, it occurred to me that the best way to fight any dangerous leader is by promoting information, awareness, and discussion. The best way to combat mind-control is with critical thinking. That is why I value the diverse discussion that has been going on in the comments. There are a lot, I mean a really, seriously, huge amount of things to discuss in relation to the James Ray tragedy. James Ray uses what appears to be a brilliant mixed modality that may be self-created. We can discuss the validity of his techniques - heck, the origin of the techniques – other organizations and individuals that use similar information, warning signs that unethical use is going on, what we should do about it. I mean there are literally as many ways to discuss this as there are people in the world. How do we distinguish the facts from the commentary and opinion? We use our own critical thinking skills and research and see what the experts are saying, of course.

                                    In many ways I can identify with James Ray. I am a dabbler in many things and can discuss a wide variety of subjects with limited knowledge or expertise – but unlike him, I do not claim to have all the answers, quite the opposite. I like to learn stuff, all kinds of stuff, and I welcome everyone to join in the discussions I am going to continue to post. I do this because I do not fear having my ideas questioned. My ideas will either hold up under scrutiny or they will not. People are constantly thinking up things I have not, or bringing new information to my attention, or showing me a side of something I hadn’t thought about before. Those with well-reasoned ideas based on factual knowledge tend to be the best at changing my opinion on something or at least bringing to light a new challenge we have to look at while formulating a solution. Do I know everything that is going on right now? No, and I mean no! I am still sorting through fact and fiction to the best of my ability to contribute to this discussion in the most factual and helpful manner possible. Since I have started discussing James Ray and his sweat lodge tragedy many new leads and sources have come forward with things they would like me to look at and start a conversation about. I am continuing to look at it.
                                     
                                    What can you do while you are waiting for me to post again? You can read the comments on my previous posts and join in the continuing discussion there or you can check out the links I put up in the sidebar to discussions I think are worth looking at, although I may not necessarily agree with everything (or anything) in them. Better yet, start your own discussions relating to an aspect of the case you are familiar with or recall your own good and bad experiences with James Ray and/or his teachings. In between writing, researching, and sleeping I will continue to sabotage my own paycheck by offering free advice on how best to cover this story to the traditional-media-type-people contacting me with offers of interviews; Offers that are then withdrawn, only to use my "pre-interview" information to find a new angle. Maybe they do not know I offer this advice for free to everyone, right here. I also offer a wide variety of opinions for free over on my LiveJournal, because (as you’ve no doubt noticed) sometimes I have opinions on things that do not relate to speculative fiction. Seriously, I could mine the James Ray scandal for years and compare and contrast his techniques to fact and fiction. It’s possible I just might. Either way, I am not nearly done on the subject.

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                                    Title: Comments: "Progress report: James Ray sweat lodge scandal"
                                    Post by: Ursus on November 09, 2010, 12:20:02 AM
                                    Comments (http://http://www.examiner.com/speculative-fiction-in-philadelphia/progress-report-james-ray-sweat-lodge-scandal) left for the above piece, "Progress report: James Ray sweat lodge scandal (http://http://www.fornits.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=28923&p=386213#p386212)" (by Cassandra Yorgey; October 19th, 2009; Examiner.com):


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                                    Title: James Ray Criminal Trial
                                    Post by: Inculcated on March 14, 2011, 04:22:23 PM
                                    The triple manslaughter trial AZ v. James Ray continues to be covered on court TV this week, showing footage of testimony heard on Friday. Clips of testimony include descriptions of his responses and lack of response. One woman tells of him ignoring an injured woman who was calling out for him, adding “He just kept walking, he was completely out of touch”
                                    Another clip tells of a man who had suffered from the heat and who had quieted after screaming “I don’t want to die”. When this man saw James Ray he told him “James, I died and I came back”. James reportedly did elect to respond to this person and he is said to have congratulated him.

                                    Strangely their (CTV) question of the day for viewers to text their answers to was “What sort of power do think James Ray had inside that sweat lodge?”
                                    Title: Re: James Ray Criminal Trial
                                    Post by: heretik on March 14, 2011, 06:17:44 PM
                                    Quote from: "Inculcated"
                                    The triple manslaughter trial AZ v. James Ray continues to be covered on court TV this week, showing footage of testimony heard on Friday. Clips of testimony include descriptions of his responses and lack of response. One woman tells of him ignoring an injured woman who was calling out for him, adding “He just kept walking, he was completely out of touch”
                                    Another clip tells of a man who had suffered from the heat and who had quieted after screaming “I don’t want to die”. When this man saw James Ray he told him “James, I died and I came back”. James reportedly did elect to respond to this person and he is said to have congratulated him.

                                    Strangely their (CTV) question of the day for viewers to text their answers to was “What sort of power do think James Ray had inside that sweat lodge?”


                                    Jeesh!!!! IDK, maybe that of the tsunami that rolled over Japan. Like I said though IDK.    :wall:
                                    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on June 23, 2011, 07:56:16 AM
                                    (http://http://beyondgrowth.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/jamesray349-200px.jpg)     (http://http://i.i.com.com/cnwk.1d/i/tim/2011/03/01/image6172272x_244x183.jpg)


                                    Sweat Lodge "guru" convicted on 3 counts!!!!!!


                                    Looks like it didn't take the jury long either.  They started deliberations on Tuesday, came back with the guilty verdicts Wednesday.  Of course, like Miller Newton, nothing seems to stop these malignant narcissists.  Wait til you get to the last sentence.  


                                    http://http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/06/22/national/main20073479.shtml

                                    (AP)

                                    CAMP VERDE, Ariz. — A self-help author who led a deadly sweat lodge ceremony in Arizona was found guilty of three counts of negligent homicide Wednesday.

                                    Jurors in the case against James Arthur Ray began deliberating Tuesday after a four-month trial.

                                    Ray showed no reaction as the verdict was read. His parents and brother sat behind him, while victims' family members and friends held hands and looked on from across the courtroom.

                                    Prosecutors asked that Ray be taken into custody immediately, but the judge denied the request.

                                    More than 50 people participated in the October 2009 sweat lodge that was meant to be the highlight of Ray's five-day "Spiritual Warrior" seminar near Sedona.

                                    Three people died following the sauna-like ceremony meant to provide spiritual cleansing. Eighteen were hospitalized, while several others were given water to cool down at the scene. Prosecutors and defense attorneys disagreed over whether the deaths and illnesses were caused by heat or toxins.

                                    Ray's attorneys have maintained the deaths were a tragic accident. Prosecutors argued Ray recklessly caused the fatalities.

                                    Ray used the sweat lodge as a way for participants to break through whatever was holding them back in life. He warned participants in a recording of the event played during the trial that the sweat lodge would be "hellacious" and that participants were guaranteed to feel like they were dying but would do so only metaphorically.

                                    "The true spiritual warrior has conquered death and therefore has no fear or enemies in this lifetime or the next, because the greatest fear you'll ever experience is the fear of what? Death," Ray said in the recording. "You will have to get a point to where you surrender and it's OK to die."

                                    Witnesses have described the scene following the two-hour ceremony as alarming and chaotic, with people dragging "lifeless" and "barely breathing" participants outside and volunteers performing CPR.

                                    Two participants — Kirby Brown, 38, of Westtown, N.Y., and James Shore, 40, of Milwaukee — died upon arrival at a hospital. Liz Neuman, 49, of Prior Lake, Minn., slipped into a coma and died more than a week later at a Flagstaff hospital.

                                    In court Wednesday, members of Neuman's family and a friend of Brown held hands while the verdict was read.

                                    Ray's attorneys maintained the deaths were nothing but a tragic accident, and said Ray took all the necessary precautions to ensure participants' safety. They contend authorities botched the investigation and failed to consider that toxins or poisons contributed to the deaths and called two witnesses to support that argument.

                                    Prosecutors relied heavily on Ray's own words to try to convince the jury that he was responsible for the deaths. They said a reasonable person would have stopped the "abomination of a sweat lodge" when participants began exhibiting signs of distress about halfway through the ceremony.

                                    Sweat lodges typically are used by American Indians to rid the body of toxins by pouring water over heated rocks in the structure.

                                    Ray became a self-help superstar by using his charismatic personality and convincing people his words would lead them to spiritual and financial wealth. He used free talks to recruit people to expensive seminars like the Sedona retreat that led to the sweat lodge tragedy. Participants paid up to $10,000 for the five-day program intended to push people beyond their physical and emotional limits.

                                    Ray's popularity soared after appearing in the 2006 Rhonda Byrne documentary "The Secret," and Ray promoted it on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" and "Larry King Live."

                                    But his multimillion-dollar self-help empire was thrown into turmoil with the sweat lodge deaths. Ray ended his seminars shortly after but has continued to offer advice throughout his trial via the Internet and social networking sites.

                                    Read more: http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/06/ ... z1Q679cedX (http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2011/06/22/national/main20073479.shtml#ixzz1Q679cedX)
                                    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                    Post by: Wh??ter on June 23, 2011, 09:27:04 AM
                                    Welcome back, Anne.  Glad to see you here getting into the discussion.  I think this will be overturned on appeal.  Those people could have walked out whenever they wanted to but they choose to stay.



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                                    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                    Post by: Anne Bonney on June 24, 2011, 01:06:56 AM
                                    Awwww, where's DannyB to defend this piece of shit??  :roflmao:  This was his guy!  His mentor, his guru.  Who he wanted to be, IMO.  


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                                    Shitbag gave the families $5k.  1/2 of what they paid to die and a fraction of what he's made off of these vulnerable people seeking real spiritual advice.
                                    Title: Re: aparently, adults want to go to programs too
                                    Post by: Ursus on June 24, 2011, 11:24:13 PM
                                    I must confess, I haven't kept up with my news coverage of this case. I got burnt out.

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