What a macabre thread.
For those who have succeeded with a suicide attempt and for those of us who have been left behind by a suicide ... I find this thread really sad. Suicide is no joking matter.
That is correct. Suicide is not a joking matter. This thread is discussing alternative attitudes towards suicide. Did you know that there are websites dedicated to encouraging and assisting people who wish to commit suicide? There is concern, particularly in Japan, that young people are finding community on these sites and these sites are influencing to take this drastic course of action. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?
Most religions condemn suicide. Unless am mistaken, the Catholic Church considers it a mortal sin and someone committing suicide can not enter heaven.
For those of us with a secular viewpoint, the issue is more complex. It involves the right of the State to force a person to live against that person's will. It involves determining at what point should we as as a society interfere to 'help' someone get past the mental issues causing them to consider this option. At what point does someone have a right to their depression? It involves a discussion of the ethics surrounding euthanasia. And, it of course it involves issues of medical expediency (who was that woman that gained national attention when the Christian Right wanted to force the husband to keep her on life support? Was she really alive?)
I really don't feel sorry for 'those left behind' by someone who commits suicide. Certainly, they can mourn the loss of the loved one, but to think the loved one did something to them, or to think they are at fault because they did not see it coming and interfere, is simply misguided. The person who takes his own life made that decision and it was ultimately his decision to make.
I have sometimes wondered what would happen if humans could simply stop themselves from living. What if a person lost the will to live and could simply down and stop breathing and stop their heart from beating. What would the suicide rate look like then?
I have read about Australian Aborigines that die in a matter of days if they are incarcerated. I don't know if these stories are true, but in the context of programs, it is interesting to contemplate. Would this phenomenon be considered suicide, or homicide?