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News Items / I know Dean Vause
« on: June 20, 2004, 01:37:00 AM »
I don't know who you are or who the "chick" who posted before you is, but why would you beg of me for anything? Do you know that you commit hate crimes? Do you even know what a hate crime is? Please, if you are going to spend your time submitting ignorance on the internet learn how to spell "fuked" at least!

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / people hacking and cencoring forums??
« on: April 06, 2004, 01:14:00 AM »
Hey, I moderate the AARC forum. I don't control your password or user info, but I just wanted to reassure you that none of your posts have been changed or blocked. The AARC folk aren't generally computer savvy enough to hack. They're still actively in their cult so any spare computer time is limited for most of them.

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News Items / I know Dean Vause
« on: September 26, 2003, 07:53:00 PM »
I edited names out of the last three posts. Obviously the content is the same. The first post was a different name than that of the last two. However if you feel that one of these posts may be directed at you then please PM me and I can provide you with the screen shots and IP info. Because of the nature of the posts combined with the disclaimer you can press charges if you so choose. Also just a reminder that if your statue of limitations to press charges are extended two years after the age of eighteen and you can speak with HamiltonF for more information on that issue.

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News Items / I know Dean Vause
« on: September 25, 2003, 09:37:00 PM »
Welcome to the board Ex Staff and thank you for sharing your story. Isn't it interesting that someone comes out of the closet and they take them out of girls rap, but yet men are allowed to run girls rap? Doesn't make much sense. I'm glad that you chose to go out into the real world and become social again amongst the rest of society.

I disagree that Dean loves these boards though! Internet forums discussing treatment abuse equivalates controversey and lack of financial fundiing which is already taking place. Oh he loves to come up with excuses as to why we post, but it drives him nuts that he has to make up the excuses at all. Hmmm....Somwhere around here I have a really funny quote of his that he told a parent about these boards. I'll have to find it.

Anyways, I'm not sure who you are but thanks for sharing your story.

 

[ This Message was edited by: velvet2000 on 2003-09-25 18:37 ]

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News Items / I know Dean Vause
« on: September 05, 2003, 08:32:00 PM »
Please try to use other ways to express your anger here. This type of language is something that the "Dean lovers" would use and I would like to keep that sort of thing out of this forum.

Thanks.

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News Items / AATN. Shy Survivors
« on: July 30, 2003, 04:49:00 PM »
This is a message for all of the quiet or mostly quiet survivors out there. Right now is a crucial time and there is a lot more valid support in Calgary for AARC Survivors than there was a couple of months ago. Many of you want to maintain your privacy but still want to make a dent in the AARC situation and that is fine. Of course if you don't worry about your privacy that's great too. Either way right now a lot of people are interested in what you have to say, so if you need a mediator please PM me, or email [email protected]. Please send us some of your story with AARC or whatever information you feel is valuable. If there is anything you feel needs to be investigated you can also suggest that, or suggest a name of a contact. Your information my change a lot of peoples lives for the better.

I hope all of you are doing well,
Take care,
Velvet.

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News Items / curious
« on: June 20, 2003, 03:24:00 PM »
Well here we go again. If "Racheal" would like this post removed please PM me or post here. I can also provide the necessary information for you and the contact you'll need in order to trace this post. If the post was made by a staff member you can hold them responsible for it.

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / Feeling lost after finding my life after AARC
« on: April 26, 2003, 01:01:00 AM »
After I left AARC I remember thinking that in order to be "healthy" I had to get all worked up and then "spill" something all the time. Blowing things out of proportion and being over emotional was normal. You can't spend years, or months, or however long you were in AARC focused purely on emotion and nothing else and come out balanced.

Socializing and being confident was really hard. It's easy to have false confidence in AARC when you learn what everyone wants of you and you are suddenly love bombed. On the outside world you are out of place and you have to be yourself, and that's a lot harder to accomplish. Especially when you try to hug everyone and talk in lingo that nobody else gets, and certainly doesn't think that you are "healthy" at all.

I know that it's a Straight/AARC-like thing to say "We had it easy compared to the _____ program". But in all sincerity I look at the Elan School board and think *whew* glad I wasn't there!

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / New Family members
« on: April 06, 2003, 02:50:00 PM »
Regarding what? Do you have any questions? Are you taking part in the sibling program? There are other siblings who take part in these boards some times.

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News Items / Dinner in Scuzzy Surry
« on: April 02, 2003, 09:58:00 PM »
Would you like the chance to tell the supporters of AARC how you feel? Would you like the chance to stop a second branch of AARC from being formed before children are abducted and abused? Well now you can, for just the small price of $300!!!! Yep, for just $300 you can not only eat, but PLAY GOLF with the fundamentalits...I mean...good vitoms...I mean...people who are fundraising to start the Vancouver Adolescent Recovery Centre. The best part about all of this is that for once in a lifetime not only Republicans are supporting this chain of Synanons, but now Canada's New Democrats have joined in too.

This lovely event will be held on May 15'th in Surry British Columbia. For our American friends who don't know, Surrey (best known as Scurry) is a large suburb of Vancouver with some of the worst crime in Canada, and I guess a nice golf course too. This will be a perfect place for an event of such because the streets of Surry are filled with young Hoochie Moma's which irritate everyone, and therefore encourage Canadians to feel that Canada must be overrun with 15 year old Hoochie Moma's who need to be imprisoned...I mean...Treated. Not that Hedy Fry or Gordan Cambell will actually be walking the streets of Surry.

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News Items / Don't feel alone, come to the straight survivor forum if you
« on: March 30, 2003, 08:55:00 PM »
Would you like to tell us why you feel that ISAC is a joke?

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News Items / What a Voice is For
« on: March 30, 2003, 08:54:00 PM »
*eek* I think Hamilton is actually a good guy. If you have time to dig read the rest of his posts. I can see how you may have found that last post misleading.

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News Items / Don't feel alone, come to the straight survivor forum if you
« on: March 26, 2003, 09:18:00 PM »
lol. Thanks for the invite Morli! Careful what you wish for though!

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / "Are you still not over it?"
« on: March 09, 2003, 03:22:00 PM »
There are a few people who come here and say that they are "over" what happened to them and people who aren't "over it" are "weak". Why then would someone who is "over it" spend so much time here? Why would that person look up "the straights" on their search engine in the first place?

It doesn't matter whether you have emotionally healed, if you are currently healing, or if you are completely torn apart. It doesn't matter if you have a happy family of your own and a great job, if you struggle to further yourself every day, or if you are a transient. Abuse is abuse and the abuse that happened here has had presidential support and government funding, and there are still programs like it getting government funding, and that needs to be made public and the abusers held accountable for it. If you were abused by somone it is your RESPONSIBILITY to do the best that you can to stop that person from abusing someone else.

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Straight, Inc. and Derivatives / The present senate response
« on: March 09, 2003, 03:08:00 PM »
It's funny because I was just having a cup of coffee and started for some reason to think about how some people from Synanon's choose to deal with what happened in the way Scott just did. I only logged on right now because my brain was on it and this was the first post on all of the forums.

I know that with everything in life people deal with things in very different ways, and many people don't deal with things at all or until they've pushed it aside for so long that they feel they have no choice. But it seems as if there are so many survivors of Synanon's that say something along the lines of "Yeah it's a cult and they do really fucked up shitty things that we never should have gone through and I know they're still doing it but you gotta just forget about it and keep moving forward man".

Does anyone else here feel that, that attitude is simply doing what they were told? It seems to me that many of these people are still afraid that if they actually take the time to feel their real feelings through (not the fake ones they installed in us)that they would be "sitting in their shit". And so they have to "let go", even though they haven't really "let go" they just minimize what happened? Many even go as far as to call other survivors loosers for just talking about what happened to them or accuse them of "bitching"!!! All in all it always comes back to protecting the Synanon's, because they always feel that going about legal matters is somehow feeling sorry for themselves and they would be a "bottom feeder" if they did that.

I look at it the same way as if you and your brothers and sisters were sexually molested throughout your childhood, because many survivors of these programs were phyisically, sexually and/or mentally abused if not neglected. Once you turn 18 and are free from your parent but your siblings are still there being abused, would you say "Just gotta keep moving forward man and not live in the past"? I hope not. Would you accuse a molestation victom speaking about their abuse in court while they hold their abuser accountable of "bitching"?

The Straights are not The Past anyways. Their siblings are still alive and suffering.

Also I am a volunteer for Amnesty International and while they do focus on death penalties and imprisonment in foreign countries they are also concerned with "the war on drugs" because they're goal is to free all prisoners of conciousness and they are aware that there are prisoners of conciousness being held here in North America.

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