On 2005-08-13 05:26:00, Dysfunction Junction wrote:
You're very fond of saying you won't discuss the particulars of your child's placement because it "leads to bashing," but you sit here and bash just the same.
If you don't like Niles, fine. Don't engage him then.
That being said, you are still just acting like a child, using ad hominem attacks and attempting to "character assassinate" someone who you don't even know, simply because you are at an utter loss to refute his arguments.
Try acting like an adult for a change and EXPLAIN exactly WHY "your program" is a good one. Name the program, explain how your child was diagnosed and with what disorder and tell us how the treatment plan that your program drafted addressed your child's psychological and social maladaption.
Please, we're all eager to hear about a good program so that we may point struggling parents to a place that won't actually abuse and neglect their child."
DysJunc~
It appears to me that you are confusing me with ANON (Andrea). I did not engage Nihl. I did not bash him. In fact, I never even responded to him. I refuse to respond to judgmental name calling. I am not at an "utter loss" to refute his arguments. It would be a waste of my breath.
Insofar as you think me acting childish.... well I just plain don't get that. Sounds a bit like the pot calling the kettle black.
As I explained earlier, I am not willing to disclose the program my daughter attended. Would be like a lamb being led to slaughter. No thanks.
I was told that I had no business telling my daughters story. That it was her story alone to tell.
So, the bottom line is this. If you truly want to affect change, you are going about it ass-back wards IMHO. Instead of attacking people who are really trying to understand the ugly side of this institution, I suggest you be a little less hostile and a little more approachable.
If I was a less gritty person, for sure I would have high tailed it out of here after my first reading. But, I really, really want to hear your stories, suggestions, and ideas to better regulate this industry.
You know the old adage.... you attract more flies with sugar.
Try to imagine for one minute that I am a parent who deeply cares about kids (mine and others who are very troubled). That I am a parent who made a responsible placement for my cherished child. Imagine for a minute that she was not abused, and is not scarred from her experience. Imagine that it may have addressed/alleviated some very serious emotional, psychological, and social issues in her life. Imagine that there are caring individuals (professionals) who really desire to help kids and are not motivated by financial recompense. And then maybe, we can have a dialog and learn from one another.