Take me for instance. Many of you dont know me at all..Some of you know me well. Most people will tell you im a great guy. But I tend to be very short with people..and when someone does a "wrong" to me I ask myself { can I understand why they did that to me?}
If the answer is yes Ill generally confront and forgive them.
If the answer is no ..I usually never talk to them again..I used to be very vengeful, but Im too old to fight and dont have the energy to hate these days.
I keep my friends close and my enemies fade into nothingness.
