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« Reply #90 on: October 19, 2005, 06:23:00 PM »
Exactly, that's what you have to get over. That was the hardest thing for me, and for a lot of people I know...you just have to get over the fact that life is a lot harder and a lot more real than they tried to make it out to be.

I've gotten over it and I'm doing fine. Does that make it wrong for me to talk to people about how much it sucked?
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« Reply #91 on: October 19, 2005, 06:51:00 PM »
Believe me, I do not expect CEDU to fix anything. CEDU can't protect you from life. But by the same token, I do care about other kids being placed in this type of environment.  That is my issue. Maybe because I just finished grad school in education and I'm looking at all these placements and some of them are in TBSs.  And because I really fucking deplore all that crappy experimental "therapy" on kids.

But I'll tell ya what. I'll just say Fuck It because I was up all night with a 3 year old and a five year old puking their guts out and I'm beat. Fine, you win! Fuck CEDU!

Oh God, I'm saved! That felt good. I'm over it.
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« Reply #92 on: October 20, 2005, 09:41:00 AM »
alright, that's what I like to hear. None of this shit about what CEDU stands for or anything. Just plain and simple: Fuck CEDU. Enough said.
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« Reply #93 on: October 20, 2005, 11:27:00 AM »
LOL!  Oh, if the sarcasim could cut someone, we would all be dead by now.   :lol:
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« Reply #94 on: October 20, 2005, 12:06:00 PM »
I wasn't being sarcastic
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« Reply #95 on: October 20, 2005, 03:31:00 PM »
I was referring to the post from Shanlea.
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« Reply #96 on: October 20, 2005, 04:10:00 PM »
This conversation reminds me of a philosophy lesson in college about the "egocentric predicament" of man.

We all see ourselves at the center wherever we are and we judge others by our own experience without understanding the perspective of "the other."

The answer to this argument, and a good one it is, is that we live separate lives, are socialized differently, have diifferent experiences, and different biology and genetics, therefore, what applies to us - ie, the black-and-white projections such as "get over it" or "recovery from CEDU is very hard," usually do not apply to the other majority of individuals who fall within areas of gray. Often, for them, it is someting like "It really fucked me and my family up for a while, but I am doing my best now, and I can succeed because, God knows, I got through all that CEDU shit alive.

So in conclusion, don't be so arrogant as to believe that your reality is the same as the next fellow - just be empathetic and love one another.
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« Reply #97 on: October 20, 2005, 04:57:00 PM »
Well, thank you for those kind words.   ::bigsmilebounce::
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« Reply #98 on: October 20, 2005, 05:11:00 PM »
I'll give you an egocentric predicament: My foot up your ass. Stop trying to sound smart. My point still applies. Get over CEDU!
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« Reply #99 on: October 20, 2005, 05:24:00 PM »
I was kind of hoping you'd show up again and make some dumbass comment like that just to show how stupid you really are.
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« Reply #100 on: October 20, 2005, 05:47:00 PM »
No, I was kind of hoping YOU'D show up after I did to make some smartass comment just to try to one up me. ha ha ha ha ha ha na na na na na na. Fuckin' jew.
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« Reply #101 on: October 20, 2005, 05:59:00 PM »
Wow!  That's all I can say! :eek:
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« Reply #102 on: October 20, 2005, 06:26:00 PM »
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On 2005-10-20 14:47:00, Anonymous wrote:

"No, I was kind of hoping YOU'D show up after I did to make some smartass comment just to try to one up me. ha ha ha ha ha ha na na na na na na. Fuckin' jew.  "


...as he tries to one up me. But go ahead my man, get the last word in. I'll let you. I mean, you gotta have some sort of control in your sad life right?
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« Reply #103 on: October 20, 2005, 07:18:00 PM »
LAST FUCKING WORD DAMMIT!
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« Reply #104 on: October 20, 2005, 10:30:00 PM »
Well shit!  Now that's losing it.  Maybe some people have a RIGHT to be pissed at CEDU still if they act like that!   :lol:
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