Treatment Abuse, Behavior Modification, Thought Reform > The Troubled Teen Industry
What about "Carlbrook School"?
just an fyi:
Just for the record:
The contributor with the username "URSUS" is not a Carlbrook graduate. Please do not mistake him for an alumni with a similar name. That person will never be involved in this type of forum.
Just needed to clear that up.
Thank you.
Anne Bonney:
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formerstudent06 wrote:I said that because if you really were abused, then only a professional can help guide you through that pain, not some fucking kids,
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--- Quote ---- the programs are telling us that kids can help kids, yes. Are these not the same programs that certain people in this forum have accused of being abusive? And kids can help kids, sure, but without the supervision of a professional, whats to stop the kids from sending other kids in a direction that is actually harmful, not beneficial.
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Exactly my point about programs. Kids helping kids....peer pressure, groupthink, absolute power and control over others etc.
--- Quote ---The reality is that kids are not trained. That is all that I was saying. If there were a professional administrator in this group that was keeping an eye on the direction of conversation, then I would agree that kids helping kids would be appropriate in this place.
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Most of us aren't kids anymore and all we're doing is talking about what helped us, individually, heal from the mindfuck.
--- Quote ---- people who believe they have been abused, especially ones who actually were, usually harbor a profoundly deep anger, which is not always directed in a positive way. It is not uncommon for someone who was abused to attempt to exact revenge on the perceived abuser, which is the feeling that I have gotten from several posts in this forum. When I say biased, I mean that certain individuals could be speaking from a place of uncontrolled anger, such as calling people pedophiles, making outrageous statements, or any sort of toxic remark toward another person. I would agree that people who have been abused can actually share a common perception, which could bring them closer, understand each other better, and be a positive connection on the road to healing. I am just cautioning people about the "banding" together of frustrated, angry victims of abuse without the direction of a professional who can recognize when things start to get uncontrolled.
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And the ones who are 'washed' might be biased FOR programs. Two sides of the same coin.
--- Quote ---Ok I'm done with this place. For the people that it helps, I'm glad that it helps.
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There, now that wasn't so hard was it?
free_speech:
There's recently been a group created on Facebook of Carlbrook Alumni for Accountability in the Troubled Teen Field. I think it's a bit more appropriate, and many people have been pretty objective in their discussion; however, there are also people that now can be victims or have an excuse for actions at and after Carlbrook. It's such an interesting dichotomy when looking for information, because there is no possible way to get one complete answer.
I would have to disagree with a few of the above posts. I don't think I'm here to be counseled by peers or get some cathartic experience. I'm looking for information. I've chosen to do this process on my own. As for the comment that we all need to take some "fucking psych," I have taken a lot of formal research psychology as well as counseling classes, and done plenty of my own personal research. I've made the choice to not seek professional help in this process, because I'd like to do this one on my own; I couldn't allow myself the irony of seeking a professional when my current issues are with professionals in the field. With a professional also comes another opinion on residential treatment, and I'm ready for my own opinion. Also, I think that the idea of "trained professionals" is a bit romanticized and formerstudent06 is a bit overzealous in prescribing this for me.
I'm just along for the ride, at the moment.
cooltherapy:
--- Quote from: "formerstudent06" ---I said that because if you really were abused, then only a professional can help guide you through that pain, not some fucking kids, many of which are bias in the sense that they also feel they were abused. You guys need to learn some psych for fuck sake. I was just urging people to find an objective point of view, not my own, or anyone else in this forum. An objective professional who has been trained to navigate through people's issues (not a carlbrook staff, but a completely unaffiliated entity that you trust). But obviously seems like a lot of you don't want to do that.
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lol
I like the new facebook group so much better.
free_speech:
For those of you who care about these advancements, the "Carlbrook Alumni Association" Facebook group has removed students' permission to post on the wall. The "Carlbrook Students for Accountability and Oversight in the Troubled Teen Field" group has more members than the "Alumni Association." There is also a former adviser asking for insight into what harmed us in the "Accountability" group. Despite the emotions regarding what affected us negatively, I still hold the belief that the intentions are wholeheartedly good; in concordance with this belief, our privileges being revoked shows that the administration is listening to the concerns. It will be interesting to see if there is some sort of staff response. For those of you who don't care, please continue your day as usual.
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