Good grief, lady, if you don't want to be stuck with a nickname like "Mrs. Grey" it's up to *you* to supply a different one by creating a username with whatever you *do* want to be called.
You jump up and down screaming, "Don't disrespect me!"
Get over it. Your action in not creating a screen name for yourself and using it is bringing that part of it on yourself.
At least, if you *do* have a screen name, I've forgotten it.
I'm notorious for forgetting to log myself in, but people can identify me and have something non-insulting to call me because I sign my posts with my screen name.
It also helps if the screenname you pick is something pronouncable. Give people something to call you, that you don't mind being called, and most of them will oblige. Most of us couldn't give a rip what your "real" name is, anyway. Just like most everyone else here doesn't give a rip about mine--even though I've openly mentioned it several times.
Big whoop. Would I sound too much like a program person if I said to get over your drama?
Timoclea
The world is so exquisite, with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there's no good evidence. Far better, it seems to me, to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides.
--Carl Sagan
