Carmel, you have been a grounded voice of solid and sound reason around here for many moons. Though I am happily married (since 1991) and smoke like there is no tomorrow, I continue to support you and say that you know your situation more acutely than anyone here. If my wife ditched my stash, I would be upset, granted, but there is more...much more to such a story than you just waking up bitchy and throwing away his smoke.
You got my support.
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