Good christ! I know there is no comparison! Geez!
Its the IDEA guys! Come on now.....lets focus.
Pot, Heroin, Football, Nascar, cross-stitching....pick your poison. PLEASE stop accusing me of demonizing the drugs. Did I not mention he is still smoking? Did I tell him he couldnt trot right back out and buy some more? NO. NO. and NO.
Please quit trying to convert this into some kind of tough love intervention. I defy anyone here who has a significant other to say that if that significant other treats them poorly that they dont do a damn thing about it. I guarantee that if I HAD mentioned that I busted the TV set instead of tossing his stash, you guys would be singing a different tune.
Did I mention that he is still smoking? Did I mention that things are much better? Did I mention that regardless of the pot, his problem probably wasnt even the pot anyway, its what he hiding from when he smokes? I know all this.
If my son wants to play with his father, but his father has been toking and playing Madden for 8 hours straight, you are goddamn right I am gonna choose a side.
I am not some god damned DFAF sympathizer. I didnt throw him in an intake room. I made a statement about his excessive behaviour, and you know what? He agreed with me. Anyone here who is married should know about the give and take required to keep a marriage going. When the scales tip, you have to right them or you end up broken.