rjfro22, I couldn't agree more w/ what you are saying. My experiences have been very similar to yours. I've had my slips but continue to go back to the basic teachings of the Seed - warts and all!! As in all things in life, there is a Yin and Yang. I've never regretted my choice to "enlist" in the program. Well, maybe for the first week - but after that, I knew I had a long road ahead of me. I, too, hitch-hiked all over, shot drugs i.e., EVERYTHING which could go into my veins. Wasn't interested in smoking, snorting, dropping, etc., just wanted to shoot it. I had been doing needles since I was barely 16 and asked to be put in the Seed a month shy of my 18th birthday. What a blessing for me!! Yes, it was boot camp to the extreme, but I NEVER would have "gotten it" if it hadn't been as "tough" as it was. I had seen "family counselers" and could TOTALLY manipulate them as I saw fit. It seemed they placed all the blame on my alcoholic dad and mom inflicted w/ depression. (which I must say, she overcame after I got it together via the Seed) Yes, you CANNOT bullshit a bullshitter. That was part of the magic of the Seed. I have an adult son and many friends w/ children and they do not like to confront me becaue they KNOW that I KNOW what's going on. It's a trip to see someone in their teens trying to get over on me. Incidently, my son is awesome and never got into the trouble I did. He is as good as I was rotten and I'm truly blessed. I too live in CA - moved out here after graduating from the Seed; married a good man (also in the Seed) and had a wonderful son. It sounds like you're one of the few that "got it" and I wish you the best. Please feel free to e/m me if you'd like!