He came after I left. I think I saw that his son was admitted in 97, which is when I commenced. So, his son may have been there when I was on 5th phase but I was too focused on getting out to notice anybody else. I was re-admitted about 3-4 months after I commenced because they said I relapsed because I dropped my aftercare. BTW-I dropped it because I worked more than a full time job, went to school full time (that I was paying for), was still going to AA, and I had to pay for my aftercare! I couldn't afford it and it was a big load of crap waste of time! It was only hurting me to spend that time and money to go...and what did I get for it?? The ambush! I went to my Mom's house one day after work and hiding in the walls were 2 graduated parents, a commencee, and a host parent! I tried to run but they caught me. Back to SAFE I went. I told them I did not relapse but of course I was lying. I took my drug test and was so distraught that I dropped the cup in the toilet, so I asked for another one and I got yelled at for trying to alter the test. Well, duh! If I was trying to alter the test it would not be w/toilet water, and I wouldn't have told them I dropped it and could I have another cup! So, they kept me for 42 days, but I misbehaved (I didn't disturb anybody...just sat back) and I got yelled at and yelled at... I was later told by a jr. staff member whom I was friends w/that they delayed my paper work so they could hold me there longer even though they knew I passed the drug test CAUSE I DID NOT RELAPSE!!!!! But it was against the law for them to keep me that long. Anyway (had to have a little bitchfest), I don't know if he was there for my 2nd go round.
