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mikehunt:

--- Quote ---Often times its the parents own actions & negligence and/or mistreatment of their kids, that causes the negative rifts in parent/child/family relationships to develop.  



That being said, HOW ON EARTH could it possibly make sense to punish kids for their parents mistakes?



Cedu Parents are in denial.

It's much easier for them to hand over their problem children to someone else and pretend that their lives are perfect, than it is for  parents to face the real culprit behind the problems with their children, THEMSELVES!


--- End quote ---

i understand where you're coming from...
i was sent to cedu because i was a self-loathing attention junkie... my parents didn't understand me or my behavior, so, they tried to send me to whoever claimed to understand.  needless to say, i was in constant therapy between the ages of 8-15, being hospitalized twice and cedu-ized for 3 years.
the truth of the matter is this: i knew what was "wrong" with me... but they never bothered to ask... well, not in the right way at least.  because the couple methods of communication they practiced on me were ineffective, they assumed that they simply didn't know how to communicate with me; i was just too outrageous.  they didn't trust themselves to help me out of the mess that we, as a family, had created, and thus they broke my trust as well.
fancy that; a child who does crazy things because she feels unloved ends up being "abandoned" (this was what i used to say when i was feeling sorry for myself) and sent away by her parents.
our main problem was that we did not know how to communicate with each other.  did cedu help this?  ummm, no.  did cedu help me love myself so that i wouldn't need to try to steal love from others?  nope... not directly, at least.. i love myself now because of the strength i conjured to survive as a defiant cedu student.  it's funny tho, what i took from the program was the polar opposite of what they'd wanted me to have, but i wouldn't have it any other way.

Anonymous:
Laura, I knew you there - I was there, too. I always had the impression that there was NOTHING wrong with you, except for a dysfunctional family. You are VERY intelligent and perfectly healthy and wonderful! That has always been my impression of you - and I'm delighted to see you in these posts!

mikehunt:
wow, that's awesome!  i wish i knew who you were tho... if you're ever inclined to, please email me.
laura.solomon@sbcglobal.net

Just Trying:
I was wondering if any of you ever saw a student who actually benefited from the program.  I see many at my school.  I notice positive change in many people in just the short time I've been there.  I believe that the three agreements are a good fundamental basis for life in general.  I know there are many who would advance themselves more in the outside world, not so closed off from society.  I also know many who would get chewed up and spit out in the real world.  You can't expect to succeed in life addicted to drugs.  You can't expect to get respect from people engaging in promiscuous sex.  You also can't beat people up every time someone pisses you off and expect to not get consequences for that action.  Someone with one of these problems or a combination thereof will have a very hard time in the "real world".  In that sense, we do help people succeed in the "real world".  I can admit that some kids are misplaced at CEDU.  Can anyone admit that some kids are actually helped at CEDU?

CEDU IS A CULT:
Hey Just Trying?  You still work there?  Fuck off you fucking bastard.  I'm gonna come up there and kick your fucking ass motherfucker.  You work in Running Springs right?  You aren't gonna be hard to find...  FUCK YOU!!!

How about seeing how you benefit from me bashing your fucking skull in motherfucker!!

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