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« on: September 28, 2002, 03:26:00 AM »
As much as I empathize, and understand the struggles so many of you on this board have gone through due to AARC, I still can't help having mixed feelings about the program itself. I am, and have always been a strong advocate for programs such as Alcoholics and Narcotics Anonymous, because I believe that when the steps of these programs are followed, they work. However, it is impossible for these programs to ensure sobriety if an addict doesn't have a strong, overwhelming desire to become sober. Which I suppose is the problem with AARC, and programs like it. The thing that bothered me most about the AARC program was the arrogance of it. Members are convinced, as a whole, that they all know the answer to your individual problem, whatever that issue may be. The fact is, AARC DOES work... for those people who truly have a problem and wish to find sobriety through the program. I just can't condemn the entire program because I HAVE seen it work for SOME people... But there were a lot of behaviours, activites and implications in that building that still bother me, years after graduating as a sibling. The use of intimidation, bullying and at times outright cruelty employed by both Dr.Vause and the staff certainly got out of hand at some points. Often I got the distinct impression that the staff there really enjoyed the power they had over both the clients and their families... permissions were given or rejected on a whim, depending entirely upon the will of the counsellours, and staff members prided themselves on knowing things about family members that they had no business knowing, and then provoking and questioning about them. I can't deny the fact that AARC has, in some ways, helped me deal with some issues. I can't deny that AARC helped my stepsibling become sober. But AARC isn't the answer to every problem, every addict, or every poorly behaved kid. It's a flawed program, and every time I drive past the building I recollect many feelings of resentment, anxiety and fear.

A "graduate" AARC sibling.
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« Reply #1 on: September 28, 2002, 04:40:00 PM »
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On 2002-09-28 00:26:00, Anonymous wrote:
 I believe that when the steps of these programs are followed, they work. However, it is impossible for these programs to ensure sobriety if an addict doesn't have a strong, overwhelming desire to become sober.

I have seen the Sun rise just after the rooster began to crow. Therefore, I know that the rooster's crow makes the Sun rise. Does that make sense to you? Doesn't make much sense to me.

What you're describing here sounds like stone soup made with uranium as a stock base.

I've seen people enter various programs and then quit drinking/drugging. I've seen plenty more with just the desire to quit do so without these programs. For the most part, people who've gone through these programs, and I know many, many of them from my own family and friends going back 30 years, the Program only makes things more difficult.
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« Reply #2 on: September 28, 2002, 06:48:00 PM »
Hi Sibling, welcome to the board.

I don't compare AARC to 12 step programs. It's kind of like comparing Protistants to Catholics. They may have similar beliefs and lingo but they are two different religions. Everyone I've met in AA/NA growled at the teachings I past on from AARC and tried to help me recover from them. Perhaps that's why they taught us to never become "safe" with anyone.

Antigen said everything else. The deffinition of "working" is pretty loose. It's not really very hard for a teenager to quit one habbit and adapt to other peoples social standards. That's what started most of them on drugs or alcohol in the first place - trying to fit in and feel accepted.

Take care,

Velvet.
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« Reply #3 on: October 03, 2002, 12:40:00 AM »
Well, actually, Catholicism and Protestantism are different theologies/denominations within the same religion... but that's besides the point.
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« Reply #4 on: October 21, 2002, 03:40:00 AM »
" I've seen people enter various programs and then quit drinking/drugging. I've seen plenty more with just the desire to quit do so without these programs. For the most part, people who've gone through these programs, and I know many, many of them from my own family and friends going back 30 years, the Program only makes things more difficult. "

Nothing like a good anecdote to dismiss valid scientific evaluation of a program!  pah-leeeeeeeeeeeezzzzz
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« Reply #5 on: October 21, 2002, 06:35:00 PM »
To what anecdote are you refering? And, more to the point, to what scientific evaluation? I'm very eager to see any kind of long-term outcome study. As far as I'm aware, none exists. But if you know of one, please do tell.

What's more, a number of us have been encouraging scientific inquery into this form of treatment. It's looking pretty good right now for a graduate thesis on the incidence of suicide among recipients of TC style treatment at a major university next fall. I will certainly let you know if that actually comes to be.
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« Reply #6 on: October 23, 2002, 06:39:00 AM »
WEll, do you not know what an anecdote is??
YOUR opinion is created by the anecdotal information you laid out but that is all that is YOUR opinion i.e. You are basing your conclusion that programs like AARC etc. do not work or even, was it, cause more HARM!!! because of your, again- anecdotal evidence, that you know or have talked to so many people and that is what all of them have said.

Was that a random sample and were the programs they were talking about homogeneous? What power function did you use to get this 'representative' sample????? What were the independent variables you assessed? I'll wait for your answer to those questions.

Do you understand how many people have gone through AARC and what goes into sampling? Also, do you understand how long it takes to do a valid, reliable evaluative study and how much it costs, esp to get one of the top evaluators in North America to do the evalutaion that everyone wants from AARC. As I said in a post to Anonymous re: the query that anonymous had about 'what does ADAAC think of AARC?' (I suggest ya read that post). ADAAC wouldn't provide any funding to AARC to do a valid evaluation and BECAUSE DEAN IS a pretty smart guy (despite what your opinion is) and the BOARD that runs AARC know that if they don't have a rigorous solid evaluation done everyone will spend all their time picking that apart and saying the evaluation was invalid. Hence, they now HAVE those funds thanks to someone in the Alberta legislature that took the time to spank the ADAAC people and funds were finally released after years of ADAAC screwing AARC and other agencies. As a result of those additional funds AND because AARC is the treatment facility that it is, they secured one of the best and most respected persons (globally) in the Evaluation Field to design and oversee the evaluation that was done. Do you understand that doing the analysis and the report takes just a bit of time? No, well, sorry charlie, it is not out because of that reason. But hell maybe I will just give that guy done in the States a call and tell him that YOU and your army are waiting for those results and he is not working fast enough. He might listen . . or he may not.

A graduate thesis on suicide, masters? - don't lie. Well hell, I should tell this guy about that, too. I'm sure he would be on pins and needles to see what that says. I'd love to see how that graduate student deals with the independent variables compared to the study being conducted for AARC. I am sure they have 1/100th of the operating grant that AARC needed to get. And that AARC would not have UNLESS the guy heading this study was the one doing it because they don't just give that amount of money to any Joe/Joanne off the street and certainly not to  someone at the beginning of their career.

See, when your thesis requires collecting data and analysing it like the person you are talking about, graduate students get screwed compared to someone with 30 years in the area. Wrong and injust but, hey, I lived it and had to accept it when I did research for a thesis. You end up having to cut out a lot of variables which you know need to be in there but GD they just won't give you the kind of money ya need, the bastards . . .

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« Reply #7 on: October 23, 2002, 07:20:00 PM »
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On 2002-10-23 03:39:00, TheFACTS about DEANV wrote:
WEll, do you not know what an anecdote is??
Why, yes.

Main Entry: an·ec·dote
Pronunciation: 'a-nik-"dOt
Function: noun
Inflected Form(s): plural anecdotes also an·ec·dota  /"a-nik-'dO-t&/
Etymology: French, from Greek anekdota unpublished items, from neuter plural of anekdotos unpublished, from a- + ekdidonai to publish, from ex out + didonai to give -- more at EX-, DATE
Date: circa 1721
: a usually short narrative of an interesting, amusing, or biographical incident


YOUR opinion is created by the anecdotal information you laid out but that is all that is YOUR opinion
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Essentially you're saying, then, that any of my own experience that contradicts your version of facts is anecdotal and, therefore, irrelavent? That's very interesting. Art and Straight always promoted the very same incorrect definition of the word. Now I'm curious. A good friend just attended an open meeting at SAFE last week. He was stunned to find that Group is still singing some of the very same nursery rhymes as he did 30 years ago in The Seed. So tell me, to AARC members also say things like "for all intensive purposes" and misspell the word "clique" as "click"?

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i.e. You are basing your conclusion that programs like AARC etc. do not work or even, was it, cause more HARM!!! because of your, again- anecdotal evidence, that you know or have talked to so many people and that is what all of them have said.

Actually, no. As defined above, an anecdote is essentially one single story, not necessarily representative of common or usual experience. My opinion is based on 10 years of close affiliation with a cult very similar to AARC called The Seed in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. Did you know that Dean actually got the basic model for the Program indirectly from Art Barker? It's true. Straight was established by a bunch of former Seedlings after Art shot off his mouth a few times too often and lost his federal funding. Fr. Cashing (back then, just plain old Rev. Dr. Virgil Miller Newton) took his "expertise" at adolescent drug treatment from Parents rap before going off to NJ under a cloud of controversy to establish the first KIDS program.

After that rather surreal decade of my life, I spent two years in Straight. Some of my opinion is based on what so many Program survivors have shared with me about our common experience. But the most compelling evidence that the Program does far more harm than good comes from those who haven't drawn breath to speak a word or for any other reason in some years. It gets to the point sometimes when I absolutely dread hearing from someone I knew from Sarasota because, invariably, they tell me of a common friend who's either no longer with us or who's in prison or who's seriously drug addicted or something. Funny, I haven't had that experience when contacting my "olddruggiefriends" from school. Most of the time, they talk about this one being a marketing specialist, that one married so-and-so and moved back home to Wisconsin and so forth. Oh, there's the occasional failure story of an old friend who is living out an undistinguished existance or something. But none of the horrors that seem to be so common among those of us who were "lucky" enough to recieve "treatment."

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Do you understand how many people have gone through AARC and what goes into sampling? Also, do you understand how long it takes to do a valid, reliable evaluative study and how much it costs, esp to get one of the top evaluators in North America to do the evalutaion that everyone wants from AARC. As I said in a post to Anonymous re: the query that anonymous had about 'what does ADAAC think of AARC?' (I suggest ya read that post). ADAAC wouldn't provide any funding to AARC to do a valid evaluation and BECAUSE DEAN IS a pretty smart guy (despite what your opinion is) and the BOARD that runs AARC know that if they don't have a rigorous solid evaluation done everyone will spend all their time picking that apart and saying the evaluation was invalid. Hence, they now HAVE those funds thanks to someone in the Alberta legislature that took the time to spank the ADAAC people and funds were finally released after years of ADAAC screwing AARC and other agencies. As a result of those additional funds AND because AARC is the treatment facility that it is, they secured one of the best and most respected persons (globally) in the Evaluation Field to design and oversee the evaluation that was done. Do you understand that doing the analysis and the report takes just a bit of time? No, well, sorry charlie, it is not out because of that reason. But hell maybe I will just give that guy done in the States a call and tell him that YOU and your army are waiting for those results and he is not working fast enough. He might listen . . or he may not.



A graduate thesis on suicide, masters? - don't lie. Well hell, I should tell this guy about that, too. I'm sure he would be on pins and needles to see what that says. I'd love to see how that graduate student deals with the independent variables compared to the study being conducted for AARC. I am sure they have 1/100th of the operating grant that AARC needed to get. And that AARC would not have UNLESS the guy heading this study was the one doing it because they don't just give that amount of money to any Joe/Joanne off the street and certainly not to  someone at the beginning of their career.



See, when your thesis requires collecting data and analysing it like the person you are talking about, graduate students get screwed compared to someone with 30 years in the area. Wrong and injust but, hey, I lived it and had to accept it when I did research for a thesis. You end up having to cut out a lot of variables which you know need to be in there but GD they just won't give you the kind of money ya need, the bastards . . .



jem

You don't need a weather man to know which way the wind blows. Here's a very simple excercise, time honored and mother approved, for finding out who folks are doing. Try having a reunion. Just look up all the former AARC clients you can find from the past couple of decades and invite them to spend a weekend at their own expense somewhere nearby. Oh, that's right! That can't happen becuase, just like The Seed, Straight, KIDS, KHK, SAFE, Growing Together, Pathway and other spin-offs of this B horror show, clients and former clients "in good standing" are not allowed to associate with anyone who's not considered to be in good standing. (Luv ya! Now drop dead!)

But, getting back to the original issue, you seemed to indicate that there actually is a credible, scientific, peer reviewed, study on AARC tactics available somewhere. Is that so? Would you care to give a little solid information about that?
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« Reply #8 on: October 24, 2002, 04:53:00 PM »
WEll, this will have to be the last post, to you and I am sure if I look at any retort from velvet, it will be even worse and I'll refer her here??!!!!!

This is how far I got reading your reply to my post, then stopped. Don't have anymore time to bother  (now I can see why Dean would not) with someone that very obviously has no critical thinking skills and will continue to  . . . respond as I saw . . I got this far:

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On 2002-10-23 03:39:00, TheFACTS about DEANV wrote: WEll, do you not know what an anecdote is??  

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Why, yes. Main Entry: an·ec·dote Pronunciation: 'a-nik-"dOt Function: noun Inflected Form(s): plural anecdotes also an·ec·dota /"a-nik-'dO-t&/ Etymology: French, from Greek anekdota unpublished items, from neuter plural of anekdotos unpublished, from a- + ekdidonai to publish, from ex out + didonai to give -- more at EX-, DATE Date: circa 1721 : a usually short narrative of an interesting, amusing, or biographical incident
YOUR opinion is created by the anecdotal information you laid out but that is all that is YOUR opinion [/quote] Essentially you're saying, then, that any of my own experience that contradicts your version of facts is anecdotal and, therefore, irrelavent? That's very interesting. Art and Straight always promoted the very same incorrect definition of the word. "
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SO, when I got there I realized this is a BIG waste of time and I am sure for ANYONE dealing with you, unless they are at the same level of cognitive ability, they would get frustrated quickly and if they could (i.e. they are not family, paid counsellors, some poor person in a store that can't run away) they would stop dealing with you and boldt as soon as they saw an opportunity. Plus, a quote from a colleague came to mind, which is "Don't argue with an idiot, you end up going to their level where they beat you with experience"  . . Now I feel I should explain that to you . .. but whatever, THE POINT IS I can see that this is futile, does your thinking come out of a gum ball machine???!!!

I am sorry I am being so harsh but you need to go to school, girlfriend. You are not stupid (I don't think maybe you are?) but you certainly would, at least, have some kind of reading comprehension skills and be able to read a dictionary, understand and apply it. I have no idea who "Art" is or care. But this has nothing to do with recovery or treatment or cousellors trying to brainwash you. THIS IS BASIC SKILLS of reading, understanding, and critical thinking. For now even, forget about the ability to debate.

I wish you well, I am sure you will try to be a thorn (maybe a pin prick) in the side of different organizations but I genuinely suggest you spend sometime on educating yourself rather than spending so much time on your obsession here. I am sure, or I know that atrocities can happen in treatment centers. The world has many unethical people, stupid people, self-centered people, even evil people etc. etc. and they work or exist in every walk of life. So, unjust things will happen. But wake up girl, life is finding that out, rising above it (NOT at all easy) and living. If you feel you must continue on this path at least get educated to use the intelligience ya have and your fight will be more effective. THis is not lofty academic arrogance, I just realized I have been where you are and I had to do the same thing. I still get fucked over in life by differnt kinds of people who have the opportunity to do it, but I can see it with more clarity and deal with the institute, person, system a lot better to protect myself and sometimes to set things in motion to protect others.  Good luck and good bye.
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« Reply #9 on: October 24, 2002, 09:23:00 PM »
"I am sure, or I know that atrocities can happen in treatment centers."

I wonder what his deffinition of "atrocities" is. I guess mine would be invasion of privacy, such as reading peoples letters or diary without permission. Or  maybe unlawful confinement, such as holding someone against their will, all the while telling them they legally have the right to. Or maybe denying someone the right to have a lawyer. Or not allowing a pregnant teenager to go to a doctor until she is in laybor, thus denying her medical treatment and the right to choose during her entire term. Or telling people who have been raped that it was the fault of their "disease", not the rapist. Or taking years out of a childs life to help them "recover" while at the same time denying them the right to lead a normal life developing in the outside world. Or turning the heat off, or far down in a Calgary Winter while enforcing a dress code that doesn't allow warm enough clothing to make up for the lack of heat, all the while comfortably heating the staff portion of the building. Or putting kids in shackles and telling them it's for their own good. Or using insults and yelling as a form of "therapy". Or allowing improperly trained people to use regression therapy, or using regression therapy daily, even 7 times daily. Or not allowing people time to be alone for months at a time. Or sending a child with no parental support out onto the streets in the middle of the winter without setting up foster care or some form of housing arrangement for her. Or terminating peoples parents and not telling the children why. Or denying people religious rights, or any civil rights for that matter. Or telling homosexual/bisexual people that they are sick and they have to recover from their illness or "behavior". Or "blasting" someone moments after they slit their rists....

I guess an awful lot of things come to my mind when I hear the word "atrocities". Sadly there are a lot more ideas from where those came from.
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« Reply #10 on: April 29, 2007, 08:27:42 PM »
This is another hilarious post.  "AADAC wouldn't provide any funding to AARC".  Luckily, they got "spanked in the legislature".  Dean, or the Wizard of Vause, is a relentless guy.  I wouldn't use the word smart, because no matter how long he tells the lie, he is only qualified to coach dodgeball, not treat psychological nor psychiatric nor any other kind of disorder.  AARC was sold, and I mean sold, in the legislature by Diane Komodorosh.  To accomplish this sale, testimonies were presented by a number of people calling themselves "doctors", similar to the Speedy Creek Pervert.  Most of these decidedly non-doctors were from the Union Institue.  (If you want to see something funny, look at the message from Union's president once you google The Wiz and Union.  The lady has a portait of her mom that looks like 1940s era erotica)  One was a free enterprise expert from the Yankee Institute, and the stand-out as far as actually being a Medical Doctor, Ray Wheredoesaguypickuphischeckbaker, approved of AARC based on it's funding set-up.  
Apparently AARColytes are able to easily dismiss the fact that the Wiz has zero, as in absolutely none, qualifications to look after anybody's kids under the guise of treatment.  
The Wiz knows this, which is why he LIES about being a psychologist.  The Wiz, like many psychopaths, observes humans.  He knows where power lies, which is why he is a jocksniffer and lies about being a doctor.  But at his core, he is just a greedy, power craving pervert.
Once AARC is closed, he will try again somewhere else.  Think of him as mould.  
As I asked earlier, what is the relationship of the Wiz to Miroshaurus?
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