Note For Devlin Graves
Mr. Graves, you could not have made a better case for posting anomalously than your most recent submission.
I assume from the demeanor of your posts, you are a teen-ager or young adult. What you may not fully appreciate is the impression your posts have on adults. Far from having us think badly of teen recovery programs, we tend to think that someone like you cut his stay too short.
If your goal is to vent with your fellow psychologically damaged adolescents, then your postings -- and those of your compatriots -- admirably serve that objective. However, you might want to private-password your site so we adults don't read what you have to say to one another. Comments such as you have made only self-marginalize your criticism of teen recovery programs. Actually, I believe that many such programs may well be badly run and that many parents send their teens to inappropriate programs.
However, your comments will never convince an adult -- the actual parties who send the teens off to these schools -- that they are not worthy of serious consideration as alternatives to dealing with self-destructive teens.
The other problem with your and many other's posts, assuming you are trying to reach adults with troubled teens, is your failure to propose any alternatives. The standard rejoinder to a parent with a troubled teen is something along the lines of you-parent-must-have-been-bad-to-the-teen, or the like. Such comments simply are written off, serving as reinforcement by adults for the need to have their teen sent to boot camp.
So, Mr. Graves, the long and the short of it all is this: The hostile and vituperative posts of you and your fellow forum members serve to feed more teens into the boot camp programs you so loath. Adults see what you and others like you have to say (and the sad English in which you try to express yourselves) and form the conclusion that if they only send their son or daughter off to boot camp they can save them from turning out like you. In fact, I have referred two business associates with troubled teens to this website. One, after reading the various posts has sent his daughter off to a boot camp program. The other is still thinking about whether or not to send his son. Tonight I e-mailed him to read your most recent posting.
Thank about it Mr. Graves; how many of your posts have convinced parents like myself that their teens' need more marching and push-ups than therapy? You just may well be the Bundy's best friends.
Mr. Graves, I like you after all. You do serve an admirable purpose on this earth.
Your Friend, Nemo