I sought the least invasive methods of health care for my kids. Perhaps they didn't mind because they grew up with it. We treated most things at home with the guidance of a naturopath. I practiced prevention so fortunately they didn't require much 'medical' attention, and they were the healthiest kids of their peers. They weren't plagued with allergies, colds, viruses, flu like the others. I adopted the philosophy: The best defense is a good offense and focused on good nutrition to build a healthy immune system. Our bodies are really quiet remarkable healing machines if we give them what they needs to work properly.
I don't have experience with NAET, but I do have some experience with kinesiology. I was skeptical. Reading or hearing testimonials didn't convince me- I had to conduct my own experiment. It happened that a friend of mine was a practioner, so I wrote down some questions for her to ask my daughter who was to be the subject in my experiment. They were things that I knew the answers to, but my friend did not. Some of the questions my daughter didn't even know the answer to. My friend would read the question to herself, not aloud, and test my daughter for the yes/no answer. After each test I'd read the question out loud to my daughter. No exaggeration, it was 100% accurate. My daughter was even blown away. Like anything, there is the potential for error, especially if the question is not phrased correctly, or the practioner is lame or has there own agenda.
If you were my daughter and I was convinced that it was the most effective and least invasive with no side-effects, I would want to explore with you what exactly it was that you didn't like about it. How long did the dr say it would take to see improvement? Have you had any improvement? Are you willing to stick it out for the recommended length of time? Have you compared the method with traditonal allergy treatment? Do you not like being touched in general, or by this particular dr? Might you be more comfortable with a different dr?
As I was writing it ocurred to me that you probably weren't allowed to participate in the decision making. I'm wondering if that is what you are most upset about?
If I were in your situation, I'd do some research on my options. Show the research to my mom and tell her which method of treatment I prefered, and hope she would honor my request. Short of that, I guess you're stuck with the NAET doc. If that's the case, I'm sorry you aren't allowed to be more involved in choices that concern you.
Hope it goes well.