Or the inverse, if you apply extreme pressure and control, and upon failing at that, lock her into thought reform "rehab", you run a big risk of losing her forever.
The voodoo treatment modality popularized by the Seed just doesn't work for most people and harms far more people than it helps. Its legacy is increased drug abuse, torn families, suicides, emotional grief, and social isolation.
Oh yeah, and the occasional person that contributes being "straight" to the seed and is thankfull for being locked up in a cult as a teenager. Funny thing, you get the same reaction from all cults, from scientology to hari krisna, from synanon to the moonies, some will deny they were in a cult and will look fondly back on the days spent there.
The human mind is very interesting.