The victims of Straight can no longer go "home."
We're talking about the difference between Iraq and the United States here. As adults now, it?s our responsibility to make out own homes. Besides, we did go to "homes" every single night. They may not have been a great home with great surroundings and great people, but it wasn't war prison.
I will never deny that our experiences in Straight were bad, and some horrific, but do you think any of those Iraqis get the choice as an adult to go to counseling or therapy now? Do certain victims have the choice, or freedom to take their abusers to court for millions of dollars? Do we live in a world that is crumbling around us, with death everywhere, and no order?
Not many of us had a good childhood/teenhood. For most of us, it was directly related to a place called Straight, Inc. Still, after Straight, we always had the freedom to grow, learn, and make choices for ourselves. Not all of us have the families we wanted, (or who wanted us) and a lot of us come from broken homes, but I wouldn't blame 100% of that on Straight, Inc. After all, isn't it up to our parents to investigate places like this before just dropping us off? Sure, Straight used strong, fear-manipulation tactics to get us in the front door, but ultimately wasn?t it our parents who threw us out of our homes to begin with? We weren't just arrested and thrown in prison. Our parents put us there.
I know the suicide numbers, and I know the suffering. I've been through it, and have lived to tell about it. I also know that I have my own home today, and I have my own family. I've moved on to let myself heal, and grow up. I?ve received years of therapy, and stopped making bad decisions. The way I see it, if Straight is still torturing you now, that?s something internal. Take a chance, move on. We?re nothing like the people in Iraq who may never know the difference.