wow........Yvonne, Mandy - I went through my phases with Mandy....well - one of the times anyway. I was in LIFE from the end of 85 - till when I turned 18 in 1988.....hearing some of the staffs names was strange. I am from West Palm Beach and recently drove to Sarasota....took a ride to the "building" I actually have some digital camera pics of it (if interested I'll e-mail them to you.) Could almost hear the singing when I walked up to the building.....Its now some kind of furniture store...It was closed when I was there...kinda glad though.....didnt wanna really go in. I've read over some of the postings in the L.I.F.E. / Growing together Forum...and I guess I'm a bit disapointed. I asked for LIFE/Growing togther to be added as a Forum/Topic so maybe some ex lifers could talk...or whatever. Looks like its basically a debate column of which place treated people worse..."anonymous" rantings on how great the program was blah blah blah.....who cares. It effected us however - emotionally - phyically blah blah blah......so IF you dont care for what is being shared here then move the hell on.....I'm not even THAT BORED to entertain myself with arguing some mute point.....but really,,,,can you say that sitting on wooden church pughs 10 &1/2 hours a day, motivating, I myself was sent to "time out" in a 6 x 6 room for 5 days. And yes I was denied bathroom privledges...wore the same clothes for days- had 104 fever and just kept in the "clinic" with hardly an aspiren....told I was a piece of shit and this is why Ive lost ALL privledges in life...such as walking around,,,not having to ASK to pick things up "can I stand up" " Can I brush my hair" having to sleep in the same bed with some freak wacking off......and these are just a few memories..but hey IF that didnt effect you at all and you feel it was a positive time in your life then GOOD FOR YOU!....maybe you were the freak in the room w/ me. (oh and by the way....cracking on my spelling / grammatical errors wont bother me) but you can waste your time if you want....