Author Topic: Former Hyde School students now DECEASED - Total deaths is over 160!!! (Read 35288 times)

survivorami · « **on:** May 29, 2021, 12:37:54 AM »

These are former Hyde students who have passed away since leaving Hyde School (at least, these are the ones that a handful of us are aware of). One of them (James Roman) died at Hyde in the 1980's during a basketball game of a brain aneurysm allegedly caused by a heart condition that he didn't know he had (however, Hyde often dismisses student complaints about physical ailments, and there is tremendous pressure to not complain about them at all - "Suck it up!" is a favorite saying by coaches, proctors, other faculty, and even fellow brainwashed students - a willingness to continue workouts through severe pain, tears, and vomiting is required to be considered 'on-track', so whether James had actually experienced warning symptoms from his condition prior to the incident that caused his death is unknown).

Out of the over 150 former students with a known/specified cause of death:
- Over 35 of them passed away from drug overdose or substance-related complications
- Over 25 confirmed suicides
- Over 20 accidents (land vehicle, boat, hiking, falling, etc.)
- Over 12 listed as "at home", "suddenly" or "unexpectedly" with no other explanation
- About 12 health (assumed non-mental-health-or-substance-use-related) causes (cancer, kidney disease, etc.)
- 2 military deaths
- 2 by homocide
- 1 died during a robbery, exact cause unknown (to us)
- Over 42 are unknown/unspecified

About 153 of them passed between 1999-2021.

111 of them passed at age 30 or under.

Name, age at passing (if known):
Austin Allard 21
Don Anthony 23
Chris Baldwin 23
Travis Ballew 23
William Barber 35
Mark Bello 28
Daniel Bennett 23
Brian Bernstein 18
Cintheia Berry 34
Mark Blevins 40
Jeff Boiselle 26
Marissa Borsani 34
Mary "Angelle" Boutwell 29
Chris Bowman 28
Tony Bradley 39
Carol Anne Brown 18
Jennifer Buhler 31
Ben Burlock 20
Virgil Buzzell 36
Nina Carbone 23
Laura Carr 19
Shonali "Shona" Chakrabarti 31
Joshua Christensen 38
Francis Clappsa 22
John Coggins 17
Michelle Correa 42
Deirdre Cotter 51
Ben Cowley 30
Michael Crean 27
Robert Crowe 55
Andrea "Cookie" Crute 26
Sarah Da Rosa 41
Patrick Damon 41
Haden "Hootie" Daras 18
Christian Darling 19
Andrew "Drew" Dean-Lipson 19
John James "Jimmy" Denault 24
Adam Dern 29
Ari Diaconis 33
Chris *Just* Dietz 21
Andrew Dillenkofer 19
Alexandra "Alexa" Dublikar 39
Jason "James" Dunbar 34
Dillon Dwyer 26
Robert Ebling 22
Scott Elkin 26
Greg Epilone 28
Adam Frankel 21
Adam Freed 33
Caleb French 20
Todd French 18
Mike Garber 27
Laura Golden 38
Eric Alan Gottung 24
Stuart Granek 21
Charles Green 32
Josh Gulbrandsen 33
George Hammond 20
Dale Hardegen 30
Kenyatta Hasan 39
Christopher Henson 34
John Hickey 22
Maia Hightower 25
Preston Holetz 23
Mark Hoover 37
Christopher Hopperstad 39
Max Horowitz 23
Daniel Jaye 40
Carly Jensen 30
Nathan Jewell 39
Larquette Johnson 29
Steven Jones 54
Sean Kadagian 27
Ina Kaltenhauser Gary 41
Jon Kaplan 29
Leo Keisman 21
John Kelly
Nicholas Kendall 43
Todd Kern 38
Sage Kiesel 25
Abby Kraftowitz 33
Travis Krogh 29
Mason Latham 16
Megan Lavin 26
Craig Leidner 27
Sam Levinsohn 19
Ned Levy 25
Madelyn Linsenmeir 30
Andrew Llewellyn 23
Karlena "Karlee" MacKenzie 29
Mia Maisel 27
Kevin Mateczun 16
Chris Mauger
Brian McConnell 27
Frank McGill 20
Daniel "Magoo" Mclaughlin 20
Sterling Mclemore 21
Michael McMillan 46
Nik Michaud 23
Maggie Miller 18
Michael Mindell 39
David Mitchell
Patrick Modern 28
Christopher Moran 53
Nick Mortazavi 20
Darius Moshfegh 30
Stephen Mueller 47
Robert Mulholland 54
Mike Noonan 35
Noelle Norris Chase 52
Alexander O'Connor 43
Kyle O'Keefe 21
Kerry O'Leary 25
Francis O'Neill 19
Jon Ogan 23
Margaret "Meg" Orchard-Hays Ferguson 54
Pat Parisi 21
Adam Patterson 30
Joey Perna 32
Adam Pollock 29
Justin Pratt 28
Luke Prendergast 19
Michael Ragin 26
Alexandra Raineault 22
Sam Rauschenbush 20
Benjamin Reagan 25
William "Tyler" Reed 22
Doug Reilly
James Roman 14 (Died while at Hyde)
Nathaniel Rother 27
Robin Roynon 26
Hal Rubin 23
Adrij "Dee" Rudko 45
Anton Safonov 20
David Sandelli 34
Marianne Sapienza 24
Kevin Sargent 34
Andrew "Moose" Sayre 29
Alex Schneider 27
Ryan Scioli 19
Cynthia Silverman 29
Joseph "Joe" Slattery 47
Donny Small
Andrew Smith 24
Caitlin Snaith 33
Daniel Spiegel 35
Jon Starets 29
Bradley Steele 51
Doug Steen 21
Timothy "Shane" Stemple 21
Martina "Tina" Takami 30
Scott Thomas 29
Flo Tissandier 20
Alexander Tyler 21
Larry Uras, 18
Alex Vance 29
Alessandro "Al" Vico 21
Jeremy Viebrooks 38
Laura Vines 20
Chelsea Vinton 23
Jonathon "JJ" Vitaletti 38
LC Wagley 22
Reinhold Taylor Wappler 35
William "Billy" Watts 20
Christopher Wells 19
Stefan White 28
John "Johnny" Wimble 24
Ian Worth 19
Jesse Wright 24
Mike Yedid 20
Larry Yerys 19
James Michael Ziede 27

Steve Dupont, missing since 2003 (since age 23)

More names listed in posts further down ⬇️⬇️⬇️

It's quite upsetting that for a school who claims to "be with you for life," Hyde and the Gaulds and all the spouses/relatives of the Gaulds (who have run and profited from the school for over 50 years by charging parents a lot of money and offering "help" to their troubled teens) do nothing to publicly acknowledge the passings of the vast majority of these former students on their website or anywhere else.

May they rest in peace.

Correction:
Kevin Jones 21 probably attended Hyde Leadership Charter School in CT.

Funeral service, memorial services, celebration of life, passed away, untimely death, in memoriam, condolences, with regret, in loving memory, in memory of

survivorami · « **Reply #1 on:** May 29, 2021, 01:23:00 AM »

survivorami · « **Reply #2 on:** May 29, 2021, 08:46:15 PM »

Regarding above post about the death of 14 year old James Roman that happened at Hyde School on the basketball court:

One of them (James Roman) died at Hyde in the 1980's during a basketball game of a brain aneurysm allegedly caused by a heart condition that he didn't know he had (however, Hyde often dismisses student complaints about physical ailments, and there is tremendous pressure to not complain about them at all - "Suck it up!" is a favorite saying by coaches, proctors, other faculty, and even fellow brainwashed students - a willingness to continue workouts through severe pain, tears, and vomiting is required to be considered 'on-track', so whether James had actually experienced warning symptoms from his condition prior to the incident that caused his death is unknown).

It's confirmed on another thread that James had an enlarged heart.

Well, to be fair, James (after the autopsy) was revealed to have an enlarged heart. According to the medical folks, that pumped too much blood to his brain, which caused the condition. (From here: https://www.fornits.com/phpbb/index.php?topic=22965.15)

From Web MD:

Symptoms of cardiomegaly:

Sometimes, an enlarged heart causes no symptoms. If it becomes unable to pump blood well enough, you may get symptoms of congestive heart failure, such as:

Shortness of breath (especially when active or when lying flat)
Leg swelling
Weight gain, particularly in your midsection
Tired feeling
Palpitations or skipped heartbeats
Some folks may never have symptoms. Others may have little things that don’t change for years. Still others may have shortness of breath that steadily gets a little worse.

Warning signs of a brain aneuryism:
A brain aneurysm that has not ruptured often does not cause any symptoms and may not pose an immediate health risk, especially if the aneurysm is small.

Over time, an aneurysm may grow larger and press up against delicate nerves and tissue in the brain. If this occurs, you may gradually experience one or more of the following symptoms:
-headache
-pain above or behind one eye
-blurred or double vision
-difficulty speaking or swallowing
-numbness or weakness on one side of the body, including the face, an arm or leg
-seizures

Warning signs of sudden cardiac arrest:

Recognizing the warning signs of sudden cardiac arrest is also important. If your child experiences any of the following, he or she should see a pediatric cardiologist for an extensive cardiac evaluation:
-Chest pain or discomfort during physical activity
-Fainting or near fainting without warning or during physical activity
-Seizure without warning or during physical activity
-Excessive fatigue associated with exercise
-They also have Unusually fast heart rate or rhythm with an unknown cause

It's also stated that sometimes a person with an enlarged heart has no symptoms, but sometimes they do. If James did have symptoms and complained, they likely would have been mostly ignored by faculty (as per their standard protocol that I and nearly everyone I know who has gone to Hyde over the span of multiple decades experienced while there), and/or he would have likely felt extreme pressure to not complain about them. Complaining about physical pain, discomfort, and other problematic physical symptoms is treated as a weakness of character. Kids who complain of pain and other physical issues are told that they are lying/exaggerating/making excuses, not putting in effort, "that's bullshit", "suck it up", etc. over and over while being forced to play on extremely demanding sports teams, subjected to brutal punishment workouts, etc. I believe that the only qualified medical personnel ever employed by Hyde School was a registered nurse, or a lower level nurse. A nurse was not available at all times, and they aren't trained to diagnose and treat medical conditions. Children were given no other access to medical resources, short of calling 911 on one of the sparsely placed payphones, or maybe if parents requested, or if a teacher or the med nurse decided to take complaints very very seriously..

The only way to know if James ever complained of symptoms would be to ask his friends/roommates/people who were with him at the time about it (if they would even remember those details). Otherwise we can only wonder. All of this is speculation based on what I know of the place.

katfacehead89 · « **Reply #3 on:** May 31, 2021, 03:31:58 PM »

James was also supposedly a foster kid so it’s doubtful that he had dependable guardians or parents to complain about symptoms to or to ensure regular and diagnostic checkups! I wonder if Hyde was receiving state funds for james’ tuition since he was in the foster system. So sad how many have died!

katfacehead89 · « **Reply #4 on:** June 07, 2021, 12:24:52 AM »

Ari Diaconis, 33

Woodstock 2003

https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nytimes/obituary.aspx?n=ari-j-diaconis&pid=188045892

survivorami · « **Reply #5 on:** September 20, 2021, 08:15:09 PM »

just fyi these are people who all went to Hyde School, that's what they have in common - and are passed away. This isn't meant to imply what did or didn't cause their deaths, since there is a plethora of varying reasons and causes. It's not meant to imply that Hyde caused any of them, although there are questions (though only speculation, not proof) about James Roman since he did die AT Hyde. IMO just because Hyde has a basketball tourney every year in his memory doesn't negate that they have an alleged history of not taking medical complaints seriously, and James dropped dead suddenly of a medical condition at just 14. The pattern of so many deaths from such a small place, so young, is pretty concerning. Granted, Hyde did recruit "troubled" kids that imo it often wasn't equipped to truly help, so maybe those kids had higher risk rates for dying young anyway due to their pre-existing issues. But also, don't offer to help to parents that you can't give in any sort of verifiable way. Hyde is trying very hard now to shake their "troubled teen industry" label: https://web.archive.org/web/20240117215751/http://web.archive.org/screenshot/https://www.hyde.edu/about/todays-hyde

Warren Press, died in Afghanistan in the 70's (late teens or early 20s?) from Chicago area

James Michael Ziede, 27, died in August 2021, suddenly/unexpectedly while on a trip

https://massapequafuneralhome.com/obituary/james-michael-ziede/

katfacehead89 · « **Reply #6 on:** November 09, 2021, 04:59:30 AM »

Josef Hunter, late 30's, heart attack, Bath in the late 90's

katfacehead89 · « **Reply #7 on:** December 04, 2021, 08:33:38 PM »

Kyle Anderson, Woodstock, 30, unexpectedly https://obits.masslive.com/us/obituaries/masslive/name/kyle-anderson-obituary?id=31574803

Tyler Longland, 36, stroke and health problems, Woodstock https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/scituate-ma/tyler-longland-10467225

survivorami · « **Reply #8 on:** December 22, 2021, 05:31:55 AM »

Joey Perna, 32, Woodstock, mid 2000s.. https://www.gofundme.com/f/63hnq-please-help-for-this-boy

https://obituaries.neptunesociety.com/obituaries/austin-tx/giuseppe-perna-10507876

survivorami · « **Reply #9 on:** December 30, 2021, 05:11:47 AM »

Ryan Connelly, ~22, Bath, -2009-2010ish
https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/bostonglobe/name/ryan-connolly-obituary?id=7744853

survivorami · « **Reply #10 on:** February 15, 2022, 04:16:36 AM »

Steve Menzies, 36 https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/pompano-beach-fl/stephen-menzies-10566202

survivorami · « **Reply #11 on:** May 17, 2022, 04:43:44 AM »

John Spira - aka "Chicago Johnny" - missing since 2007 - https://truecrimedaily.com/2017/03/17/where-is-missing-musician-chicago-johnny-john-spira-disappears-under-suspicious-circumstances/

https://www.facebook.com/missingjohnspira

survivorami · « **Reply #12 on:** May 17, 2022, 04:55:15 AM »

Alex Angelini, 21 - https://www.eastbayri.com/barrington/stories/alexander-michael-angelini-21-barrington,95243?

Hunter Simmons, around 1991, Bath, age 18 or 19

Courtney Gill, 29 - https://deathobits.com/2022/04/07/courtney-gill-obituary-death-courtney-gill-funeral-and-burial-arrangements

Zachary Filippo, 20 https://cbs12.com/news/local/crash-shuts-down-jog-road-in-boca-raton

Lindsay Vogel Blackwell, 38
https://www.echovita.com/us/obituaries/ct/orange/lindsay-blackwell-14287630?

Nick Fogle 38 Woodstock https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/arlington-va/nicholas-fogle-10842495

Robert Andrew (Drew) Mulderig, 34 https://www.legacy.com/uk/obituaries/theroyalgazette/name/robert-mulderig-obituary?pid=201061651

Luke Locatell, Bath 2010, passed 9/9/2022 at the age of 30

Ellis Heyer (?07 Woodstock), age 21 https://pdxinjurylaw.com/vehicle-crash-highway-58-kills-two/ and https://www.ancientfaces.com/person/ellis-michael-heyer-birth-1989-death-2011/6459203

survivorami · « **Reply #13 on:** June 23, 2022, 05:02:27 AM »

survivorami · « **Reply #14 on:** July 17, 2022, 03:34:20 AM »

David Valek 48 https://www.gracelandfairlawn.com/m/obituaries/David-Velek-32963/Memories

Alexander Perry 44 https://htried.github.io/opioid-journalism/html/portraits_of_grief_alex_perry.html

Howard (Howie) Kleinberg, 46, heart attack https://www.thetealmango.com/news/top-chef-star-howard-kleinberg-passes-away-at-46/

Michael Lopez, 34, died in Rikers https://www.thecity.nyc/2022/7/31/23284527/latest-rikers-death-mental-health-and-oversight-jail

Andre pinel (class of 72)

John roger Jennings (graduated 75)

Diamond Brown, 23 or 24 https://youtu.be/mVxkYkwu-cc

Jayne Perlman, early 20's. Attended Hyde in the 80's.

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