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Former Hyde School students now DECEASED - Total deaths is over 160!!!

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survivorami:
These are former Hyde students who have passed away since leaving Hyde School (at least, these are the ones that a handful of us are aware of). One of them (James Roman) died at Hyde in the 1980's during a basketball game of a brain aneurysm allegedly caused by a heart condition that he didn't know he had (however, Hyde often dismisses student complaints about physical ailments, and there is tremendous pressure to not complain about them at all - "Suck it up!" is a favorite saying by coaches, proctors, other faculty, and even fellow brainwashed students - a willingness to continue workouts through severe pain, tears, and vomiting is required to be considered 'on-track', so whether James had actually experienced warning symptoms from his condition prior to the incident that caused his death is unknown).
 
Out of the over 150 former students with a known/specified cause of death:
- Over 35 of them passed away from drug overdose or substance-related complications
- Over 25 confirmed suicides
- Over 20 accidents (land vehicle, boat, hiking, falling, etc.)
- Over 12 listed as "at home", "suddenly" or "unexpectedly" with no other explanation
- About 12 health (assumed non-mental-health-or-substance-use-related) causes (cancer, kidney disease, etc.)
- 2 military deaths
- 2 by homocide
- 1 died during a robbery, exact cause unknown (to us)
- Over 42 are unknown/unspecified

About 153 of them passed between 1999-2021.

111 of them passed at age 30 or under.  :'(

Name, age at passing (if known):
Austin Allard 21
Don Anthony 23
Chris Baldwin 23
Travis Ballew 23
William Barber 35
Mark Bello 28
Daniel Bennett 23
Brian Bernstein 18
Cintheia Berry 34
Mark Blevins 40
Jeff Boiselle 26
Marissa Borsani 34
Mary "Angelle" Boutwell 29
Chris Bowman 28
Tony Bradley 39
Carol Anne Brown 18
Jennifer Buhler 31
Ben Burlock 20
Virgil Buzzell 36
Nina Carbone 23
Laura Carr 19
Shonali "Shona" Chakrabarti 31
Joshua Christensen 38
Francis Clappsa 22
John Coggins 17
Michelle Correa 42
Deirdre Cotter 51
Ben Cowley 30
Michael Crean 27
Robert Crowe 55
Andrea "Cookie" Crute 26
Sarah Da Rosa 41
Patrick Damon 41
Haden "Hootie" Daras 18
Christian Darling 19
Andrew "Drew" Dean-Lipson 19
John James "Jimmy" Denault 24
Adam Dern 29
Ari Diaconis 33
Chris *Just* Dietz 21
Andrew Dillenkofer 19
Alexandra "Alexa" Dublikar 39
Jason "James" Dunbar 34
Dillon Dwyer 26
Robert Ebling 22
Scott Elkin 26
Greg Epilone 28
Adam Frankel 21
Adam Freed 33
Caleb French 20
Todd French 18
Mike Garber 27
Laura Golden 38
Eric Alan Gottung 24
Stuart Granek 21
Charles Green 32
Josh Gulbrandsen 33
George Hammond 20
Dale Hardegen 30
Kenyatta Hasan 39
Christopher Henson 34
John Hickey 22
Maia Hightower 25
Preston  Holetz 23
Mark Hoover 37
Christopher Hopperstad 39
Max Horowitz 23
Daniel Jaye 40
Carly Jensen 30
Nathan Jewell 39
Larquette Johnson 29
Steven Jones 54
Sean Kadagian 27
Ina Kaltenhauser Gary 41
Jon Kaplan 29
Leo Keisman 21
John Kelly
Nicholas Kendall 43
Todd Kern 38
Sage Kiesel 25
Abby Kraftowitz 33
Travis Krogh 29
Mason Latham 16
Megan Lavin 26
Craig Leidner 27
Sam Levinsohn 19
Ned Levy 25
Madelyn Linsenmeir 30
Andrew Llewellyn 23
Karlena "Karlee" MacKenzie 29
Mia Maisel 27
Kevin Mateczun 16
Chris Mauger
Brian McConnell 27
Frank McGill 20
Daniel "Magoo" Mclaughlin 20
Sterling Mclemore 21
Michael McMillan 46
Nik Michaud 23
Maggie Miller 18
Michael Mindell 39
David Mitchell
Patrick Modern 28
Christopher Moran 53
Nick Mortazavi 20
Darius Moshfegh 30
Stephen Mueller 47
Robert Mulholland 54
Mike Noonan 35
Noelle Norris Chase 52
Alexander O'Connor 43
Kyle O'Keefe 21
Kerry O'Leary 25
Francis O'Neill 19
Jon Ogan 23
Margaret "Meg" Orchard-Hays Ferguson 54
Pat Parisi 21
Adam Patterson 30
Joey Perna 32
Adam Pollock 29
Justin Pratt 28
Luke Prendergast 19
Michael Ragin 26
Alexandra Raineault 22
Sam Rauschenbush 20
Benjamin Reagan 25
William "Tyler" Reed 22
Doug Reilly
James Roman 14 (Died while at Hyde)
Nathaniel Rother 27
Robin Roynon 26
Hal Rubin 23
Adrij "Dee" Rudko 45
Anton Safonov 20
David Sandelli 34
Marianne Sapienza 24
Kevin Sargent 34
Andrew "Moose" Sayre 29
Alex Schneider 27
Ryan Scioli 19
Cynthia Silverman 29
Joseph "Joe" Slattery 47
Donny Small
Andrew Smith 24
Caitlin Snaith 33
Daniel Spiegel 35
Jon Starets 29
Bradley Steele 51
Doug Steen 21
Timothy "Shane" Stemple 21
Martina "Tina" Takami 30
Scott Thomas 29
Flo Tissandier 20
Alexander Tyler 21
Larry Uras, 18
Alex Vance 29
Alessandro "Al" Vico 21
Jeremy Viebrooks 38
Laura Vines 20
Chelsea Vinton 23
Jonathon "JJ" Vitaletti 38
LC Wagley 22
Reinhold Taylor Wappler 35
William "Billy" Watts 20
Christopher Wells 19
Stefan White 28
John "Johnny" Wimble 24
Ian Worth 19
Jesse Wright 24
Mike Yedid 20
Larry Yerys 19
James Michael Ziede 27

Steve Dupont, missing since 2003 (since age 23)

More names listed in posts further down ⬇️⬇️⬇️


It's quite upsetting that for a school who claims to "be with you for life," Hyde and the Gaulds and all the spouses/relatives of the Gaulds (who have run and profited from the school for over 50 years by charging parents a lot of money and offering "help" to their troubled teens) do nothing to publicly acknowledge the passings of the vast majority of these former students on their website or anywhere else.   

May they rest in peace.  :'(

Correction:
Kevin Jones 21 probably attended Hyde Leadership Charter School in CT.

Funeral service, memorial services, celebration of life, passed away, untimely death, in memoriam, condolences, with regret, in loving memory, in memory of

survivorami:
Obituaries - obituary or information regarding each former Hyde School student (now passed) if one has been found -

Austin Allard 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/austin-allard-obituary?pid=192065763&
Don Anthony 23 http://joycefuneralhome.tributes.com/condolences/view_memories/106241280#150805432
Chris Baldwin 23
Travis Ballew 23
William Barber 35 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/newsobserver/obituary.aspx?n=william-morris-barber&pid=187257415&fhid=30833
Mark Bello 28 https://www.tributearchive.com/obituaries/1768221/Mark-The-Babe-Bello
Daniel Bennett 23 http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/drbennett.htm
Brian Bernstein 18 http://www.tributes.com/obituary/show/Brian-M.-BERNSTEIN-88149425?
Cintheia Berry 34 https://obits.lohud.com/obituaries/lohud/obituary.aspx?n=cintheia-monique-berry&pid=149182355
Mark Blevins 40
Jeff Boiselle 26 https://www.murphyfuneralhome.com/obituary/140659
Marissa Borsani 34 https://obits.cleveland.com/obituaries/cleveland/obituary.aspx?n=marissa-i-borsani&pid=187229612&fhid=31725
Mary "Angelle" Boutwell 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/mary-boutwell-obituary?pid=159637855
Chris Bowman 28 https://obituaries.bangordailynews.com/obituary/christopher-bowman-1072935627
Tony Bradley 39
Carol Anne Brown 18 https://www.fornits.com/phpbb/index.php/topic,27330.0.html   Tribute video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ly6Vd95CgNA
Jennifer Buhler 31 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/stamfordadvocate/obituary.aspx?n=jennifer-buhler&pid=194465344&fhid=11211
Ben Burlock 20 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/sfgate/obituary.aspx?n=ben-burlock&pid=173231109
Also: https://www.lopa.org/heroes/benjamin-burlock and https://www.nola.com/news/crime_police/article_1b0435c3-2be8-5c33-815e-3d703d5cb031.html
Virgil Buzzell 36 https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/portland-me/virgil-buzzell-10196235
Nina Carbone 23 https://everloved.com/life-of/nina-catherina-carbone/obituary/
Laura Carr 17 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/89681645/laura-carr/photo
Shonali "Shona" Chakrabarti 31 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/shonali-chakrabarti-obituary?pid=162877964&page=2
Joshua Christensen 38 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/inquirer/obituary.aspx?n=joshua-r-christensen&pid=173965029
Francis Clappsa 22 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/greenwichtime/obituary.aspx?n=francis-claps&pid=190443018&fhid=7958
John Coggins 17 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/atlanta/obituary.aspx?n=john-coggins&pid=15505460&fhid=4911
Michelle Correa 42
Deirdre Cotter 51 https://obituaries.durangoherald.com/us/obituaries/durangoherald/name/deirdre-cotter-obituary?pid=198971081
Ben Cowley 30 https://www.tributearchive.com/obituaries/18930392/Benjamin-Hardy-Cowley/Louisville/Kentucky/Ratterman-Brothers-SRS
Michael Crean 27 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/michael-crean-obituary?pid=176416184
Robert Crowe 55 https://www.tributearchive.com/obituaries/17959122/Robert-E-Crowe
Andrea "Cookie" Crute 26 https://www.facebook.com/1271687631/posts/10215854542577771/?d=n
Sarah Da Rosa 41 http://www.tributes.com/obituary/show/Sarah-Adams-Pope-Da-Rosa-103437736
Patrick Damon 41 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/mainetoday-pressherald/obituary.aspx?pid=18191137
Haden "Hootie"? Daras 18 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nytimes/obituary.aspx?n=haden-daras&pid=176214225&fhid=2058
Christian Darling 19 https://whitting.com/tribute/details/669/Christian-Darling/obituary.html#tribute-start
Andrew "Drew" Dean-Lipson 19 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/recordonline/obituary.aspx?n=andrew-a-dean-lipson-drew&pid=88173675
John James "Jimmy" Denault 24 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/hartfordcourant/obituary.aspx?n=john-james-denault&pid=170681315&fhid=4107
Adam Dern 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/saltlaketribune/obituary.aspx?n=adam-s-dern&pid=152383916
Ari Diaconis 33 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nytimes/obituary.aspx?n=ari-j-diaconis&pid=188045892 and https://www.aridiaconis.com/#/highschool/
Chris Dietz 21
Andrew Dillenkofer 19 https://www.miznerfuneralhome.com/obituaries/obituary-listings?obId=2587333
Alexandra "Alexa" Dublikar 39 https://www.horancares.com/obituary/alexandra-alexa-dublikar
Jason "James" Dunbar 34 https://www.mercurynews.com/2011/05/26/memorial-may-27-in-lafayette-for-jason-dunbar-sous-chef-who-died-while-hiking-in-yosemite-2/
Dillon Dwyer 26 http://hosting-6776.tributes.com/obituary/show/Dillon-Patrick-Dwyer-102856953
Robert Ebling 22 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/stamfordadvocate/obituary.aspx?n=robert-w-ebling&pid=14659040
Scott Elkin 26 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/bostonglobe/obituary.aspx?n=scott-j-elkin&pid=87907684
Greg Epilone 28 https://www.echovita.com/us/obituaries/ca/irvine/gregory-epilone-jr-7413444
Adam Frankel 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/bostonglobe/obituary.aspx?n=adam-nathan-frankel&pid=190778778&fhid=8784
Adam Freed 33 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/214765701/adam-taylor-freed
Caleb French 20 http://riverafuneralhomes.frontrunnerpro.com/book-of-memories/656882/french-caleb/obituary.php
Todd French 18 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/229770183/todd-david-french
Mike Garber 27 https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/cleveland-heights-oh/michael-garber-7669432
Laura Golden 38 https://patch.com/connecticut/greenwich/laura-g-golden-38-daughter-greenwich-residents-0
Eric Alan Gottung 24 https://www.ancientfaces.com/person/eric-allan-gottung-birth-1986-death-2011/7280178
Stuart Granek 21 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/160992183/stuart-fredric-granek
Charles Green 32 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/210547690/charles-p.-green
Josh Gulbrandsen 33 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/joshua-gulbrandsen-obituary?pid=166626913
George Hammond 20 https://obituaries.salemnews.com/obituary/george-hammond-772280951
Dale Hardegen 30 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/lowellsun/obituary.aspx?pid=175495432
Christopher Henson 34 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/mansfieldnewsjournal/obituary.aspx?n=christopher-henson&pid=192412377&fhid=22471
John Hickey 22 https://www.mysticfuneralhome.com/obituary/1879213
Maia Hightower 25 https://journalism.berkeley.edu/maia-keyanna-hightower-johnson-1995-2021/
Preston Holetz 23 https://sfgov.org/sunshine/sites/default/files/SOTF090518_Item-8.pdf
Mark Hoover 37 https://keprtv.com/news/local/pasco-high-teacher-dies-suddenly-from-medical-emergency-at-37
Christopher Hopperstad 39 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/christopher-hopperstad-obituary?pid=196129543
Max Horowitz 23 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/northjersey/obituary.aspx?n=maxwell-horwitz&pid=165446587&fhid=14973&
Daniel Jaye 40
Carly Jensen 30 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/gjsentinel/obituary.aspx?n=carly-jensen&pid=192888456&fhid=203
Nathan Jewell 39 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/burlingtonfreepress/obituary.aspx?pid=185739561
Larquette Johnson 29 https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1cbodJraxWnXL9QprHpFa4jc29Nk9JnsitBI6S4XP1HY/edit#gid=0
Kevin Jones 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nhregister/obituary.aspx?n=kevin-jones&pid=184648480&fhid=15951 actually he probably attended Hyde Leadership Charter School in CT.
Steven Jones 54 https://www.andrefbakerfuneralhome.com/obituary/steven-jones
Sean Kadagian 27
Ina Kaltenhauser Gary 41 https://www.newjerseyhills.com/ina-kaltenhauser-gary-41-warren-resident-mother/article_7497f5bc-0b81-579c-a0ba-da62c1a8c0c1.html
Jon Kaplan 29 https://www.schlossbergchapel.com/individual.php?id=2051
Leo Keisman 21 https://www.facebook.com/100000092276697/posts/4318808981465468/?d=n
Nicholas Kendall 43 https://www.hollowayfuneralhomefl.com/obituary/Nicholas-Kendall/guest-book
Todd Kern 38 https://www.greenvalleymortuary.com/obituaries/Todd-Kern/
Sage Kiesel 25 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/sage-kiesel-obituary?pid=143344383&page=2
Abby Kraftowitz 33 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/postgazette/obituary.aspx?n=abby-kraftowitz&pid=194993677&fhid=9699
Travis Krogh 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/marinij/obituary.aspx?n=travis-krogh&pid=176064501
Mason Latham 16 https://obits.dallasnews.com/obituaries/dallasmorningnews/obituary.aspx?n=mason-charles-latham&pid=150002717&fhid=11533
Megan Lavin 26 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/115705929/megan-lavin
Craig Leidner 27 https://www.thompsonmemorial.net/index.php/obituaries/157-james-craig-leidner
Sam Levinsohn 19
Ned Levy 25 https://www.emkpress.com/pdffiles/POM%20final%20small%20copy.pdf
Madelyn Linsenmeir 30 https://www.sevendaysvt.com/vermont/madelyn-linsenmeir-1988-2018/Content?oid=21797604 and https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/woman-who-begged-medical-help-was-told-it-was-her-n1152276?cid=sm_npd_nn_fb_ma&
Andrew Llewellyn 23 https://www.genealogybuff.com/va/state/webbbs_config.pl/noframes/read/450
Karlena "Karlee" MacKenzie 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/lowellsun/obituary.aspx?n=karlena-a-mackenzie&pid=161853479
Mia Maisel 27
Kevin Mateczun 16 https://www.epilepsy.com/about-us/research-and-new-therapies/kevins-fellows/kevins-story
Chris Mauger  https://www.dailycamera.com/2009/08/15/accused-deserter-could-face-up-to-3-years-confinement/
Brian McConnell 27 https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/lohud/name/brian-mcconnell-obituary?id=22935767
Frank McGill 20 http://wcfish.tributes.com/obituary/show/Franklin-Wofford-McGill-85332205
Daniel "Magoo" Mclaughlin 20
Sterling Mclemore 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/montgomeryadvertiser/obituary.aspx?pid=156330618
Michael McMillan 46 https://www.ellsworthamerican.com/obituary/michael-mcmillen/
Nikolas Michaud 23 https://www.myheritage.com/names/nikolas_michaud
Maggie Miller 18 https://www.nytimes.com/2000/11/06/classified/paid-notice-deaths-miller-margaret-elizabeth.html
Michael Mindell 39 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/burlingtonfreepress/obituary.aspx?n=michael-leon-mindell&pid=166143645
David Mitchell
Patrick Modern 28 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/patrick-modern-obituary?pid=171375322
Nick Mortazavi 20 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/nicholas-mortazavi-obituary?pid=189663860
Darius Moshfegh 30 https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/16/books/ottessa-moshfegh-death-in-her-hands.html
Stephen Mueller 47
Robert Mulholland 54 https://obits.postandcourier.com/us/obituaries/charleston/name/robert-mulholland-obituary?pid=100380481
Mike Noonan 35 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/washingtonpost/obituary.aspx?n=michael-noonan&pid=194526190
Noelle Norris Chase 52 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/azcentral/obituary.aspx?n=noelle-b-chase&pid=164975643
Alexander O'Connor 43 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/alexander-o%27connor-obituary?pid=158275565
Kyle O'Keefe 21
Kerry O'Leary 25 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/kerry-o-leary-obituary?pid=179381591
Francis O'Neill 19 http://www.myhometownbronxville.com/index.php/obituaries/2868-frances-francie-catherine-cutting-oneill-dies-peacefully-on-june-13-2017-in-charleston-sc-at-age-19-funeral-service-thursday-june-22?
Jon Ogan 23 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/jonathan-ogan-obituary?pid=86432767
Pat Parisi 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/app/obituary.aspx?n=patrick-a-parisi&pid=154854076
Adam Patterson 30 https://www.websleuths.com/forums/threads/me-adam-patterson-30-portland-10-november-2015.388751/
Joey Perna 32 https://www.gofundme.com/f/63hnq-please-help-for-this-boy
Adam Pollock 29 https://obits.nj.com/obituaries/starledger/obituary.aspx?n=adam-pollack&pid=186926653&fhid=16990
Justin Pratt 28 https://heritagelifestory.com/obituaries/justin-pratt.118143
Luke Prendergast 19 https://patch.com/florida/clearwater/man-19-dead-after-shooting-himself-gun-range-cops
Michael Ragin 26 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/florencenews/obituary.aspx?n=michael-ragin&pid=2029153
Alexandra Raineault 22 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/thehour/obituary.aspx?pid=141347312
Sam Rauschenbush 20 https://patch.com/california/piedmont/remembering-sam-raushenbush?
Benjamin Reagan 25 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/washingtonpost/obituary.aspx?n=benjamin-d-reagan&pid=161715510
William "Tyler" Reed 22 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/mainetoday-pressherald/obituary.aspx?n=william-tyler-reed&pid=17013654
James Roman 14 https://www.fornits.com/phpbb/index.php/topic,22965.msg336117.html#msg336117
Nathaniel Rother 27 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/washingtonpost/obituary.aspx?n=nathaniel-a-rother&pid=134057817
Robin Roynon 26 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/219367713/robin-lee_hood-roynon
Hal Rubin 23 https://elem.org/donate/harold-rubin-memorial/
Adrij "Dee" Rudko 45 https://www.oldbridgefh.com/obituaries/Andrij-Rudko/#!/Obituary
Anton Safonov 20
David Sandelli 34
Marianne Sapienza 24
Kevin Sargent 34 https://obits.masslive.com/obituaries/masslive/obituary.aspx?n=kevin-m-sargent&pid=174967120&
Andrew "Moose" Sayre 29 https://www.fornits.com/phpbb/index.php/topic,23777.msg290919.html#msg290919
Alex Schneider 27 https://issuu.com/wfervor/docs/hyde_schools_destinydefined
Ryan Scioli 19 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/lubbockonline/obituary.aspx?n=anthony-ryan-scioli&pid=165408375&fhid=19536
Cynthia Silverman 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nytimes/obituary.aspx?n=cynthia-silverman&pid=194919046
Joseph "Joe" Slattery 47 http://www.obitcentral.com/obitsearch/obits/me/me-cumberland23.htm
Andrew Smith 24 https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/andrewsmithsmemorial
Caitlin Snaith 33 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/fitchburg/obituary.aspx?n=caitlin-virginia-elizabeth-snaith&pid=169872795&fhid=20758&
Daniel Spiegel 35 https://obits.nj.com/obituaries/starledger/obituary.aspx?pid=196170424
Jon Starets 29 https://www.facebook.com/jstarets
Bradley Steele 51 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/cincinnati/obituary.aspx?pid=173152767
Doug Steen 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/hartfordcourant/obituary.aspx?pid=157509321
Timothy "Shane" Stemple 21 https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/16542058/timothy-stemple
Martina "Tina" Takami 30 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/mainetoday-pressherald/obituary.aspx?n=martina-m-takami&pid=175525682
Scott Thomas 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/ctpost/obituary.aspx?n=scott-a-thomas&pid=115314007&fhid=4258
Flo Tissandier 20 https://www.facebook.com/thiago.vinholo/posts/10151463325351426
Alexander Tyler 21 https://www.post-gazette.com/news/obituaries/2011/03/10/Obituary-Alexander-Tyler-Former-Ohio-Wesleyan-student-killed-in-gun-mishap/stories/201103100749
Alex Vance 29 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/alex-vance-obituary?pid=187859475
Alessandro "Al" Vico 21 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/theithacajournal/obituary.aspx?n=alessandro-vico-al&pid=87918990
Jeremy Viebrooks 38 https://www.palmbeachmemorial.com/m/obituaries/Jeremy-Viebrooks/Memories
Laura Vines 20 https://www.genlookups.com/al/webbbs_config.pl/noframes/read/449
Chelsea Vinton 23 https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/name/chelsea-vinton-obituary?pid=163468522
Jonathon "JJ" Vitaletti 38 https://www.swbrownandson.com/memorials/jonathan-vitaletti/4478281/
LC Wagley 22 https://obittree.com/obituary/us/massachusetts/watertown/faggas-funeral-home/louisa-caroline-wagley/2954791/
Reinhold Taylor Wappler 35 https://www.pressherald.com/2021/03/24/obituaryreinhold-taylor-wappler/
William "Billy" Watts 20 https://www.beckerfuneralhomes.com/notices/William-CharlesWatts-III
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Stefan White 28 https://foresthillspost.com/man-struck-killed-by-lirr-train-in-forest-hills-on-sunday-mta?
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In the rising of the sun and in its going down,
we remember them.
In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,
we remember them.
In the opening of buds and in the rebirth of spring,
we remember them.
In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer,
we remember them.
In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn,
we remember them.
In the beginning of the year and when it ends,
we remember them.
When we are weary and in need of strength,
we remember them.
When we are lost and sick at heart,
we remember them.
When we have joys we yearn to share,
we remember them.
So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are now a part of us,
as we remember them.

-"A Litany of Remembrance", Rabbi Sylvan Kamens and Rabbi Jack Riemer

survivorami:
Regarding above post about the death of 14 year old James Roman that happened at Hyde School on the basketball court:

One of them (James Roman) died at Hyde in the 1980's during a basketball game of a brain aneurysm allegedly caused by a heart condition that he didn't know he had (however, Hyde often dismisses student complaints about physical ailments, and there is tremendous pressure to not complain about them at all - "Suck it up!" is a favorite saying by coaches, proctors, other faculty, and even fellow brainwashed students - a willingness to continue workouts through severe pain, tears, and vomiting is required to be considered 'on-track', so whether James had actually experienced warning symptoms from his condition prior to the incident that caused his death is unknown).

It's confirmed on another thread that James had an enlarged heart.

Well, to be fair, James (after the autopsy) was revealed to have an enlarged heart. According to the medical folks, that pumped too much blood to his brain, which caused the condition. (From here:  https://www.fornits.com/phpbb/index.php?topic=22965.15)

From Web MD:

Symptoms of cardiomegaly:
 
Sometimes, an enlarged heart causes no symptoms. If it becomes unable to pump blood well enough, you may get symptoms of congestive heart failure, such as:

Shortness of breath (especially when active or when lying flat)
Leg swelling
Weight gain, particularly in your midsection
Tired feeling
Palpitations or skipped heartbeats
Some folks may never have symptoms. Others may have little things that don’t change for years. Still others may have shortness of breath that steadily gets a little worse.


Warning signs of a brain aneuryism:
A brain aneurysm that has not ruptured often does not cause any symptoms and may not pose an immediate health risk, especially if the aneurysm is small.

Over time, an aneurysm may grow larger and press up against delicate nerves and tissue in the brain. If this occurs, you may gradually experience one or more of the following symptoms:
-headache
-pain above or behind one eye
-blurred or double vision
-difficulty speaking or swallowing
-numbness or weakness on one side of the body, including the face, an arm or leg
-seizures

Warning signs of sudden cardiac arrest:

Recognizing the warning signs of sudden cardiac arrest is also important. If your child experiences any of the following, he or she should see a pediatric cardiologist for an extensive cardiac evaluation:
-Chest pain or discomfort during physical activity
-Fainting or near fainting without warning or during physical activity
-Seizure without warning or during physical activity
-Excessive fatigue associated with exercise
-They also have Unusually fast heart rate or rhythm with an unknown cause

It's also stated that sometimes a person with an enlarged heart has no symptoms, but sometimes they do. If James did have symptoms and complained, they likely would have been mostly ignored by faculty (as per their standard protocol that I and nearly everyone I know who has gone to Hyde over the span of multiple decades experienced while there), and/or he would have likely felt extreme pressure to not complain about them. Complaining about physical pain, discomfort, and other problematic physical symptoms is treated as a weakness of character. Kids who complain of pain and other physical issues are told that they are lying/exaggerating/making excuses, not putting in effort, "that's bullshit", "suck it up", etc. over and over while being forced to play on extremely demanding sports teams, subjected to brutal punishment workouts, etc. I believe that the only qualified medical personnel ever employed by Hyde School was a registered nurse, or a lower level nurse. A nurse was not available at all times, and they aren't trained to diagnose and treat medical conditions. Children were given no other access to medical resources, short of calling 911 on one of the sparsely placed payphones, or maybe if parents requested, or if a teacher or the med nurse decided to take complaints very very seriously..

The only way to know if James ever complained of symptoms would be to ask his friends/roommates/people who were with him at the time about it (if they would even remember those details). Otherwise we can only wonder. All of this is speculation based on what I know of the place.

katfacehead89:
James was also supposedly a foster kid so it’s doubtful that he had dependable guardians or parents to complain about symptoms to or to ensure regular and diagnostic checkups! I wonder if Hyde was receiving state funds for james’ tuition since he was in the foster system. So sad how many have died!

katfacehead89:
Ari Diaconis, 33

Woodstock 2003

https://www.legacy.com/obituaries/nytimes/obituary.aspx?n=ari-j-diaconis&pid=188045892

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