Personally I don’t see any advantage to sending a child away to boarding school. I don’t see an advantage to sending a child away to school period or daycare. Even the local public/parochial school. Kids need to be with their family and parents, as much as possible, until the time they are ready to move out on their own. Kids don’t learn socialization from their friends, they learn it from their parents (or they should). Kids don’t need to be around other kids their own age. Its unnatural, life isn’t about hanging around people your own age. Its about hanging out with people who care about you and love you. We interact with people of all ages in life , not just those who were born within a year of each other. So why subject our kids to spending everyday with other strange kids their own age?
I agree that boarding schools can offer a great education and teach kids to be independent and future leaders. But it cannot teach kids to be happy and secure. Nor can it teach them that they are loved. Only family can teach and provide them with a safe environment.
If it were financially viable every kid should stay home and be homeschooled in my opinion and then move away when they are ready to fly whether that be 16 or 26.
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