My point being not to minimize any abuse that occurs in programs but merely to place it into perspective and to caution not give the false impression that programs are unsafe.
Oh, but your point *IS* to minimize any abuse that occurs in programs. The "impression" that PROGRAMS ARE UNSAFE is a true one!
Anytime you practice coercion as a form of behavior modification, not to mention put kids in control of other kids' progress or punishment, you're gonna have some "unintended consequences." And that is assuming the best of circumstances.[/b]
Ok, I have held back for a long time Ursus, reading your unsubstantiated, always outdated rubbish you throw up on these pages, your like looking at a "time warp of useless information" as to what is going on now, present time. Most of you here constantly regurgitate old info and try to correlate it to today. Never taking into consideration that the "new programs today", have learned from there outdated abusive ancestors. The programs that refuse to abandon the methodologies of the past are falling by the wayside, along with there abusive practices.
This whole concept that peer pressure is bad, Bla Bla Bla!!!!!, well get over it. Peer pressure is through out the entire working and social environment. For any of you who work for a living, try getting away from peer pressure. Try to skirt around being coerced by either your boss or fellow workers. Though it maybe subtle when it comes from workers, it is not by the boss. Your families practice a certain degree of coercion and punish you for unfulfilled chores/responsibilities.
Kids dealing with other kids, unless you were a only child and lived in a bubble, kids have been running a good deal of your adolescent life. If you played sports, boys scouts, any school drama, music, theater, debate team, political science teams, you would know about peer pressure and coercion, it is a part of adolescent life.
Most of these kids were talking about today have checked out of society, their suffering depression, there not going to school, some are taking drugs, acting out in a hostile manner.
Placing them in a setting where they will face peer pressure and coercion from other kids in a structured setting that is over seen by qualified staff is not a destructive measure.
Many kids need to be able to deal with these pressures to make it in society. Then begin to learn social skills, learn to stay engaged even when they feel like wanting to run away, learn that there self esteem does not need to be attached to how many kids like you or how they look at you, begin to believe that through hard work and working with others relationships are forged. They ascertain that they need people in order to discover knew ideas, they begin to trust there fellow workers/students.
WTNY said it well, he has no proof, he can not get inside and witness. What I have to ask myself, does anyone here have the credentials, schooling and practice to honor such a invitation. No company in there right mind would let just anybody wonder around their entity. You may ask, "well if they have nothing to hide", that is irresponsible and anyone with common sense knows this.
I suggest if you want into a certain program, go undercover, become a staff member. Find a way to get hired. It has been done before. Become a "whistle blower", take your case to the proper authorities.
Come on Ursus, DJ, Paul, None-Ya, Anne, Frodie, Buzz Kill, Che and the rest of you freedom fighters. Go get them, infiltrate. Put your ass where your mouth is.
I reckon that between all of you folks here, if you were to get hired on, could have at least 1/2 dozen programs shut down by this time next year. I say this because according to all you folks, every program out there is abusive.
So come on, get to work. I would surmise that in 3 maybe 4 years you folks should have all the major Corps. shut down and who knows how many independents.