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I AGREE WE NEED TO REFOCUS
Forgive me for being presumptuous but I'm not sure that's even possible until each of you can learn to have a little compassion or at least understanding towards each other. Those are far more powerful weapons than insults as there is much strength in cohesion and very little in chaos and division.
Why not just start with explaining how you got to this point. What caused you and the others to become so totally locked in this perpetual chaos?
No offense PSY but who gives you the right to judge me as not having compassion.
Not everything is a judgment or an attack on you personally. What I said is just a presumption; what I see to be true, and the basis of these conflicts. Take it or leave it.
I'm not trying to justify or excuse what was said to you. It's really not my concern. I'm less concerned with who said what first and to whom than I am with the fact that it just will not stop.
When you are attacked you have one of two options: to respond and escalate the situation, or to attempt to calm the situation by responding calmly, the way you would wish to be treated. People respond in kind, sometimes not immediately, but almost always given enough time. The only reason to not act in this way is if you do not want the conflict to stop.
There is
always a choice, and often it takes mores strength and conviction to say "that hurts, i'm sorry you feel that way", than it does to violently lash out and attack back, accomplishing nothing at all. Don't get me completely wrong. There is a time and a place for conflict, but not when it does nothing but further a neverending circle of violent reciprocity. Maybe you or others think you can fight until you drive all the others away who don't think like you or agree with you. It might work, but in the end nobody thinks alike so my prediction is that it would make for a very lonely existence.
Have you not looked at some of these others on here, they bring up such vile things and do instigate a reaction.
Maybe. And like I said there are two ways to deal with that.
It is appearent unless you can offer a forum that is fully censored at this point nothing will be accomplished.
Censored by whom? Who would run this hypothetical forum?
If you are discusted with behaviors then help us redirect instead of backing up the fools that just insut us repeatedly. If you are not or cannot offer a solution, than frankily for years you have enabled the problem. If you would extend yourself with helping us redirect this we will be more than happy to accomidate you.
I'm not sure I get what you're asking. Could you clarify?
