I am in desperate need of help for my 16 year old son Brandon. He started having problems a few years ago but things are out of control now, and he has been expelled from school. I need to find a school and treatment center to send him to, it is essential it be a combination of both and be a locked down facility with no possibility of escape. I am embarrassed to admit it but my son has turned into a sexual deviant despite my and my wife's best efforts to raise a good Christian young man.
Brandon is very intelligent and his psychiatrist says he is borderline genius. But how does Brandon use this God given gift? He uses his gift to manipulate people into performing sexual acts in ignorance. How does Brandon accomplish this deviance? He has admitted to us the first time he thought of doing this was during a physical examination when he was 12. The doctor did a full examination including cupping his balls and asking him to couch, and feeling the testicles for any signs of lumps or abnormalities. The doctor was a female, and Brandon told me he spontaneously ejaculated during this examination and was embarrassed, until the doctor told him it was fine and not to feel guilty, it happens all the time. I really wish the doctor would of let Brandon walk out of that office guilty, things might of turned out differently.
Over the course of the next few years Brandon used elaborate manipulations to get many people to touch his privates, and unknown to them Brandon was experiencing sexual pleasures from these encounters. He became addicted to this behavior and I didn't even find out about it until recently when I was called into a parent conference with the vice principal of his high school. I was told that Brandon had asked the nurse to feel his testicles because they hurt him and he thought he felt a lump. The nurse noticed he got excited and instead of being nice to Brandon and saying it's not a big deal, she accused him of deviance. He buckled under the scrutiny and admitted his deviant deeds for the past several years to the nurse, trying to play victim, but she didn't fall for it. They told me in the meeting we were lucky he isn't being reported as a sex offender and that he is immediately expelled and I should put him away to get treatment
Me and my wife are horribly embarrassed by this incident and we want to put this quietly behind us, and need information quickly about possible treatment and placement for Brandon. Thank you for taking the time to help our family.