Aspergers is a developmental disorder. It is an axis II disorder like mental retardation etc. However the smartest guy on Boston Legal, Jerry has aspergers, you know the guy with the wooden cigarette in his mouth in court and who also keeps his hands on his thighs. Many physicians and former program kids prob had asperg. However they aren't attacking the whole world and everyone in it. Would your mother, her mother, all of your siblings and aunts and uncles agree with you about the way you characterized your mother? Would her employers or the people at the program you were placed in agree? Have you received the results of an MMPI on your mother? Has your mother ever been arrested, have you?
Still blaming, blaming , blaming, blaming...........................................................
Hell don't you grow out of this shit e.g., harboring a lifetime of resentments, do you think the program people know you exist, as big and powerful as you believe you are. Are you that important that this mother is going to drop everything and turn her decision making over to you?
Fritz