Same here, and I think "thank god"
I'd never want her to understand that.
She *does* understand what it's like to have a shitty life, though. (I personally think her teen years were worse than mine.) and neither of us have problems listening to each other bellyache about it.
We are united in our dysfunction.
But then again, we haven't been hitched/engaged/whatever for too long. Im sure there will be plenty of time for the love to die.