There was some physical abuse (punches being thrown) and also some boys hyperventilating until they passed out.
ok... well... maybe I am an old fogey or something and things have gotten more uptight these days, but Im not really sure how getting into a fistfight is considered serious or severe. And the latter? psh. I'm surprised they didn't get laughed at by all the other kids for being such idiots.
Severe or not, the fact that you couldn't talk to your son for this is pretty pathetic. Especially since you just rolled over and let them say you couldn't. Did you not have an urge to take your kid to task for being such a dickhead? Didn't you want to grab him by the ear and say "What the hell was that all about?" Isn't that your job as a father? Did you trade in your balls for tuition?
Is this the kind of stuff that people are afraid will put someone in jail or dead?
it's official... the world has turned pussy...
He's your son. You're his dad. Nobody can tell you when you can or can't see him, unless you roll over and let them.
Did you honestly and truly want to see your son? Was it a relief when they said you couldn't?
I really can sympathize with parents who have impossible kids, or who are scared for their kids. I wouldn't have known what to do with me for certain, because I was a crazy asshole. Programs promise a lot, so I can see the desire to send your kid there, hoping maybe things can get worked out, because you are at a total loss and dont have an answer.
But to just LET someone tell you that you can't see your own child?
I just don't get that, and I have no respect for it.
There is just NO FUCKING EXCUSE... unless you just don't want to see them.
Do you love you son, Nigel? Maybe you should go up there whether they say its ok or not, and tell him in person. It will speak volumes, especially if he knows that Aspen doesn't approve.
I guarantee you... he will remember you did that for the rest of his life, and will probably do a hell of a lot more for your relationship than anything Aspen can do.