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Is my mom's punishment ok?
« on: April 25, 2009, 09:43:42 PM »
I did the stupidist thing. I'm a 13 year old guy. I got caught shoplifting 3 sex magazines at a small card store, and the cops were called on me. The owner didnt press charges and I got off with a warning. My mom was called to the store and everything, it was a nightmare. I know stealing is wrong.

When we got home she slapped me, told me to get to my room so she could calm down. In like 30 mins she came up to my room with a belt. Her eyes were red like she was crying. She said I was getting the "spanking of my life" She was very disapointed in me said I could have gotten a criminal record and my life could have been ruined. She told me to strip down and bend over the bed. She used the belt on my butt, for like 15 minutes and it was pretty hard. Then she got a hairbrush and told me to get over her lap. The second spanking lasted like 15 minutes too. I was crying so hard.

She said I was also grounded for a month, no phone, TV, computer, or hanging out with friends. After school I go to my room, and come out only to eat and use the bathroom. Total lockdown, all I can do is read. Weekends too + extra chores. My allowance is cut for 2 months.

This was the first time my mom spanked or grounded me, and I never did anything this bad ever before. I learned my lesson. She said she was sorry for slapping my face. But from now on she's going to be stricter with me, and that includes spanking and grounding.

Will my mom ever look at me the same again, will she ever trust me? I know I deserved my punishment, but is the spanking part okay and the fact that I'm getting them from now on?

p.s. My grounding starts Monday after school
2 months ago
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She's not abusive at all..... The naked part was embarassing but no one else saw me but her.
2 months ago

She's not going to stop loving me is she?
2 months ago

15 mins but she stopped now and then to lecture me
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #1 on: April 25, 2009, 10:03:19 PM »
I consider it abuse to make a child get naked in order to humiliate them.  The fact she spanked you while naked can also be considered sexual abuse especially considering your age, and the fact she could've done the same to you clothed.

Do you have any markings?
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #2 on: April 25, 2009, 10:09:53 PM »
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I consider it abuse to make a child get naked in order to humiliate them.  The fact she spanked you while naked can also be considered sexual abuse especially considering your age, and the fact she could've done the same to you clothed.

Do you have any markings?


its a troll, Anything. Hope you are doing since escaping CC :rose:  :shamrock:  :rasta:
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #3 on: April 25, 2009, 10:33:47 PM »
HOOOOoooo Boy!!!

Give it time, my Avery boy. Suck it up and take yer punishment like a good stiff T-A-L-L one! You don't wanna grow up ta be no panty-waisted sissy-boy, now do ya? Pretty soon you'll be enjoying them smackeroos more'n those girlie sex mags! Har-de-har-har-har!!!

Boy it's a gittin HOT in here... Mm. Mm. Mm.
Joseph W. Gauld, The Educator
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #4 on: April 25, 2009, 10:56:56 PM »
By the way Averill, send yer mom up to 616 High Street, up hee-ah in Bath, Maine. Tell 'er ta ask fer JOEY. Everybody knows me 'round here... That's J-O-E-Y, not Joe, not Joseph, but JOEY, 'cuz I'm so in touch with my INNER CHILD ever since I come clean with the Hoffman Quadrinity Process!! An' there's a lot else I'd like to come clean with yer mom, so send 'er right up hee-ah!!! Har HAR!

It's everyone's fault, but no one's ta blame ('ceptin' the kids... O' course!)
Joseph W. Gauld, The Educator




P.S. Avey don' be takin' too long 'bout this 'cuz I'm 80 years old and this... er... waelllll... it don't last ferever, so hurry up yer mom KAY???
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #5 on: April 25, 2009, 11:01:49 PM »
She still loves you, dont sweat it.  It was a harsh punishment but you did try to steal stuff from someone else.  This could have caused you to have a record which would follow you the rest of your life.  Your mom is just trying to look out for you so you have a fair start in life.  Try to be honist from now on
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #6 on: April 25, 2009, 11:31:06 PM »
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She still loves you, dont sweat it.  It was a harsh punishment but you did try to steal stuff from someone else.  This could have caused you to have a record which would follow you the rest of your life.  Your mom is just trying to look out for you so you have a fair start in life.  Try to be honist from now on

same person as op
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #7 on: April 25, 2009, 11:42:29 PM »
You brought this problem on yourself. Now only rape can solve it.
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #8 on: April 26, 2009, 12:02:59 AM »
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You brought this problem on yourself. Now only rape can solve it.

Good program thinkin' there, Guest-o-roony! We could use someone like you at the Hyde Schools, har har!! Come look me up anytime! Have I gotta JOB fer YOOOUU!!

Seekin' the future,
Joseph W. Gauld, The Educator


P.S. Avio I still ain't hear from ya mom yet! That's 616 High Street Batheroo, Maine 04530. Da name is J-O-E-Y.
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #9 on: April 26, 2009, 12:46:20 AM »
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Quote from: "anythinganyone"
I consider it abuse to make a child get naked in order to humiliate them.  The fact she spanked you while naked can also be considered sexual abuse especially considering your age, and the fact she could've done the same to you clothed.

Do you have any markings?


its a troll, Anything. Hope you are doing since escaping CC :rose:  :shamrock:  :rasta:
er, that's i hope youre doing "ok."
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #10 on: April 26, 2009, 04:54:37 AM »
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Pretty soon you'll be enjoying them smackeroos more'n those girlie sex mags!


I can personally vouch for this.
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #11 on: April 26, 2009, 07:52:47 AM »
The spanking was way over the line, I think.  Legally, it's probably abuse.  Whether you want to pursue it is another option (a foster home would probably suck bad).

Next time, use the internet.  Why steal magazines when you can get all the porn you want online for free!
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #12 on: April 26, 2009, 09:37:39 AM »
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The spanking was way over the line, I think.  Legally, it's probably abuse.  Whether you want to pursue it is another option (a foster home would probably suck bad).

Next time, use the internet.  Why steal magazines when you can get all the porn you want online for free!

our computer is in the living room and my mom has religous stuff all over the wall in there.  Plus I am afraid of getting caught.  I can hide the magazines under my shirt.
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #13 on: April 26, 2009, 10:25:35 AM »
one of my friends at GMU showed me this a while back:
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LOL.
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Re: Is my mom's punishment ok?
« Reply #14 on: April 26, 2009, 03:02:40 PM »
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The spanking was way over the line, I think.  Legally, it's probably abuse.  Whether you want to pursue it is another option (a foster home would probably suck bad).

Next time, use the internet.  Why steal magazines when you can get all the porn you want online for free!

As long as it is not done in public or to humiliate, spanking is never considered going "over the line" and no it is not abuse.  Jesus christ why is everything described as abuse here, the word is so  watered down it really has no meaning anymore.  Maybe we should switch to the word "torture" for more of a shock effect.
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