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Katies Story
TheWho:
--- Quote from: "maruska" ---Katie, don´t worry about the guest comments.
Just keep writting - you are very talented !
I must say I admire how mature you sound - but then again its no wonder after all you have been through.
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I have noticed reading from the parents blog and Katies personal account that she matured tremendously during her time at Cross Creek and an increase in self esteem comes across also. This is one of many accomplishments that "some" programs provide. I say some because I have read here about programs which do not accomplish this. My child realized an accelerated period of maturation (and also in self esteem) while attending her program .
NeilW
psy:
--- Quote from: "Neil W" ---
--- Quote from: "maruska" ---Katie, don´t worry about the guest comments.
Just keep writting - you are very talented !
I must say I admire how mature you sound - but then again its no wonder after all you have been through.
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I have noticed reading from the parents blog and Katies personal account that she matured tremendously during her time at Cross Creek and an increase in self esteem comes across also. This is one of many accomplishments that "some" programs provide. I say some because I have read here about programs which do not accomplish this. My child realized an accelerated period of maturation (and also in self esteem) while attending her program .
NeilW
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Or maybe she's been beaten down and broken so much she's afraid of starting any conflict at all...
asshole.
What you call "mature" I call "well trained". Maturity for it's own sake is one thing (a good thing), but when it's done out of knee jerk fear, it's not so good. Sometimes a good "effect" is just window dressing for something more sinister required to produce the effect.
Oh programs produce "results" (temporary, mostly). I've never argued with that. But the way they do it... that's what I have a problem with. When it's not actively beating kids down until they obey unquestionably, it's stripping them of their identity and changing them without their express knowledge and consent. In the long run, that's not maturity at all, and certaily not healthy.
What programs teach kids is not maturity per-se, but to act mature (or else!). There is a big difference. Acting and knowing why are two very different things. In the end, only growing up and maturing, can teach those lessons. There is no quick way. There is no "pay me and i'll teach your kid these values". Like most marketing, it's bullshit.
Example: most kids get taught lots of words in program.. lots of "tools" and so on. You ask a kid what they learned in program and the'll tell you taht they learned the tools they need to suceed, that they learned responsibility and accountability and bla bla bla, but if you ask them to actually define any of those terms or any of those tools they go blank. They've been taught to speak and act on que, yes, but not to think (quite the opposite).
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: "katiesthoughts" ---
--- Quote ---Another solution could have been for Katie to lose some weight and quit cutting herself (maybe mix in some others colors other than black every other day) and that would have helped with the bullying and then show a little respect at home like her brothers did and all of this would have been avoided.
I dont think her brothers had a problem with the school system or home arrangements and put a lid on the drama. If they did they were smart enough not to get their asses sent away.Guest
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i think those are the only two people who wuld have the dexterity to go and say that. If you want to insult me do it somewhere in your own mind please i dont want to hear the bullshit on here thankyou very much. :blabla: :lala: :feedtrolls: :fuckoff:
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As clinical studies have shown, kids aren't bullied for how they look, but because they cannot psychologically "fight back."
Two causes, have been clinically established as creating kids who can't "fight back"—being raised by parents who are overprotective, or parents who are abusive. A huge percentage of abused kids get bullied at school, because they are psychologically weaker than other kids and provide an open target for people seeking the emotional high of domination and sadism.
Katie, that monster insulting you is thewho. Pay him no mind, he mocks sexual abuse victims with regularity and invariably defends the beating deaths of children in due-processless captivity. He is a hired gun for the industry/completely insane. Funny, he is good for apt representation of the "therapy" in cross creek and places like it, as there blame and shame is aimed creully and medically invalidly at the detainee in the form of "feedback" and "confrontation."I guess its a lot easier hearing that sort of thing over the internet than for 4-12 hours a day at Cross Creek
Anonymous:
--- Quote from: "Neil W" ---
--- Quote from: "maruska" ---Katie, don´t worry about the guest comments.
Just keep writting - you are very talented !
I must say I admire how mature you sound - but then again its no wonder after all you have been through.
--- End quote ---
I have noticed reading from the parents blog and Katies personal account that she matured tremendously during her time at Cross Creek and an increase in self esteem comes across also. This is one of many accomplishments that "some" programs provide. I say some because I have read here about programs which do not accomplish this. My child realized an accelerated period of maturation (and also in self esteem) while attending her program .
NeilW
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The who, that's funny. On another thread, what you said was great about the supposed program you put your suoppsed daughter in, was that it 'de-matured' her. The problem being she was too mature. Your bullshit changes from moment to moment. As a hired gun, you truly suck
KATIE, SUE CROSS CREEK IN THE TURLKEY LAWSUIT.
TheWho:
--- Quote from: "Guest" ---........... On another thread, what you said was great about the supposed program you put your suoppsed daughter in, was that it 'de-matured' her. The problem being she was too mature. Your bullshit changes from moment to moment. As a hired gun, you truly suck.
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Why not provide the link where I said her program made her less mature? I will defend my statements, but I need to know what you are talking about.
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