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graduated:
there's a big difference between not finding it to be a beneficial experience and blaming it for everything that has gone wrong in your life.

and to answer your question, no i cannot see inside anyone else's head nor do i claim to be omnicient.

RobertBruce:
What is your basis for claiming that we should have stayed in therapy, are 'wack jobs" or blame all of our problems or societal issues at large on HLA?

Anonymous:

--- Quote from: "graduated" ---
and i know how things work on here. somebody comes on here with a different point of view and you all gang up on them to try and silence them. you're welcome to skip that whole process if you like, since i will not be chased off. just if you'd like to save yourselves some time.

by the way, i think you're all delusional and you should have stayed in therapy.
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first of all, you will be chased off for a good reason. you coming here saying what you say is like a neo nazi going onto a jewish site or a mormon going onto a gay site. what do you expect?

second, when did you "graduate"?  you should keep in mind that the HLA of now is very different from the HLA of yesteryear. if HLA operated the way it did the last two years the entire time it existed, it would have never been in so much trouble. we would not be pissed off. i understand you think abuse doesnt happen....most likely because you never experienced it, because HLA is easy now. they had to mellow it out, because of.....you guessed it.....US. But just because they changed their ways does not mean they get a pass for their past actions. remember, you said it yourself: you cant blame anyone for your own actions, you cant pass the buck, you have to take responsibility for your own actions. HLA getting Shut Down is a group of HUNDREDS of people in different capacities forcing HLA to take responsibility for their actions. There are people ranging from top goverment officials, the FBI, IRS, parents, and lowly teens being their computers all working to make sure bucci & crew get what they deserve. It's kinda like a serial killer who "reforms" and stops killing for a few years. He may seem like an upstanding individual upon the reformation, but it doesn't take away the fact that he used to be a serial killer, and will still rot in jail.

{as a side note.....bucci is like a serial killer. soo many people tried to commit suicide directly because of bucci's actions. sean davis. neesa R, amy klemm, just to name a few.....amy is still brain dead from the lack of oxygen when she tried to hang herself.}

you have no right to say abuse did not happen. I personally was forced to chop trees in a lighting storm while being fed only three ham & cheese sandwiches (mind you, i'm jewish and keep kosher) for seven days straight. nowandays restrictions eats the same food as gen pop, and dietary restrictions are observed. I was thrown on the ground and sat on by six enormous guys for cracking a joke - i was sent to the hospital with three broken ribs. now they only "restrain" people when they are a clear and imminent threat to themselves or others. I was forced to march around the mountains in below freezing temperatures which gave me pneumonia - the doctor prescribed ZYRTEC for my pneumonia. I spent one of my vacations from HLA on an IV in the hospital getting pumped full of antibiotics. when i broke an arm playing soccer, that doctor changed the prescription to claratin. That doctor was fired a long time ago for doing an unwarranted scrotum exam on a twelve year old.  when i refused to take my claratin, i was sat on, again, while my ribs were still broken, forcing me to go to the hospital again to have them re-set. and no, HLA did not allow me to take the painkillers i was perscribed to for my broken ribs and arm. nor did they let me take them for when i got my wisdom teeth taken out. no vicodin, no percocet, just neurontin, claratin, and advil.  while all of this was happening i was being forced to make up things in my past to admit to doing in reals, as "disclosures" to match the intensity of my peer's disclosure so i could stop having to chop trees in the rain and start eating normal food. while i had all those broken bones. yes, i had to chop trees with my four broken bones. oh, did i mention that i was forced to keep my broken bones a secret from my parents under threats of continueing to have to chop trees and eat ham sandwiches indefinitely? i was only allowed to tell them six months later when i was about to graduate. that was in 1998, and that was just my experience. I've seen worse things happen but i wont disclose them because i respect people's privacy and emotions regarding the events.  

so, MS. abuse doesnt happen, go fuck yourself. Go back to HLA and keep listening to you Ipod in your dorm, swim in your fancy pool, ride your horses, enjoy your brand new mold-free academic building and have your counselors baby you around all day. the HLA of yesteryear was a whole different ball game.

Troll Control:

--- Quote from: "graduated" ---because those things never happened. only somebody very thin-skinned would mistake anything that occurred at HLA as abuse.
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This is bologna.  I personally witnessed many instances of abuse.  The intentional infliction of physical and emotional distress was the MO du jour at HLA.  To say otherwise indicates that you are not familiar with how HLA works or that you are dissembling.

I believe these kids (many are adults now, my first caseload from HLA turns 30 this year) because I can verify what they are saying through my own experience with HLA.  It's really that plain and simple.

britneybert:

--- Quote from: "along comes mary" ---
--- Quote from: "1utj1" ---RIP Tyson Tully


so, i guess HLA doesnt save lives, does it?
and i guess it doesnt make anyone "succeed"...the guy never got an education, worked at a resturant and had a kid. at 25.

i would put money on this being self-inflicted: Drug overdose, suicide, overeating, etc.
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"The guy" was my friend, you smarmy bitch.

I am not a fan of HLA, but I would NEVER dream of slandering a HLA survivor to make a point. You must be ashamed to have written such a despicable thing.
 
Tyson was a sweetheart.
Who the HELL are you to pass judgment on my friend's life and speculate about his death?

Anyone would have a much easier time of pegging YOUR character from that post than you did of pegging Tyson's from his obituary.

If this is your idea of making a case against HLA, than I think I speak for everyone when I say we'd rather not have your help.

You are disgusting.
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I agree GET SERIOUS!

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