Its easy to say why someone killed themself if they were in a Gulag like CEDU or Elan. It would be harder to determine why kids commit suicide when they are not in these institutions. Abusive parents rarely say that they were abusive, and even kid's suicide notes aren't always reliable because they are often reflections of their induced self-hatred and appeals for love based on what they think people want to hear
I see what you are saying and there lies the problem. How do we compare the number of suicides in and out of program? We cant rely on staff, parents or kids notes to understand why because they may be lying or not have a clear understanding of the child so the results would be unclear.
Comparing suicide/death rates in public schools/kids on the outside with suicide rates during and post residential treatment is apples and oranges. Programees love to use the comparison of public school deaths vs. program deaths because they can present numbers without explaining the difference in population of the two groups, with the free kids in public schools greatly outnumbering those in institutions. Percentages based on the population of each group would offer (somewhat) more valid info and the results would cause programees to never use this ridiculous argument again. Parents pay out obscene amounts and often sign custody over to programs for the explicit purpose of saving their child from "death or jail". Unlike public school kids, kids in programs are
supposed to be under constant supervision. Why? Because parents are paying the programs to keep the kid safe and away from the hazards causing problems on the outside. Public schools don't have enough people or resources to provide constant supervision during school, and after school it's the parents' task to oversee their children. How many programs claim a low staff-to-patient ratio to encourage parents to believe their child is constantly monitored? Try this: call a random program and talk to admissions. Ask if the program will be a safer environment for your child than public school. Bet any program will tell you "yes", so these tiresome comparisons of public schools vs. private programs don't have any validity.
Don't believe some stranger with dubious credentials in an RTC telling you your child is lying. Who knows your kid better, you or the quack? Not reporting your child's allegations of abuse is a crime, regardless of what the program says about "manipulation". Parents should be held accountable for criminal failure to report child abuse - so should the programs.