RE: willful suspension of disbelief
New postby Oz girl » Yesterday, 00:19
I can answer this danny. The US would have to deal with delinquent/drug taking/rabble rousing/mentally ill/insert random ailment here kids in the same way that Britain, most of europe, Australia and New Zealand and any latin american country does. All of these countries have kids and families struggling through adolescence and mostly coming out the other end OK. When you also consider that the sheer cost of even a bargain basement program like WWASP means that the kids are by default mostly middle class it further weakens the pro program argument as adolescent middle class "rebels" from most parts of the world are statistically the ones least likely to fall through the cracks. It just sometimes means natural consequences are a little more real. IE if you get expellled from your posh private school and your parents cant get you in anywwhere else, you go to a public one. If you dick around taking drugs when you should be studying and get really shit grades you either have to repeat year 12 or you dont get into university right from school. So you either work for a couple of years and apply after 21 or you decide higher education is not for you. Either way our life is not eternally ruined.
Granted there are some things that make it harder for American families, like zero tolerance policing and in some states hysterical sex laws that put kids on sex registers for pretty benign behaviors, but these did not always exist and can be changed if enough people do something.
To people who say a program was the only choice I liken programs to mobile or smart phones. It genuinely feels to me like I cant live without my smartphone. But for the first 20 or so years of my life i did great without it. If it were taken away I can still be reached by skype, im and at 3 email addresses. So while it feels to me like I cant in actual fact I can and there are people and places in the world where the thing is completely unnecessary.
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Re: willful suspension of disbelief
New postby Oz girl » Yesterday, 03:49
Sorry to post twice, Danny mentioned something about therapy optiond for kids coming out of programs. This is imagine is quite a conundrum. GIven that some kids in programs are there due to genuine existing problems and then some others develop issues because of the trauma they suffered, id guess many do need some form of proper effective treatment. But many have spoken of being put off by the very idea of therapy because of their horrible experiences.
Those who read Julia scheeres Jesus Camp may be familiar with this. The Brother David became depressed and was self harming(probably because his asshole dad would regularly beat the crap out of him) His parents were more interested in getting rid of "the problem" than helping their son and sent him to be punished at escuele caribe & his sister only began to become rebellious when her only household ally was banished so she was sent there as well. She does not say whetner he got help for his initial symptoms when he left and he died in a car accident at 20 so nobody can ask, but she mentioned feelings consistent with pTSD after escuele caribe. S
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Man thanks a lot for the info OZ,
Was kinda hoping for more feed back but, 1.) I'm not very liked right now. 2.) Really not very liked right now or ever. 3.) I guess it is to much to consider since it is idealistic.
Well folks I still think this could have been a good conversation, Yeahhhhh maybe another time....lol.
Oz,
Yes America is a much different animal when considering helping their children. I believe the intent is sincere but then the Insurance industries get involved, then big Pharma, Corporations start poking around for financial advantages and before ya know it, capitalism is rocking and who gives a crap about the kids anymore, there just a means to justify a end.
I was just saying if all this came to a end today, what happens with the kids/parents/so forth and how do we deal with the void. There will be a void, a open wound how do we treat it, "Wilfull suspension of Disbelief".
Danny