When I read your post,I relate sooo much.Even though we all did not commuicate to much in there we were feeling the same and it seems to be with us still. I remember feeling so desprate :exclaim: It`s just to Fucken crazy to keep your child there for SO MANY YEARS and not catch on. Sorry I`ve got to stop ,I`m getting to angry and feeling to much to keep thinking about this now. Good night.