I am appreciating everyones comments. I know that I just need to wait until after the eval. and see what the recommendations are at that time. However, I am trying to go into it educated on my options ahead of time. If this Julie person can point me in a direction I appreciate that. I am terrified of it becoming a police matter but know that that might be where the real "help" lies.
Amy
Unfortunately you also have another task, when you have decide how to deal with your son.
His behavior did not occur out of nothing. According to research done here in Europe about 75-70 percent of the youth, who sexual molest other children have themselves been molested some time back. It means that there is a huge risk that somebody close to your child is someone who has be stopped or other children could be of risk.
You need to start this kind of investigation just to protect your other off-springs as well as other children in your neighborhood.