Oh lord, I know. I never got any of their programs or work assignments once, but when I asked to be moved up peer groups to go on a home visit, it never happened while other people who got into lots of trouble were moved up and therefore, able to go home sooner, or go on longer home visits. The whole program is a game of favorites. If you take it in the ass and smile, you get the best.
You did not give them enough to move up.
Program with levels and something to earn function by you giving them something and then you receive something. When you just take what they give you and behave nicely even if the orders are wrong and unfair, you destroy the program. See
Parent info - Child already placed.
You were in this situation: You wanted a home visit. You have two choices.
1) Confess to something and exaggerate. Use the other kids as inspiration regardless of the fact that you have not done it.
2) Behave nicely.
Doing the first will give you the home visit. Doing the second will make the staff believe that you are either withholding something from them or having a low IQ.
So you choosed the first thing and it did cost you shortterm but you won longterm, because by confessing you would have justified the need for you to stay in the program. You didn't and properly they program gave your parents two options:
1) A more restrictive program. The owners have
Provo Canyon School for that
2) Giving your parents a tale about you being partly cured of
ODD, which is a sickness all teenagers suffer from, so you could return home for a transsion period. They properly also told your parents to sell the news in the nices way. "Returning home for your senior year" sounds so nice.
I hope that a lot of teenagers learn to live by your methods in the programs and just shut up and live by the rules. It will destroy the programs, but as your President candidat
McCain has stated "Everyone has a breaking point. I had reached mine."
I dont know why you were there but if you at some point were hoping to be treated for something, programs is not the place. A hospital could have made it, but not a program. You cannot mix education and treatment.
BTW. I saw your other thread and noticed that your parents used an ed-con. One time in the future ask your parents if they know how many percents she got from the program. Normally their advices are not given based on kids like your needs, but rather by who is paying them.
See this case about a similar "school" once marketed together with your Idaho "school".The belated disclosure of the relationship between Dr. Conway and MBA has engendered bitter recriminations by the District. I have neither the authority nor the knowledge to determine whether Dr. Conway’s conduct in this matter violated any ethical constraints applicable to school psychologists. At best, what happened resulted from a failure by Dr. Conway to be scrupulously careful in disclosing his affiliation with MBA, and (with hindsight) a failure by Ms. Andrea Hungerford to be scrupulously careful in inquiring about Dr. Conway’s affiliations. Although I denied the District’s motion to bar Dr. Conway’s testimony and strike “those portions of his evaluation and report regarding recommended placement for J. J.,” in evaluating the weight of Dr. Conway’s opinions I have taken note of his ongoing association with MBA. I do not consider him a neutral witness.
Enjoy your senior year. You have certainly earned it.
