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The 10 Priorities (from Biggest Job)

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Ursus:
I can't remember at the moment whether they're called Priorities or Principles. I'll call them "Priorities" as that is what they're called on my source for the copy and paste, but it seems to me I've heard them called "Principles" some place else. Hard to tell, and probably doesn't really matter anyway, unless you're at Hyde at the moment, as they seem to recycle many of these "potency enhancers" throughout whatever is the current lingo at any given time...

This first one wasn't there during my day, at least not in its featured framework. Don't get me wrong, "Truth" was, is, and always will be a biggie; it's the "Harmony" part that seems new to me. I think it is a deliberate attempt to differentiate themselves from the other "pseudo character educators" that may potentially misguide Hyde's marks.

As to the respective importance of truth vs. harmony, I had always thought it was "self-evident," save for those occasional crises of conscience that one wrestles with from time to time. But... given that the Oligarchy essentially absolves the plebes from having to interpret most of life's events themselves, they had better trash "Harmony" ...lest we get too complacent.

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Priority #1
Truth Over Harmony

Truth over Harmony is the foundation upon which all of the 10 Priorities rest. It speaks to our core as individuals, as partners, as family members and as educators. Putting the weight of our foot on the path of honesty is a lifelong challenge and journey.

We learn great lessons when we exercise the courage to trust the truth. We can also learn them on those occasions when we recognize that we have actually been guided by harmony.

As parents and educators, we need to ask ourselves: Which holds a higher value in my family or classroom: truth, dealing honestly with each other, or harmony, getting along with each other? Remember, the question is not which of these two ought to hold higher value, but which of these two is, in fact, valued more?

Many parents and teachers who believe they place their highest value on truth end up discovering that they work even harder to maintain a role as peacemaker in their families or schools. No matter how you express it - as honesty, integrity, or conscience, -- this priority stresses the importance of placing truth at the center of our lives. Truth must be the ultimate anchor.

Anonymous:
I was reading a piece on Pragmatism the other day.  The question the Pragmatist raise is whether the Truth is knowable except through experiment and observation.   The question that come to my mind is, "who is the arbiter of this Truth"  This dogma has some obvious flaws.  IT works as a tool for sorting out the dynamics of a dysfunctional family.  I seriously doubt is it practiced day to day at Hyde, a place where group cohesion is prized.  I think how ever that Joe opines on the difference between big truths and little truths. Little: you have something between your teeth Big: you are an an abusive overbearing bastard who's actions alienate people.  So I suppose in day to day life that heuristic is applied to make the principle work.

Anonymous:

--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---The question that come to my mind is, "who is the arbiter of this Truth."
--- End quote ---


Interesting question. I'd also ask why truth and harmony are conceived as mutually exclusive. Is a truthful relationship always an embattled one? Conversely, is a harmonious relationship founded on lies and secrecy?  

I suppose there are contexts in which truth and harmony are opposites, as when Bob tells something about Alice that Alice does not want Bob to tell. Then indeed there is disharmony between Bob and Alice. Why should Joe encourage Bob to betray Alice's confidence? Joe would encourage Bob to betray Alice if Alice has opinions or behaviors that make her assimilation into Joe's group impossible.      

You pointed out that it is paradoxical that Hyde rejects harmony yet prizes group cohesion. I don't think that is a paradox. The bias for truth is eventually replaced by the bias for harmony. Truth is manifested in opposition to all who stand in the way of harmony. After the opposition is confronted and punished, the ground is cleared for the establishment of harmony. Indeed, the bias for harmony was predominant all along. When truth has run its course, harmony can be established. What is misleading is Hyde's professed preference for truth. The opposite is true!

Is harmony good? No, not as practiced at Hyde. On my account, harmony is homogeneity, conformity, cowardice, intolerance, zealousness, bullying, hypocrisy -- the successful outcome to the McCarthy trials.

Anonymous:

--- Quote ---After the opposition is confronted and punished, the ground is cleared for the establishment of harmony

--- End quote ---


  Sounds like the dictatorship of the proletariat.  What I have observed is in the dynamic of groups that I have been apart of Truth and Harmony are poles. Not opposite  but when one is veered to it is sometimes to the detriment of the other.   If I am on a team or leading a team, I need to consider the goal of the team as the context of feedback I give to my team members also the overall effect of the feedback on the individual.  At any point in someone's development the "Truth" could be helpful or it could be harmful. Perhaps it is better to encourage some one who may be lacking in some aspect rather then offer a blunt assessment, especially so if they are dealing with self esteem issues. So as presented in the Hyde catachism, the "Truth" is a blunt instrument meant to shock the errant family/student into dealing with reality. At least that is the context in which I see it vis-a-vis Hyde.  I know that this technique is not completely successful.  Hyde places the onus for the success of its nostrums on the patient (Joe likes this metaphor), so clearly when the panacea does pan out it was not swallowed correctly.
 So to the extent that the truth is knowable, and I believe that extent is described to a large degree by the Pragmatists, the truth is that the Truth does not always work.  This is a Truth that is drowned out by the Harmony of the cohesive group of Hydites singing about the Truth.  This must be a prototype in story telling where the thing that is worshiped is betrayed by its very worship.

Ursus:

--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---The question that come to my mind is, "who is the arbiter of this Truth."
--- End quote ---
"Kids resent being brainwashed, but they recognize there is truth in my words." -Joseph Gauld
--- Quote from: ""Guest"" ---Hyde places the onus for the success of its nostrums on the patient (Joe likes this metaphor), so clearly when the panacea does pan out it was not swallowed correctly.
--- End quote ---


Hyde does consider the physician to be infallible.  I guess that is why he prefers to operate on teenagers, known to swallow correctly but a fraction of the time.  Malpractice insurance must be lower, since the frequent botched operations can always be blamed on the patient.

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