Same here. We got brochures showing us happy children, in a loving and fun environment, going to school, and getting therapy, all in the name of helping our child, because according to them, we obviously were not doing the right thing, where they were qualified and had a 98% satisfaction rate, and a long list of families willing to tell us how great the programs were, and yes, they were court approved, and had dealt with our situation before.
We didn't have a choice in placing our son, we were ordered to, or else, and keep him there, or else. I, for one, was not a non-participating parent. Nor did I self-impose any punishment on my child, as some people have tried to portray me as doing. I am a loving mother, who had to send her child away and keep him away. And these programs prey on people like me, and others in the same situation.
I lost my husband three years ago to drugs and alcohol, they promised this wouldn't happen to my son if he went to "their" program, I was doing the right thing by saving my childs life. Well there are no guarantees are there?
What I don't get is why courts approve this crap knowing full well, and without disclosing it to the parents, that they can also be deadly and dangerous.
When you are ordered by the court, the schools have you by the balls. If you don't comply, they threaten you with "we will kick your kid out and you're back to court, and your kids probably in juvi until he's 18 or 21, depending on the crime." Nice scare tactics for desperate parents.
You can call me a bad mom too, but I know, and so does everyone else who knows us, that I was, and still am a good mom. There isn't anything I wouldn't do for my son. Even thought about letting him leave the country and go home to family when this all took place, but I know what would have happened had I have done that.
And I would like to ask whoever it is that keeps attacking me to please stop. I have done nothing to you, you don't know my son, and therefore I don't think you have any right to make accusations about me, or comments about him. Thank you in advance.