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banwana:
Parents:

My name is Hannah. I was at rocklyn for 6 months and got out only a few days ago. I'm 17, and i was a kid that was caught up in heartache. my parents didn't like the path they saw me heading down to, destruction and hell. so they sent me to this school in hopes id get better? sound similar ? Fact is they simply took me from one hell and placed me into another. I found it to be the most traumatic experience of my life hands down, and every day was a struggle to get through. I dont know if that sense of abandonment from my parents will ever go away, i know the mental and physical scars wont. Being finished the program and COMPLETING the program, being told i was "ready" to go home, i can honestly say looking back it was not worth it. not at all. I hardened.
i know you parents love your kids and see them struggling and slipping away, but i just lived the worst 6 months of my life. and was taught that manipulation, guilt trips, swearing, and lies were the keys to life. despite my parents wasted time, money and energy i will change for the better. but its not cause of that place, its cause i can make that decision for myself. have some faith in your kid. they need to feel you there, not be sent away.

i was so overjoyed to hear the summer program was cancelled because i would feel sick leaving the friends i made behind in the war zone, knowing what hell they'd inevitably go through every day.

parents are very optamistic going into the program, but not one (that ive seen in the 24 girls leaving) girl's parents have been at all impressed at the end. the school is unorganized and only has its own sneaky agenda.

its like "lets feed our kid to an angry gang and let them beat the crap out of her" she could die, she'll inevitably get hurt, but hey whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger? NO. wtf dont do that. dont.

also i swear like a sailor now because my environment has been constant chaos and hate for so long. so please mom and dad... google something else. not Rocklyn

lexxcanada:
hannah i remember seeing you walk into rocklyn and thinking...she doesnt belong here... i can only imagion how everyone walked out of that shithole....
rocklyn changes people and makes them hard inside and out....
i dont trust anything my parents say and to get into a car is the worst. every cell in me screaming DONT FUCKING DO IT!!!
if i go anywhere with my rents i take my own car or tell my friends where im going and to call the cops if i dont return.
my parents dont understand why i hate them why i cant trust them and why i give as much attitude was well as  lie as much i do. anything my parents and i had is gone. like the innocence and knowing a place like rocklyn doesnt exist. it does. and people need to be warned. shutting that place comes first and formost in my books and i will personaly track down julia and darreyl and the evil people who own the place down and sue they're asses for everything they put me through.
iv never been one for cutting.. the first night there i shredded my ankle to feel enough pain to keep a clear head. to figure a way out. i tried starving myself. i tried running away. nothing will never stop rocklyn till its a smoldering pile of ashes. and i will not rest until it is.
LET ROCKLYN BURN!~

Anne Bonney:

--- Quote from: "lexxcanada" ---hannah i remember seeing you walk into rocklyn and thinking...she doesnt belong here... i can only imagion how everyone walked out of that shithole....
rocklyn changes people and makes them hard inside and out....
i dont trust anything my parents say and to get into a car is the worst. every cell in me screaming DONT FUCKING DO IT!!!
if i go anywhere with my rents i take my own car or tell my friends where im going and to call the cops if i dont return.
my parents dont understand why i hate them why i cant trust them and why i give as much attitude was well as  lie as much i do. anything my parents and i had is gone. like the innocence and knowing a place like rocklyn doesnt exist. it does. and people need to be warned. shutting that place comes first and formost in my books and i will personaly track down julia and darreyl and the evil people who own the place down and sue they're asses for everything they put me through.
iv never been one for cutting.. the first night there i shredded my ankle to feel enough pain to keep a clear head. to figure a way out. i tried starving myself. i tried running away. nothing will never stop rocklyn till its a smoldering pile of ashes. and i will not rest until it is.
LET ROCKLYN BURN!~
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This is part of what lasting damage I'm talking about.  The trust that is forever broken between the parent and child can be devastating.   As hard as it was for me to watch my 'troubled' child struggle with her issues, I knew far better than to send her off somewhere against her will.  And, lo and behold, she did find her way and has told me that it's precisely because she had to deal with most of her own natural consequences of her behaviors.  She wasn't yanked out of her life and dropped into a den of strangers, all confronting her about how "bad" she was.  She learned lessons for herself and wasn't forced to change, against her will, before she was ready to.    There's an old saying....you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make 'em drink.  Applies here.  To force kids to adopt a set of beliefs, however good the intentions are, doesn't work.  At least for any lasting effect.  Compound that with using LGATs etc. in order to accomplish these "changes" and you've got one psychologically dangerous situation.

Pile of shit:
[Edited by POS August 31 2010]

Anne Bonney:

--- Quote from: "Pile of shit" ---
--- Quote from: "Anne Bonney" ---
--- Quote from: "lexxcanada" ---hannah i remember seeing you walk into rocklyn and thinking...she doesnt belong here... i can only imagion how everyone walked out of that shithole....
rocklyn changes people and makes them hard inside and out....
i dont trust anything my parents say and to get into a car is the worst. every cell in me screaming DONT FUCKING DO IT!!!
if i go anywhere with my rents i take my own car or tell my friends where im going and to call the cops if i dont return.
my parents dont understand why i hate them why i cant trust them and why i give as much attitude was well as  lie as much i do. anything my parents and i had is gone. like the innocence and knowing a place like rocklyn doesnt exist. it does. and people need to be warned. shutting that place comes first and formost in my books and i will personaly track down julia and darreyl and the evil people who own the place down and sue they're asses for everything they put me through.
iv never been one for cutting.. the first night there i shredded my ankle to feel enough pain to keep a clear head. to figure a way out. i tried starving myself. i tried running away. nothing will never stop rocklyn till its a smoldering pile of ashes. and i will not rest until it is.
LET ROCKLYN BURN!~
--- End quote ---


This is part of what lasting damage I'm talking about.  The trust that is forever broken between the parent and child can be devastating.   As hard as it was for me to watch my 'troubled' child struggle with her issues, I knew far better than to send her off somewhere against her will.  And, lo and behold, she did find her way and has told me that it's precisely because she had to deal with most of her own natural consequences of her behaviors.  She wasn't yanked out of her life and dropped into a den of strangers, all confronting her about how "bad" she was.  She learned lessons for herself and wasn't forced to change, against her will, before she was ready to.    There's an old saying....you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make 'em drink.  Applies here.  To force kids to adopt a set of beliefs, however good the intentions are, doesn't work.  At least for any lasting effect.  Compound that with using LGATs etc. in order to accomplish these "changes" and you've got one psychologically dangerous situation.
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Anne I like how your labelling you're own child as "troubled" and "bad."  You scream hissy fits about labels on fornits.  lol.   :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao:  :roflmao: :roflmao:
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Are you really that much of a moron?  Did you not see those words with quotes around them or are you just too stupid to understand what it means?   Did you not see that when using the word "bad" that I was referring to how she would've been labeled inside programs.  Reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, I see.  Poor thing.

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