Teenagers die in volutary programs too - no doubt about that. From UK:
Owners fined over waterfall death, BBC. This girl wanted to go, it was a kind of vacation and she died.
Near fatal incident
Inquiry after school canoe trip, BBC'Search delay' over death cadet , BBC - Voluntary program - more about
Sea cadets on WikipediaBut such programs or schools are not to find on Fornits Wiki regardless of the fact that they have been proven to be unsafe. Perhaps that is a mistake and maybe we should have a thread about that.
Aspiro are on the wiki, because they allow teenagers to transported into their program. I don't know whether Aspiro is safe or not. I won't judge on that, but I critizise them for detaining teenagers without conviction from a court of law.
I am a father too. If one of my children got into drugs, I would properly turn to wilderness too, but I would go there myself for as long as it takes. I won't quietly watch my children to limit themselves due to an addiction. I can accept a lot. I disagree with a lot of their viewpoints on religion and choices. But it is not choices what limit their potentials or the possibilities to choice a line of business they are interested in. So they are free to take the consequences of their decisions, I won't stop them.
Should they end up in an addiction or choose a lifepartner who beats them up, I will interfere and remove them from the situation and surround them with the care and love of their parents and extended family. It would properly be in the wilderness somewhere in Sweden, but it wouldn't be a program. We won't starve ourselves and of course our "detainee" shouldn't starve either. You can call it camping or whatever, but it will only last until we can get the right kind of help and the detox period is over.
What I have failed to understand from the very beginning is why there are very few family programs in the market. The kids don't use drugs because they are evil. Often it is something between "curiosity killed the cat." and low self-esteem caused by something from their upbringing. As a parents I have already made 1000 of mistakes which could result in a bad situation years from now and fate have provided 1000 others. But if the situation ever occured I couldn't blame my kids for my mistakes or those little bumps life gives all people. It would be a task for the family to solve it.
Soltreks has a family wilderness program,
Monarch allows visit at any point of the stay, Aspens have tried but they have returned to their jail-the-teen-only philsofy. (It was not a statement that those program are good, just that they allowed parents to doubt the manipulation claims of the childrens and see things for themselves.)
Why is it so hard for parents to find the surplus to be acitively part of their childrens healing?
Wilderness is dangerous, but also rewarding,
if you choose to go voluntary.