But Aunt Kelly, what will this mother do about the condoms, and your nieces unacceptable behaviors just because this one faith-based program won't take her because of your interfering actions?
If my mid-age teenager was carrying condoms, I'd consider it
at least 50% likely that locker room peer pressure was leading her to imply she was having sex.
If she was having sex, I'd try to find out what was wrong. Girls have sex because they're lonely, or feel worthless, or are being abused in a relationship, or are being pressured, or are being manipulated by an adult loser trolling for high school girls, or other reasons mostly unrelated to genuine adult female lust.
Promiscuity always comes from "issues." Issues don't get fixed at Programs, they get more broken.
"True love" takes a whole different strategy, but "true love" with her using condoms is not particularly dangerous to her.
If he's a rotten snake, see "issues" above.
Julie