I hadn't come in here in a few days, and now I do and find a fight going on. I know a lot of people were hurt in the group. I think it is unfair to call us Eric's harem, though. I guess I'm one of the "neutral" people. I have seen people get bullied, although many times I've wondered why they gave the reaction they did. When I first joined the group, Roger would say a few comments to my posts and my initial reaction was to get angry. Then I would wonder what tone he had when he said it, and then realized that maybe they just wanted to see how I would react. I would blow it off and make a joke. I know not everyone can do that, but maybe that is my way of "surviving". Eric's way is to lash out. I'm not saying it is correct, and in fact I remember sending a private e-mail to some of the girls apologizing for what he said. However, these sites are for us to express how we feel. Even, in some case unfortunately, Eric has that right. I remain quiet, it isn't my fight. I wish it was kept out of the group, but I can't control that.
Yvette
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