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« Reply #255 on: May 18, 2005, 08:09:00 PM »
I am sorry please accept my apology. I was replying to another post that was questioning if I was in rebekah or not which I was from 82-83. I apparently still have my own anger management issues and have a hard time facing the past myself. It's been very difficult for me. I'm sorry I spoke out of anger.
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« Reply #256 on: May 18, 2005, 08:34:00 PM »
its a brave thing to come in here and relive the nightmares all at once. but it is also helping for it starts the healing process. you did nothing wrong. be proud that you vented on what you thought was important
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« Reply #257 on: May 18, 2005, 08:37:00 PM »
I hadn't come in here in a few days, and now I do and find a fight going on.  I know a lot of people were hurt in the group.  I think it is unfair to call us Eric's harem, though.  I guess I'm one of the "neutral" people.  I have seen people get bullied, although many times I've wondered why they gave the reaction they did.  When I first joined the group, Roger would say a few comments to my posts and my initial reaction was to get angry.  Then I would wonder what tone he had when he said it, and then realized that maybe they just wanted to see how I would react.  I would blow it off and make a joke.  I know not everyone can do that, but maybe that is my way of "surviving".  Eric's way is to lash out.  I'm not saying it is correct, and in fact I remember sending a private e-mail to some of the girls apologizing for what he said.  However, these sites are for us to express how we feel.  Even, in some case unfortunately, Eric has that right.  I remain quiet, it isn't my fight.  I wish it was kept out of the group, but I can't control that.
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« Reply #258 on: May 18, 2005, 08:52:00 PM »
eric,i dont need your sympathy i am not here posting and cussing. was wondering if you ever get out in the sun and tan? how pale are you? you must be because really pale from sitting in front of your computer all day. are there any UV rays coming through???.......get a life.... have better fish to fry!
KUDOS.....AMY
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« Reply #259 on: May 20, 2005, 10:08:00 PM »
[ This Message was edited by: Bluemoon2157 on 2005-08-19 16:37 ]
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« Reply #260 on: May 20, 2005, 10:32:00 PM »
thank you. but who are yu? got me curious!!
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« Reply #261 on: May 20, 2005, 10:37:00 PM »
oh never mind i figured it out now. and you are very welcome. hope to see ya in chat!
love.......amy
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« Reply #262 on: May 21, 2005, 02:40:00 AM »
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« Reply #263 on: May 21, 2005, 03:03:00 AM »
Ok only if we can talk about our ass. I will see you tommrow.
The masked lady.
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« Reply #264 on: May 21, 2005, 06:28:00 PM »
I'm not sure who you are, and don't know what I or anyone did to offend you, but I can say the same thing has been done to me here.  I've been coming to this site for as long as I've been in the other group.  I have offended no one, as that is not my nature.  I did, however, once make a somewhat positive remark about something and was totally attacked in here.  You don't have to like me, whoever you are, but your reply did judge me, even if you say it didn't.  The difference between you and I is I choose to see both good and bad from an experience.  I do the same with people.  I don't defend eric, but I don't condemn him either.  I don't do it with any of you, so don't do it to me.
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« Reply #265 on: May 21, 2005, 07:25:00 PM »
i agree, let by gones be by gones, stop the negetivity... we want to get past this eric issue. yvette thanks for your open understanding on all of this.We all agree he says things off the wall. you are a kind person and really took up for this group.
anne 85-87
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« Reply #266 on: May 21, 2005, 09:50:00 PM »
Ok I have stayed out of this so far but I just must ask? What good did you ever get out of Eric attacking people? All I see eric sitting in the corner laughing his ass off because he got 2 girls to fight over him.
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« Reply #267 on: May 21, 2005, 10:13:00 PM »
there is no good in any one attacking. but also if we keep bringing this eric issue up, dont ya think it feeds his ego also?
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« Reply #268 on: May 21, 2005, 10:15:00 PM »
attacking is wrong no matter what, but did you ever think that the longer we keep this issue going it is still feeding his ego?dont build it any bigger
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« Reply #269 on: May 21, 2005, 10:27:00 PM »
There is good and there is eric opps sorry I meant to say evil.
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