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Anonymous:
We're thinking of sending our daughter to Brehm Prep School in Carbondale, IL,  Anybody out there have any experience with this school?  Is it worth $50,000 a year?  Did it help?

Anonymous:
You gotta be a fool to come in here and ask for advise.

Anonymous:
Been here a few days.
Have seen this kind of thing posted by a number of the children who frequent here. If you are a real parent,with real concerns. Contact the service providers in your area.Do your homework. Children are "cash cows" to organazations that provide these services. You have to look very hard to find a quality place that puts your child's best interests first.

hanzomon4:
The best advice is to keep the girl with you,

Don't place her in a facility that cuts off, limits, or monitors contact with parents
Don't place her in a facility that does not have a grievous system
Don't place her in a facility that doesn't provide her with a way to contact an independent advocate  
Don't place her in a facility that requires a minimum stay
Don't place her in a facility that requires or encourages you to give them temporary custody or power of attorney
Don't place her in a facility that attempts to "diagnosis" her over the phone or fails to require a mental health screening prior to admission.
Don't place her in a facility that uses isolation or restraint as punishment
Don't place her in a facility that uses food, sleep, or water deprivation of any kind
Don't place her in a facility that uses aversion therapy or corporal punishments
Don't place her in a facility that "forces" her to speak in group therapy
Don't place her in any facility that forces her to disclose intimate information in group or private therapy  
Don't place her in a facility that uses forced pt or work detail beyond regular house work
Don't place her in a facility that accepts kids brought in by escorts or condones the use of escorts
Don't place her in any facility that tells you that any claims of abuse are just "manipulations"
Don't place her in a facility that views cutting, or suicide threats as "manipulation"
Don't place her in a facility that views any claims of illness as "manipulation"
Don't place her in any facility that claims to treat a wide range of disorders, behaviors, or attitudes(such as disrespect)
Don't place her in a facility that is unlicensed or licensed as a school but provides mental health services beyond what you would find in a normal school
Don't place her in a facility the requires wilderness therapy
Don't place her in a facility that has an impact phase, or some other method, designed to break a kid before starting the "regular" program  
Don't place her in any facility associated with any of the programs listed on this site or the ISAC site

And look out for these WARNING SIGNS

Here is the most important rule: Don't place her in a facility she does not agree to go to

nimdA:
Don't place her in a facility needs to be emphasized more.

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